"What the hell is this? Are you cheating? No, you're not. Say something!"
Are you out of your mind? If that's the case, why did you get married?"

Betrayal of Love and the Journey After
A Practical Guide to Healing Wounds

Marriage is a choice to become happier, but a happy married life is more difficult than expected.
Adultery is easily encountered not only in dramas and movies, but also in real life.
There is no longer anything to be hush-hush about, nothing to be ashamed of and hidden away.
Nowadays, it is common to encounter divorce proceedings, property division, and child custody disputes due to infidelity issues, just like in daily life information.
But divorce is not the solution.
This book is a psychological guide for couples who have been hurt by infidelity.
Based on his own experience, the author offers a process of understanding and healing necessary for those struggling with infidelity.
Helping couples discover the seeds of hope amidst the breakdown of their marriage and the pain it brings, this book guides them beyond the wounds of infidelity and onto the path to true recovery.
Through a variety of case studies and psychological theories, readers will have the opportunity to understand their own emotions and look at their spouse's heart again.

Sir, I can't live with this disgusting husband.
If he had just cheated on me with a woman, I might be able to understand a little bit.
But how could I forgive and live with myself when I found out my husband was habitually engaging in dirty acts in places I'd only heard about on the news? I was too embarrassed to tell anyone.
If you don't give me a divorce, I plan to tell my in-laws.
I'm just worried about the child.
I don't know what to say to my six-year-old daughter, who doesn't know anything, and I don't know how to deal with the shock she will feel from my parents' divorce.

--- From "My Husband's Dirty Stress Relief Method"

The wife may have been comforted by her affair partner and thought that was happiness and love.
It is said that this woman has no memory of being loved by anyone.
If a wife loves, it should be shown through her actions, but since she didn't see that in her husband, she felt she wasn't loved.
After marriage, she says her husband did not love her and she lived a life where she was not respected.
You may think that your love deficit was filled by the man you had an affair with.
Sometimes, you might say that living while feeling romantic emotions is the life that suits you best.
The wife feels that it is her fault that she will never be able to enjoy the ordinary happiness she used to have.
You probably don't want to live your whole life feeling like a sinner, minding what others think.
This type of affection is formed from childhood, and if the expression of what one wants is not received, one feels severe depression and anxiety.
--- From "My Wife's Private Life"

Admitting your mistakes, being forgiven, and pledging to do better, but entering a home with a nagging spouse feels like entering hell.
So, just going home and facing my spouse becomes stressful.
I've been having fun for a while, having an affair and not realizing how time flies, so even small stresses feel big.
A spouse cannot tolerate this kind of behavior from an adulterer.
But as this situation repeats, the cheater begins to recall the enjoyable times he had with his partner and mistakenly thinks it was love.
Very few cheaters become aware of this delusion and end up meeting or contacting their partner again.
--- From "If the affair is repeated"

The first woman a man meets when he is born is his mother.
But when mom is having a hard time, I think she is suffering because she is being bullied by her dad or someone else.
So he says, “I’ll punish you when I grow up,” but he realizes that his younger self is not yet able to protect his mother.
As an adult, the protective instinct to protect your mother by making her happy and resolving the factors that caused her pain is reinforced by a sense of responsibility.
When a man decides on an object to protect, he thinks he can protect that person by giving that person only what that person usually likes or by giving them what he likes.
To such a man, a woman says:
"Why do you always give me the same things and take me to the same places? Why do you insist on only what you like?" Sometimes, it's helpful for a woman to be the first to let me know what she wants in return and where she wants to go.

--- From "The Man Who Protects, the Woman Who Cares"