
What I really want to say to teachers these days
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Book Introduction
From a wounded teacher to a healing teacher
Based on decades of domestic and international educational experience and insight,
Professor Cho Byeok's Hopeful Educational Mentoring for Elementary, Middle, and High School Teachers
Parental complaints, student guidance, administrative work… Additional tasks, rather than teaching, are causing more stress for teachers.
This has led to violations of teachers' rights and has raised red flags about teachers' mental health.
In fact, statistics show that 8 out of 10 young teachers are considering changing jobs or resigning, and 1 out of 4 teachers have received psychiatric counseling.
However, in the current education system and environment, teachers are suffering unavoidable wounds.
It's really hard to make a living as a teacher in Korea these days.
As teachers, we're losing our motivation and even feeling skeptical about the teaching profession. What should we do?
Professor Cho Byeok has traveled the globe 110 times over the past 40 years, experiencing educational settings both domestically and internationally, meeting countless educational policymakers, teachers, and parents, and practicing 21st-century educational leadership.
As a world-renowned expert on educational policy and teaching methods and a leading educational mentor, he seeks to reawaken pride in teachers and impart wisdom for living meaningful lives as teachers in "What I Really Want to Say to Teachers Today."
We establish an educational vision that reflects the changing times, redefine the role of teachers and the concept of learning, and present solutions that should be implemented in the classroom.
This book is a revised and supplemented version of the author's long-running column in educational media, mentoring educators.
Based on decades of domestic and international educational experience and insight,
Professor Cho Byeok's Hopeful Educational Mentoring for Elementary, Middle, and High School Teachers
Parental complaints, student guidance, administrative work… Additional tasks, rather than teaching, are causing more stress for teachers.
This has led to violations of teachers' rights and has raised red flags about teachers' mental health.
In fact, statistics show that 8 out of 10 young teachers are considering changing jobs or resigning, and 1 out of 4 teachers have received psychiatric counseling.
However, in the current education system and environment, teachers are suffering unavoidable wounds.
It's really hard to make a living as a teacher in Korea these days.
As teachers, we're losing our motivation and even feeling skeptical about the teaching profession. What should we do?
Professor Cho Byeok has traveled the globe 110 times over the past 40 years, experiencing educational settings both domestically and internationally, meeting countless educational policymakers, teachers, and parents, and practicing 21st-century educational leadership.
As a world-renowned expert on educational policy and teaching methods and a leading educational mentor, he seeks to reawaken pride in teachers and impart wisdom for living meaningful lives as teachers in "What I Really Want to Say to Teachers Today."
We establish an educational vision that reflects the changing times, redefine the role of teachers and the concept of learning, and present solutions that should be implemented in the classroom.
This book is a revised and supplemented version of the author's long-running column in educational media, mentoring educators.
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Introduction: Still, there is hope for teachers.
Part 1: Establishing a New Vision for Education
Chapter 1: Don't Be Pessimistic, Have a Vision
What does South Korea's education need?
The choice of the three brothers a hundred years ago
Location, not entrance exams
The world's most prestigious universities want these types of talent.
The source of world talent is Korea
Collective intelligence will triumph over artificial intelligence.
It's the attitude, not the form, that matters.
Designing Curriculum and Learning Experiences
Three Conditions for an Educational Revolution
Chapter 2: The Courage to Live Again as a Teacher
Chatbot's Answer to Education
Life education and character education
Three Insights for Restoring Teaching Authority
A teacher I want to be like
A person who creates opportunities for growth
Without being disappointed, without showing it, like unrequited love
Teachers need emotional connection too
Teaching is a noble profession.
Part 2: What to Let Go of and How to Change
Chapter 3: Education That Ruins Our Children
MAD, SAD, BAD education
A school that is out of order is abnormal
Mass hypnosis called 'entrance exam'
How to suppress your emotions and use your head
Education to move up
Chapter 4: Education that Saves Our Children
Mental health becomes more important in the AI era.
Paying attention to hidden trauma
Don't rely on instant solutions
Addiction prevention is a warm connection
It's time to teach resilience
Breaking free from the grave-like indifference
From private education to live education
Part 3: Psychological Techniques to Support the Mental Health of Teachers and Students
Chapter 5: Recovering Mental Strength
Six Characteristics of the Mind
Recognizing what is precious
The world I live in, the world I create
Unique is the key, not the best
The difference between a professional and an amateur
6 seconds of mental strength
The paradox of gratitude
The Effects of 3 Minutes a Day of 'Happiness Diary'
Chapter 6: Raising Mental Intelligence
Things to Consider When Strong Emotions Arose
How to control your mind
Emotional wellness center for first aid for emotional wounds
Emotional First Aid: A Guide Everyone Should Learn
Opening Your Heart with Emotional Coaching
Distinguishing between severity and oppression
What to accept and allow
A true person who can distinguish between fake and real
Chapter 7: Choosing Hope
A child is not a miniature adult.
Choosing a career path: looking inward instead of outward
The path doesn't have to be straight
Admiral Yi Sun-sin's method of selection
Share, ask questions, and listen
When you open your mind, hope comes in.
Giving each other the gift of care
Chapter 8 Reconnecting
Trust is the pinnacle of relationship psychology.
Steps to build trust
Things to fill in your emotional account
How to Deal with Difficult People
Adhere to the basic principles of connection
Don't be overly considerate
Sending sunshine to your heart
Just reduce the interdependence a little
How to 'Practice Connection'
Outgoing text: Sorry, Thank you, I believe
Part 1: Establishing a New Vision for Education
Chapter 1: Don't Be Pessimistic, Have a Vision
What does South Korea's education need?
The choice of the three brothers a hundred years ago
Location, not entrance exams
The world's most prestigious universities want these types of talent.
The source of world talent is Korea
Collective intelligence will triumph over artificial intelligence.
It's the attitude, not the form, that matters.
Designing Curriculum and Learning Experiences
Three Conditions for an Educational Revolution
Chapter 2: The Courage to Live Again as a Teacher
Chatbot's Answer to Education
Life education and character education
Three Insights for Restoring Teaching Authority
A teacher I want to be like
A person who creates opportunities for growth
Without being disappointed, without showing it, like unrequited love
Teachers need emotional connection too
Teaching is a noble profession.
Part 2: What to Let Go of and How to Change
Chapter 3: Education That Ruins Our Children
MAD, SAD, BAD education
A school that is out of order is abnormal
Mass hypnosis called 'entrance exam'
How to suppress your emotions and use your head
Education to move up
Chapter 4: Education that Saves Our Children
Mental health becomes more important in the AI era.
Paying attention to hidden trauma
Don't rely on instant solutions
Addiction prevention is a warm connection
It's time to teach resilience
Breaking free from the grave-like indifference
From private education to live education
Part 3: Psychological Techniques to Support the Mental Health of Teachers and Students
Chapter 5: Recovering Mental Strength
Six Characteristics of the Mind
Recognizing what is precious
The world I live in, the world I create
Unique is the key, not the best
The difference between a professional and an amateur
6 seconds of mental strength
The paradox of gratitude
The Effects of 3 Minutes a Day of 'Happiness Diary'
Chapter 6: Raising Mental Intelligence
Things to Consider When Strong Emotions Arose
How to control your mind
Emotional wellness center for first aid for emotional wounds
Emotional First Aid: A Guide Everyone Should Learn
Opening Your Heart with Emotional Coaching
Distinguishing between severity and oppression
What to accept and allow
A true person who can distinguish between fake and real
Chapter 7: Choosing Hope
A child is not a miniature adult.
Choosing a career path: looking inward instead of outward
The path doesn't have to be straight
Admiral Yi Sun-sin's method of selection
Share, ask questions, and listen
When you open your mind, hope comes in.
Giving each other the gift of care
Chapter 8 Reconnecting
Trust is the pinnacle of relationship psychology.
Steps to build trust
Things to fill in your emotional account
How to Deal with Difficult People
Adhere to the basic principles of connection
Don't be overly considerate
Sending sunshine to your heart
Just reduce the interdependence a little
How to 'Practice Connection'
Outgoing text: Sorry, Thank you, I believe
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Into the book
Education is a symbol of our present and future.
This is why education must be upright.
This book aims to summarize what changes have occurred in our education system and why, and to suggest how home education and school education should change.
And I want to suggest specifically what we should teach our children.
I hope this book will be of help to teachers.
I especially want to give courage to those who want to leave the church and persevere to the end.
I also hope that this book will be helpful to prospective teachers and students who dream of becoming teachers.
The popularity of teaching is not what it used to be due to the heavy news coming from the educational field.
But I want to remind you that the joy of living as a teacher remains.
--- From "Introductory Note: Still, Teacher is My Hope"
From despair to hope, from disconnection to connection, from conflict to coexistence
Wisdom for Breathing Life Back into a Collapsed Classroom
When discussing educational issues, we almost inevitably encounter the obstacle of ‘entrance exams.’
The college entrance exam is like a weed that grows again and again no matter how many times you pick it.
What should I do? Sometimes, focusing on a problem can make it worse.
That's the thorn under the nail.
If you try to remove a thorn by carelessly digging around it, the flesh may become severely swollen and burst.
There is a lot of discussion about solutions, which can be confusing.
In times like these, we need to change our perspective and examine the root cause.
It's not about the entrance exam, it's about looking at the will.
The word 'site' means 'to establish a purpose'.
It's about thinking about what you want to do, how you want to live, what kind of person you want to be, what your purpose in studying is, and what your reason for living is, and then establishing your dreams and vision.
--- From Chapter 1, "It's Not Entrance Exams, It's Location"
I wonder if we have been perceiving the educational issue as a tangled and tangled web, and have only been trying to fix the surface or repackage it without getting to the heart of education.
However, the educational field is not a skein of thread, but rather a spider web in which countless large and small elements are intricately interconnected, including the curriculum, student evaluation, college entrance exams, student guidance, student rights, school uniforms, school meals, teacher training systems, and teacher authority.
The spider web, with each element pulling in all directions, cannot be cut or ignored in any part.
These are all necessary and important elements.
Touching one part of the web will affect the other connected parts.
But spider webs hold up well even when the wind blows.
Because it is in a tight balance without leaning to either side.
Spider webs are very well centered, and there is a force at the center that effectively supports the outward centrifugal force.
However, if you look at the center of the spider web, you will see that it is not tightly and strongly knotted with thick strings.
The center of the web is neither huge nor overwhelming.
Quite the opposite.
The center is empty, it just connects and coordinates everything.
--- From Chapter 2, “Three Insights for Restoring the Authority of the Church”
Why has school become such a difficult place to develop attachments? Some people say they've lost interest in school.
That won't do.
Because a person who has lost his love for school cannot work as an educator.
There is a structural problem here.
The reason we don't feel attached to school is not just because we feel it, but because school has actually become a heartless place.
Teachers are taught that the educational goals are cognitive, affective, and psycho-behavioral, that is, 'intellectual development', but in reality, in schools, they emphasize 'intellectual development'.
The realm of definition has been completely lost.
In reality, the 'affection' has disappeared from the school.
It is difficult to expect recognition and consideration in a place where the educational goals of the 'Jeong' area have disappeared.
There is no way there will be active communication and good relationships.
Where empathy is not cultivated, self-centered thinking and conflict prevail.
--- From Chapter 3, "A School That's Separated from Its Normal"
What I really want to say to teachers these days
What should schools do now to support students' mental health? They must teach and guide students on resilience to help them manage stress.
Resilience is not about enduring unavoidable stress with patience or brute force, but rather the skill of developing inner strength and transforming it into a driving force for growth.
Just as brushing your teeth as a child helps you maintain healthy teeth for life, the resilience you learn in school helps you maintain mental health for life.
If you teach them how to brush their teeth, you can also teach them how to be resilient.
Schools will say that there is absolutely no room to add new content to their already dense curriculum.
If so, then it is evidence that you are suffering from another serious addiction.
It's an addiction called the 'CSAT' that fills students' heads to the point of bursting.
--- From Chapter 4, "Time to Teach Resilience"
There are many children who have a hard time at school because they are hurt or have their feelings broken.
For these children, I propose an 'emotional wellness room'.
When children are hurt or injured at school, you can think of a scenario.
This is a case where a child gets upset and cries while arguing with a friend in the classroom.
It's not like I'm crying as if the sky is falling down, but tears are flowing from my eyes.
The other friends laugh and secretly tease the crying child.
The teacher tells the child, “Stop crying, because sometimes you get upset when you play together.”
This kind of sight is a common sight.
Although there is a system in place to provide first aid for physical wounds, first aid for emotional wounds is not properly provided.
It is a disregard for children's emotional side to only care about their visible physical wounds and ignore their invisible emotional wounds.
At least you should put an emotional bandage on your heart to protect it until the wound heals.
--- From Chapter 6, "Emotional Health Center for Emergency Treatment of Emotional Wounds"
Just as protection is necessary and good, but overprotection can be useless and harmful, so too is consideration.
Consideration is essential for us to live well with others, but overconsideration is a state of pouring excessive energy into others.
Where does consideration end and excessive consideration begin? There's a way to tell the difference.
You have to feel the emotion, not just look at the action.
Because even though my actions are the same, my feelings are different.
For example, if I am helping someone and I feel good, it is consideration, but if I feel bad, it is overconsideration.
If my mind is uncomfortable, I do it out of obligation, compulsion, because I can't do it, because I have to.
If you act with this kind of mindset, the person receiving the overconsideration will not be happy.
I, too, am having a hard time and I end up complaining, gossiping, and complaining.
This is why education must be upright.
This book aims to summarize what changes have occurred in our education system and why, and to suggest how home education and school education should change.
And I want to suggest specifically what we should teach our children.
I hope this book will be of help to teachers.
I especially want to give courage to those who want to leave the church and persevere to the end.
I also hope that this book will be helpful to prospective teachers and students who dream of becoming teachers.
The popularity of teaching is not what it used to be due to the heavy news coming from the educational field.
But I want to remind you that the joy of living as a teacher remains.
--- From "Introductory Note: Still, Teacher is My Hope"
From despair to hope, from disconnection to connection, from conflict to coexistence
Wisdom for Breathing Life Back into a Collapsed Classroom
When discussing educational issues, we almost inevitably encounter the obstacle of ‘entrance exams.’
The college entrance exam is like a weed that grows again and again no matter how many times you pick it.
What should I do? Sometimes, focusing on a problem can make it worse.
That's the thorn under the nail.
If you try to remove a thorn by carelessly digging around it, the flesh may become severely swollen and burst.
There is a lot of discussion about solutions, which can be confusing.
In times like these, we need to change our perspective and examine the root cause.
It's not about the entrance exam, it's about looking at the will.
The word 'site' means 'to establish a purpose'.
It's about thinking about what you want to do, how you want to live, what kind of person you want to be, what your purpose in studying is, and what your reason for living is, and then establishing your dreams and vision.
--- From Chapter 1, "It's Not Entrance Exams, It's Location"
I wonder if we have been perceiving the educational issue as a tangled and tangled web, and have only been trying to fix the surface or repackage it without getting to the heart of education.
However, the educational field is not a skein of thread, but rather a spider web in which countless large and small elements are intricately interconnected, including the curriculum, student evaluation, college entrance exams, student guidance, student rights, school uniforms, school meals, teacher training systems, and teacher authority.
The spider web, with each element pulling in all directions, cannot be cut or ignored in any part.
These are all necessary and important elements.
Touching one part of the web will affect the other connected parts.
But spider webs hold up well even when the wind blows.
Because it is in a tight balance without leaning to either side.
Spider webs are very well centered, and there is a force at the center that effectively supports the outward centrifugal force.
However, if you look at the center of the spider web, you will see that it is not tightly and strongly knotted with thick strings.
The center of the web is neither huge nor overwhelming.
Quite the opposite.
The center is empty, it just connects and coordinates everything.
--- From Chapter 2, “Three Insights for Restoring the Authority of the Church”
Why has school become such a difficult place to develop attachments? Some people say they've lost interest in school.
That won't do.
Because a person who has lost his love for school cannot work as an educator.
There is a structural problem here.
The reason we don't feel attached to school is not just because we feel it, but because school has actually become a heartless place.
Teachers are taught that the educational goals are cognitive, affective, and psycho-behavioral, that is, 'intellectual development', but in reality, in schools, they emphasize 'intellectual development'.
The realm of definition has been completely lost.
In reality, the 'affection' has disappeared from the school.
It is difficult to expect recognition and consideration in a place where the educational goals of the 'Jeong' area have disappeared.
There is no way there will be active communication and good relationships.
Where empathy is not cultivated, self-centered thinking and conflict prevail.
--- From Chapter 3, "A School That's Separated from Its Normal"
What I really want to say to teachers these days
What should schools do now to support students' mental health? They must teach and guide students on resilience to help them manage stress.
Resilience is not about enduring unavoidable stress with patience or brute force, but rather the skill of developing inner strength and transforming it into a driving force for growth.
Just as brushing your teeth as a child helps you maintain healthy teeth for life, the resilience you learn in school helps you maintain mental health for life.
If you teach them how to brush their teeth, you can also teach them how to be resilient.
Schools will say that there is absolutely no room to add new content to their already dense curriculum.
If so, then it is evidence that you are suffering from another serious addiction.
It's an addiction called the 'CSAT' that fills students' heads to the point of bursting.
--- From Chapter 4, "Time to Teach Resilience"
There are many children who have a hard time at school because they are hurt or have their feelings broken.
For these children, I propose an 'emotional wellness room'.
When children are hurt or injured at school, you can think of a scenario.
This is a case where a child gets upset and cries while arguing with a friend in the classroom.
It's not like I'm crying as if the sky is falling down, but tears are flowing from my eyes.
The other friends laugh and secretly tease the crying child.
The teacher tells the child, “Stop crying, because sometimes you get upset when you play together.”
This kind of sight is a common sight.
Although there is a system in place to provide first aid for physical wounds, first aid for emotional wounds is not properly provided.
It is a disregard for children's emotional side to only care about their visible physical wounds and ignore their invisible emotional wounds.
At least you should put an emotional bandage on your heart to protect it until the wound heals.
--- From Chapter 6, "Emotional Health Center for Emergency Treatment of Emotional Wounds"
Just as protection is necessary and good, but overprotection can be useless and harmful, so too is consideration.
Consideration is essential for us to live well with others, but overconsideration is a state of pouring excessive energy into others.
Where does consideration end and excessive consideration begin? There's a way to tell the difference.
You have to feel the emotion, not just look at the action.
Because even though my actions are the same, my feelings are different.
For example, if I am helping someone and I feel good, it is consideration, but if I feel bad, it is overconsideration.
If my mind is uncomfortable, I do it out of obligation, compulsion, because I can't do it, because I have to.
If you act with this kind of mindset, the person receiving the overconsideration will not be happy.
I, too, am having a hard time and I end up complaining, gossiping, and complaining.
--- From Chapter 8, "Don't Be Overly Considerate"
Publisher's Review
Teachers are at the center of education.
Professor Cho Byeok feels that education in South Korea is currently in a state of total crisis, but he insists that there is hope for education despite this.
The reason is that the capabilities of our country's teachers are world-class.
Building on these excellent human resources, if we just slightly change the direction of education, we can move toward the future we desire.
The author expresses his gratitude and apologies to the teachers, believes in them, and offers three major insights for new education.
First, we must refocus our education.
At the center of it all is the teacher, and he argues that only when the authority of the teachers is alive can the power to protect the center be created.
However, the authority of teachers is not exercised when they control and direct students, but when they connect with students and communicate with each other.
This also shows that teacher rights and student rights are not a zero-sum game.
Second, teachers' roles need to change.
We must design students' educational experiences as mentors who impart wisdom, not knowledge.
When teachers listen to students' feelings, thoughts, and interests, students grow into self-directed learners and find joy in the process.
These positive experiences are the best way to protect the mental health of both teachers and students.
Third, schools should provide education that enhances mental intelligence (MQ).
In the AI era that has already arrived, essential skills are social and emotional competencies for empathizing with people and interacting with society.
This can be achieved by developing mental intelligence, which is an ability where IQ (rationality) and EQ (emotions) are interconnected.
Because reason and emotion, that is, the mind and heart, are the driving forces of action.
Now is the time to take care of your mental health at school.
This book, consisting of 8 chapters in 3 parts, examines the current state of education in our country in Part 1 and envisions the kind of education and educators we want.
In Part 2, we compare and contrast the education that ruins our children with the education that saves them, and then suggest directions for what to discard and how to change.
Above all, I recommend that we boldly abandon the MAD, SAD, and BAD education, which focuses on memorizing subjects for entrance exams and turns children into dependent, dull-witted people. In other words, it is a deadly education that kills children.
Part 3 presents psychological solutions to help teachers and students maintain their mental health.
To cultivate mental intelligence, we present activities that can be easily implemented in the classroom and at home, from noticing what is precious to writing a happiness diary, sending sunshine to the mind, and practicing connection.
These techniques are more effective when practiced by teachers and parents themselves.
As educational and parenting environments change, the number of children who are mentally hungry is increasing.
Teachers can be easily swayed, especially when faced with children who are emotionally intense in the classroom.
The author emphasizes that at this time, teachers should choose and practice methods to control their minds, such as deep breathing, and at least provide emotional first aid to prevent the child from being emotionally hurt.
At a time when the standards for teachers are higher than ever and the roles required of them are diversifying, teachers are burdened with a heavy sense of responsibility.
Unfortunately, Professor Cho Byeok says there is still hope for teachers.
I sincerely hope this book offers teachers solutions for restoring their relationships with students and connecting with fellow teachers, rediscovering the joy of being a teacher, and empowering them to continue their teaching careers to the end.
Professor Cho Byeok feels that education in South Korea is currently in a state of total crisis, but he insists that there is hope for education despite this.
The reason is that the capabilities of our country's teachers are world-class.
Building on these excellent human resources, if we just slightly change the direction of education, we can move toward the future we desire.
The author expresses his gratitude and apologies to the teachers, believes in them, and offers three major insights for new education.
First, we must refocus our education.
At the center of it all is the teacher, and he argues that only when the authority of the teachers is alive can the power to protect the center be created.
However, the authority of teachers is not exercised when they control and direct students, but when they connect with students and communicate with each other.
This also shows that teacher rights and student rights are not a zero-sum game.
Second, teachers' roles need to change.
We must design students' educational experiences as mentors who impart wisdom, not knowledge.
When teachers listen to students' feelings, thoughts, and interests, students grow into self-directed learners and find joy in the process.
These positive experiences are the best way to protect the mental health of both teachers and students.
Third, schools should provide education that enhances mental intelligence (MQ).
In the AI era that has already arrived, essential skills are social and emotional competencies for empathizing with people and interacting with society.
This can be achieved by developing mental intelligence, which is an ability where IQ (rationality) and EQ (emotions) are interconnected.
Because reason and emotion, that is, the mind and heart, are the driving forces of action.
Now is the time to take care of your mental health at school.
This book, consisting of 8 chapters in 3 parts, examines the current state of education in our country in Part 1 and envisions the kind of education and educators we want.
In Part 2, we compare and contrast the education that ruins our children with the education that saves them, and then suggest directions for what to discard and how to change.
Above all, I recommend that we boldly abandon the MAD, SAD, and BAD education, which focuses on memorizing subjects for entrance exams and turns children into dependent, dull-witted people. In other words, it is a deadly education that kills children.
Part 3 presents psychological solutions to help teachers and students maintain their mental health.
To cultivate mental intelligence, we present activities that can be easily implemented in the classroom and at home, from noticing what is precious to writing a happiness diary, sending sunshine to the mind, and practicing connection.
These techniques are more effective when practiced by teachers and parents themselves.
As educational and parenting environments change, the number of children who are mentally hungry is increasing.
Teachers can be easily swayed, especially when faced with children who are emotionally intense in the classroom.
The author emphasizes that at this time, teachers should choose and practice methods to control their minds, such as deep breathing, and at least provide emotional first aid to prevent the child from being emotionally hurt.
At a time when the standards for teachers are higher than ever and the roles required of them are diversifying, teachers are burdened with a heavy sense of responsibility.
Unfortunately, Professor Cho Byeok says there is still hope for teachers.
I sincerely hope this book offers teachers solutions for restoring their relationships with students and connecting with fellow teachers, rediscovering the joy of being a teacher, and empowering them to continue their teaching careers to the end.
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of issue: September 23, 2024
- Page count, weight, size: 328 pages | 534g | 145*210*20mm
- ISBN13: 9791167140890
- ISBN10: 1167140893
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