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Book Introduction
The author, who works as a CJ ENM show host, best-selling author, and speech instructor, is one of those people who is more familiar with speaking than anyone else.
But he wasn't good at speaking from the beginning.
Rather, it was closer to the opposite situation.
In fact, the author confesses that whenever he speaks, people around him frown, sigh, and look at the ground.
As he began to study speaking in earnest, he came to the realization that “one way of speaking can change your life.”
This book is a compressed version of the know-how the author acquired while personally changing his speech style, and is divided into five areas: ‘Speech style that wins favor with others,’ ‘Speech style that stands out anywhere,’ ‘Speech style that reduces emotional exhaustion,’ ‘Speech style that makes persuasion easier,’ and ‘Speech style that boosts self-esteem.’
If you want to enjoy a daily life that changes with just one word, just open this book.
It will definitely take you to a better today than yesterday.
But he wasn't good at speaking from the beginning.
Rather, it was closer to the opposite situation.
In fact, the author confesses that whenever he speaks, people around him frown, sigh, and look at the ground.
As he began to study speaking in earnest, he came to the realization that “one way of speaking can change your life.”
This book is a compressed version of the know-how the author acquired while personally changing his speech style, and is divided into five areas: ‘Speech style that wins favor with others,’ ‘Speech style that stands out anywhere,’ ‘Speech style that reduces emotional exhaustion,’ ‘Speech style that makes persuasion easier,’ and ‘Speech style that boosts self-esteem.’
If you want to enjoy a daily life that changes with just one word, just open this book.
It will definitely take you to a better today than yesterday.
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index
Prologue | The Power of Speech: Making Today Better Than Yesterday
Chapter 1: How to Speak to Win the Other Person's Favor
Don't speak in straight lines, speak in curves.
Ask questions indirectly, not directly.
Focus on what you can change rather than what you cannot change.
Speak like a supporting character, not the main character.
Talk like you're playing catch
Don't repeat the same expressions
Opportunities arise only when we encounter them often.
Don't spit out words of evaluation carelessly.
Don't brag, share the process.
Speak like a subway map
There must be a way to attract people.
Stimulate the other person's sense of privilege
How to subtly impress someone
Don't repeat yourself
Say what the other person wants to hear
Chapter 2: A way of speaking that stands out wherever you go
Speak in the future tense, not the past tense
Use 'and' instead of 'but'
How to Praise Effectively
Empathize, don't judge
Speak "thanks to" rather than "because"
Speak kind words, not just words of truth.
Ask questions that benefit the other person rather than those that are meant to be evaluated.
A way to express gratitude that goes beyond emotion and moves you.
Get closer with genuine response
Dilute it and tell the story
A word that says you're right
Ask the other person what they think
Remove the adverb from my words
Become an interpreter in conversation
Stimulate the other person's curiosity
Think of today as the last day of your life.
Use polite language
Chapter 3: Speech that reduces emotional exhaustion
How to avoid appearing emotional
Don't answer a question with a question
Confess your honest feelings rather than getting upset.
Ask the villain for advice
How to Deal with People Who Hurt Me
Don't say "I'm busy"; state the exact situation.
If you want to meet good people, start by changing your language.
Shout "I already did it"
Conversation techniques that naturally break the awkwardness
Tell me the details
When things get tough, shout “Once this is over!”
A word that melts even the most prickly heart
A conversation method that can naturally deepen the conversation
How to Reject Elegantly
“Stop!” to reduce emotional mistakes
Be consistent in what you say and do.
Chapter 4: Speech that makes persuasion easier
Instead of saying it's impossible, say it's possible.
Don't trail off
Say "do" instead of "don't"
Instead of "I will improve," say "I will change."
If I think about the other person's benefits first, I will end up benefiting more.
Give them sweet candy at the beginning
The human mind moves as much as you prepare for it.
Mention the benefits that will disappear
Don't rush, start with small suggestions.
Once you reach that height, it's hard to come down.
Always explain it simply
The secret to getting your opponent to choose faster
Ask what the most important criteria are
Use the magic word 'if'
Leverage your credibility
Make the other person imagine
Chapter 5: How to Speak to Boost Your Self-Esteem
Invest just one minute in your daily life.
Don't add the word 'maybe'
Speak in question form instead of descriptive form.
If you're nervous, take a break.
Say one sentence at a time
Don't say my faults with my own mouth.
If you want to show off your abilities, say it in numbers.
Just changing the name gives it a much more luxurious feel.
Even in conversation, there are own goals.
Ask me about my strengths
Approach with curiosity instead of jealousy.
Choose words that describe you
Think of it as home ground, anytime, anywhere.
Ask for feedback from a trusted third party.
A way of speaking that feels secretly sexy
Epilogue | A Word Can Change Your Life
Chapter 1: How to Speak to Win the Other Person's Favor
Don't speak in straight lines, speak in curves.
Ask questions indirectly, not directly.
Focus on what you can change rather than what you cannot change.
Speak like a supporting character, not the main character.
Talk like you're playing catch
Don't repeat the same expressions
Opportunities arise only when we encounter them often.
Don't spit out words of evaluation carelessly.
Don't brag, share the process.
Speak like a subway map
There must be a way to attract people.
Stimulate the other person's sense of privilege
How to subtly impress someone
Don't repeat yourself
Say what the other person wants to hear
Chapter 2: A way of speaking that stands out wherever you go
Speak in the future tense, not the past tense
Use 'and' instead of 'but'
How to Praise Effectively
Empathize, don't judge
Speak "thanks to" rather than "because"
Speak kind words, not just words of truth.
Ask questions that benefit the other person rather than those that are meant to be evaluated.
A way to express gratitude that goes beyond emotion and moves you.
Get closer with genuine response
Dilute it and tell the story
A word that says you're right
Ask the other person what they think
Remove the adverb from my words
Become an interpreter in conversation
Stimulate the other person's curiosity
Think of today as the last day of your life.
Use polite language
Chapter 3: Speech that reduces emotional exhaustion
How to avoid appearing emotional
Don't answer a question with a question
Confess your honest feelings rather than getting upset.
Ask the villain for advice
How to Deal with People Who Hurt Me
Don't say "I'm busy"; state the exact situation.
If you want to meet good people, start by changing your language.
Shout "I already did it"
Conversation techniques that naturally break the awkwardness
Tell me the details
When things get tough, shout “Once this is over!”
A word that melts even the most prickly heart
A conversation method that can naturally deepen the conversation
How to Reject Elegantly
“Stop!” to reduce emotional mistakes
Be consistent in what you say and do.
Chapter 4: Speech that makes persuasion easier
Instead of saying it's impossible, say it's possible.
Don't trail off
Say "do" instead of "don't"
Instead of "I will improve," say "I will change."
If I think about the other person's benefits first, I will end up benefiting more.
Give them sweet candy at the beginning
The human mind moves as much as you prepare for it.
Mention the benefits that will disappear
Don't rush, start with small suggestions.
Once you reach that height, it's hard to come down.
Always explain it simply
The secret to getting your opponent to choose faster
Ask what the most important criteria are
Use the magic word 'if'
Leverage your credibility
Make the other person imagine
Chapter 5: How to Speak to Boost Your Self-Esteem
Invest just one minute in your daily life.
Don't add the word 'maybe'
Speak in question form instead of descriptive form.
If you're nervous, take a break.
Say one sentence at a time
Don't say my faults with my own mouth.
If you want to show off your abilities, say it in numbers.
Just changing the name gives it a much more luxurious feel.
Even in conversation, there are own goals.
Ask me about my strengths
Approach with curiosity instead of jealousy.
Choose words that describe you
Think of it as home ground, anytime, anywhere.
Ask for feedback from a trusted third party.
A way of speaking that feels secretly sexy
Epilogue | A Word Can Change Your Life
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Even if there is something you want the other person to change, if it is not something they can change right away, don't give them advice.
To be blunt, a third party's mistakes and failures are the result of his own choices.
If you still want to help, at least offer a solution or take a day to think about it before talking.
There is absolutely nothing to be gained by pouring empty advice into someone else's life.
--- From "Focus only on what you can change rather than what you cannot change"
People know what they like and never give up on it, so they don't say things like, "This won't work," or "Let's not do it."
And because he always exudes such positive energy, people can't help but gather around him.
--- From "There must be a way to attract people"
If you start by listening to each other, you can find solutions to the problems the other person is facing, and it becomes an opportunity to improve your relationship.
Keep this in mind.
Don't judge someone's troubles, empathize and comfort them.
There is no better medicine than someone you can confide in.
--- From "Don't judge, empathize"
Any situation that happens to me can change depending on how I perceive it.
So, no matter what person or environment is troubling you, look at it from the perspective of a reverse victim mentality, thinking, "Why are they putting me through such a difficult ordeal to help me grow so much?" and say, "Once this is over!" and move forward.
Before you know it, you will have passed that point and arrived at a happy tomorrow.
--- From "When things get tough, shout "Once this is over!""
If you frame it as 'effort for the other person', the listener will also feel better.
It's natural to want to hear more stories when you see someone showing interest and sincerity in you.
So, if you're in a situation where you need to persuade someone or wait for a decision, approach it with a focus on the other person's benefit rather than your own effort.
--- From "If I think about the other person's benefits first, I will end up benefiting more"
When telling someone about your abilities, it is much more effective to speak plainly and clearly mention your experience rather than to brag about it by adding flashy adverbs.
To be blunt, a third party's mistakes and failures are the result of his own choices.
If you still want to help, at least offer a solution or take a day to think about it before talking.
There is absolutely nothing to be gained by pouring empty advice into someone else's life.
--- From "Focus only on what you can change rather than what you cannot change"
People know what they like and never give up on it, so they don't say things like, "This won't work," or "Let's not do it."
And because he always exudes such positive energy, people can't help but gather around him.
--- From "There must be a way to attract people"
If you start by listening to each other, you can find solutions to the problems the other person is facing, and it becomes an opportunity to improve your relationship.
Keep this in mind.
Don't judge someone's troubles, empathize and comfort them.
There is no better medicine than someone you can confide in.
--- From "Don't judge, empathize"
Any situation that happens to me can change depending on how I perceive it.
So, no matter what person or environment is troubling you, look at it from the perspective of a reverse victim mentality, thinking, "Why are they putting me through such a difficult ordeal to help me grow so much?" and say, "Once this is over!" and move forward.
Before you know it, you will have passed that point and arrived at a happy tomorrow.
--- From "When things get tough, shout "Once this is over!""
If you frame it as 'effort for the other person', the listener will also feel better.
It's natural to want to hear more stories when you see someone showing interest and sincerity in you.
So, if you're in a situation where you need to persuade someone or wait for a decision, approach it with a focus on the other person's benefit rather than your own effort.
--- From "If I think about the other person's benefits first, I will end up benefiting more"
When telling someone about your abilities, it is much more effective to speak plainly and clearly mention your experience rather than to brag about it by adding flashy adverbs.
--- From "If you want to show off your abilities, tell me with exact numbers"
Publisher's Review
“A change in speech can change your life.”
As the old saying goes, “‘Ah’ is different and ‘uh’ is different,” depending on how you speak, that is, your tone of voice, misunderstandings can build up and you can be perceived as either favorable or unfavorable.
It even determines the success or failure of an achievement.
In short, it is no exaggeration to say that many problems arise and are solved due to speech.
Accordingly, everyone knows the importance of speech, but they are at a loss as to how to actually put it into practice.
In that respect, “Just Changed Your Speech” is excellent for anyone who wants to change their speech.
The author, who has been active on the front lines of 'words', which are more sensitive than any other field such as sales, broadcasting, and lectures, has fully included the inner strength he has accumulated over the past 15 years while changing his speech to a better one.
In particular, the examples included throughout can be easily applied to daily life just by reading along, and you can feel your life changing just by speaking, depending on your personal efforts.
This leaves us with one task.
Will I change my life by making the author's generous sharing of winning words my own, or will I continue to live like this?
As the old saying goes, “‘Ah’ is different and ‘uh’ is different,” depending on how you speak, that is, your tone of voice, misunderstandings can build up and you can be perceived as either favorable or unfavorable.
It even determines the success or failure of an achievement.
In short, it is no exaggeration to say that many problems arise and are solved due to speech.
Accordingly, everyone knows the importance of speech, but they are at a loss as to how to actually put it into practice.
In that respect, “Just Changed Your Speech” is excellent for anyone who wants to change their speech.
The author, who has been active on the front lines of 'words', which are more sensitive than any other field such as sales, broadcasting, and lectures, has fully included the inner strength he has accumulated over the past 15 years while changing his speech to a better one.
In particular, the examples included throughout can be easily applied to daily life just by reading along, and you can feel your life changing just by speaking, depending on your personal efforts.
This leaves us with one task.
Will I change my life by making the author's generous sharing of winning words my own, or will I continue to live like this?
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of issue: September 26, 2024
- Page count, weight, size: 256 pages | 140*205*20mm
- ISBN13: 9791198774835
- ISBN10: 1198774835
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