
Our family's day is 36 hours long.
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Book Introduction
A solid guide to the love and hope of family behind the name dementia!
From coping with dementia patients to emotional management,
The one and only 'dementia bible' that illuminates the bleak path.
A guidebook to help families caring for dementia patients walk the long and arduous journey with less loneliness, “Our Family’s Day is 36 Hours,” has been officially published in Korea.
This Amazon bestseller has been providing practical help and warm comfort to families of dementia patients around the world for over 40 years since its first publication in the United States in 1981.
It covers in detail everything from behavioral changes in dementia patients and medical management to conflicts encountered during caregiving and how to manage the complex emotions and feelings of caregivers.
It provides a balanced mix of medical information and practical guidance, offering realistic advice for caregivers on each stage of their journey, from the initial diagnosis of dementia to the end of life.
"Our Family's Day is 36 Hours" has been revised and includes a variety of case studies and specific solutions to improve the quality of care, reflecting the latest research and clinical experience.
Each chapter contains the experiences of actual patients' families, so as you read, you will feel relieved that you are not alone in your experience and gain new insights into care.
Additionally, the book, structured like a dictionary, is designed to help patients find the necessary parts based on their symptoms and behavior, and to identify coping methods and cases.
This book, which views dementia patients as individuals worthy of respect and guides both patients and their families to lead as fulfilling lives as possible, will serve as a strong companion for all those seeking to maintain love and relationships even amid the burden of caregiving.
From coping with dementia patients to emotional management,
The one and only 'dementia bible' that illuminates the bleak path.
A guidebook to help families caring for dementia patients walk the long and arduous journey with less loneliness, “Our Family’s Day is 36 Hours,” has been officially published in Korea.
This Amazon bestseller has been providing practical help and warm comfort to families of dementia patients around the world for over 40 years since its first publication in the United States in 1981.
It covers in detail everything from behavioral changes in dementia patients and medical management to conflicts encountered during caregiving and how to manage the complex emotions and feelings of caregivers.
It provides a balanced mix of medical information and practical guidance, offering realistic advice for caregivers on each stage of their journey, from the initial diagnosis of dementia to the end of life.
"Our Family's Day is 36 Hours" has been revised and includes a variety of case studies and specific solutions to improve the quality of care, reflecting the latest research and clinical experience.
Each chapter contains the experiences of actual patients' families, so as you read, you will feel relieved that you are not alone in your experience and gain new insights into care.
Additionally, the book, structured like a dictionary, is designed to help patients find the necessary parts based on their symptoms and behavior, and to identify coping methods and cases.
This book, which views dementia patients as individuals worthy of respect and guides both patients and their families to lead as fulfilling lives as possible, will serve as a strong companion for all those seeking to maintain love and relationships even amid the burden of caregiving.
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Recommendation
Acknowledgements
Chapter 1 Dementia
What is dementia?
dementia patients
What to do if a family member has dementia
Chapter 2: Getting the Medical Help You Need for Dementia Patients
Evaluating patients with suspected dementia
Find someone to evaluate you
Treatment and management of dementia
Chapter 3: Characteristics of Behavioral Symptoms in Dementia Patients
Brain, Behavior, and Personality: Understanding the Behavior of People with Dementia
How to Care for People with Dementia
memory problems
Overreaction or catastrophic reaction
Aggression
Language and communication problems
-When a dementia patient has difficulty expressing his or her intentions
-If the patient has difficulty understanding what others say
loss of coordination
Loss of sense of time
Symptoms with extreme fluctuations
Chapter 4: Problems of Independent Living
mild cognitive impairment
Caring for patients with early dementia
When a patient must quit his job
When the patient becomes unable to manage money well
When the patient should stop driving
When the patient must give up independent living
-When a person living alone is suspected of having dementia
-What guardians can do
-Moving to a new residence
Chapter 5 Problems that may arise in everyday care
Risk factors to watch out for
- Risk factors in the home
- Risk factors outside the home
- Risk factors inside the car
-Hazards on highways and parking lots
-Risk factors of smoking
- Risk factors of hunting
Nutrition and Meal Times
-Meal preparation
-mealtime
-Behavioral problems while eating
-Malnutrition
-Weight loss
-choke
-When to start cervical nutrition
work out
Recreational activities
-Meaningful activities
Personal hygiene
-bath
-Where to purchase supplies needed by patients
-Get dressed
-Getting dressed up
-Oral hygiene
incontinence
-Urinary incontinence
-Fecal incontinence
-Aftercare after incontinence
Gait, balance, and falling problems
-When the patient is confined to a wheelchair or bed
-bathchair
Changes you can make at home
- Tools to make life easier for the elderly
-Cluttered vs. empty living environment
Chapter 6 Medical Problems
pain
Injuries after a fall
bedsore
dehydration
pneumonia
Influenza and COVID-19
constipation
drugs
Oral problems
vision problems
hearing problems
dizziness
Go to the hospital
When a patient needs to be admitted to the hospital
When causing a seizure, convulsion or match
Muscle tremors (myoclonus)
Death of a dementia patient
-Cause of death
- Home death
-Hospice and palliative care
-If you die in a hospital or nursing home
-When to end treatment
- Treatment needed for patients nearing death
Chapter 7: Managing Behavioral and Neuropsychiatric Symptoms of Dementia
Six Ways to Manage Behavioral Symptoms (6Rs)
-6Rs of Behavioral Symptom Management
Behaviors to hide memory loss
prowl
-Why the patient wanders
-Managing wandering symptoms
-Sleep disturbances and nocturnal wandering behavior
Sundown syndrome, in which symptoms worsen in the evening
The act of losing, hoarding, and hiding things
Rummaging through closets and drawers
Inappropriate sexual behavior
The act of repeating the same question
repetitive behavior
Distraction
Obsessive or persistent following behavior ('shadowing')
Behavior that involves complaining and swearing
stealing things
The act of forgetting that a call has come in
Actions that are constantly demanding
stubborn and uncooperative behavior
Dementia patient's insulting behavior toward caregiver
Managing behavior with medication
Chapter 8: Mood Changes and Suspicion-Related Symptoms
melancholia
Complaining about your health
suicide
alcohol and drug abuse
Indifference and apathy
Remembering emotions
anger and irritability
Anxiety, nervousness, restlessness
False beliefs, suspicions, paranoia, and hallucinations
-misconception
- Inability to recognize people or objects (agnosia)
-“My mom will come pick me up.”
-doubt
-The act of hiding an object
-Delusions and hallucinations
Free
Chapter 9 Special Measures for When a Guardian Is Ill
How to ask for help
If the guardian dies
Chapter 10: Getting Outside Help
Get help from friends and neighbors
Find information and services
Types of care services
-Home care services
-Home care
-Day care center
-Short-term care services
Preparing for home care, day care, and short-term care services
When a patient refuses care services
Caregivers' feelings about using short-term care services
Find information
Paying for care services
Is it okay to have patients with different medical conditions mixed in a short-term care program?
Understanding the quality of service
Research and Pilot Programs
Chapter 11: Dementia Patients and Their Families
Role change
Understanding Family Conflict
-Sharing responsibility
Guardian's Married Life
Coping with Role Changes and Family Conflict
-Family meeting
If you live far away from the person with dementia
How can I help when I am not the primary caregiver?
Care work and the profession of caregivers
Children of the guardian
teenage children
Chapter 12: The Emotional Impact of Caring for a Person with Dementia on Family Members
emotional response
-anger
- embarrassment
-Feeling of helplessness
- Guilt
-Laughter, love, and joy
-Condolences
-Depression
-Isolation and loneliness
-worry
-On the border between hope and reality
Abuse of dementia patients
physical reactions
-fatigue
-disease
Sex life
-If your spouse has dementia
-If you live with a parent with dementia
future
-A spouse who is single
Death of the patient
Chapter 13 Self-Care for Caregivers
Take a break from caring
-Give yourself a gift
-friend
-Avoiding isolation
Find the help you need
- Recognize warning signs
-Get advice
Connecting with other families: Dementia Care Centers and similar organizations
-Self-help group
-Excuse
Advocacy for people with dementia
Chapter 14 Financial and Legal Issues
Assessing the financial status of the guardian
-Possible future costs
-Future assets
Finding Assets for Dementia Patients
-Bank account
-Stock certificates, bonds, certificates of deposit, savings bonds, mutual funds
-Insurance certificate (life insurance, accident insurance, health insurance)
-Bank safety deposit box
- Real estate (houses, land, businesses, jointly owned or partially owned rental properties)
- Severance pay and disability benefits
-Transferable items such as collectibles, gold, jewelry, cash, jewellery, cars, antiques, art, boats, camera equipment, and furniture.
-Will
-Trust account
-Personal loans
-Overseas bank account
-legacy
- Proof of purchase of land
legal issues
Chapter 15: Preparing for Long-Term Care
Types of residential facilities
Entering a facility with a person with dementia
nursing home
Find a long-term care facility
-Pay facility fees
Things to Consider When Choosing a Long-Term Care Facility
- Convenience of visiting the facility
-expense
-Cleanliness and safety
-employee
-Care and Services
-Physical environment
-End-of-life care policy
-meal
-right
Entering a residential living facility
Adapting to a new life
-Visit
-Adaptation of guardians
When problems arise in nursing homes or other residential facilities
Sexual problems occurring in nursing homes or other residential facilities
Chapter 16: How to Prevent and Slow Cognitive Decline
Common changes due to aging
- Word recall and psychomotor speed
Dementia risk factors
-Cardiovascular disease
-work out
- Social and intellectual activities
-Eating habits
-education
-diabetes
-melancholia
-toxin
-Head injury
-age
-oil field
drugs
summation
Chapter 17: Causes of Brain Disease and Dementia
mild cognitive impairment
dementia
-Alcoholic dementia
-Alzheimer's disease
-Amnesia (Korsakoff) syndrome
-Cerebral Amyloid Angiopathy
-Chronic traumatic encephalopathy
-Corticobasal degeneration
-melancholia
Frontotemporal dementia
-AIDS-related dementia
-Huntington's disease
-Lewy body dementia
-Parkinson's disease-related dementia
-Primary progressive aphasia
- Progressive supranuclear palsy
-Traumatic brain injury (head trauma)
-vascular dementia
- Early-onset dementia that occurs at a young age
Other brain diseases
-Delirium
-Stroke and focal brain damage
-Transient ischemic attack
Chapter 18: Dementia Research
Understanding the Research
Vascular Dementia and Stroke Research
Alzheimer's disease research
-Structural changes in the brain
-Brain cells
-Neuroplasticity
-neurotransmitters
-electrical signal
-Abnormal protein
-Abnormal proteins present in brain cells
-nerve growth factor
-infection
-Prion
-Brain cell (or stem cell) transplant
-metal
-Immune system defects
-Head injury
-Drug research
epidemiological studies
Down syndrome
aging
Genetics and Dementia
gender
Neuropsychological testing
brain imaging
Maintain physical and mental activity
The impact of acute illness on dementia
Research on the provision of care services
Dementia prevention factors
Is dementia one disease or many?
Acknowledgements
Chapter 1 Dementia
What is dementia?
dementia patients
What to do if a family member has dementia
Chapter 2: Getting the Medical Help You Need for Dementia Patients
Evaluating patients with suspected dementia
Find someone to evaluate you
Treatment and management of dementia
Chapter 3: Characteristics of Behavioral Symptoms in Dementia Patients
Brain, Behavior, and Personality: Understanding the Behavior of People with Dementia
How to Care for People with Dementia
memory problems
Overreaction or catastrophic reaction
Aggression
Language and communication problems
-When a dementia patient has difficulty expressing his or her intentions
-If the patient has difficulty understanding what others say
loss of coordination
Loss of sense of time
Symptoms with extreme fluctuations
Chapter 4: Problems of Independent Living
mild cognitive impairment
Caring for patients with early dementia
When a patient must quit his job
When the patient becomes unable to manage money well
When the patient should stop driving
When the patient must give up independent living
-When a person living alone is suspected of having dementia
-What guardians can do
-Moving to a new residence
Chapter 5 Problems that may arise in everyday care
Risk factors to watch out for
- Risk factors in the home
- Risk factors outside the home
- Risk factors inside the car
-Hazards on highways and parking lots
-Risk factors of smoking
- Risk factors of hunting
Nutrition and Meal Times
-Meal preparation
-mealtime
-Behavioral problems while eating
-Malnutrition
-Weight loss
-choke
-When to start cervical nutrition
work out
Recreational activities
-Meaningful activities
Personal hygiene
-bath
-Where to purchase supplies needed by patients
-Get dressed
-Getting dressed up
-Oral hygiene
incontinence
-Urinary incontinence
-Fecal incontinence
-Aftercare after incontinence
Gait, balance, and falling problems
-When the patient is confined to a wheelchair or bed
-bathchair
Changes you can make at home
- Tools to make life easier for the elderly
-Cluttered vs. empty living environment
Chapter 6 Medical Problems
pain
Injuries after a fall
bedsore
dehydration
pneumonia
Influenza and COVID-19
constipation
drugs
Oral problems
vision problems
hearing problems
dizziness
Go to the hospital
When a patient needs to be admitted to the hospital
When causing a seizure, convulsion or match
Muscle tremors (myoclonus)
Death of a dementia patient
-Cause of death
- Home death
-Hospice and palliative care
-If you die in a hospital or nursing home
-When to end treatment
- Treatment needed for patients nearing death
Chapter 7: Managing Behavioral and Neuropsychiatric Symptoms of Dementia
Six Ways to Manage Behavioral Symptoms (6Rs)
-6Rs of Behavioral Symptom Management
Behaviors to hide memory loss
prowl
-Why the patient wanders
-Managing wandering symptoms
-Sleep disturbances and nocturnal wandering behavior
Sundown syndrome, in which symptoms worsen in the evening
The act of losing, hoarding, and hiding things
Rummaging through closets and drawers
Inappropriate sexual behavior
The act of repeating the same question
repetitive behavior
Distraction
Obsessive or persistent following behavior ('shadowing')
Behavior that involves complaining and swearing
stealing things
The act of forgetting that a call has come in
Actions that are constantly demanding
stubborn and uncooperative behavior
Dementia patient's insulting behavior toward caregiver
Managing behavior with medication
Chapter 8: Mood Changes and Suspicion-Related Symptoms
melancholia
Complaining about your health
suicide
alcohol and drug abuse
Indifference and apathy
Remembering emotions
anger and irritability
Anxiety, nervousness, restlessness
False beliefs, suspicions, paranoia, and hallucinations
-misconception
- Inability to recognize people or objects (agnosia)
-“My mom will come pick me up.”
-doubt
-The act of hiding an object
-Delusions and hallucinations
Free
Chapter 9 Special Measures for When a Guardian Is Ill
How to ask for help
If the guardian dies
Chapter 10: Getting Outside Help
Get help from friends and neighbors
Find information and services
Types of care services
-Home care services
-Home care
-Day care center
-Short-term care services
Preparing for home care, day care, and short-term care services
When a patient refuses care services
Caregivers' feelings about using short-term care services
Find information
Paying for care services
Is it okay to have patients with different medical conditions mixed in a short-term care program?
Understanding the quality of service
Research and Pilot Programs
Chapter 11: Dementia Patients and Their Families
Role change
Understanding Family Conflict
-Sharing responsibility
Guardian's Married Life
Coping with Role Changes and Family Conflict
-Family meeting
If you live far away from the person with dementia
How can I help when I am not the primary caregiver?
Care work and the profession of caregivers
Children of the guardian
teenage children
Chapter 12: The Emotional Impact of Caring for a Person with Dementia on Family Members
emotional response
-anger
- embarrassment
-Feeling of helplessness
- Guilt
-Laughter, love, and joy
-Condolences
-Depression
-Isolation and loneliness
-worry
-On the border between hope and reality
Abuse of dementia patients
physical reactions
-fatigue
-disease
Sex life
-If your spouse has dementia
-If you live with a parent with dementia
future
-A spouse who is single
Death of the patient
Chapter 13 Self-Care for Caregivers
Take a break from caring
-Give yourself a gift
-friend
-Avoiding isolation
Find the help you need
- Recognize warning signs
-Get advice
Connecting with other families: Dementia Care Centers and similar organizations
-Self-help group
-Excuse
Advocacy for people with dementia
Chapter 14 Financial and Legal Issues
Assessing the financial status of the guardian
-Possible future costs
-Future assets
Finding Assets for Dementia Patients
-Bank account
-Stock certificates, bonds, certificates of deposit, savings bonds, mutual funds
-Insurance certificate (life insurance, accident insurance, health insurance)
-Bank safety deposit box
- Real estate (houses, land, businesses, jointly owned or partially owned rental properties)
- Severance pay and disability benefits
-Transferable items such as collectibles, gold, jewelry, cash, jewellery, cars, antiques, art, boats, camera equipment, and furniture.
-Will
-Trust account
-Personal loans
-Overseas bank account
-legacy
- Proof of purchase of land
legal issues
Chapter 15: Preparing for Long-Term Care
Types of residential facilities
Entering a facility with a person with dementia
nursing home
Find a long-term care facility
-Pay facility fees
Things to Consider When Choosing a Long-Term Care Facility
- Convenience of visiting the facility
-expense
-Cleanliness and safety
-employee
-Care and Services
-Physical environment
-End-of-life care policy
-meal
-right
Entering a residential living facility
Adapting to a new life
-Visit
-Adaptation of guardians
When problems arise in nursing homes or other residential facilities
Sexual problems occurring in nursing homes or other residential facilities
Chapter 16: How to Prevent and Slow Cognitive Decline
Common changes due to aging
- Word recall and psychomotor speed
Dementia risk factors
-Cardiovascular disease
-work out
- Social and intellectual activities
-Eating habits
-education
-diabetes
-melancholia
-toxin
-Head injury
-age
-oil field
drugs
summation
Chapter 17: Causes of Brain Disease and Dementia
mild cognitive impairment
dementia
-Alcoholic dementia
-Alzheimer's disease
-Amnesia (Korsakoff) syndrome
-Cerebral Amyloid Angiopathy
-Chronic traumatic encephalopathy
-Corticobasal degeneration
-melancholia
Frontotemporal dementia
-AIDS-related dementia
-Huntington's disease
-Lewy body dementia
-Parkinson's disease-related dementia
-Primary progressive aphasia
- Progressive supranuclear palsy
-Traumatic brain injury (head trauma)
-vascular dementia
- Early-onset dementia that occurs at a young age
Other brain diseases
-Delirium
-Stroke and focal brain damage
-Transient ischemic attack
Chapter 18: Dementia Research
Understanding the Research
Vascular Dementia and Stroke Research
Alzheimer's disease research
-Structural changes in the brain
-Brain cells
-Neuroplasticity
-neurotransmitters
-electrical signal
-Abnormal protein
-Abnormal proteins present in brain cells
-nerve growth factor
-infection
-Prion
-Brain cell (or stem cell) transplant
-metal
-Immune system defects
-Head injury
-Drug research
epidemiological studies
Down syndrome
aging
Genetics and Dementia
gender
Neuropsychological testing
brain imaging
Maintain physical and mental activity
The impact of acute illness on dementia
Research on the provision of care services
Dementia prevention factors
Is dementia one disease or many?
Detailed image

Into the book
We can confidently say that our current efforts to provide effective and appropriate care to our loved ones will lead to a future where ultimate cure and prevention will be possible.
Thanks to the dedicated support team behind patients, the field of Alzheimer's disease is not being overlooked, but scientific research is advancing rapidly.
I want to emphasize that the driving force behind this progress comes from the readers of this book and their efforts to care for patients as individuals who deserve respect.
--- p.10, from the “Recommendation”
As mentioned earlier, the causes of dementia are varied.
Some of the conditions that cause dementia can be treated to improve symptoms, and a very small number can even be cured.
However, even if dementia is treatable, if it is not diagnosed due to lack of testing, patients and their families will suffer needlessly for years.
Additionally, some diseases can be treated if detected quickly, but if left untreated, can lead to irreversible consequences.
Even if a patient is diagnosed with irreversible dementia, a diagnostic evaluation can help determine how to best care for the patient, manage symptoms, and establish a foundation for planning for the future.
--- p.58, from “Evaluating Patients Suspected of Dementia”
Diseases that cause dementia also limit future possibilities.
While others dream of a better future, people with dementia increasingly realize that their own future is limited.
For people with dementia, memory loss is probably the most devastating thing.
Losing your memory means losing your connection to the past as well as your everyday relationships with those around you.
As a result, the distant past may feel like the present.
If you don't remember the present and don't understand that the past is already gone, the future becomes meaningless.
--- p.128, from “Caring for Patients with Early-Stage Dementia”
There are many changes you can make at home to make life easier for both caregivers and people with dementia.
As you read articles about dementia or talk to other families with dementia, you will learn about various tools.
These tools may help, but they are not a perfect solution.
Before attempting any change, you should ask yourself whether the new tool will help you live comfortably.
It's also important to remember that people with dementia often have difficulty learning new things, no matter how simple, and may struggle to adapt to even small changes.
For example, even if a guardian purchases a cell phone that is easy to use and gives it to the patient, the patient may not be able to learn how to use the new phone.
Or, after rearranging the furniture, you may realize that it is making the patient feel more anxious than it was originally intended to.
--- p.229, from “Changes You Can Make at Home”
Some patients, once they feel a strange sensation, keep repeating it.
In such cases, family members wonder why the patient remembers the suspicious feeling but cannot remember anything else.
This is probably because the areas of the human brain that process and store emotional and factual memories are different.
For reasons unknown, emotional memories seem to persist longer than factual memories, even when memory is impaired by dementia.
As a result, patients often remember the positive emotions they felt at the time longer than the actual events that occurred around them.
--- p.377, from “Remembering Emotions”
Families often assume that dementia patients will unconditionally refuse care services.
However, patients often surprise those around them by enjoying their time at the day care center or welcoming their caregivers.
Avoid asking patients if they want to go to a day care center.
The patient is likely to answer “no” because he or she does not understand what the guardian is asking.
Some patients say they enjoy their time at the day care center, but they don't want to go there every time.
This is often because the patient is unaware of the pleasure he or she experienced or has already forgotten it.
Therefore, we hope that you will continue to bring patients to the day care center with joy.
--- p.433, from “When a Patient Refuses Care Services”
Caring for someone with dementia can leave you feeling sad, frustrated, disappointed, or lost.
Additionally, they may suffer from fatigue or a sense of burden.
There are many causes of fatigue, but most of them are due to not getting enough rest.
When caring for someone with dementia, caregivers may put their own needs on the back burner, such as resting, meeting friends, or spending time alone.
Especially when you have family, work, and children to take care of, you may have neglected your own needs.
(syncopation)
To take good care of your patients, you must take good care of yourself.
To do this, you need to get enough rest and spend time away from the person with dementia.
We also need friends we can hang out with, confide in, and laugh with.
Additionally, you may need additional help to overcome frustrations and resolve disagreements within your family.
It would be helpful to join a self-help group for people with dementia to share their concerns, make new friends, and advocate for more support for people with dementia.
Thanks to the dedicated support team behind patients, the field of Alzheimer's disease is not being overlooked, but scientific research is advancing rapidly.
I want to emphasize that the driving force behind this progress comes from the readers of this book and their efforts to care for patients as individuals who deserve respect.
--- p.10, from the “Recommendation”
As mentioned earlier, the causes of dementia are varied.
Some of the conditions that cause dementia can be treated to improve symptoms, and a very small number can even be cured.
However, even if dementia is treatable, if it is not diagnosed due to lack of testing, patients and their families will suffer needlessly for years.
Additionally, some diseases can be treated if detected quickly, but if left untreated, can lead to irreversible consequences.
Even if a patient is diagnosed with irreversible dementia, a diagnostic evaluation can help determine how to best care for the patient, manage symptoms, and establish a foundation for planning for the future.
--- p.58, from “Evaluating Patients Suspected of Dementia”
Diseases that cause dementia also limit future possibilities.
While others dream of a better future, people with dementia increasingly realize that their own future is limited.
For people with dementia, memory loss is probably the most devastating thing.
Losing your memory means losing your connection to the past as well as your everyday relationships with those around you.
As a result, the distant past may feel like the present.
If you don't remember the present and don't understand that the past is already gone, the future becomes meaningless.
--- p.128, from “Caring for Patients with Early-Stage Dementia”
There are many changes you can make at home to make life easier for both caregivers and people with dementia.
As you read articles about dementia or talk to other families with dementia, you will learn about various tools.
These tools may help, but they are not a perfect solution.
Before attempting any change, you should ask yourself whether the new tool will help you live comfortably.
It's also important to remember that people with dementia often have difficulty learning new things, no matter how simple, and may struggle to adapt to even small changes.
For example, even if a guardian purchases a cell phone that is easy to use and gives it to the patient, the patient may not be able to learn how to use the new phone.
Or, after rearranging the furniture, you may realize that it is making the patient feel more anxious than it was originally intended to.
--- p.229, from “Changes You Can Make at Home”
Some patients, once they feel a strange sensation, keep repeating it.
In such cases, family members wonder why the patient remembers the suspicious feeling but cannot remember anything else.
This is probably because the areas of the human brain that process and store emotional and factual memories are different.
For reasons unknown, emotional memories seem to persist longer than factual memories, even when memory is impaired by dementia.
As a result, patients often remember the positive emotions they felt at the time longer than the actual events that occurred around them.
--- p.377, from “Remembering Emotions”
Families often assume that dementia patients will unconditionally refuse care services.
However, patients often surprise those around them by enjoying their time at the day care center or welcoming their caregivers.
Avoid asking patients if they want to go to a day care center.
The patient is likely to answer “no” because he or she does not understand what the guardian is asking.
Some patients say they enjoy their time at the day care center, but they don't want to go there every time.
This is often because the patient is unaware of the pleasure he or she experienced or has already forgotten it.
Therefore, we hope that you will continue to bring patients to the day care center with joy.
--- p.433, from “When a Patient Refuses Care Services”
Caring for someone with dementia can leave you feeling sad, frustrated, disappointed, or lost.
Additionally, they may suffer from fatigue or a sense of burden.
There are many causes of fatigue, but most of them are due to not getting enough rest.
When caring for someone with dementia, caregivers may put their own needs on the back burner, such as resting, meeting friends, or spending time alone.
Especially when you have family, work, and children to take care of, you may have neglected your own needs.
(syncopation)
To take good care of your patients, you must take good care of yourself.
To do this, you need to get enough rest and spend time away from the person with dementia.
We also need friends we can hang out with, confide in, and laugh with.
Additionally, you may need additional help to overcome frustrations and resolve disagreements within your family.
It would be helpful to join a self-help group for people with dementia to share their concerns, make new friends, and advocate for more support for people with dementia.
--- p.552, from “Self-Care for Caregivers”
Publisher's Review
To all those who spend 36 hours a day caring for dementia patients
"Our Family's Day is 36 Hours" is a book that has been speaking to countless families caring for dementia patients about the "strength to endure together" for approximately 40 years since its first publication.
At the time, dementia was often neglected under the mistaken perception that it was 'senility,' and the difficulties patients and their families faced were rarely discussed publicly.
Published in such an era and revised repeatedly to reflect the latest medical advances, this book combines medical knowledge and everyday caregiving experiences to tell a concrete and warm story about the realities faced by dementia patients and their caregivers.
The 'Bible of Dementia', which comforts the caregivers of dementia patients who live as if each day is 36 hours long, as if it knows all about the hardships and patience of caregiving, has finally been translated into Korean and officially published in Korea.
The reason this book was so loved is because it went beyond a simple medical guideline and served as a 'companion in care'.
The book meticulously covers the changes that occur as the disease progresses, the patient's behavior and psychology, and even the conflicts and emotions that caregivers face.
Each chapter contains specific examples, so if you read them and relate them to your own situation, you will find practical help.
Since its first edition, it has been revised several times over the past 40 years to reflect the latest research findings and clinical experience. The 7th English revised edition, translated for the first time in Korea, includes the latest information on drug treatment, behavioral symptom management, and utilization of external support systems.
But there is one thing that doesn't change.
This is the philosophy that patients should be treated as individuals who deserve respect.
This book is also a record of the history of dementia care.
In fact, in the United States, it is said that social perceptions surrounding dementia have changed significantly since the publication of this book.
More people are coming to understand dementia as a disease, and systems and services to support patients and their families are expanding.
In the midst of these changes, this book has consistently reached out to guardians over the years.
On the seemingly endless road of caregiving, this book continues to inspire confidence in countless people that they are not alone.
That's why this book is still relevant 40 years later.
Cases and Solutions Encountered at the Crossroads of Care
This book is a guide that simultaneously delivers deep empathy and practical (medical) help to families of dementia patients.
The confusion, fear, and loneliness that families facing dementia experience are difficult to express in words.
So, this book comforts the hearts of patients and their guardians through various cases experienced by them, and gives them a sense of relief that 'I'm not the only one'.
The author, a researcher studying dementia, personally collected these personal experiences, which help us realize that we do not have to bear the burden of care alone.
This allows us to take a more detailed look at the difficulties, both large and small, that arise during the caregiving process.
This book provides step-by-step, customized guidance for caregivers in various situations they face, from the time of dementia diagnosis to the patient's final stages.
Each chapter covers a wide range of topics, including behavioral changes in dementia patients, management of physical and mental symptoms, support for daily living, and emotional burden.
In particular, it details the practical problems of care through real-life examples and provides specific methods and advice for solving them.
Through this book, caregivers can prepare for unexpected situations and gain the wisdom needed to maximize the quality of life for both their patients and themselves.
Care that doesn't walk alone
The emotional burden experienced by caregivers in caring for dementia patients is not light.
A complex mix of emotions—anger, guilt, isolation, and even helplessness—can sometimes make taking care of yourself feel difficult and even a luxury.
At that time, this book encourages us to face the above emotions without hiding them.
And ultimately, it emphasizes that when caregivers take care of their own health and mind, it also has a positive impact on the patient.
Self-care is never selfish.
Taking care of yourself by actively utilizing support systems such as counseling and self-help groups makes you love your caregiver more and enables sustainable care.
In addition, this book consistently shows the perspective of treating dementia patients as individuals who deserve respect.
While social prejudice and misunderstanding about dementia still exist, protecting the dignity of patients is the most fundamental foundation of care.
By understanding the patient as an individual and respecting their feelings and wishes as much as possible, the trust and bond between the guardian and the patient becomes stronger.
This respect also goes a long way in relieving the emotional burden experienced by caregivers.
Finally, we provide specific guidance to help caregivers and patients actively utilize external help and social support.
It provides detailed explanations of the types and methods of utilizing various care support systems, including home care services, day care centers, and short-term care services, and focuses on alleviating practical difficulties that may be encountered during the caregiving process.
Rather than having caregivers shoulder the burden alone, we clearly convey the fact that when they walk the path of care together with the support of the community, government, and related organizations, both patients and their families can lead healthier and more stable lives.
"Our Family's Day is 36 Hours" is a book that has been speaking to countless families caring for dementia patients about the "strength to endure together" for approximately 40 years since its first publication.
At the time, dementia was often neglected under the mistaken perception that it was 'senility,' and the difficulties patients and their families faced were rarely discussed publicly.
Published in such an era and revised repeatedly to reflect the latest medical advances, this book combines medical knowledge and everyday caregiving experiences to tell a concrete and warm story about the realities faced by dementia patients and their caregivers.
The 'Bible of Dementia', which comforts the caregivers of dementia patients who live as if each day is 36 hours long, as if it knows all about the hardships and patience of caregiving, has finally been translated into Korean and officially published in Korea.
The reason this book was so loved is because it went beyond a simple medical guideline and served as a 'companion in care'.
The book meticulously covers the changes that occur as the disease progresses, the patient's behavior and psychology, and even the conflicts and emotions that caregivers face.
Each chapter contains specific examples, so if you read them and relate them to your own situation, you will find practical help.
Since its first edition, it has been revised several times over the past 40 years to reflect the latest research findings and clinical experience. The 7th English revised edition, translated for the first time in Korea, includes the latest information on drug treatment, behavioral symptom management, and utilization of external support systems.
But there is one thing that doesn't change.
This is the philosophy that patients should be treated as individuals who deserve respect.
This book is also a record of the history of dementia care.
In fact, in the United States, it is said that social perceptions surrounding dementia have changed significantly since the publication of this book.
More people are coming to understand dementia as a disease, and systems and services to support patients and their families are expanding.
In the midst of these changes, this book has consistently reached out to guardians over the years.
On the seemingly endless road of caregiving, this book continues to inspire confidence in countless people that they are not alone.
That's why this book is still relevant 40 years later.
Cases and Solutions Encountered at the Crossroads of Care
This book is a guide that simultaneously delivers deep empathy and practical (medical) help to families of dementia patients.
The confusion, fear, and loneliness that families facing dementia experience are difficult to express in words.
So, this book comforts the hearts of patients and their guardians through various cases experienced by them, and gives them a sense of relief that 'I'm not the only one'.
The author, a researcher studying dementia, personally collected these personal experiences, which help us realize that we do not have to bear the burden of care alone.
This allows us to take a more detailed look at the difficulties, both large and small, that arise during the caregiving process.
This book provides step-by-step, customized guidance for caregivers in various situations they face, from the time of dementia diagnosis to the patient's final stages.
Each chapter covers a wide range of topics, including behavioral changes in dementia patients, management of physical and mental symptoms, support for daily living, and emotional burden.
In particular, it details the practical problems of care through real-life examples and provides specific methods and advice for solving them.
Through this book, caregivers can prepare for unexpected situations and gain the wisdom needed to maximize the quality of life for both their patients and themselves.
Care that doesn't walk alone
The emotional burden experienced by caregivers in caring for dementia patients is not light.
A complex mix of emotions—anger, guilt, isolation, and even helplessness—can sometimes make taking care of yourself feel difficult and even a luxury.
At that time, this book encourages us to face the above emotions without hiding them.
And ultimately, it emphasizes that when caregivers take care of their own health and mind, it also has a positive impact on the patient.
Self-care is never selfish.
Taking care of yourself by actively utilizing support systems such as counseling and self-help groups makes you love your caregiver more and enables sustainable care.
In addition, this book consistently shows the perspective of treating dementia patients as individuals who deserve respect.
While social prejudice and misunderstanding about dementia still exist, protecting the dignity of patients is the most fundamental foundation of care.
By understanding the patient as an individual and respecting their feelings and wishes as much as possible, the trust and bond between the guardian and the patient becomes stronger.
This respect also goes a long way in relieving the emotional burden experienced by caregivers.
Finally, we provide specific guidance to help caregivers and patients actively utilize external help and social support.
It provides detailed explanations of the types and methods of utilizing various care support systems, including home care services, day care centers, and short-term care services, and focuses on alleviating practical difficulties that may be encountered during the caregiving process.
Rather than having caregivers shoulder the burden alone, we clearly convey the fact that when they walk the path of care together with the support of the community, government, and related organizations, both patients and their families can lead healthier and more stable lives.
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of issue: August 29, 2025
- Format: Hardcover book binding method guide
- Page count, weight, size: 732 pages | 1,208g | 152*232*50mm
- ISBN13: 9791173184253
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