To understand, you must have a desire to understand.
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To be understood, you must express yourself.
It takes courage to understand
To understand, you must love.
To understand, we must acknowledge our inherent differences.
To understand, we must acknowledge the differences between men and women.
To understand, we must acknowledge the difference between love.
To help each other, we must understand.
To understand, we must recognize the importance of the past.
Full understanding requires submission to Jesus Christ.

Paul Tournier, a psychologist with a delicate and warm understanding of human beings,
A beautiful reflection on human communication

Tournier, who has been counseling people with marital problems for many years, began developing a ten-step guide to improving the relationship between husband and wife.
It was a ten-step prescription for a healthy marriage written by a doctor who had treated many ailing marriages.
“In order to understand each other in marriage, first and foremost, we must want to understand. This may seem like a simple first step, but many couples fail to reach that first step” (Gary Collins, from [Paul Tournier's Christian Psychology])

"To Understand One Another" is one of the most beloved books by Paul Tournier and has been translated into over ten languages.
Drawing on his own marriage and numerous counseling experiences, Tournier offers profound wisdom and insight into how men and women, so different from one another, can understand one another.
“He who loves understands, and he who understands loves,” the author asks his readers.
Seriously, do you have the heart to understand your wife and your husband?

This book, which has been a must-read for countless couples and lovers since its Korean edition was published, is now being republished in a 10th anniversary edition.
At first glance, it may seem like an ordinary story, but it is a steady seller that has proven its worth by gaining a lot of sympathy from couples who have passed the exciting honeymoon period and are entering their 5th or 10th year of marriage.


For readers
-Lovers or couples who need close communication
-Couples preparing for marriage
-Couples who want to look back on their married life and grow together
-A gift for a young man who is dating or about to get married
-It's also great to share in church small groups or housewives' gatherings.