prolog
How We, Different from Each Other, Live Together ·004
Beyond Love: What Is Marriage? 004
Learning Psychology and Communication Strategies with the WNPM Psychological Tendency System·009

Part 1.
Understand me through my tendencies
: WNPM 8 Psychological Landscapes

01 Salt Mountain: A Man Who Views the World with Order and Courtesy ·028
02 Active Volcano: A Hot Person Who Could Be a Hot Spring or Lava ·034
03 Lake: A sensitive person who shines brightest when loved ·039
04 Desert: A Man Who Works Restlessly and Proves His Existence ·044
05 Mediterranean: A Lover Between Warmth and Sadness ·049
06 Everest: A Lonely Man Who Wants to Connect with Logic ·054
07 Maze: A Man Who Thinks Again and Again in Anxiety and Doubt ·060
08 Waikiki: People Enjoying Today Like a Festival ·065

Part 2.
Marital conflict
In search of roots

01 Why We Get Hurt: Five Problems That Start Marital Conflict ·072
02 Different personalities lead to different conflicts and solutions. ·084
A kind husband with a salty disposition. Why was his wife lonely? 084
An active volcano that explodes rather than explains emotions. 092
Lake 098: Confirming your spouse's love is important.
Desert of Pursuing Efficiency Even at Home·106
The Mediterranean's Shadow: Avoiding Conflict · 112
Everest 122: Finding Satisfaction in an Organized Life
Sensitivity is the survival instinct of the maze. 133
Waikiki is a tough place due to a lack of personal time. 142

Part 3.
Sea World and Cher World War,
Solve with disposition, not emotion

01 How to Wisely Deal with Conflicts Between Mother-in-Law and Daughter-in-Law? ·152
02 Knowing Your Mother-in-Law's Personality Will Provide the Answer · 156
The Typical Korean Mother-in-Law: Sogeumsan·156
Techniques for Dealing with a Fiery Father-in-Law · 165
How to Deal with a Mother-in-Law Who's Like a "Lake" · 170
A mother-in-law who is displeased with her daughter-in-law who doesn't work. 176
A Mediterranean mother-in-law who wants to do anything with me, 181
No conflict, but still tense: Everest mother-in-law, 185
Keeping Your Distance from Your Unpredictable Mother-in-Law·187
A Waikiki Mother-in-Law Living a Beautiful Life, Her Daughter-in-Law's Financial Difficulties·191

Part 4.
child rearing,
Unfolding the map of 'tendency'

01 Starting Point of Parenting: Tendency and Understanding·196
What My Three Children Taught Me: Disposition, Growth, and Companionship·202
02 Understanding Your Child's Tendency Reveals the Path to Parenting·206
A 'Waikiki' child who puts pleasure at the center of life, 206
A 'labyrinth' child with inner complexity·222
Everest, a child with a depth of tranquility, 228
A warm and sensible 'Mediterranean' child·236
The 'Lake' Child with Deep Feelings·242
A 'volcanic' child with overflowing energy, 250 years old
You Can't Raise a Child with Nagging·259

Epilogue
Marriage: A Journey of Growing Together While Facing Differences·264

Part 1 explores the human psychological landscape through eight personality types: Salt Mountain, Active Volcano, Lake, Desert, Mediterranean, Everest, Labyrinth, and Waikiki.
Each personality type has a profound impact on how we perceive the world, how we express our emotions, and how we give and receive love.

Part 2 illuminates how these differences in temperament become the root of marital conflict, and presents the causes of wounds and clues to recovery based on temperament.
Questions like, “Why did you say that?” and “Why is it only me who has a hard time?” now require psychological answers.

Part 3 guides you through resolving realistic conflicts, such as conflicts between Sea World and Cher World, between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and between husband and wife, using 'inclinations' rather than 'emotions'.
When you understand the nature of the disposition behind your mother-in-law's nagging and your mother-in-law's frustration, conflict becomes something to be approached rather than ignored.

In Part 4, we unfold a map of parenting tendencies.
When parents understand their child's personality, they begin to accompany him rather than discipline him.
Your child's emotions, behavior, and even his or her every word will begin to appear different.

This book says:
Because we are different, we have more to learn, and because we are different, we can grow together.
A book that makes us reexamine the journey from love to marriage, from couple to parent, through the lens of personality.
It will be a warm and clear light to all those who are tired of relationships.