Children with high emotional intelligence are unshakable.
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Book Introduction
In the end, the power of a child who accomplishes something is ‘emotional intelligence’! A police officer with 16 years of experience tells us: A Parenting Guide to Raising Children with Strong Inner Self It starts with the question of a current South Korean police officer: "Children with high emotional intelligence are unshaken." The author specializes in domestic violence and child abuse, and meets children as a police officer at school. The faces of the children I saw at the scene of the incident and at school were expressionless and their hearts were not at ease. Parents, driven by a passion to raise their precious children well, become helicopter moms, constantly striving to provide the best. But the children's perfection was only superficial; behind it was self-loathing, distrust, and a sense of danger. Aren't the excessive parenting and social atmosphere that gives children what they want right away raising them to be children who forget gratitude and cannot tolerate failure and frustration? The challenge we face in this day and age is not to raise children who are good at studying or successful, but to raise children who have the “strength to live.” "Children with High Emotional Intelligence Are Unshakeable" is a parenting book written by the author, who worked as a police officer in South Korea for nearly 20 years, and reinterprets anecdotes from actual crime scenes and parenting experiences to fit the current situation. The character virtues that will be responsible for a child's entire life become the nutrients that can help the child grow into a deep-rooted tree. It presents the direction of 'wise parents' and, rather than simply teaching, offers empathy and comfort to all those raising children in these uncertain times. |
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index
prolog
"hello.
“If you need any assistance from the police, please contact us anytime!”
Chapter 1.
Character education comes before English and math.
The power of character education to nurture children's character
Three Genghis Khan Strategies for Developing a Bold Personality
A base camp for children's self-esteem and self-love.
There's a difference between a "good child" and a "child with good character."
How to survive a powerful typhoon
The head of our household is not the child, but the parents
Chapter 2.
Character virtues that become lifelong weapons
[Filial Piety] Parents should be respected.
[Honesty] Go straight
[Patience] A child who is not swayed by momentary emotions
[Positive] The ability to smile even in the face of crisis
[Humility] I don't mind if others don't recognize me.
[Mental Strength] From Glass Mentality to Concrete Mentality
[Volunteering] Why Childhood Volunteering is Important
[Courage/Challenge] You can do it
Chapter 3.
Parents are always at the end of a child's gaze.
Our House CCTV Story
A time to draw out intellect and emotion
The greatest legacy is our parents' conversation habits.
What's wrong with making a child do the dishes?
Neither more nor less, just the right amount of stability
Becoming a parent with your own strong philosophy
The wide world, do you want to go together?
The Trap of Being an Iron Parent
Chapter 4.
Raising children who value people
I exist because you exist
A child who does only what he wants
Everyone has a time when friends are everything.
If you have received a sweeter feeling than Choco Pie
In the end, greetings are everything
There is no one who can hurt you
Chapter 5.
If you pass on a spoon of character instead of a golden spoon
The Secret of the Popular Kid Next Door
You have to empty yourself to fill yourself.
What Silicon Valley Never Gives Kids
The Rules for Winning the War Against Games
Change begins with gratitude.
A dandelion that doesn't envy roses
Epilogue
For our children to grow up to be happy adults
"hello.
“If you need any assistance from the police, please contact us anytime!”
Chapter 1.
Character education comes before English and math.
The power of character education to nurture children's character
Three Genghis Khan Strategies for Developing a Bold Personality
A base camp for children's self-esteem and self-love.
There's a difference between a "good child" and a "child with good character."
How to survive a powerful typhoon
The head of our household is not the child, but the parents
Chapter 2.
Character virtues that become lifelong weapons
[Filial Piety] Parents should be respected.
[Honesty] Go straight
[Patience] A child who is not swayed by momentary emotions
[Positive] The ability to smile even in the face of crisis
[Humility] I don't mind if others don't recognize me.
[Mental Strength] From Glass Mentality to Concrete Mentality
[Volunteering] Why Childhood Volunteering is Important
[Courage/Challenge] You can do it
Chapter 3.
Parents are always at the end of a child's gaze.
Our House CCTV Story
A time to draw out intellect and emotion
The greatest legacy is our parents' conversation habits.
What's wrong with making a child do the dishes?
Neither more nor less, just the right amount of stability
Becoming a parent with your own strong philosophy
The wide world, do you want to go together?
The Trap of Being an Iron Parent
Chapter 4.
Raising children who value people
I exist because you exist
A child who does only what he wants
Everyone has a time when friends are everything.
If you have received a sweeter feeling than Choco Pie
In the end, greetings are everything
There is no one who can hurt you
Chapter 5.
If you pass on a spoon of character instead of a golden spoon
The Secret of the Popular Kid Next Door
You have to empty yourself to fill yourself.
What Silicon Valley Never Gives Kids
The Rules for Winning the War Against Games
Change begins with gratitude.
A dandelion that doesn't envy roses
Epilogue
For our children to grow up to be happy adults
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Into the book
The human brain is wise.
Find out what you have learned on your own, organize it, and make correct judgments.
Our children just didn't have enough time for that.
A child who reads or copies a character education book for 10 minutes a day gradually matures through this 'time to think for himself'.
Even if the rice is cooked, the lid of the electric rice cooker will not open until the last moment has passed.
If you wait for a 'time to rest' throughout your child's life, he or she will develop a bright and savory personality.
--- p.35
In everyday life, children imitate their parents' facial expressions, speech patterns, and even gestures in detail.
Because you continue to use the cold language you heard from your parents, you are more likely to become someone that others dislike.
When a child becomes an adult, he or she will begin to reject the very existence of his or her father.
If you start a family, there's a good chance you'll use the same speech habits with your spouse as your parents.
The couple is currently passing on their unhappy life to their child.
--- p.156
There is a term called 'empty nest syndrome'.
It refers to the sense of loss and loneliness that parents feel when their children grow up and leave home to become independent.
Parents who considered raising their children their entire lives feel empty due to the sudden change.
Emptiness can also develop into depression or sleep disorders.
The advice to look far ahead when raising children doesn't just apply to education.
The child will one day become a bird and fly away.
No parent would break their child's legs like Nolbu and prevent them from flying.
In the end, only the parents will remain in the nest.
You must keep in mind how you will live at this time.
--- p.188
What should parents do if they accidentally hurt a friend at the playground? Instead of saying, "You should apologize to your friend immediately," parents should say, "Your friend must have been shocked.
First, you need to teach them how to express "I feel upset."
It is a practice of looking into the hearts of others in everyday life.
The more time you spend talking about the other person's feelings, the more empathy you will develop.
As if you were playing a game of grabbing land, you are changing the originally selfish realm of your mind into an altruistic realm.
--- p.204
Someone once said that you can guess a person's life by looking at their speech.
I understand.
It was not expected that the lives of the child who used particularly harsh swear words and his friends would be so bright.
A word thrown out carelessly leaves evidence of character.
--- p.236
Friends who focus only on what I'm saying while making eye contact, friends who say things like, "That must have been great," "Wasn't it hard?" "I think I know how you feel." If you look at friends who you feel like you can easily communicate with, they are all 'professional empathizers.'
They were not eloquent orators, and they offered no concrete solutions.
It just gave me deep, genuine empathy.
Then everyone liked them.
They wanted to keep each other close and become friends.
--- p.245
A child who is criticized and reprimanded will live with the guilt of that day for the rest of his life.
On the other hand, a child who is praised for his or her wisdom will see himself or herself as smart and will want to live that way even more.
Sometimes, a single word from a parent can change a child's destiny.
--- p.280
Even a common dandelion on the roadside can be beautiful in itself to someone if it stands upright with a heart that loves itself completely.
It doesn't matter if no one pays attention because dandelions are everywhere.
Even if everyone only wants gorgeous roses, the dandelion that loves itself will not even flinch.
I wish my child was like a dandelion.
Find out what you have learned on your own, organize it, and make correct judgments.
Our children just didn't have enough time for that.
A child who reads or copies a character education book for 10 minutes a day gradually matures through this 'time to think for himself'.
Even if the rice is cooked, the lid of the electric rice cooker will not open until the last moment has passed.
If you wait for a 'time to rest' throughout your child's life, he or she will develop a bright and savory personality.
--- p.35
In everyday life, children imitate their parents' facial expressions, speech patterns, and even gestures in detail.
Because you continue to use the cold language you heard from your parents, you are more likely to become someone that others dislike.
When a child becomes an adult, he or she will begin to reject the very existence of his or her father.
If you start a family, there's a good chance you'll use the same speech habits with your spouse as your parents.
The couple is currently passing on their unhappy life to their child.
--- p.156
There is a term called 'empty nest syndrome'.
It refers to the sense of loss and loneliness that parents feel when their children grow up and leave home to become independent.
Parents who considered raising their children their entire lives feel empty due to the sudden change.
Emptiness can also develop into depression or sleep disorders.
The advice to look far ahead when raising children doesn't just apply to education.
The child will one day become a bird and fly away.
No parent would break their child's legs like Nolbu and prevent them from flying.
In the end, only the parents will remain in the nest.
You must keep in mind how you will live at this time.
--- p.188
What should parents do if they accidentally hurt a friend at the playground? Instead of saying, "You should apologize to your friend immediately," parents should say, "Your friend must have been shocked.
First, you need to teach them how to express "I feel upset."
It is a practice of looking into the hearts of others in everyday life.
The more time you spend talking about the other person's feelings, the more empathy you will develop.
As if you were playing a game of grabbing land, you are changing the originally selfish realm of your mind into an altruistic realm.
--- p.204
Someone once said that you can guess a person's life by looking at their speech.
I understand.
It was not expected that the lives of the child who used particularly harsh swear words and his friends would be so bright.
A word thrown out carelessly leaves evidence of character.
--- p.236
Friends who focus only on what I'm saying while making eye contact, friends who say things like, "That must have been great," "Wasn't it hard?" "I think I know how you feel." If you look at friends who you feel like you can easily communicate with, they are all 'professional empathizers.'
They were not eloquent orators, and they offered no concrete solutions.
It just gave me deep, genuine empathy.
Then everyone liked them.
They wanted to keep each other close and become friends.
--- p.245
A child who is criticized and reprimanded will live with the guilt of that day for the rest of his life.
On the other hand, a child who is praised for his or her wisdom will see himself or herself as smart and will want to live that way even more.
Sometimes, a single word from a parent can change a child's destiny.
--- p.280
Even a common dandelion on the roadside can be beautiful in itself to someone if it stands upright with a heart that loves itself completely.
It doesn't matter if no one pays attention because dandelions are everywhere.
Even if everyone only wants gorgeous roses, the dandelion that loves itself will not even flinch.
I wish my child was like a dandelion.
--- p.286
Publisher's Review
South Korea has the world's highest suicide rate among teenagers, and the lowest happiness index!
Reflective parents start with character education.
Among OECD countries, Korea has the highest teenage suicide rate and the lowest happiness index.
The adjectives that describe the future of children are ‘suicide’ and ‘unhappiness.’
The number of youth incidents and accidents in South Korea is steadily increasing.
Hitting and swearing at teachers during class has become a daily occurrence, and school violence, sexual assault, bullying, theft, drinking and drug use, etc. are issues that come up every day.
The author, who has seen the true face of reality through actual incidents and school education, says that everything stems from a 'lack of humanity.'
Many parents overlook this, thinking, 'My child will be fine,' because they love and raise him without any shortcomings.
However, the more awake parents are, the more they prioritize character development at home.
The author of “Children with High Emotional Intelligence Are Unshakeable” clearly states that “having a good character” is not the concept of “goodness” or “etiquette education.”
We help children grow into adults with strong convictions by introducing character virtues and specific ways to practice them.
If you want your child to become a future leader who takes the initiative in his or her own life, start by taking care of his or her character right now.
Finding potential and developing talent
The Power of 8 Attitudes Children Have
There is an unforgettable moment for the author, a current police officer in South Korea.
This is when I met children who knew how to be grateful for their parents' hard work, children who value even the smallest things, and children who thought positively even in the face of difficulties.
Whenever I see such children, I can't help but feel that they have received valuable character education from their parents.
Wise parents realize that they pass on the right attitude as a legacy.
In "Children with High Emotional Intelligence Are Unshakeable," the book presents the "eight character virtues" that children who can do things on their own possess.
It teaches children how filial piety, honesty, patience, positivity, humility, mental strength, service, and courage can become weapons in their lives, and even provides easy but effective methods of practice.
There is a saying that 'children grow up watching their parents' backs.'
Rather than worrying about your child not listening, remember that everything your child says and does comes from you.
The ultimate goal of character education should be a life where children can live independently without their parents.
I hope you don't miss the golden time.
With flexible social skills and high self-esteem
What children who are loved everywhere have in common is emotional intelligence.
There are children who do things on their own from a young age, who know how to express their opinions while listening to others, and who know how to respect others.
The common secret of these children is that they have high 'emotional intelligence'.
Emotional intelligence is the ability to think and act using information while sharing one's own and others' emotions.
As the world of the future becomes more diverse and complex, the communication skills that connect robots and humans will become increasingly important.
In other words, the era where excellence alone was considered sufficient for competence is over. The key to survival in the age of AI is emotional intelligence.
"Emotionally Intelligent Children Are Unshakeable" guides children to develop flexible social skills, emotional ability to not react emotionally, sound judgment and positive communication skills, and problem-solving skills to bounce back from failure.
Having emotional intelligence allows you to live in a more mature way than ever before, no matter what era you enter.
Children's lives will change depending on the attitude they have, and emotional intelligence will be the best specification.
Reflective parents start with character education.
Among OECD countries, Korea has the highest teenage suicide rate and the lowest happiness index.
The adjectives that describe the future of children are ‘suicide’ and ‘unhappiness.’
The number of youth incidents and accidents in South Korea is steadily increasing.
Hitting and swearing at teachers during class has become a daily occurrence, and school violence, sexual assault, bullying, theft, drinking and drug use, etc. are issues that come up every day.
The author, who has seen the true face of reality through actual incidents and school education, says that everything stems from a 'lack of humanity.'
Many parents overlook this, thinking, 'My child will be fine,' because they love and raise him without any shortcomings.
However, the more awake parents are, the more they prioritize character development at home.
The author of “Children with High Emotional Intelligence Are Unshakeable” clearly states that “having a good character” is not the concept of “goodness” or “etiquette education.”
We help children grow into adults with strong convictions by introducing character virtues and specific ways to practice them.
If you want your child to become a future leader who takes the initiative in his or her own life, start by taking care of his or her character right now.
Finding potential and developing talent
The Power of 8 Attitudes Children Have
There is an unforgettable moment for the author, a current police officer in South Korea.
This is when I met children who knew how to be grateful for their parents' hard work, children who value even the smallest things, and children who thought positively even in the face of difficulties.
Whenever I see such children, I can't help but feel that they have received valuable character education from their parents.
Wise parents realize that they pass on the right attitude as a legacy.
In "Children with High Emotional Intelligence Are Unshakeable," the book presents the "eight character virtues" that children who can do things on their own possess.
It teaches children how filial piety, honesty, patience, positivity, humility, mental strength, service, and courage can become weapons in their lives, and even provides easy but effective methods of practice.
There is a saying that 'children grow up watching their parents' backs.'
Rather than worrying about your child not listening, remember that everything your child says and does comes from you.
The ultimate goal of character education should be a life where children can live independently without their parents.
I hope you don't miss the golden time.
With flexible social skills and high self-esteem
What children who are loved everywhere have in common is emotional intelligence.
There are children who do things on their own from a young age, who know how to express their opinions while listening to others, and who know how to respect others.
The common secret of these children is that they have high 'emotional intelligence'.
Emotional intelligence is the ability to think and act using information while sharing one's own and others' emotions.
As the world of the future becomes more diverse and complex, the communication skills that connect robots and humans will become increasingly important.
In other words, the era where excellence alone was considered sufficient for competence is over. The key to survival in the age of AI is emotional intelligence.
"Emotionally Intelligent Children Are Unshakeable" guides children to develop flexible social skills, emotional ability to not react emotionally, sound judgment and positive communication skills, and problem-solving skills to bounce back from failure.
Having emotional intelligence allows you to live in a more mature way than ever before, no matter what era you enter.
Children's lives will change depending on the attitude they have, and emotional intelligence will be the best specification.
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of issue: November 20, 2024
- Page count, weight, size: 292 pages | 145*210*20mm
- ISBN13: 9791192999630
- ISBN10: 1192999630
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