Most parents don't try to figure out where the problem started.
At this point in time, you just worry about the child's mistakes.
Ultimately, parents play the biggest role in guiding their students' character on the right path.
Even if an uncontrollable situation arises, it is unfortunate, but we can only say that it is a result of the parents' role.
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The most frequently discussed aspect of family roles is ‘communication’ with children.
Most parents are confident that they can communicate with their children without discomfort.
And there are prepared parents who put in a lot of effort.
But the strange thing is, despite all that, when I meet and talk with the children, I get a strong feeling that it was a 'dream in different rooms'.
What on earth could be the problem?
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The most important thing for children is ‘listening’.
If you look closely, you will see that when parents try to talk about something their children are struggling with, they cut them off and try to lead the conversation.
Because I am worried first, I cannot wait because I am curious.
Typically, such conversations create an uncomfortable atmosphere where children are questioned and pestered, as if they were being interrogated.

When asked, the common request teenagers make from their parents is, "Show me that you can really communicate."
In other words, what teenagers truly want is trustworthy behavior from their parents.
And if possible, I want to show that trust on an ongoing basis.
When you listen to your child's story over and over again, not just once, your child will come to feel like you are the first person they can confide in about their worries.
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Parents should always tell their children specifically, "No matter what happens, Dad and Mom understand you."
The 'specific things' mentioned here are examples of recent crimes, and they tell us that we must always be careful because they approach us using various methods.
Also, if something like this happens, you must promise to tell your parents first.
Under no circumstances should parents be put on the back burner.

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As the years go by, I come to agree with the idea that 'children are lonely'.
Even children whose parents say their children are not lonely at all are lonely, and even children who study well and receive praise from teachers are actually lonely.
So, children have no choice but to keep their eyes and hands on their smartphones.
Even though the mass media doesn't talk to me, I accept it as if it's talking to me about my struggles and get sucked into it.
Also, if a stranger speaks to you, you shouldn't accept it, but children's psychology is different.
What can I do when it's so nice to be shown interest in myself?
They are easy talking companions for children who cannot be easily shaken off, and they never think of them as 'criminals'.
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There is an infallible formula for crime.
There are common stages in the process of a normal student becoming a juvenile delinquent and then becoming a juvenile delinquent.
(Omitted) As a police officer, I try to control my anger and look at the case with investigative intelligence whenever I encounter a crime.
But there are crimes that break down rational thinking and make you clench your fists.
It is a crime that destroys the souls of young people.
This is unforgivable and should never be forgiven.

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Friends who do not attend school are called 'out-of-school youth.'
It is necessary to clearly understand the purpose and intent of identifying and protecting out-of-school youth.
As citizens of the Republic of Korea, youth have the right and obligation to receive basic education.
But these are friends who threw away their rights and responsibilities and ran out of school.
The goal of protecting out-of-school youth is to prevent them from becoming criminals and to help them lead successful lives as healthy members of society.
So, I hope the kids return to school as soon as possible, and if that doesn't work out, I hope they get a high school qualification or get a job.
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How can parents help their children develop reactive skills? Naturally, parents themselves must be equipped with reactive skills.
And you have to throw a bunch of 'hearts' and 'thumbs up' at your children from time to time and without any hesitation, which you have prepared in your pocket in advance.
The important thing here is to never become weak, even if your children's reactions are lukewarm.
You have to be persistent and show your parents' reaction.
This is because children gradually accept their parents' 'nonverbal communication' without showing it.

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