Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus (1 Millionth Copy Commemorative Recover Edition)
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Book Introduction
It's back with a special recover edition to celebrate 1 million copies sold in Korea.
A bestseller on the psychology of men and women that fosters a true understanding of one another.
The international bestseller, "Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus," known as the "Bible of Relationships" and the "Textbook of Love," has returned with a special recover edition to celebrate selling one million copies.
Dr. John Gray, a relationship counselor with 40 years of experience, has identified the causes of conflict between men and women through counseling with over 25,000 couples.
This is because men and women do not recognize the essential differences between each other.
John Gray resolves the age-old debate between the sexes with a fairytale-like tale: men are from Mars and women are from Venus.
We come from planets with completely different languages and ways of thinking, but after living and adapting to Earth for so long, we have forgotten that we are different from each other.
Then they believe that the other person thinks as they think and wants what they want.
This is where the conflict begins.
This is because they do not recognize that men and women are fundamentally different.
This book clearly demonstrates that if we properly recognize that men and women are different, we can understand each other and accept each other without having to fit them into our own framework of thought or behavior.
This book completely changed the way men and women viewed each other, and presented readers with a new set of values for love.
Selected as one of the 10 most influential books of the past 25 years by the major American daily newspaper [USA Today], this book has sold over 50 million copies in 150 countries around the world, and is loved by countless couples and remains a top bestseller in this field.
A bestseller on the psychology of men and women that fosters a true understanding of one another.
The international bestseller, "Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus," known as the "Bible of Relationships" and the "Textbook of Love," has returned with a special recover edition to celebrate selling one million copies.
Dr. John Gray, a relationship counselor with 40 years of experience, has identified the causes of conflict between men and women through counseling with over 25,000 couples.
This is because men and women do not recognize the essential differences between each other.
John Gray resolves the age-old debate between the sexes with a fairytale-like tale: men are from Mars and women are from Venus.
We come from planets with completely different languages and ways of thinking, but after living and adapting to Earth for so long, we have forgotten that we are different from each other.
Then they believe that the other person thinks as they think and wants what they want.
This is where the conflict begins.
This is because they do not recognize that men and women are fundamentally different.
This book clearly demonstrates that if we properly recognize that men and women are different, we can understand each other and accept each other without having to fit them into our own framework of thought or behavior.
This book completely changed the way men and women viewed each other, and presented readers with a new set of values for love.
Selected as one of the 10 most influential books of the past 25 years by the major American daily newspaper [USA Today], this book has sold over 50 million copies in 150 countries around the world, and is loved by countless couples and remains a top bestseller in this field.
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index
ㆍOpening text
1.
Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus
2.
Mr. Repairman and the Home Improvement Committee
3.
The man goes into his cave and the woman talks.
4.
Stimulating the opposite sex
5.
different languages
6.
Men are like rubber bands
7.
Women are like waves
8.
Discovering Different Emotional Needs
9.
How to avoid arguments
10.
Earning points from the opposite sex
11.
How to convey complex emotions
12.
How to ask for and accept help
13.
Keeping the Magic of Love
ㆍThank you
1.
Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus
2.
Mr. Repairman and the Home Improvement Committee
3.
The man goes into his cave and the woman talks.
4.
Stimulating the opposite sex
5.
different languages
6.
Men are like rubber bands
7.
Women are like waves
8.
Discovering Different Emotional Needs
9.
How to avoid arguments
10.
Earning points from the opposite sex
11.
How to convey complex emotions
12.
How to ask for and accept help
13.
Keeping the Magic of Love
ㆍThank you
Detailed image
Into the book
By understanding each other's differences that are not apparent on the surface, we can successfully give and receive the love that lies within our hearts.
By recognizing and accepting each other's differences, we can find constructive solutions and achieve what we each want.
And most importantly, we learn how to give the most desirable love and care to those we love.
Love is like magic, and it can last forever.
If only we could remember our differences.
--- p.27
Men and women consider and process information very differently.
By speaking their thoughts out loud, women reveal their train of thought to someone who is listening with interest.
So, they often only find out what they want to say as they speak.
The process of letting her consciousness flow freely and speaking her thoughts without any distortion brings out her intuition.
This process is perfectly normal and sometimes even necessary.
But for men, it's different.
Before speaking or reacting, they first quietly think about what they have heard or experienced and mull it over.
It's about quietly mentally calculating the most appropriate and helpful response.
They first clearly define the shape and then they tell the story.
This process can take a few minutes, sometimes hours, and sometimes no response at all if you have no idea what to say.
--- p.109
When men are upset or stressed, they tend to become quiet and withdraw into their "cave" to solve problems.
At this time, not even the closest friends are allowed into the cave.
This is the Martian way.
So women don't have to be afraid that they've done something terribly wrong when he behaves this way.
If you just leave them alone, they will eventually come out of the cave on their own and gradually realize that everything will be okay.
--- p.111
Women are like waves.
When a woman feels loved, her self-esteem rises and falls like waves.
Even when she's feeling really good and reaching her peak, if her mood suddenly changes, her waves crash down without mercy.
However, this decline is very temporary.
The moment she feels she has reached rock bottom, her mood suddenly changes and she begins to feel good about herself again.
Her waves begin to rise upwards on their own.
--- p.174
We rarely feel that men and women have different emotional needs.
Therefore, we do not instinctively know how to support our opposite sex partners well.
In relationships, men usually give women what they want in return, and women are no different.
We mistakenly assume that the other person has the same needs and desires as we do.
As a result, both people become dissatisfied and resentful of each other.
--- p.203
Whenever you find yourself disappointed by the opposite sex, remember that men are from Mars and women are from Venus.
Putting everything else aside in this book, remember that men and women are bound to be different.
That alone will help you love him or her.
By gradually reducing blame and criticism and persistently asking for what you want without giving up, you will be able to create the loving relationship you so desperately want and deserve.
By recognizing and accepting each other's differences, we can find constructive solutions and achieve what we each want.
And most importantly, we learn how to give the most desirable love and care to those we love.
Love is like magic, and it can last forever.
If only we could remember our differences.
--- p.27
Men and women consider and process information very differently.
By speaking their thoughts out loud, women reveal their train of thought to someone who is listening with interest.
So, they often only find out what they want to say as they speak.
The process of letting her consciousness flow freely and speaking her thoughts without any distortion brings out her intuition.
This process is perfectly normal and sometimes even necessary.
But for men, it's different.
Before speaking or reacting, they first quietly think about what they have heard or experienced and mull it over.
It's about quietly mentally calculating the most appropriate and helpful response.
They first clearly define the shape and then they tell the story.
This process can take a few minutes, sometimes hours, and sometimes no response at all if you have no idea what to say.
--- p.109
When men are upset or stressed, they tend to become quiet and withdraw into their "cave" to solve problems.
At this time, not even the closest friends are allowed into the cave.
This is the Martian way.
So women don't have to be afraid that they've done something terribly wrong when he behaves this way.
If you just leave them alone, they will eventually come out of the cave on their own and gradually realize that everything will be okay.
--- p.111
Women are like waves.
When a woman feels loved, her self-esteem rises and falls like waves.
Even when she's feeling really good and reaching her peak, if her mood suddenly changes, her waves crash down without mercy.
However, this decline is very temporary.
The moment she feels she has reached rock bottom, her mood suddenly changes and she begins to feel good about herself again.
Her waves begin to rise upwards on their own.
--- p.174
We rarely feel that men and women have different emotional needs.
Therefore, we do not instinctively know how to support our opposite sex partners well.
In relationships, men usually give women what they want in return, and women are no different.
We mistakenly assume that the other person has the same needs and desires as we do.
As a result, both people become dissatisfied and resentful of each other.
--- p.203
Whenever you find yourself disappointed by the opposite sex, remember that men are from Mars and women are from Venus.
Putting everything else aside in this book, remember that men and women are bound to be different.
That alone will help you love him or her.
By gradually reducing blame and criticism and persistently asking for what you want without giving up, you will be able to create the loving relationship you so desperately want and deserve.
--- p.421
Publisher's Review
“A remarkable book that changed the paradigm of male-female relationships!” - The New York Times
“The most influential book of the past 25 years!” - USA Today
A super bestseller translated into over 50 languages and published in 150 countries.
The best book that has maintained the top spot in the field of male/female psychology/relationships for the past 30 years.
Men are from Mars, women are from Venus
How to love different beings
John Gray says that men and women are different in every area of their lives: how they think, feel, react, and act.
This book explains the differences between men and women through various examples, and details the reasons and processes through which loving men and women misunderstand and criticize each other.
The 'man cave' theory, which anyone who has ever struggled with relationship issues has heard of at least once, is the most famous part of this book.
When a problem arises or a man is stressed, he retreats to his own 'cave' and spends time alone, focusing on the problem.
On the other hand, women tend to have deep conversations with others about issues, release their emotions, and find solutions.
Also, men value recognition and trust, while women consider interest and understanding to be love.
If you don't know the difference in these behaviors, it's easy to get confused or upset when your partner acts differently than usual.
This book advises on recognizing that your loved one is different from you, and on how to accept the differences and resolve conflicts instead of trying to change them or pointing out their behavior.
The author explains the characteristics of men and women through various metaphors, such as men needing distance from their lovers at times like a stretched rubber band, and women experiencing periodic emotional changes like waves.
Furthermore, this book points out that men and women have different instincts and desires, and suggests effective ways to build trust with the opposite sex and strengthen relationships.
If you understand the differences between men and women through this book, you will no longer need to fight with your lover.
When you understand why your loved one behaves this way or says that, you will be able to better understand and tolerate them.
The art of love and respect for one another through conversation
A practical relationship manual from a top expert
We have a mistaken belief that if someone loves us, they will act in the same way we would act when we love someone else.
As long as we have this kind of thinking, we are bound to misunderstand others and eventually become disappointed.
What we need is time to recognize each other's differences and talk about them with affection.
This book emphasizes the importance of conversation, which is essential for restoring relationships.
Men talk out of necessity, while women may use literary and exaggerated expressions to convey their thoughts.
John Gray says that men and women come from different planets and therefore must speak different languages, and he provides examples of expressions that men and women often misunderstand, and helps them understand each other by interpreting them into the other's language.
After explaining that men and women speak different languages, we also offer advice on how to reduce misunderstandings and arguments and communicate effectively.
The author shares his own honest experiences and presents a framework called "Love Letter" to help you organize your feelings and write a letter that accurately conveys your opinion to the other person.
This book is a must-read for couples who have just started dating, and is a love prescription recommended for long-term couples who are concerned about their relationship.
Because it is a book that not only teaches you how to improve your relationship with your lover, but also makes you reflect on your values of love and respect.
True love is not about two people becoming completely the same, but about understanding and accepting each other as they are.
By reading this book, we can discover the beauty of looking directly at our loved ones, understanding them, and nurturing healthy, deep relationships with the same care as tending a garden.
Readers' praise for this book
A book that will upgrade your dating skills.
“You can’t learn about love from books, but you can learn about people.”
“Things I just ignored before now make sense.”
"A book you need when you're dating, but even more so when you're married."
“I read it 20 years ago and I’m still reading it.”
“I feel like my understanding of myself and others has broadened.”
“A book that makes you think, ‘I wish I had read it sooner.’”
“I gave it as a gift to a newlywed couple.”
"We're different, but we've gained the courage to overcome them."
“The most influential book of the past 25 years!” - USA Today
A super bestseller translated into over 50 languages and published in 150 countries.
The best book that has maintained the top spot in the field of male/female psychology/relationships for the past 30 years.
Men are from Mars, women are from Venus
How to love different beings
John Gray says that men and women are different in every area of their lives: how they think, feel, react, and act.
This book explains the differences between men and women through various examples, and details the reasons and processes through which loving men and women misunderstand and criticize each other.
The 'man cave' theory, which anyone who has ever struggled with relationship issues has heard of at least once, is the most famous part of this book.
When a problem arises or a man is stressed, he retreats to his own 'cave' and spends time alone, focusing on the problem.
On the other hand, women tend to have deep conversations with others about issues, release their emotions, and find solutions.
Also, men value recognition and trust, while women consider interest and understanding to be love.
If you don't know the difference in these behaviors, it's easy to get confused or upset when your partner acts differently than usual.
This book advises on recognizing that your loved one is different from you, and on how to accept the differences and resolve conflicts instead of trying to change them or pointing out their behavior.
The author explains the characteristics of men and women through various metaphors, such as men needing distance from their lovers at times like a stretched rubber band, and women experiencing periodic emotional changes like waves.
Furthermore, this book points out that men and women have different instincts and desires, and suggests effective ways to build trust with the opposite sex and strengthen relationships.
If you understand the differences between men and women through this book, you will no longer need to fight with your lover.
When you understand why your loved one behaves this way or says that, you will be able to better understand and tolerate them.
The art of love and respect for one another through conversation
A practical relationship manual from a top expert
We have a mistaken belief that if someone loves us, they will act in the same way we would act when we love someone else.
As long as we have this kind of thinking, we are bound to misunderstand others and eventually become disappointed.
What we need is time to recognize each other's differences and talk about them with affection.
This book emphasizes the importance of conversation, which is essential for restoring relationships.
Men talk out of necessity, while women may use literary and exaggerated expressions to convey their thoughts.
John Gray says that men and women come from different planets and therefore must speak different languages, and he provides examples of expressions that men and women often misunderstand, and helps them understand each other by interpreting them into the other's language.
After explaining that men and women speak different languages, we also offer advice on how to reduce misunderstandings and arguments and communicate effectively.
The author shares his own honest experiences and presents a framework called "Love Letter" to help you organize your feelings and write a letter that accurately conveys your opinion to the other person.
This book is a must-read for couples who have just started dating, and is a love prescription recommended for long-term couples who are concerned about their relationship.
Because it is a book that not only teaches you how to improve your relationship with your lover, but also makes you reflect on your values of love and respect.
True love is not about two people becoming completely the same, but about understanding and accepting each other as they are.
By reading this book, we can discover the beauty of looking directly at our loved ones, understanding them, and nurturing healthy, deep relationships with the same care as tending a garden.
Readers' praise for this book
A book that will upgrade your dating skills.
“You can’t learn about love from books, but you can learn about people.”
“Things I just ignored before now make sense.”
"A book you need when you're dating, but even more so when you're married."
“I read it 20 years ago and I’m still reading it.”
“I feel like my understanding of myself and others has broadened.”
“A book that makes you think, ‘I wish I had read it sooner.’”
“I gave it as a gift to a newlywed couple.”
"We're different, but we've gained the courage to overcome them."
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Publication date: March 26, 2021
- Page count, weight, size: 424 pages | 474g | 148*210*20mm
- ISBN13: 9788990514820
- ISBN10: 8990514827
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