Men who have abandoned desperation
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*** Amazon's No. 1 bestseller in the romance category
*** A must-read for those looking to become successful and attractive men. *** “If you’re going to ask about love, read “Men Who Abandoned Desperation” first before asking.” A desperate man acts to get recognition and praise from others. Constantly obsessed with how others perceive them. Observant, conflict-avoidant, boring, and lacking in individuality. A desperate man acts on his own values and desires. They value their own values and thoughts more than the thoughts of others. Be comfortable with yourself, confident, and have a clear identity. The fact that it doesn't need attention and recognition actually attracts it. Men who are comfortable with the possibility that the other person might not like them are more likable. A man who respects other people's opinions finds it easier to get others to agree with him. The more desperate you are for other people's attention, the more you attract them. "Men Who Abandoned Desperation" tells the secret to fundamentally changing your life. A charming life begins when you let go of desperation. When I let go of my desperation and let the world feel comfortable with me, my potential is unleashed. When I value my needs and feelings, others value me too. True charm comes from within. It's not flashy looks or success that attracts people, but a non-desperate attitude based on confidence and self-esteem. “Men Who Abandoned Desperation” says this: “Spend time only with those who make time for you. Only showing interest to people who are interested in dating you. Focus on making yourself happy rather than making others happy. Instead of trying to meet other people's needs, find someone who will meet yours. Instead of trying to be what women want you to be, change yourself into what you want to be. Ironically, this is what women really want in a man.” |
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index
introduction
Part 1.
Facing reality
Chapter 1: Attraction is not desperate
Chapter 2: The Courage to Be Vulnerable
Chapter 3: Desperation is finally revealed
Part 2.
Bold strategy
Chapter 4: Polarize Boldly
Chapter 5: How Rejection Becomes Success
Chapter 6 Three Basic Elements
Part 3.
Honest life
Chapter 7: Find the demographic characteristics that suit you.
Chapter 8: Cultivating Your Appearance and Lifestyle
Part 4.
honest behavior
Chapter 9 What's Your Story?
Chapter 10: How to Overcome Anxiety
Part 5 Honest Conversation
Chapter 11 What Are Your Intentions?
Chapter 12: How to Plot Well
Chapter 13: Secrets to Successful Dating
Chapter 14: How to Get Closer, Skinship
Epilogue
supplement
Part 1.
Facing reality
Chapter 1: Attraction is not desperate
Chapter 2: The Courage to Be Vulnerable
Chapter 3: Desperation is finally revealed
Part 2.
Bold strategy
Chapter 4: Polarize Boldly
Chapter 5: How Rejection Becomes Success
Chapter 6 Three Basic Elements
Part 3.
Honest life
Chapter 7: Find the demographic characteristics that suit you.
Chapter 8: Cultivating Your Appearance and Lifestyle
Part 4.
honest behavior
Chapter 9 What's Your Story?
Chapter 10: How to Overcome Anxiety
Part 5 Honest Conversation
Chapter 11 What Are Your Intentions?
Chapter 12: How to Plot Well
Chapter 13: Secrets to Successful Dating
Chapter 14: How to Get Closer, Skinship
Epilogue
supplement
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Attractiveness is inversely proportional to desperation.
Generally, when a man becomes desperate, he becomes less attractive to women.
Conversely, if you are not desperate, your attractiveness to women increases.
--- p.20, from “Charm is not desperate”
Desperation refers to the tendency to place more importance on the thoughts of others than on one's own.
A desperate man acts to get recognition and praise from others.
On the other hand, non-urgency means prioritizing one's own thoughts over those of others.
A desperate man acts to achieve his own values and desires.
--- p.20, from “Charm is not desperate”
A desperate man is constantly obsessed with how other people view him.
By doing kindnesses that you don't want,
They think that if they do this, people will like them and love them.
To gain the approval and love of others, they buy expensive watches and season tickets to sports teams, pay lip service to attention, or act like bad boys.
--- p.21, from “Charm is not desperate”
Desperation is a feeling.
Women feel this intuitively and instinctively.
Desperation is the discomfort a woman feels when a man calls her too often.
It's the discomfort felt from a man who laughs excessively at a woman's words.
Or maybe it's the frustration you feel from a man who doesn't give his woman a chance to make decisions and tries to make all the decisions on her own.
--- p.24, from “Charm is not desperate”
If I had to sum up the only true advice I have about relationships in one word, it would be 'self-improvement.'
Take care of yourself, overcome your insecurities, and resolve your shame.
And take care of yourself and your loved ones.
Love yourself.
Otherwise, no one will love you.
--- p.42, from “Charm is not desperate”
Inexperienced men often use the strategy of 'being liked by everyone and hated by no one.'
But this is a terrible strategy for showing off your charm.
Because not being hated by anyone means not being loved by anyone.
Generally, when a man becomes desperate, he becomes less attractive to women.
Conversely, if you are not desperate, your attractiveness to women increases.
--- p.20, from “Charm is not desperate”
Desperation refers to the tendency to place more importance on the thoughts of others than on one's own.
A desperate man acts to get recognition and praise from others.
On the other hand, non-urgency means prioritizing one's own thoughts over those of others.
A desperate man acts to achieve his own values and desires.
--- p.20, from “Charm is not desperate”
A desperate man is constantly obsessed with how other people view him.
By doing kindnesses that you don't want,
They think that if they do this, people will like them and love them.
To gain the approval and love of others, they buy expensive watches and season tickets to sports teams, pay lip service to attention, or act like bad boys.
--- p.21, from “Charm is not desperate”
Desperation is a feeling.
Women feel this intuitively and instinctively.
Desperation is the discomfort a woman feels when a man calls her too often.
It's the discomfort felt from a man who laughs excessively at a woman's words.
Or maybe it's the frustration you feel from a man who doesn't give his woman a chance to make decisions and tries to make all the decisions on her own.
--- p.24, from “Charm is not desperate”
If I had to sum up the only true advice I have about relationships in one word, it would be 'self-improvement.'
Take care of yourself, overcome your insecurities, and resolve your shame.
And take care of yourself and your loved ones.
Love yourself.
Otherwise, no one will love you.
--- p.42, from “Charm is not desperate”
Inexperienced men often use the strategy of 'being liked by everyone and hated by no one.'
But this is a terrible strategy for showing off your charm.
Because not being hated by anyone means not being loved by anyone.
--- p.120, from “Polarize Boldly”
Publisher's Review
*** Amazon's No. 1 bestseller in the romance category
*** A must-read for those looking to become successful and attractive men.
*** “If you’re going to ask about love, read “Men Who Abandoned Desperation” first before asking.”
A man's true charm begins with letting go of desperation.
Are you losing your true self while striving for the attention and recognition of others? This book offers ways to break free from the "desperation" trap that men often fall into, and live a better life.
Desperation means placing the thoughts or evaluations of others above your own needs or feelings.
Desperate people do unnecessary things to prove themselves.
This rather diminishes its appeal.
A non-desperate man acts with respect for his own worth, without clinging to the approval of others.
That confidence attracts others.
It is manly strength to put yourself out there in situations where you might be rejected, not be afraid of failure, and be honest about your feelings.
Rather than trying to make a good impression on the other person, it is non-urgency to take control of the relationship in the direction you want.
This book offers practical methods to help men rediscover their attractiveness and live lives free from the judgment of others.
The author vividly illustrates how men's lives can change when they adopt a non-desperate attitude, using a variety of real-life examples and case studies.
A man who is not desperate puts his own needs and values first, and this attitude makes him even more attractive.
This book proves that this is the essential charm of men that women are attracted to.
Key Message
1.
Let go of desperation: Instead of seeking approval from others, give yourself true value.
2.
True charm comes from within: it's not flashy looks or success, but a non-desperate attitude based on confidence and self-esteem that draws people in.
3.
Be vulnerable: Being honest about your weaknesses is more attractive than hiding them.
4.
Don't be afraid of rejection: rejection is a tool to help you find someone better.
Don't cling to someone who doesn't fit you, find someone who recognizes your worth.
5.
Be bold: the bolder you are, the more attractive you are.
Boldness is developed when we take action despite feeling fear.
Recommendation
“There is no man who will not find his life a little better after reading this book.
“Men Who Abandoned Desperation” is a must-read for modern men.” - Reader TIM
“Reading ‘Men Who Abandoned Desperation’ helped me understand the issues that had been holding me back from success in my life.
“I realized what kind of person I am.” - Reader ANDREW
*** A must-read for those looking to become successful and attractive men.
*** “If you’re going to ask about love, read “Men Who Abandoned Desperation” first before asking.”
A man's true charm begins with letting go of desperation.
Are you losing your true self while striving for the attention and recognition of others? This book offers ways to break free from the "desperation" trap that men often fall into, and live a better life.
Desperation means placing the thoughts or evaluations of others above your own needs or feelings.
Desperate people do unnecessary things to prove themselves.
This rather diminishes its appeal.
A non-desperate man acts with respect for his own worth, without clinging to the approval of others.
That confidence attracts others.
It is manly strength to put yourself out there in situations where you might be rejected, not be afraid of failure, and be honest about your feelings.
Rather than trying to make a good impression on the other person, it is non-urgency to take control of the relationship in the direction you want.
This book offers practical methods to help men rediscover their attractiveness and live lives free from the judgment of others.
The author vividly illustrates how men's lives can change when they adopt a non-desperate attitude, using a variety of real-life examples and case studies.
A man who is not desperate puts his own needs and values first, and this attitude makes him even more attractive.
This book proves that this is the essential charm of men that women are attracted to.
Key Message
1.
Let go of desperation: Instead of seeking approval from others, give yourself true value.
2.
True charm comes from within: it's not flashy looks or success, but a non-desperate attitude based on confidence and self-esteem that draws people in.
3.
Be vulnerable: Being honest about your weaknesses is more attractive than hiding them.
4.
Don't be afraid of rejection: rejection is a tool to help you find someone better.
Don't cling to someone who doesn't fit you, find someone who recognizes your worth.
5.
Be bold: the bolder you are, the more attractive you are.
Boldness is developed when we take action despite feeling fear.
Recommendation
“There is no man who will not find his life a little better after reading this book.
“Men Who Abandoned Desperation” is a must-read for modern men.” - Reader TIM
“Reading ‘Men Who Abandoned Desperation’ helped me understand the issues that had been holding me back from success in my life.
“I realized what kind of person I am.” - Reader ANDREW
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of issue: December 3, 2024
- Page count, weight, size: 340 pages | 450g | 142*210*22mm
- ISBN13: 9791198035523
- ISBN10: 1198035528
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