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"What is your love? Our lives are a journey to find our own love." A collection of life commentaries by Kim Chang-ok, a leading lecturer in South Korea who has touched the hearts of millions of readers.
Kim Chang-ok, who has received a lot of love and response, such as 1.45 million subscribers on YouTube's "Kim Chang-ok TV," 250 million views on his own channel, and the airing of Season 3 of tvN's "Kim Chang-ok Show," which ranked first in viewership in the same time slot, has collected "small stories that bring about change and transformation" in this book, accumulating about 10,000 lectures over the past 20 years.
Kim Chang-ok says:
“Attempting to change your life is not a flashy performance.
“It’s about creating your own unique bond through small encounters and conversations in everyday life.”
We generously share 'communication skills, relationship skills, and happiness skills' for pure happiness, including how to put yourself back at the center of your life, relationship skills based on courtesy and respect, questions that penetrate the essence of life and various attempts to find joy and happiness in your soul, wisdom for living with sadness, and prescriptions for breaking free from wounds and becoming free.
Kim Chang-ok's trademark language of empathy and humor offers gentle comfort to those weary and burdened by the ever-creeping strains of interpersonal relationships, and warms our hearts, frozen with anxiety and worry in a society of excessive competition and norms.
Also, the life skills he introduces throughout the book, which he has only discovered and learned through experience, will soon become the strength and foundation for getting back on your feet again.
“A person who makes you shed sad, yet cheerful and touching tears, and always ends up thinking, ‘Let’s live on anyway.’” The 80 short stories told by Kim Chang-ok will bring a new spring by rekindling the love and happiness within you.
Kim Chang-ok, who has received a lot of love and response, such as 1.45 million subscribers on YouTube's "Kim Chang-ok TV," 250 million views on his own channel, and the airing of Season 3 of tvN's "Kim Chang-ok Show," which ranked first in viewership in the same time slot, has collected "small stories that bring about change and transformation" in this book, accumulating about 10,000 lectures over the past 20 years.
Kim Chang-ok says:
“Attempting to change your life is not a flashy performance.
“It’s about creating your own unique bond through small encounters and conversations in everyday life.”
We generously share 'communication skills, relationship skills, and happiness skills' for pure happiness, including how to put yourself back at the center of your life, relationship skills based on courtesy and respect, questions that penetrate the essence of life and various attempts to find joy and happiness in your soul, wisdom for living with sadness, and prescriptions for breaking free from wounds and becoming free.
Kim Chang-ok's trademark language of empathy and humor offers gentle comfort to those weary and burdened by the ever-creeping strains of interpersonal relationships, and warms our hearts, frozen with anxiety and worry in a society of excessive competition and norms.
Also, the life skills he introduces throughout the book, which he has only discovered and learned through experience, will soon become the strength and foundation for getting back on your feet again.
“A person who makes you shed sad, yet cheerful and touching tears, and always ends up thinking, ‘Let’s live on anyway.’” The 80 short stories told by Kim Chang-ok will bring a new spring by rekindling the love and happiness within you.
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index
Prologue: Courtesy and Kindness are Love
Chapter 1.
How to live
A person whose happiness is insecure
What to do to change the ending
As much as you need, when you need it
The person I want to meet the most
Well, what if it looks a little easy?
Where do I place the value of my work?
Things you need to listen to know
Practice seeing far ahead
Only in your name
If I'm lying about my life...
The true winner of life
Love that is not a pity
The garden in my heart
Actually, that's nothing
When inferiority complex blinds your eyes
Willingness to give one's life
Don't let your mental muscles atrophy
Sit down and smile
Look with a humble eye
Chapter 2.
How to breathe
Time passes quickly and the ending is good
Like a comfortable vintage chair
For those who are suffering from too many thoughts
Is the seriousness of life resolved by seriousness?
Let's look under our feet sometimes
To those who are experiencing burnout
You have to breathe and live
Law of heat conduction
Contracts are necessary in human relationships too.
You resemble buckwheat flowers
A place where everyone is welcome
To the person who is always hurt and betrayed,
People whose ears are hurt
How to get out of your emotions
If you want your child to have a nice day
How to love someone who has never been loved
To you who gets nervous even if you don't know much or know too much
How to see the big picture of life
Be liberated
Chapter 3.
How to be together
The problem that arises when you only look at the target
When I'm lonely, please stay by my side
Prayer for the child
Oxygen mask, me first
Give me a chance to get my knees wet
The power of respect and consideration
Who should I marry?
To be together for a long time…
For those who find love difficult
Between stimulus and response
Best communication
Love Language Translator
Click on your mother's 'Like' button
Words of Recognition 1
Words of Recognition 2
The Greenhouse of Our Lives
Overtones are important in life too.
Puberty and menopause are also wonderful times.
When there is a conflict of opinion between parents and children
Someone I want to meet again in my next life
Chapter 4.
How to edit
Shifting the gears of the mind
It's okay to live as a 'stone child'
The defeat I received in life
The moment of being sold out
The light that illuminates me
When you want to realign your orbits
There is no perfect city.
Byulnam is special
Don't squeeze my body like you're squeezing toothpaste.
Now, move
How to wake up to life
For those who find it more comfortable to give than to receive
Break free from obsession
Responsibility is also a talent
It's not someone else's life, it's my life.
You must know your limits.
Don't consult someone who needs comfort.
You have to cry to survive
To properly discharge the waste
If you think I'm finished now
My condolences
little resistance
Epilogue_Let's Become Better Together
Chapter 1.
How to live
A person whose happiness is insecure
What to do to change the ending
As much as you need, when you need it
The person I want to meet the most
Well, what if it looks a little easy?
Where do I place the value of my work?
Things you need to listen to know
Practice seeing far ahead
Only in your name
If I'm lying about my life...
The true winner of life
Love that is not a pity
The garden in my heart
Actually, that's nothing
When inferiority complex blinds your eyes
Willingness to give one's life
Don't let your mental muscles atrophy
Sit down and smile
Look with a humble eye
Chapter 2.
How to breathe
Time passes quickly and the ending is good
Like a comfortable vintage chair
For those who are suffering from too many thoughts
Is the seriousness of life resolved by seriousness?
Let's look under our feet sometimes
To those who are experiencing burnout
You have to breathe and live
Law of heat conduction
Contracts are necessary in human relationships too.
You resemble buckwheat flowers
A place where everyone is welcome
To the person who is always hurt and betrayed,
People whose ears are hurt
How to get out of your emotions
If you want your child to have a nice day
How to love someone who has never been loved
To you who gets nervous even if you don't know much or know too much
How to see the big picture of life
Be liberated
Chapter 3.
How to be together
The problem that arises when you only look at the target
When I'm lonely, please stay by my side
Prayer for the child
Oxygen mask, me first
Give me a chance to get my knees wet
The power of respect and consideration
Who should I marry?
To be together for a long time…
For those who find love difficult
Between stimulus and response
Best communication
Love Language Translator
Click on your mother's 'Like' button
Words of Recognition 1
Words of Recognition 2
The Greenhouse of Our Lives
Overtones are important in life too.
Puberty and menopause are also wonderful times.
When there is a conflict of opinion between parents and children
Someone I want to meet again in my next life
Chapter 4.
How to edit
Shifting the gears of the mind
It's okay to live as a 'stone child'
The defeat I received in life
The moment of being sold out
The light that illuminates me
When you want to realign your orbits
There is no perfect city.
Byulnam is special
Don't squeeze my body like you're squeezing toothpaste.
Now, move
How to wake up to life
For those who find it more comfortable to give than to receive
Break free from obsession
Responsibility is also a talent
It's not someone else's life, it's my life.
You must know your limits.
Don't consult someone who needs comfort.
You have to cry to survive
To properly discharge the waste
If you think I'm finished now
My condolences
little resistance
Epilogue_Let's Become Better Together
Detailed image
Into the book
There is no right answer.
The important thing to keep in mind here is to reflect on yourself but not censor yourself.
Don't blame yourself or compare yourself to others.
Ask yourself, ‘What do I really want to do?’ and ‘Where do I want to go?’
When you face your true self, the answer lies within.
--- p.37, from “Where do I place the value of my work?”
'Once I get past this stage, I'll live my life.
Don't think, 'Once I solve this problem, I'll be free.'
It's a constant deception of life.
When should we live? We should live with problems.
We have to live our lives in situations where there are problems that need to be solved.
Otherwise, you will continue to procrastinate.
--- p.52, from “If I am lying about my life…”
There is a saying that a grandmother told me before she passed away, saying that she was telling me the secret of life.
"It's not he who laughs last, it's he who laughs often." So, why not adjust your approach to life a little? Instead of enduring all the frustration, solving all your problems, and only then can you breathe, be happy, and feel okay?
It's now.
I hope you are smiling and happy now.
--- p.55, from “The True Winners of Life”
'A person who is obsessed with inferiority complex is someone who has never truly looked at himself.'
If you are struggling with envy and jealousy toward someone, and are thus hurting yourself, use this as an opportunity to build strength within yourself.
It would be so unfair if I couldn't fully experience my life because of my inferiority complex.
--- p.67, from “When Inferiority Blurs Your Eyes”
Even if you sit down with sadness and stories, laugh over it.
And I think that choosing how to fill this limited and precious life given to me—whether to fill it with emptiness, distrust, anxiety, and pain, or with curiosity, excitement, joy, and happiness—is an interesting challenge given to us in life.
--- p.77, from “Sit down and smile.”
A sad life cannot be solved by being sad.
Pain cannot be solved by pain alone.
Approaching a problem seriously and earnestly does not solve the problem.
The suggestion I would like to make is this.
Even if it's absurd, just laugh it off.
When I watch TV or a funny video, I laugh out loud because it's so absurd.
--- p.94, from “Can the seriousness of life be resolved with seriousness?”
A child who has not received the vaccine and has fallen down and gotten back up again may collapse the moment he or she goes outside the fence of his or her parents.
Allow your child to experience mistakes, failures, hurts, and wounds within the safe confines of your parents.
The role of parents is not to provide perfect quarantine.
It boosts immunity.
--- p.161, from “Give me a chance to get my knees wet”
Love is something that comes naturally when we respect and care for each other.
Love isn't just about being by your child's side all day and giving them expensive gifts.
When we stand in each other's shoes, think twice before speaking, avoid doing things that the other person dislikes, remember that family members are also other people and show consideration, and practice courtesy among family members, we can build strong relationships and naturally feel love.
Let's remember and practice it again.
Let's not try to give love.
First, let's be polite.
--- p.164, from “The Power of Respect and Consideration”
The idea that you can change someone is perhaps a very arrogant idea.
People cannot be taught to change.
Instead of trying to change things by turning over the palm of your hand, we should spread good energy to each other.
It's about slowly coloring it.
The aftertaste of meeting a good person seems to last a long time.
--- p.207, from “People I want to meet again in my next life”
It doesn't make sense to say, "What did my parents do for me? What did the world do for me?" just because you're self-made.
Just because you work hard doesn't mean everything will work out.
We can't know everything about life.
It's really complicated and mysterious.
There is no need to be arrogant because you received a good first round, nor is there any need to be complacent because you worked hard.
All we can do is face life with gratitude and humility every moment.
The important thing to keep in mind here is to reflect on yourself but not censor yourself.
Don't blame yourself or compare yourself to others.
Ask yourself, ‘What do I really want to do?’ and ‘Where do I want to go?’
When you face your true self, the answer lies within.
--- p.37, from “Where do I place the value of my work?”
'Once I get past this stage, I'll live my life.
Don't think, 'Once I solve this problem, I'll be free.'
It's a constant deception of life.
When should we live? We should live with problems.
We have to live our lives in situations where there are problems that need to be solved.
Otherwise, you will continue to procrastinate.
--- p.52, from “If I am lying about my life…”
There is a saying that a grandmother told me before she passed away, saying that she was telling me the secret of life.
"It's not he who laughs last, it's he who laughs often." So, why not adjust your approach to life a little? Instead of enduring all the frustration, solving all your problems, and only then can you breathe, be happy, and feel okay?
It's now.
I hope you are smiling and happy now.
--- p.55, from “The True Winners of Life”
'A person who is obsessed with inferiority complex is someone who has never truly looked at himself.'
If you are struggling with envy and jealousy toward someone, and are thus hurting yourself, use this as an opportunity to build strength within yourself.
It would be so unfair if I couldn't fully experience my life because of my inferiority complex.
--- p.67, from “When Inferiority Blurs Your Eyes”
Even if you sit down with sadness and stories, laugh over it.
And I think that choosing how to fill this limited and precious life given to me—whether to fill it with emptiness, distrust, anxiety, and pain, or with curiosity, excitement, joy, and happiness—is an interesting challenge given to us in life.
--- p.77, from “Sit down and smile.”
A sad life cannot be solved by being sad.
Pain cannot be solved by pain alone.
Approaching a problem seriously and earnestly does not solve the problem.
The suggestion I would like to make is this.
Even if it's absurd, just laugh it off.
When I watch TV or a funny video, I laugh out loud because it's so absurd.
--- p.94, from “Can the seriousness of life be resolved with seriousness?”
A child who has not received the vaccine and has fallen down and gotten back up again may collapse the moment he or she goes outside the fence of his or her parents.
Allow your child to experience mistakes, failures, hurts, and wounds within the safe confines of your parents.
The role of parents is not to provide perfect quarantine.
It boosts immunity.
--- p.161, from “Give me a chance to get my knees wet”
Love is something that comes naturally when we respect and care for each other.
Love isn't just about being by your child's side all day and giving them expensive gifts.
When we stand in each other's shoes, think twice before speaking, avoid doing things that the other person dislikes, remember that family members are also other people and show consideration, and practice courtesy among family members, we can build strong relationships and naturally feel love.
Let's remember and practice it again.
Let's not try to give love.
First, let's be polite.
--- p.164, from “The Power of Respect and Consideration”
The idea that you can change someone is perhaps a very arrogant idea.
People cannot be taught to change.
Instead of trying to change things by turning over the palm of your hand, we should spread good energy to each other.
It's about slowly coloring it.
The aftertaste of meeting a good person seems to last a long time.
--- p.207, from “People I want to meet again in my next life”
It doesn't make sense to say, "What did my parents do for me? What did the world do for me?" just because you're self-made.
Just because you work hard doesn't mean everything will work out.
We can't know everything about life.
It's really complicated and mysterious.
There is no need to be arrogant because you received a good first round, nor is there any need to be complacent because you worked hard.
All we can do is face life with gratitude and humility every moment.
--- p.219, from “The Hands I Received in Life”
Publisher's Review
“A lecture that saved my soul!”
Kim Chang-ok's life commentary that will rekindle the seeds of love and happiness within you.
"What is your love? Our lives are a journey to find our own love." In this book, Kim Chang-ok, a leading communication expert, shares 80 stories that will help us rekindle the seeds of love and happiness by caring for ourselves.
With 1.45 million subscribers on YouTube's "Kim Chang-ok TV," over 250 million views on his own channel, and the number one viewership rating in the same time slot on tvN's "Kim Chang-ok Show" Season 3, he is loved by many people. He summarizes in one word the lectures he has given over the past 20 years, which numbered around 10,000.
“Our life is a journey to find our own love.”
This book contains simple, clear life wisdom and techniques for answering the inevitable questions you'll encounter along the way: what truly makes you happy, where you want to go in life, and how to improve recurring problems.
He says.
“Attempting to change your life is not a flashy performance.
“It is through small encounters and conversations in everyday life that we create our own unique bonds.” “Kim Chang-ok’s small stories that will bring change and transformation” will gently and warmly knock on the door of our hearts and present small miracles in my life.
For polite relationships, healthy communication, and pure happiness
Relationship skills, communication skills, and happiness skills
“What kind of person should I marry?” “What should I do when I have a conflict with my teenage child?” “I feel anxious because I feel like I’m falling behind my peers.” “Why do unfortunate things keep happening to me?” “Can I ever trust anyone again?” We face various problems in our lives: romantic relationships, marital relationships, parent-child relationships, friendships, work relationships, and relationships with ourselves.
In this book, Kim Chang-ok generously shares "communication skills, relationship skills, and happiness skills" with those seeking a turning point in their lives, helping them find better relationships, communication, and pure happiness.
Chapter 1.
In 'How to Live', we explore ways to put 'me' back at the center of life.
It makes me reflect on my current self, such as whether my body truly desires rest, but I am exhausting myself to fill the immediate emptiness, or whether I am living in avoidance of conversations with loved ones that I desperately need.
Chapter 2.
'How to Breathe' is a story of 'rest' for modern people who live hard while postponing happiness and eventually reach burnout.
If you've filled your life to the brim, faithfully fulfilling your given roles, and now find yourself left with nothing but tension, seriousness, and intensity, I recommend "taking a quick breath, laughing at the right moments, and refreshing your mind," regaining your composure and laughter, and finding true joy and happiness within your soul.
Chapter 3.
'How to Be Together' deals with relationships.
“If you love someone, being polite is the basic thing.
“Kindness creates love, and affection sustains relationships.” He asks us to reflect on whether we habitually fail to be considerate or respectful of others in the name of love and family, and emphasizes the importance of relationships based on courtesy, respect, and acceptance.
Chapter 4.
'How to Fix' covers the important attitudes and stances you need to have when attempting a life change.
It is filled with stories that will open the door to enlightenment and expansion of awareness, such as an attitude of accepting mistakes and failures, a humble and grateful attitude in the face of the complex and mysterious life, and the resilience of a community that stands alone yet works together.
Warm empathy and humorous language, honest and deep insights into people and life.
Stories that open new perspectives on life
“Living life doesn’t just mean surviving.
“I really like this time of year after year, when I can let go of unnecessary energy, look at my emotions from a distance, and clarify the priorities of what is truly important in life and what is not.” _From the text
Kim Chang-ok, who has passed the first half of his life and now confesses that he wants to become a little more 'easy-going' and 'be a warm and comfortable person.'
His heart-pounding life experiment of finding 'my own unique happiness, something that saves me', not someone else's, continues today.
Kim Chang-ok, like a good senior who walks ahead of us in life, delivers warm comfort like sunshine to us with his trademark language of empathy and humor, and warms our hearts, which have become hardened by the anxiety and worries of living in a society of excessive competition and norms.
Also, the life skills he introduces throughout the book, which he has only discovered and learned through experience, will soon become the strength and foundation for getting back on your feet again.
“A person who makes you shed sad, yet cheerful and touching tears, and always ends up thinking, ‘Let’s live on anyway.’” The 80 short stories told by Kim Chang-ok will bring a new spring by rekindling the love and happiness within you.
Kim Chang-ok's life commentary that will rekindle the seeds of love and happiness within you.
"What is your love? Our lives are a journey to find our own love." In this book, Kim Chang-ok, a leading communication expert, shares 80 stories that will help us rekindle the seeds of love and happiness by caring for ourselves.
With 1.45 million subscribers on YouTube's "Kim Chang-ok TV," over 250 million views on his own channel, and the number one viewership rating in the same time slot on tvN's "Kim Chang-ok Show" Season 3, he is loved by many people. He summarizes in one word the lectures he has given over the past 20 years, which numbered around 10,000.
“Our life is a journey to find our own love.”
This book contains simple, clear life wisdom and techniques for answering the inevitable questions you'll encounter along the way: what truly makes you happy, where you want to go in life, and how to improve recurring problems.
He says.
“Attempting to change your life is not a flashy performance.
“It is through small encounters and conversations in everyday life that we create our own unique bonds.” “Kim Chang-ok’s small stories that will bring change and transformation” will gently and warmly knock on the door of our hearts and present small miracles in my life.
For polite relationships, healthy communication, and pure happiness
Relationship skills, communication skills, and happiness skills
“What kind of person should I marry?” “What should I do when I have a conflict with my teenage child?” “I feel anxious because I feel like I’m falling behind my peers.” “Why do unfortunate things keep happening to me?” “Can I ever trust anyone again?” We face various problems in our lives: romantic relationships, marital relationships, parent-child relationships, friendships, work relationships, and relationships with ourselves.
In this book, Kim Chang-ok generously shares "communication skills, relationship skills, and happiness skills" with those seeking a turning point in their lives, helping them find better relationships, communication, and pure happiness.
Chapter 1.
In 'How to Live', we explore ways to put 'me' back at the center of life.
It makes me reflect on my current self, such as whether my body truly desires rest, but I am exhausting myself to fill the immediate emptiness, or whether I am living in avoidance of conversations with loved ones that I desperately need.
Chapter 2.
'How to Breathe' is a story of 'rest' for modern people who live hard while postponing happiness and eventually reach burnout.
If you've filled your life to the brim, faithfully fulfilling your given roles, and now find yourself left with nothing but tension, seriousness, and intensity, I recommend "taking a quick breath, laughing at the right moments, and refreshing your mind," regaining your composure and laughter, and finding true joy and happiness within your soul.
Chapter 3.
'How to Be Together' deals with relationships.
“If you love someone, being polite is the basic thing.
“Kindness creates love, and affection sustains relationships.” He asks us to reflect on whether we habitually fail to be considerate or respectful of others in the name of love and family, and emphasizes the importance of relationships based on courtesy, respect, and acceptance.
Chapter 4.
'How to Fix' covers the important attitudes and stances you need to have when attempting a life change.
It is filled with stories that will open the door to enlightenment and expansion of awareness, such as an attitude of accepting mistakes and failures, a humble and grateful attitude in the face of the complex and mysterious life, and the resilience of a community that stands alone yet works together.
Warm empathy and humorous language, honest and deep insights into people and life.
Stories that open new perspectives on life
“Living life doesn’t just mean surviving.
“I really like this time of year after year, when I can let go of unnecessary energy, look at my emotions from a distance, and clarify the priorities of what is truly important in life and what is not.” _From the text
Kim Chang-ok, who has passed the first half of his life and now confesses that he wants to become a little more 'easy-going' and 'be a warm and comfortable person.'
His heart-pounding life experiment of finding 'my own unique happiness, something that saves me', not someone else's, continues today.
Kim Chang-ok, like a good senior who walks ahead of us in life, delivers warm comfort like sunshine to us with his trademark language of empathy and humor, and warms our hearts, which have become hardened by the anxiety and worries of living in a society of excessive competition and norms.
Also, the life skills he introduces throughout the book, which he has only discovered and learned through experience, will soon become the strength and foundation for getting back on your feet again.
“A person who makes you shed sad, yet cheerful and touching tears, and always ends up thinking, ‘Let’s live on anyway.’” The 80 short stories told by Kim Chang-ok will bring a new spring by rekindling the love and happiness within you.
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of issue: September 2, 2024
- Page count, weight, size: 288 pages | 444g | 130*210*19mm
- ISBN13: 9791193238363
- ISBN10: 1193238366
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