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Book Introduction
Escape from the rude things!
A special psychological prescription to create a confident and strong 'me'!

These days, with online communication becoming the norm, the number of people complaining about difficulties in interpersonal relationships is increasing.
There are many people who secretly live their lives tormenting themselves with unnecessary anxiety.


For anyone who has ever felt bitter after struggling to please others or unconsciously trying to please them, for anyone who has acted as if they have a compulsion to please close family, friends, coworkers, or even strangers, and for anyone who has ever thought, “Why do I have to do this?” this book will be a must-read for those who want to transition to a life of confidence.

This book is a psychological guide for those who have suppressed themselves in order to become a 'good person'.
A book that tells many people who have been hurt in relationships, struggled to express their emotions, and feared rejection, “It’s okay,” and “You don’t have to live like that anymore.”

The author, who has been teaching speech for a long time and then studied counseling psychology in earnest, notes that most conflicts between people begin with unexpressed emotions and poorly established boundaries between people.
So, this book carefully and persuasively addresses the core themes of relationships, such as 'rudeness,' 'expectations,' 'rejection,' and 'responsibility for one's own emotions.'


Anyone currently struggling with any kind of relationship will find refreshing gains from this book, which warmly contains instructions on how to take responsibility for one's own emotions, not be swayed by the emotions of others, and live as a person who protects oneself without being rude.
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Prologue 004

Part 1.
Am I awkward at interpersonal relationships?

Why Are Human Relationships Difficult? 012
Is it my fault for being angry and my fault for being angry? 023
I thought if I waited patiently, you would understand my feelings. 033
I don't even expect give and take 043
You are? I'm not! 054

Part 2.
Common traits of rude people

Why are you judging my heart on your own? 066
People who become so accustomed to familiarity that they forget what is precious 076
You don't need to know 087
"It's all for your benefit," it's supposed to be advice, but it's actually criticism.
How could you do this to me? 109

Part 3.
How to politely decline and express yourself confidently

Sometimes I express my feelings politely through text or messenger.
Rejection is difficult once, but after two or three times, it becomes familiar. 131
142 Ways to Say No That Will Make Breathing Easier If You Realize Them Now
1% of people are "attracted," 99% are "dragged"? 152
If you're patient three times, you'll be a fool. 162

Part 4.
How to manage your mind so that you don't get swayed by rude people

Composure is the best weapon 176
Shift the scales of the relationship toward me 189
Turning Mental Calluses into Mental Muscles 197
Pray for freedom from the gaze of others 207
If you hate me for no reason, give me the courage to give you a reason to hate me. 217

Part 5.
The center of the universe is right now, in this moment, 'me'

No one loves me more than I love myself 228
Comparison is the Devil's Whisper 238
There is no perfect human being.
Let's admit our shortcomings 249
The Illusion That I'm the Only One Unhappy 259
Become a Happy Egoist 269

Part 6.
A Life Prescription for Strengthening Relationships

280 Relationship Tips for Dealing with Rude People
Atmosphere is important in human relationships 296
The more urgent it is, the more slowly you can adjust your mental pace. 293
299 People Who Praise Rather Than Criticize
Gratitude wins in the end 305

Epilogue 312

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Publisher's Review
A choice to live centered on 'me'
From now on, I will be an “attractive person” rather than an “okay person”!

Rudeness is not just a slip of the tongue, it's a matter of attitude.
No matter how refined your words are, if they convey an intention to ignore or dominate the other person, they will ultimately come across as rude.
The essence of language is not the ‘form’, but the ‘attitude’ contained within it.


The difference between respectful and dismissive speech comes not from the tone of voice but from the person's attitude. Therefore, we need to focus more on 'checking my attitude' rather than 'polishing my words.'
Everyone wants to present themselves as an “attractive person,” but in reality, we struggle to be just an “okay person.” In order to build the foundation for healthy interpersonal relationships, we must focus on our “attitude.”


People who are attracted to others have their own standards.
Rather than being led around by others, you control the pace and direction of your relationship.
Don't try to be good at everything.
Know your own abilities and limitations accurately, and know how to express them honestly without being pushy.
Stay centered in relationships without wavering.


How can I become such a person? From now on, this book guides you step-by-step, from the most trivial to the most extraordinary, through the essential attitudes you need to live a self-centered life. It also provides the secrets to achieving them.
For readers who are tired of someone's words and whose hearts are hurt by relationships, this book will be a powerful encouragement to "start a new relationship."
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of issue: September 20, 2025
- Page count, weight, size: 316 pages | 404g | 140*205*20mm
- ISBN13: 9788976047533
- ISBN10: 8976047532

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