In countless conversations
About the 'sense of speech' that makes me stand out

The art of communication that wins everyone over and captivates their hearts

A book that covers everything from the basics of language to the sense of words that move hearts.
There are people who always feel good and say whatever they want to say without hurting the other person's feelings.
This is a person with a 'good sense of humor'.
Good sense of humor is the ability to read the mood, converse comfortably without crossing the line, and is essential in work, relationships, and life.
In this book, the author, who has studied and taught communication for a long time, presents 'sensible' ways to use words to move people's hearts and create opportunities in work life, interpersonal relationships, and other areas.
You'll gain the eloquence to make a good impression in conversations, deal flexibly with awkward situations, and become someone people want to meet again.
Let's win people's hearts through this and change their lives for the better with the power of words.

I hope that the first words of the day, whether directed at myself or others, are filled with affection and consideration.
If you can keep it up, that would be great.
Just as throwing a stone into a lake creates ripples, the first words I say at the start of the day can stir someone's heart.
In the hopes that those feelings will find their way to a better place, I suggest a morning routine.
Let's start the day with excitement and ask ourselves, 'What first words should I say today?'
--- From "Let's prepare words that will give you a pleasant day"

There are people who only talk about negative things in conversation.
Of course, it's something that can come out naturally, but when the conversation ends and the other person walks back, they leave with only negative energy.
After hearing so many daunting stories and being denied every single thing I said, would I want to see him again? From then on, I'll avoid talking to him.
At least in the first meeting, if someone has a humble tone like, “I think if I work hard, I’ll get good results,” “It’s difficult, but I’m taking on the challenge,” “Now that I hear you say it, I can see why,” or “What you said makes me reconsider,” I’m more likely to want to continue the conversation.
--- From "The Sense of Speaking That Makes You Want to Meet Someone Again"

The easiest way is to create a 'Pause' with an 'Elegant Mind'.
At this time, the horse's pose automatically becomes a filter.
An elegant mind means a mind that is at ease and at ease.
The refined speaking skills that can express even the feelings connected to the mouth subtly stand out like a well-refined pearl.
Pause is a term originally used when looking at sheet music.
It means playing 2-3 times slower than the original beat, but the pose of the horse is slightly different.
It's a moment to take a break while talking.
This gap allows the listener to organize what they just heard and prepare to understand what comes next.
Pause sufficiently before important words.
--- From "How to Make People Listen to Me 'Elegantly and Leisurely'"

When all kinds of words are flying around like crazy and you lose all your strength, adding more words is useless.
On the contrary, when you close your mouth, you gain great power.
By remaining silent, the other person can clear away the complicated and turbid words that have always been directed at them, clear their turbid mind, and have time to look straight at the essence.
It's like a bullet that hits the target in one shot, not a bunch of small bullets that are fired indiscriminately.
Because it is condensed and exploded in one shot, it hits harder than many messages.

--- From "The Quiet and Powerful Weapon of Silence"