Speaking x Listening x Conversation x Condolences x Etiquette x Work life tips,
Contains everything about social life that no one tells you about
Encyclopedia of Adults with Internal Energy

As you leave your student status and begin your social life, you take your first steps into the adult world.
They say that an adult is someone who can take responsibility for their own actions, but the world of adults is more difficult than you think.
From everyday life to work life, there are countless things to know and keep in mind.
In order to avoid being rude, you must be mindful of your speech and attitude, and take care of various condolence events such as funerals, weddings, and visiting the sick.
Not to mention at work.
You must develop the ability to adapt to new tasks and deal with unexpected situations.
This is a moment when we need the words, actions, attitude, and mindset necessary for every situation we encounter in life, that is, the 'adult greeting'.

But no one tells us what kind of adult greeting to use in this situation.
Most of us learn by living and encountering things.
It is only after repeated trial and error and failure that one learns something.
This book was planned with the hope that everyone will experience a little less bitterness in society and learn the basics of social life with ease.
From those just starting out in the workforce to adults seeking to grow both internally and externally, we have completed the 'Encyclopedia of Adults with Inner Strength', which contains everything about social life that no one teaches.

Part 1 lays the foundation for character through small but diverse greetings and self-introductions, and Part 2 helps smooth interpersonal relationships by providing sensible conversation techniques that allow you to flexibly deal with any moment of silence.
The etiquette for congratulatory messages taught in Part 3 is useful knowledge that will be useful for a lifetime once you learn it.
Finally, Part 4 contains essential work knowledge and tips that will help you reduce the time it takes to adapt to society by half.
A greeting from an adult that will make you remembered as a person who is strong yet delicate, and a person who is liked wherever you go, will be the easiest way to elevate your character and personality, and it will become a life skill.

Greetings are not just a few words.
As we will discuss in detail in the book, it is a concept that encompasses the words, actions, attitudes, and mindsets necessary in all situations where we relate to, interact with, and communicate with others in life.
It is no exaggeration to say that these are essential behavioral tips for surviving in a harsh world.
This book contains greetings for everyday life that no one has ever taught in detail, etiquette needed for various situations encountered in social life, the sense of language needed to build smooth relationships, and the language of work that is essential for office workers.
Of course, this book is not a panacea that will solve all situations.
However, I believe it will be quite useful in equipping you with the minimum basic skills needed to survive in the adult world.
Building on that solid foundation, you can build experience and skills to create your own life skills.
--- From the "Prologue"

When telling someone your parents' names, say 'last name', 'first letter of first name + child', 'second letter of first name + child'.
If your father's name is 'Kim Gyeong-tae', it is standard to say, "Kim, Gyeong-ja, Tae-ja" or "Kim, Gyeong-ja, Tae-ja."
There are cases where 'ja' is added to the end of a surname, such as "Kim Ja, Gyeong Ja, and Tae Ja." However, the National Institute of the Korean Language's standard language etiquette guideline states that 'ja' is only added to given names.
--- From "How to Properly Say Your Parents' Names"

There are certainly times when it's difficult to refuse honestly and firmly.
In such cases, you should politely decline with an appropriate reason.
It takes some skill to refuse someone while being as considerate and non-offensive as possible.
Positive expressions, empathy, and the suggestion of alternatives, along with the 'cushion language' that acts as a kind of buffer like a soft cushion, are considered effective methods for rejection.
Rather than just saying no, adding something like, “Thank you for asking,” “I’m really sorry,” or “I really want to help you,” can make the other person feel a little more considerate and respectful, even if it’s the same rejection.
--- From "Rejection: The Art of Considerate and Respectful Refusal"

The most commonly used and standardized sentence is “May the deceased rest in peace.”
'Samga' means 'to be humble and careful, with respect', and 'myeongbok' means 'the blessings received in the afterlife after death'.
If you are very close, like a close friend, you can convey your condolences in a more casual way, but if not, the sentence above is appropriate.
“I offer my deepest condolences and pray for the repose of the soul of the deceased.” is also a commonly used phrase.
Here, being bored does not mean being boring or not fun, but it means being very deep and earnest.
Even when you cannot attend the funeral due to unavoidable circumstances and only send condolences, it is a good idea to leave a message of condolence.
You can add “I apologize for not being able to visit you in person to offer my condolences” to the above example.
--- From "Funeral Home: How to Respond to an Obituary"

Usually, the envelope is provided in the place where the congratulatory money is given, and the affiliation and name are written vertically on the lower left corner of the back of the envelope.
If you know each other well, you can often just write down the first three letters of the name. However, if there are people with the same name, or if the groom and bride's families are calculating the congratulatory money after the wedding, it may be difficult to determine who the guest is, so it is better to write down the relationship as follows.
Write in one line on the left side of the envelope or write your name on the left side and paste it, then write your affiliation on the right side.
--- From "Wedding Hall: Give a Gift at the Right Time"

There is an order to exchanging business cards.
It is common for the subordinate to give first, and for the person visiting to give first.
If you are meeting with your boss at work, it is polite to exchange business cards with your boss first before handing over your own.
When exchanging business cards, if possible, stand up and hand them over so that the printed letters are clearly visible to the recipient.
Hand over the card politely with both hands, or with the other hand supporting the hand holding the business card, and hold the end of the business card so as not to obscure the text.
It is also basic procedure to state your affiliation, name, and position at the same time as handing over your business card.
If you already know each other's affiliations, it is okay to briefly state your name and position, such as, "I am Kang Joo-young, an employee." or "I am Yoo Jin-seon, an assistant manager."
After receiving the business card, hold it with both hands and look at it for a moment to check the affiliation, name, and position again.
--- From "Business Cards: A Brief Exchange of Respect"

The body of the email should be written in parentheses whenever possible.
This is a method of presenting the most important matter first and then writing down the details.
There is no need to use artifice in business correspondence.
Clear and concise sentences, not literary sentences, are the standard for email.
If the content is inevitably long, it is a good idea to divide it into paragraphs and emphasize important parts by using boldface, color changes, or underlining.
If there are additional attachments other than the main text, clearly indicate the file names.
It is good to have a file name that allows the other party to know at a glance what kind of data it is.
Another way is to number files in an order, such as '1-1' or '1-2'.
If the file you are attaching is a Hangul or Word file, it is a good idea to create a PDF file and attach it as well.
This can prevent situations where the other party cannot open the document because they do not have the program.
Even if you write in the body of the email what file you have attached, the recipient will open the attachment.
It's a great way to make sure you don't forget.

--- From "Email: How to Write an Email Body That Delivers Accurately"