Name: A message for you who finds parting difficult
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A message for you who finds parting difficult

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A message for you who finds parting difficult

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Book Introduction

A new book by author Jimin Seok, published two years after the publication of "You Don't Need to Be Hurt by Anyone," which taught readers how to love themselves and empower themselves.

An author who always evokes sympathy from many people and always receives compliments such as, “It’s as if you’ve captured my heart.”
Bestselling author Jimin Seok, whose books have touched the hearts of 350,000 readers, shares tips on how to break up in a healthy way.

"May the memories of past loves not hold you back"

"Words for You Who Find Breakups Difficult" is a warm and deeply emotional text that offers empathy and comfort to those who are at the end of a relationship and those who have already gone through a breakup but still have those feelings.
How should we accept the inevitable separation we experience as we live in this world?
The author says that while it is inevitable that sad things will happen, it is entirely up to us to resolve our emotions and move on, and emphasizes that we must first and foremost not ignore the pain of separation but rather work to resolve our emotions.
And for the sake of the new relationships that remain with me and for the sake of my better life, I advise myself to love myself.
For readers who have had no choice but to live their lives blaming themselves and covering up their painful emotions in order to survive, the author's message will resonate well.
I hope that by following the sentences and revisiting my emotions and letting them flow, I can move forward.

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Prologue · 05

Part 1: Practicing Acceptance of a Breakup

Organizing You · 14 ｜ Crying · 17 ｜ Distrust · 21 ｜ A Person I Regret · 22 ｜ Wounds and Scars · 24 ｜ The Homework of Erasing You · 27 ｜ A Person I Can't Forget · 29 ｜ Diary 1 · 32 ｜ Diary 2 · 35 ｜ It's the Same in the End · 36 ｜ Breakup Song Playlist · 41 ｜ A Fearful Heart · 42 ｜ Your Coloring · 44 ｜ The Day We Broke Up · 46 ｜ Greetings · 49 ｜ Is the Feeling of Love Just a Consumable · 50 ｜ The Weight of Familiarity · 54 ｜ Just Enduring · 56 ｜ Changing Love and People · 58 ｜ Words I Hate · 61 ｜ Random Thoughts · 62 ｜ Your Absence · 63 ｜ By Someone Else's Side · 66 ｜ An Empty House · 67 ｜ A Person Who Leaves Lingering Feelings · 69 | Love with Broken Faith · 71 | I Hope You Hurt Like Me · 73 | Unqualified Love · 75 | A Person Who Has Had a Big Breakup · 76 | A Little Wind · 78

Part 2: Practice for a New Love

People who are awkward with the pain of love · 84 ｜ The love of others · 88 ｜ The importance of a single word · 91 ｜ About reunion · 93 ｜ Holding on to someone whose heart has left · 96 ｜ About regret and lingering attachment · 98 ｜ How to deal with doubt · 100 ｜ Not fitting myself into someone else's mold · 103 ｜ A good lie · 106 ｜ Problems with the opposite sex · 108 ｜ Leisure in the heart · 110 ｜ The standard for a good person · 111 ｜ Begging for love · 114 ｜ The importance of conversation · 116 ｜ About arguments · 119 ｜ Love like the wind · 122 ｜ What remains after a breakup · 124 ｜ The poison of lingering attachment · 127 ｜ It's okay to cry as much as it hurts · 131 ｜ Distortion of memory · 134 ｜ The practice of letting go · 137 ｜ Relieving loneliness · 140｜Perhaps the most dangerous love · 143 ｜The person who protects self-esteem · 145 ｜Mature love · 147 ｜Time to say goodbye to familiar things · 150 ｜Sharp words · 153 ｜There is no other reason for separation · 156 ｜If you are afraid of loving again · 158 ｜A word to you who finds separation difficult · 161 ｜

Part 3: Practice Loving Myself

Don't lose your vitality · 168 ｜ Practice accepting anxiety · 171 ｜ The grader of my life · 174 ｜ Practice to be happy alone after a breakup · 176 ｜ Happiness note · 179 ｜ Don't pay too much attention to others · 182 ｜ Live as the main character · 184 ｜ It's okay to be late · 186 ｜ Let's add something new · 189 ｜ Don't rush myself · 192 Protect myself from rudeness · 195 ｜ Take time to focus on myself · 198 ｜ Don't get used to external stimuli · 201 ｜ Your mind also needs ventilation · 204 ｜ Be sad enough · 207 ｜ Choice and compliance · 209 ｜ See the strengths of others · 211 ｜ Determine what is truly lacking · 214 ｜ Cherish even falling down · 216 ｜ It's not as bad as you think · 219 ｜ Looking back on the words we say out of habit · 221 ｜ Caring love · 224 ｜ The duration of love · 226 ｜ Moving hearts · 229 ｜ Even parting is love
· 232

Epilogue · 237

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Oh, I was so proud.
Records can be easily erased, but it won't be easy to erase the traces of your hands that have permeated my daily life and left their mark on every corner of my life.
And in front of me, as I was overcome by that realization, hung the pajamas you wore whenever you came over.

--- p.16

I thought about how I would react if I happened to meet you while walking down the street.
I'm so shocked that my whole body feels like it's going to freeze.
Or maybe I should just give you a quick nod, even if it's awkward.
Or should I just leave that place in a hurry?
Funny enough, every time I imagined it, the result was different.
My feelings of missing you keep increasing by 1%.

--- p.23

Even if someone smiles brightly and expresses interest in me, I think, 'Isn't this person the same in the end?
I'm afraid that I'll be hurt and suffer again. I'm scared even before I start a new love.
So it's really cruel.
Seeing people and love changing.

--- p.60

Now that I'm completely absorbed in you, who is no longer by my side.
I'm having a big breakup.
As your afterimage fades, the day will come when I will love someone again with all my might, but I still don't have the courage to let you go.
People who have a big breakup may seem to be doing well, but they are not.
I just live each day, holding on with the strength of past memories.

--- p.77

Of course it will hurt if you break up, but it won't hurt as much as continuing to love alone.
The heart must always be filled with what it gives so that I can live.
Don't try to hold on to someone whose heart has left you.
Even if you try to forcibly stop a fast-flowing river, it will eventually leak out.
Because you'll break me even more and leave me.

--- p.97

I want to tell this to someone who is full of regrets and foolishness.
When you see someone who has no ulterior motives turn their back coldly and walk away, you have no right to blame them.
Longing always tends to be more intense around people who have a lot of regrets about love.

--- p.99

So I decided to think of you as a wind that passed me by in the right season.
One fine day, just as you blew to me in the old days, the next wind will blow with such intensity that it will burst the curled flower buds, and with a little tickle.
So let's be a little hurt and a little upset.
Because a new wind will soon blow to carry me.

--- p.123

I just wish I could think of past loves as fading away because they fulfilled a necessary role in a certain period of my life.
I hope you cross the edge of love carefully but resolutely.
Long dawn without being too painful.

--- p.130

One hot summer day, that thought suddenly occurred to me.
When I love someone, but this relationship doesn't seem to be having a positive effect on me, how long can I suppress it with the thought, "Love can hurt, after all." It's natural for this summer to cling to my skin, but is it also natural to endure the pain of love?
--- p.226

When the memories of past loves that I have shed pile up on the floor and become enlightenment and a pedestal that supports me, you will see.
A warm new love reaching out to you.

--- p.233

Publisher's Review

I hope you don't get hurt while holding onto the end of your relationship.
Jimin Seok's comfort for those who experience a more painful breakup because they love passionately.

Author Jimin Seok's previous work, "No One Needs to Hurt You," deeply resonated with many readers by conveying warm encouragement and teaching them how to protect and love themselves.
His new work, "Words to You Who Find Breakups Difficult," released after two years, takes the "pain of parting" that everyone in this world experiences as a major theme, and instead of offering vague consolation, it tells a story that everyone can relate to, comforting those who are at the end of a relationship.
His writing, imbued with deep emotion and comfort, allows readers to embrace the pain of separation rather than turn away from it, and to cherish even fleeting emotions.
When an unbearable emptiness knocks at the end of a love affair, when your heart sinks into a dark abyss without end, if you read this book, you will be able to hold onto the warm imagery emanating from the sentences, resurface, and see a ray of gentle light.

Parting is always with us.
Because we cannot live without love and the world does not stand still, humans are inevitably given countless partings.
Love and separation exist in the relationships people experience, although their forms and depths may differ.
So, is there anyone who doesn't feel pain when a relationship ends?
Even if you've shared a little affection for someone, when they leave, you're bound to feel a sense of loss. But how can you possibly express the pain you feel when someone you've loved with all your heart leaves?
The author says that because we always live with the pain of separation, we must do our best to love and do our best to break up so that we do not regret looking back on past relationships.
I advise you to accept that even the painful things that love involves are a natural process and emotion, and to not hate the past and to digest it healthily.
When you stand at the end of a relationship and cannot cross over or turn back, I hope that you can let go of the regrets and sadness that you have buried deep in your heart and let them flow out, so that you can tie the knot well and not be afraid of new love.
Because pain is proof that you loved passionately.

It's okay if you're clumsy.
The world always shakes us up without warning.
How many pains are there that we cannot help but experience?
And how many of my shortcomings are discovered in it?
The discovery hurts me more than the situation itself.
The author emphasizes that we should not suppress and let go of the unexpected pain and negative feelings about ourselves that we experience in life, but rather let them go, and that the pain that is resolved in this way will definitely become a support that sustains life.
Humans cannot be perfect.
So, if you have the thought, ‘It’s okay even though I’m clumsy,’ then you can not only resolve negative emotions but also love yourself.
These comforting words, filled with the author's thoughts that we must love the things that make us who we are, teach us the easiest way to be happy in a world where good and bad always coexist.
There will undoubtedly be times when sudden pain strikes, leaving you feeling a sense of emptiness and a loss of vitality. However, I hope that by loving and comforting yourself, you will be able to shake off the feelings of sadness and stagnation a little more quickly.

You are the one who finds it difficult to break up because you love passionately.
I hope this book will help you feel a little less pain,

All the things that make you
I hope you can look at me with loving eyes.

“Because these are still good days to love.
“Because you are the person who is most compatible with love.”