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How to Become the Man You Want to Eat With
How to Become the Man You Want to Eat With
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Book Introduction
The affectionate sincerity of Kim Tae-kyun, 50 years old

A new work after four years since the bestseller "Now I'm Just Going to Have Fun"
Recommended by Park Bo-young (actress), Yoon Ha (singer), and Choi Yu-ri (singer)

What you say in words is different from what you write.

Kim Tae-kyun is a broadcaster.
Every weekday at 2 PM, I sit down in front of the microphone without fail, read the stories sent in by listeners from all over the country, and laugh out loud in admiration. Before I know it, I am often awarded the prize of "#1 in Listening Ratings."
It also ranked first in radio listening in South Korea for 11 years.
What could it be that Kim Tae-gyun, who is like that, regrets, has published another book?
Because I know that what I say in words and what I say in writing are different.
Although he was a veteran broadcaster who had been hosting the "Two O'Clock Escape Cultwo Show" for 20 years and had conversations with guests and listeners, he still had a 'table of thoughts' in his head that he wanted to prepare anew.
So, this book, “How to Become an Uncle People Want to Eat With,” is a nutritious meal prepared with Kim Tae-gyun’s thoughts in mind.

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index
prolog
I want to be your solid meal 6

Chapter 1: There's No Manual for Life, But There Are Experiences 9
Chapter 2: Learning with a Laugh is the Real Learning 45
Chapter 3: Comedians Are Funny Philosophers 85
Chapter 4: Looking Upside Down, It Looks Better 139
Chapter 5: Dreaming of a Man I Want to Eat With

Epiroad
You must be happy first 208

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Into the book
Having something to brag about is proof that you've been working hard.
So let's not talk nonsense and hope that someone will notice.
Because I know better than anyone else in the world that I am precious to myself.
You can talk as much as you want to me.

--- p.15 From "Pride"

To be alone is to meet myself.
Me, who was always behind others
The sad me who has lived hard
It is a precious time for me to fully meet and take care of myself.
Being alone is another way of saying
Get along well with me.
Give me a gift.
A golden opportunity to not do what you hate
A peaceful time where you don't have to spend your emotions on relationships.

--- p.19 From "Being Alone"

Before I knew it, I had become accustomed to my wife's cooking.
In the past, when I missed home-cooked meals, I thought of my mom.
After living with my wife for a long time, if I leave home for a few days,
I miss the quick meals my wife prepares for me.

--- p.40 From “Egg Roll 2”

Everyone has their own unique scent from the life they have lived.
The scent of that person's life that cannot be hidden no matter how much perfume is sprayed.
Those who have been with me for a short or long time
If you smell the same perfume as me somewhere
I wish you would stop for a moment and think of me.
If possible, it would be better if there was a smile as well.

--- p.61 From “Perfume”

Because I live with that sentence in my heart
My heart became lighter and life became more enjoyable.
'No one cares about me.'
Really? Not interested? Then I thought, 'I should pay attention to myself too.'
From then on, we started getting along well.
What I like,
I found what I wanted to do and did it
I became happy.

--- p.70 From “Nobody Cares About Me”

“One tree can make thousands of matches,
“A single match can burn thousands of trees.”
One very small worry I made
It could burn my whole body and mind.
So don't worry about anything, please!
--- p.151 From "Worry 2"

Who is qualified to advise whom?
It was not given to anyone.
But from the moment I was born
There is one ability that has been given to all of us.
It is the power to comfort others.

--- p.164 From “Comfort, Not Advice”

Not every day is the same.
Depending on how you spend your precious day
Today, which comes tomorrow, the day after tomorrow, a month, a year later
You can be happier.
How is your day?
--- p.178 From "Today"

When you love
The loneliness you feel when you are alone
A loneliness of a different kind suddenly comes to me.
That loneliness
You have to learn to accept loneliness as it is.
Only then can true love be realized.
--- p.194 From “The Courage to Be Lonely”

Publisher's Review
A man in his 50s from South Korea with nowhere to go,
Dreaming of being 'the uncle I want to eat with'


Kim Tae-kyun is an old man.
He is a man in his 50s from South Korea who wakes up in the morning, goes to work at the broadcasting station, and lives with his wife and children, as well as countless seniors and juniors he encounters at work and in society. He has nowhere to go.
But Kim Tae-kyun just didn't want to grow old like an ordinary man.
If you nag about your age as if it were some kind of title, you'll be called an old fart. But if you share your experiences unconditionally, won't you be called "the uncle I want to have a meal with"? This book began with that thought.


So about money, about business or partnership, about love, about the heart, about fights between couples, even about the scrambled eggs I had this morning...
As I wrote down my thoughts every day as they came to me, organized them into sentences, and before I knew it, it had become my philosophy of life.
Happiness wasn't something grand.
Whether it was reading a book while listening to soft jazz music, people-watching while walking, or taking a walk with my wife, the little things in life magically transformed into happiness whenever I set my mind to it.
I realized it while writing.
Ah, there is no manual in life, but there is still a navigation called experience. Learning while laughing is the real thing. You could say that comedians are funny philosophers.
The world looks better when you look at it upside down.
The table set by Kim Tae-gyun was a table set by a worldview that could only be set by the 'wise 50s'.


A feast of honest conversations with the microphone off


Kim Tae-kyun is a broadcaster and writer.
Although he is a famous person, he is a diligent writer who does not use a ghostwriter and writes and revises each word on paper, laptop, and smartphone whenever he has time.
If the previous work, "I'm Just Going to Have Fun Now," showed that good people can also live well, this work, "How to Become an Uncle You Want to Eat With," is full of good intentions as the older Kim Tae-gyun generously shares his assets with young readers.
There is only one thing he wants from his readers.
Just come with a spoon and devour Kim Tae-kyun's thoughts.


The fact that he does not enjoy his wealth to himself but rather shares it with others shows the aspect of a mature human being who goes beyond being a broadcaster or an intellectual.
Everything that Kim Tae-kyun read, heard, and thought from his 20s to his 50s is gathered here.
A meal with Kim Tae-kyun is a feast of honest conversation with the microphone off.
Read the series 'Emotional Pharmacy' he wrote.
If America has 'Chicken Soup for the Soul,' we might say we have 'Mr. Kim Tae-kyun, the man I want to eat with.'
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of issue: June 18, 2025
- Page count, weight, size: 212 pages | 270g | 130*205*14mm
- ISBN13: 9791199229914
- ISBN10: 1199229911

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