Part 1: I will fall and get up repeatedly
You will accomplish a lot

wound
3 Things to Remember When You're Having a Hard Time
How I Earned 80 Million Won in 8 Months, Part 2
How to spend time alone well
rest
For a better tomorrow than today
As I please
The moment when your heart becomes lonely and empty
What's more important than being good at it
difficult days
If you just endure the stress
Reasons for anxiety
Get out of depression
A person with many wounds
Characteristics of people who eventually get it done
walk
Keep walking
How should I spend my youth?
select
The need for travel
The night
The words I most wanted to hear
you are
The idea that you always have to do well
What is happiness?
In the meantime,
I couldn't do it then, but I can do it now.


Part 2 To you who is tired of enduring too much

For a good relationship
The desire to do whatever one wants with others
Why Lovers Fight So Often
Depending on my mood
Is he a good person for me or not?
Belief in one's work
3 Choices That Invite Unhappiness
What I like
word
Why You Often Feel Offended by Others
A person who matures through love
The loneliest person
If you have severe mood swings
Someone who suits me well
An anxious moment
All love has an end
The experience of truly loving someone
Reasons for being lonely
Why I keep getting more and more neurotic
If I'm not happy now
If you have low self-esteem
I hope you don't see yourself as worthless
Giving love means
shameful thing
A good relationship is
I hope you do well
Someone I want to be with for a long time
expectation
If you hate it
When love ends


Part 3: What I like most is what is most like me

If you don't love me
The lower your self-esteem, the harder it is to do something.
2 Ways to Boost Your Self-Esteem
Why I Was Able to Become a Writer
I was born on July 17, 1988
birthday
Why I Don't Get Along Well with People
Characteristics of people who make poor choices
If there's nothing I like
If you feel lethargic
You who run away without holding on
3 Things You Need to Change
To you who thinks a lot
How to organize your thoughts
alone
Please don't stop me
A new time will come
The intention of the words
adhesion
How should I live?

From relationships, work, and love, everything that makes me feel difficult
A book that gives rest to a weary mind

“Maybe it’s because I don’t meet anyone
“It may be the greatest rest for me, who is exhausted from human relationships.” - From the text

People who have a strong desire to do well always live with anxiety in their hearts.
When you don't do well, you hate yourself so much that you try too hard to do well.
Either you are too considerate, too patient, or you don't like something too much, or
If I sacrifice too much or do something like that, I will end up having an exhausting day and then another day will come that will make me feel tired.
I've thought, 'I work hard, but why am I never happy?'
Reading this book made the reason clear.

The book says that happiness is something I can focus on when I look at it.
This is because when you concentrate, your mind becomes at ease and you feel a sense of satisfaction after spending time concentrating.

But I only had things to do well at the moment, and when I looked at them, I could focus and feel at ease.
There was nothing I liked.

When I try to fill my life little by little with things that I meet and look at in the present, instead of unconditionally blaming myself for making mistakes and not doing well in the process and turning me into someone who doesn't want to do anything, I give myself space to make mistakes and fail and encourage myself.
I realized that I could be happy when I figured out and found what satisfied me.


“There is no flower that does not sway in the wind.
But even when flowers are shaken, they do not lose their own fragrance.

Although we may be swayed by the winds of life,
I hope you too will become someone who does not lose their own scent. - From the text

The author has counseled thousands of people every year with their concerns such as anxiety, emptiness, loneliness, mood swings, and self-esteem.
The book does not contain vague stories.
A story that inspires me right now
If you need some alone time, a story that can comfort your anxious mind right now
The courage to have time alone, from the daily depression and anxiety that makes me feel bad
It contains a story about how you can escape and become happy.

This book is composed of three parts: 'You will fall and get up again, but you will achieve a lot', 'To you who are tired of enduring too much', and 'What I like is the most like me'. As you read this book, you will feel your anxious heart becoming at ease.



If you are having a hard time because you fight with your lover often
A story about a relationship where both parties can be happy

“If you start dating someone who is the opposite of you,
There are things I like about him because he is the opposite of me.
“The things that don’t fit with me start to show over time” - from the text

When you start dating, you start to like the other person because you only see their good sides, but as time goes by and you try to change them when they are not what you want, you often get upset, the other person becomes more distant from you, and you fight often.
Of course, if it's someone I don't like at this point, I can just stop seeing them, but if I still like them, it's so hard not being able to talk, and I get frustrated because we keep fighting, and I end up worrying about what to do next.
The author says:
Because each person grew up in a different environment, they all have different strengths and weaknesses as adults.
When someone says it's a triangle and someone says it's a square, the inherent properties of triangles and squares don't really change.
However, it is said that the triangle and the square should be cut to fit each other so that they do not stab and hurt each other when they are together.
At this time, whether or not they can continue to be together depends on whether or not there is a 'will' to change, and if one of them does not have the 'will' to change on their own and only expects the other person to accommodate them, there is a high possibility that the relationship will end up being a relationship that is full of hurt.

“Everyone has a desire to make the person they like more like themselves.
So, you become greedy towards the other person.
I hope the other person changes into the person I want them to be.
“It is not love, it is greed.” - From the text

The way I know if I really love someone is if I care about their pain.
You can tell by looking at whether or not you have the heart to share and bear that person's pain.

If I'm not interested in that, I don't really love that person.

For a good relationship, two people need to acknowledge each other's differences and have the will to change so as not to hurt each other, rather than trying to change each other.
At this time, love lasts more beautifully.

The author has many thoughts on not only love but also self-esteem, interpersonal relationships, work, and dreams of wanting to challenge oneself.
I tell stories of how I helped people and felt through counseling.
The moment you close the book, you will be able to find a direction on how to move forward with the worries that have accumulated over time.
I feel relieved.
And then I feel the passion to start again.
I hope that you too can experience such a time through this book.