“Why do I feel anxious the more I love?”
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We become more anxious when we love.
It is impossible to know what kind of person the other person is, and it is difficult to read their mind properly.
I feel anxious because I am not sure how to react to that person's reaction.
For those who have always found love difficult, this book, "Almost Everything About Love," is a "textbook of love" and a "bible of relationships," clearly pointing out the most worrisome points along the flow of relationships.
It is even more trustworthy because it is written by Kim Dal, a leading relationship counseling creator in Korea who teaches how to grow with love while protecting 'myself'.
This will be a welcome gift to many readers who want to love but are troubled by not knowing how to do it properly.

The happiest people in the world are those who surround themselves with good people.
Conversely, the most painful thing is having difficulty in relationships with people.
Love also requires learning.
Before it's too late, you must learn the art of love through serious consideration.
I sincerely hope that through this book, you will be able to create and maintain good relationships, and your life will become richer and warmer.
---From "Things You Must Know Now, Before It's Too Late"

“I spent time with someone who was close to my ideal type and confirmed that we had feelings for each other.
I thought we had now entered a period of stability.
So I decided to change my communication patterns.
We used to keep in touch frequently, but now we're prioritizing work and starting to contact each other after a while.
Then, the other person contacted me with a similar pattern.
There was even one day when I couldn't contact him.
‘Oh, isn’t this going to break up our relationship?’ I suddenly felt uneasy.
“I started to wonder if he really liked me.” The biggest concern in the early stages of a relationship is ‘the other person’s unknown feelings.’
I'm confused because I wonder if I'm just being too forward and liking them, and if the other person is also thinking seriously about me.
---From "How to Know the Mind of a Confusing Person"

If a man and a woman continue to meet together, stress can build up.
Especially, it is inevitable that women will have a harder time mentally and physically.
Let's say a man expresses his gratitude to his lover.
But she responds like this.
“Why are you saying all these things today?” You may feel upset and angry when you say something with good intentions but it comes out in a twisted way.
But there is something people don't know.
At this time, the woman is in a 'red light' state.
So, it's not that you don't like what the other person is saying, but it's that you're in such a bad mood that it's hard to say anything nice.
So timing is important.
If you only say words that acknowledge her feelings when her heart is in an 'orange light', she will quickly turn into a 'green light'.
And then the same good words come out.
---From "Evolve before the red light turns on in your heart"

“My relationship with my new friend has become very close very quickly.
But I'm just as anxious about that.
When I wake up in the morning, that person doesn't reply to my KakaoTalk messages, but continues to use Instagram.
So when I message again, it says, 'I'm up now.'
Am I being too cold-hearted? Should I just understand and move on? If you're deeply in love with someone and they're very receptive to your calls, that's when you need to adjust.
Instead of contacting them in a frenzy, you need to pace yourself.
Just as I wait for the other person to contact me, I want the other person to wait for me to contact them too.
---From "The Most Common Mistakes People Make When Contacting the Opposite Sex"

The woman was convinced that she and her boss had feelings for each other.
But one day, my boss suddenly backed out, saying, "He's just a good younger brother."
The woman wanted to get along with her boss, but if things weren't going to work out anyway, she wanted to get over it quickly.
But it's not easy and it's painful.
Why did the man's heart suddenly grow cold? Every time he sent a sweet message, the woman's heart raced.
That would have been visible to the man's eyes too.
When men express interest and see that the other person is too absorbed in them, unfortunately, they often cool off quickly.
When you first start to develop feelings for a guy, he needs to feel like he's on a quest to conquer you.
It's no fun to get items easily by running macros.
When you first enter a dungeon, you have to think that if you make a mistake you might die, and that's when your heart races, your palms sweat, and you become more focused.
---From "Critical Actions to Develop Ambiguous Relationships"

This is one of the things men hate to hear from their girlfriends.
“Let’s talk.” This is because the intention of what a woman says and the meaning a man receives are different.
The woman is extending her hand to make up, but the man doesn't accept it that way.
Many men like a story with a fast introduction, development, turn, and conclusion.
I find it difficult to endure the process of sitting face to face with the other person and having a conversation in a heavy atmosphere.
So, if you want to make up with your boyfriend quickly and work things out, it's better to come to a conclusion quickly rather than saying, "Let's talk."
---From "How to Prevent a Conflict from Leading to Disaster"

I often hear stories of people not noticing when they were dating, but then their partner changed after they got married.
There's nothing more terrifying than making the life-changing decision of getting married and then discovering a side of that person you never knew existed.
So many people are wondering.
How to know before marriage whether a person will change after marriage.
When dating, even if you lack a little bit in reality, as long as your love is strong, there is no problem at all, so you don't feel it, but when the time for marriage approaches, it is difficult to find someone who satisfies you in every way, and as you get older, you start to compromise on one thing or another.
The problem is that if you are not satisfied with the other person, the things you feel are lacking will be completely revealed to the other person.
Of course, the other person feels it too.
Anyone who feels this way will become negative.

---From "How to tell if someone will change after marriage"