
Because all I have is misery
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Book Introduction
From a broke man to a billionaire
The only female Benz executive in Korea with an annual salary of 1 billion won tells us
An attitude that has helped me grow my work and money at lightning speed
When I was a 24-year-old freshman in the workforce, I was responsible for 11 billion won in a company with 12 billion won in sales.
But even then, I knew clearly.
Customers trust themselves and make purchases, not the company.
The author believes that work and life are ultimately about 'sales.'
Because everything in the world is about gaining trust in relationships with people and producing results.
The author, who fiercely and relentlessly increased the value of the product called 'self' at every moment, became 'the only female Benz executive in Korea with an annual salary of 1 billion won' and 'a person with assets of 20 billion won'.
This book details how a man who had nothing but "bad luck" achieved everything he wanted and grew his "work" and "money" at lightning speed, based on the author's 30 years of sales experience and insights gained from meeting wealthy clients.
The only female Benz executive in Korea with an annual salary of 1 billion won tells us
An attitude that has helped me grow my work and money at lightning speed
When I was a 24-year-old freshman in the workforce, I was responsible for 11 billion won in a company with 12 billion won in sales.
But even then, I knew clearly.
Customers trust themselves and make purchases, not the company.
The author believes that work and life are ultimately about 'sales.'
Because everything in the world is about gaining trust in relationships with people and producing results.
The author, who fiercely and relentlessly increased the value of the product called 'self' at every moment, became 'the only female Benz executive in Korea with an annual salary of 1 billion won' and 'a person with assets of 20 billion won'.
This book details how a man who had nothing but "bad luck" achieved everything he wanted and grew his "work" and "money" at lightning speed, based on the author's 30 years of sales experience and insights gained from meeting wealthy clients.
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index
Prologue | Brutality Was My Way of Loving
PART 1 Working hard
Chapter 1: Everything in the World Was a Business
At 24, he won a 600 million won bid on his own.
A person responsible for 11 billion won in a company with 12 billion won in sales
Even if the product you're selling changes, the fundamentals of sales remain the same.
From assistant manager to deputy manager, starting with mopping
Joining the '1,000-Vehicle Mercedes-Benz Sales Club' in the Shortest Time
The sales secret of someone who makes 100 million won in sales every day
Chapter 2: 7 Attitudes That Made Sales Lessons Faster
1.
Become someone who can be contacted at any time
2.
Building records and systems is the only way to survive.
3.
I treasure the bonds of fate I once formed.
4.
A person who can solve any problem is an expert.
5.
Become a person who always gives good energy
6.
I value trust as much as my life.
7.
Even those who reject you will find you again.
PART 2 Living miserably
Chapter 3 I wanted to change the course of my life.
Not a dirt spoon, but a spoonless person
The second daughter who had no presence
A nobleman could be found anywhere
I don't believe in miracles, but everything I longed for came true.
Chapter 4: From a Spoonful to a Billionaire
A 31-year-old apartment was built.
How money makes money: Achieving 20 billion in assets and realizing it.
Actually, I became the owner of a building worth 10 billion won.
The most realistic way for someone with nothing to build wealth
Chapter 5: Meeting Rich Clients and Learning the 7 Attitudes That Grow Your Money Superfast
1.
If you want to be rich, know the characteristics of the rich.
2.
Build win-win relationships
3.
Pay to get the best
4.
Education about money starts from a young age
5.
You have to prepare for the future to enjoy the present.
6.
Love yourself more than anyone else
7.
Always live fiercely and fiercely
Epilogue | How much is the commodity called 'me' worth?
Acknowledgments | Relationships Deepened Over Time
PART 1 Working hard
Chapter 1: Everything in the World Was a Business
At 24, he won a 600 million won bid on his own.
A person responsible for 11 billion won in a company with 12 billion won in sales
Even if the product you're selling changes, the fundamentals of sales remain the same.
From assistant manager to deputy manager, starting with mopping
Joining the '1,000-Vehicle Mercedes-Benz Sales Club' in the Shortest Time
The sales secret of someone who makes 100 million won in sales every day
Chapter 2: 7 Attitudes That Made Sales Lessons Faster
1.
Become someone who can be contacted at any time
2.
Building records and systems is the only way to survive.
3.
I treasure the bonds of fate I once formed.
4.
A person who can solve any problem is an expert.
5.
Become a person who always gives good energy
6.
I value trust as much as my life.
7.
Even those who reject you will find you again.
PART 2 Living miserably
Chapter 3 I wanted to change the course of my life.
Not a dirt spoon, but a spoonless person
The second daughter who had no presence
A nobleman could be found anywhere
I don't believe in miracles, but everything I longed for came true.
Chapter 4: From a Spoonful to a Billionaire
A 31-year-old apartment was built.
How money makes money: Achieving 20 billion in assets and realizing it.
Actually, I became the owner of a building worth 10 billion won.
The most realistic way for someone with nothing to build wealth
Chapter 5: Meeting Rich Clients and Learning the 7 Attitudes That Grow Your Money Superfast
1.
If you want to be rich, know the characteristics of the rich.
2.
Build win-win relationships
3.
Pay to get the best
4.
Education about money starts from a young age
5.
You have to prepare for the future to enjoy the present.
6.
Love yourself more than anyone else
7.
Always live fiercely and fiercely
Epilogue | How much is the commodity called 'me' worth?
Acknowledgments | Relationships Deepened Over Time
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Into the book
We all carry around a label called 'reputation'.
There are reputations that come from knowing deeply about things like personality and job skills, but even small actions and impressions remain in people's memories and influence their evaluations.
How do I create something that follows my name like a hashtag as those memories accumulate?
I want you to think about what hashtags other people are putting after your name.
All sales start here.
--- pp.22~23
After working in sales for several years, I've learned that the fundamentals of sales remain the same.
Of course, if the item changes, you have to study about that item, but there was no difference in the fact that everything is determined by dealing with people and relationships with people.
So, I was able to change jobs with peace of mind while changing industries.
--- p.32
By gaining momentum and running hard, I was able to achieve the 500 club and 1,000 club in a short period of time, and even became an executive.
It set many records.
Mercedes--- p. Benz Hansung Motor Company I set the record for the shortest time as team leader, the shortest time to enter the 500 car club, the shortest time to enter the 1,000 car club, and the shortest time to become an executive, and none of these have been broken yet.
--- p.53
In sales, as well as in all other fields, we experience 'referrals' and 'repurchases'.
(…) I want to recommend a delicious restaurant to everyone around me, but I also don’t want to go back to a restaurant that is rude and doesn’t taste good.
What kind of person am I? Am I someone you'd want to introduce and find again? I encourage you to always work with this question as your guide.
As I do this, I will begin to see the path I need to improve and overcome more clearly than the complaints about my situation.
The door to opportunity to climb higher will naturally open before your eyes.
--- p.92
Although we are getting younger, our customers who prefer our brand vehicles are older.
There are still many people who like and are familiar with the analog feel.
So, when I send letters, I end up sending handwritten letters.
I send this message with all my heart, hoping that it will convey a little more warmth than a cold liquid crystal display or a uniform printed matter.
To me, he is not a ‘canceled customer’, but rather a ‘lifelong customer’.
--- p.95
Since my days in sales in the IT industry, I've learned how to start conversations with people.
I tried my best to find a spark of conversation to break the awkward atmosphere in front of people who were wary of me.
Appearance was the basic thing, but everything around us, from the props on the other person's desk to the weather and scenery, became topics of conversation.
And then I connected the stories I collected to various situations and asked him about them to get the story out.
I also continued to build empathy by bringing up my story as a similar case.
If you create an atmosphere where conversation is comfortable, listen, empathize, and respond, you will build rapport and the other person will soon become comfortable with you.
--- p.100
Our company uses fingerprints to check in and out of work.
So, when I leave work outside, it is inconvenient in many ways, such as having to report it by email.
Even now that I am an executive, I still report by email as per the rule when I occasionally have to work outside the office.
Customers who were present at the same time asked, “Do you really have to take a picture of someone your age? Can’t you just take it easy?”
Of course, my position affords me a bit more autonomy, but I don't want to make that exception for myself.
Now, I manage my attendance thoroughly not to show off to the company or others, but to properly discipline myself.
Because attitude rules the mind.
--- pp.116~117
The important thing is consistent practice.
It is rare to find someone who can do something consistently, rain or shine.
It is precisely this unwavering consistency that is proof of sincerity and becomes a super power.
Thankfully, my strengths are consistency and sincerity.
I learned and adopted what others did, but I continued to do it longer than the person who first started it.
So I was able to surpass my seniors and get promoted to executive position.
Especially in sales, consistency and sincerity are the ultimate criteria.
--- p.122
I didn't realize what it meant to have an IQ of 98 until I was in the upper grades.
It was around that time that I started to think that if I was less intelligent than others, I should try harder to compensate for my shortcomings.
So I started taking notes diligently.
Diligently writing down things I needed to remember and diligently writing a diary every day have become ingrained habits that have become the basis of my current schedule management.
I didn't know then that my lack would become an asset.
--- p.143
When you rise to the top in your field, you also have a premium when it comes to networking in other fields.
There is no need to go through multiple stages of verification from the bottom up.
Because I have already been given the card of trust just by being proven in my field.
So, you must strive to rise high in any field.
Then it will be much easier for me to get what I want.
There are reputations that come from knowing deeply about things like personality and job skills, but even small actions and impressions remain in people's memories and influence their evaluations.
How do I create something that follows my name like a hashtag as those memories accumulate?
I want you to think about what hashtags other people are putting after your name.
All sales start here.
--- pp.22~23
After working in sales for several years, I've learned that the fundamentals of sales remain the same.
Of course, if the item changes, you have to study about that item, but there was no difference in the fact that everything is determined by dealing with people and relationships with people.
So, I was able to change jobs with peace of mind while changing industries.
--- p.32
By gaining momentum and running hard, I was able to achieve the 500 club and 1,000 club in a short period of time, and even became an executive.
It set many records.
Mercedes--- p. Benz Hansung Motor Company I set the record for the shortest time as team leader, the shortest time to enter the 500 car club, the shortest time to enter the 1,000 car club, and the shortest time to become an executive, and none of these have been broken yet.
--- p.53
In sales, as well as in all other fields, we experience 'referrals' and 'repurchases'.
(…) I want to recommend a delicious restaurant to everyone around me, but I also don’t want to go back to a restaurant that is rude and doesn’t taste good.
What kind of person am I? Am I someone you'd want to introduce and find again? I encourage you to always work with this question as your guide.
As I do this, I will begin to see the path I need to improve and overcome more clearly than the complaints about my situation.
The door to opportunity to climb higher will naturally open before your eyes.
--- p.92
Although we are getting younger, our customers who prefer our brand vehicles are older.
There are still many people who like and are familiar with the analog feel.
So, when I send letters, I end up sending handwritten letters.
I send this message with all my heart, hoping that it will convey a little more warmth than a cold liquid crystal display or a uniform printed matter.
To me, he is not a ‘canceled customer’, but rather a ‘lifelong customer’.
--- p.95
Since my days in sales in the IT industry, I've learned how to start conversations with people.
I tried my best to find a spark of conversation to break the awkward atmosphere in front of people who were wary of me.
Appearance was the basic thing, but everything around us, from the props on the other person's desk to the weather and scenery, became topics of conversation.
And then I connected the stories I collected to various situations and asked him about them to get the story out.
I also continued to build empathy by bringing up my story as a similar case.
If you create an atmosphere where conversation is comfortable, listen, empathize, and respond, you will build rapport and the other person will soon become comfortable with you.
--- p.100
Our company uses fingerprints to check in and out of work.
So, when I leave work outside, it is inconvenient in many ways, such as having to report it by email.
Even now that I am an executive, I still report by email as per the rule when I occasionally have to work outside the office.
Customers who were present at the same time asked, “Do you really have to take a picture of someone your age? Can’t you just take it easy?”
Of course, my position affords me a bit more autonomy, but I don't want to make that exception for myself.
Now, I manage my attendance thoroughly not to show off to the company or others, but to properly discipline myself.
Because attitude rules the mind.
--- pp.116~117
The important thing is consistent practice.
It is rare to find someone who can do something consistently, rain or shine.
It is precisely this unwavering consistency that is proof of sincerity and becomes a super power.
Thankfully, my strengths are consistency and sincerity.
I learned and adopted what others did, but I continued to do it longer than the person who first started it.
So I was able to surpass my seniors and get promoted to executive position.
Especially in sales, consistency and sincerity are the ultimate criteria.
--- p.122
I didn't realize what it meant to have an IQ of 98 until I was in the upper grades.
It was around that time that I started to think that if I was less intelligent than others, I should try harder to compensate for my shortcomings.
So I started taking notes diligently.
Diligently writing down things I needed to remember and diligently writing a diary every day have become ingrained habits that have become the basis of my current schedule management.
I didn't know then that my lack would become an asset.
--- p.143
When you rise to the top in your field, you also have a premium when it comes to networking in other fields.
There is no need to go through multiple stages of verification from the bottom up.
Because I have already been given the card of trust just by being proven in my field.
So, you must strive to rise high in any field.
Then it will be much easier for me to get what I want.
--- p.222
Publisher's Review
“The essential condition for a lifelong career is selling myself!
If you don't have anything, change your attitude towards people.
30 Years of Sales Know-How from a Legendary Mercedes-Benz Dealer in the Top 0.001%
The author holds unbroken records of 'achieving the 1,000-unit club in the shortest time, being promoted to executive at lightning speed, and being the only female director of Benz in Korea,' but the title she is most proud of is 'over 90% of customers are referrals and repeat purchases.'
In sales, of course, we experience 'referrals' and 'repurchases' in all other fields.
If you have a reputation as a competent person in any field, people will be more than willing to praise you when they ask for a recommendation.
What kind of person am I? Am I someone you'd want to introduce yourself to and find again?
The author has such exceptional sales skills that he has been praised as “likely able to sell refrigerators in Alaska.”
They observe customers closely, meticulously take care of even invisible services in advance, and achieve even the near-impossible if it is what the customer wants.
By gaining trust in this way, we provide the best satisfaction and impression to our customers.
This book clearly reveals the author's practical sales know-how accumulated over 30 years in the field, while also detailing the fierce attitude that establishes the fundamentals of work and life.
“I don't believe in miracles, but everything I've ever wanted has come true.”
Meeting 10,000 wealthy clients and learning how money makes money
The author says he has never met anyone who has lived a more difficult life than he has.
There were seven people I called "mother" when I was young, and I worked in a garment factory from middle school onwards to continue my education in poverty.
After becoming a sales professional at the world's leading Mercedes-Benz showroom, there is one thing people misunderstand.
I think you can make a lot of money by selling one car.
Of course, I was able to increase my income by being good at sales, but it was through financial investment, and specifically through real estate, that I was able to truly increase my assets.
The author was poor, but he used his poverty and sorrow as a driving force to dream bigger and reach higher.
The book details the process of building assets worth 20 billion won from nothing, and also shares the attitude of nurturing the seeds of wealth that he learned while working with wealthy clients.
To those who ask how to change the course of their lives
"Bitterness was a way of loving myself."
In the comments of the author's video that became a hot topic on YouTube, it was written, "I want to resemble even 1% of the cruelty of the person named Yoon Mi-ae."
The author demoted herself from assistant manager to assistant manager to work where she wanted, and started again from the mop. She even went to work on the day she gave birth to help solve a customer's problem.
Of course, I have never been late for work in 30 years.
The author keeps promises to others, but he considers promises to himself to be the most important.
If you set a goal after you turn twenty, you will definitely achieve it.
So, around the age of 50, I got my license and also earned a doctorate in real estate.
The driving force behind the author's overwhelming achievements lies in his 'desperate attitude.'
The author emphasizes, “Bitterness was a way of loving myself.”
It's okay if you don't have anything now.
Let's love ourselves with an attitude of 'wretchedness' like the author.
If you do that, one day you will be able to meet the moment when everything you have been longing for comes true.
The author's life proves this fact on every page of this book.
Testimonials from real customers
The author is not simply a dealer who sells Mercedes-Benzes, but a special salesperson who reads people's minds, builds trust, and stays by their side.
-Kim Hye-yeon, CEO of Juham Real Estate Co., Ltd.
The fierce life of a single, desperate person, a unique salesmanship that everyone can do but no one can achieve.
I recommend it to anyone who wants to take action.
-Kim Hyun-woo, CEO of The Bio Lab
There are things that cannot be measured by market principles.
This is an attitude that conveys sincerity.
The author, whom I have observed from the side, is a person with an attitude that cannot be measured in price.
-Park Eun-hee, CEO of Korea Pharma
Before I knew it, the author had become my friend.
His outstanding sales skills and boundless sense of responsibility prove that he has always done his best for his customers.
Bae Sang-gyun, CEO of Withers Asset Investment
Just like the author, who conveys positive resonance and powerful energy with his own strong philosophy, I am confident that his book will also bring much happiness.
-Seo Cheol-su, former professor at Shingu University
I could never get the thought out of my mind, 'This person has lived a really, really hard life.'
We support the author who has overcome all difficulties and reached great heights through innate sincerity and hard work.
- Professor Joo Kyung-im of Sangmyung University
I am always impressed by the author's deep consideration and the life he shares in his values.
If Director Yoon Mi-ae goes to BMW, my next car will be a BMW.
Because business is about trust.
-Choi Sang-moon, plastic surgery specialist at Ryan Plastic Surgery
This book, filled with the author's sincerity, will provide clear inspiration for your life.
I highly recommend you read it.
-Kim Jae-wook, CEO of Shilla Estate
If you don't have anything, change your attitude towards people.
30 Years of Sales Know-How from a Legendary Mercedes-Benz Dealer in the Top 0.001%
The author holds unbroken records of 'achieving the 1,000-unit club in the shortest time, being promoted to executive at lightning speed, and being the only female director of Benz in Korea,' but the title she is most proud of is 'over 90% of customers are referrals and repeat purchases.'
In sales, of course, we experience 'referrals' and 'repurchases' in all other fields.
If you have a reputation as a competent person in any field, people will be more than willing to praise you when they ask for a recommendation.
What kind of person am I? Am I someone you'd want to introduce yourself to and find again?
The author has such exceptional sales skills that he has been praised as “likely able to sell refrigerators in Alaska.”
They observe customers closely, meticulously take care of even invisible services in advance, and achieve even the near-impossible if it is what the customer wants.
By gaining trust in this way, we provide the best satisfaction and impression to our customers.
This book clearly reveals the author's practical sales know-how accumulated over 30 years in the field, while also detailing the fierce attitude that establishes the fundamentals of work and life.
“I don't believe in miracles, but everything I've ever wanted has come true.”
Meeting 10,000 wealthy clients and learning how money makes money
The author says he has never met anyone who has lived a more difficult life than he has.
There were seven people I called "mother" when I was young, and I worked in a garment factory from middle school onwards to continue my education in poverty.
After becoming a sales professional at the world's leading Mercedes-Benz showroom, there is one thing people misunderstand.
I think you can make a lot of money by selling one car.
Of course, I was able to increase my income by being good at sales, but it was through financial investment, and specifically through real estate, that I was able to truly increase my assets.
The author was poor, but he used his poverty and sorrow as a driving force to dream bigger and reach higher.
The book details the process of building assets worth 20 billion won from nothing, and also shares the attitude of nurturing the seeds of wealth that he learned while working with wealthy clients.
To those who ask how to change the course of their lives
"Bitterness was a way of loving myself."
In the comments of the author's video that became a hot topic on YouTube, it was written, "I want to resemble even 1% of the cruelty of the person named Yoon Mi-ae."
The author demoted herself from assistant manager to assistant manager to work where she wanted, and started again from the mop. She even went to work on the day she gave birth to help solve a customer's problem.
Of course, I have never been late for work in 30 years.
The author keeps promises to others, but he considers promises to himself to be the most important.
If you set a goal after you turn twenty, you will definitely achieve it.
So, around the age of 50, I got my license and also earned a doctorate in real estate.
The driving force behind the author's overwhelming achievements lies in his 'desperate attitude.'
The author emphasizes, “Bitterness was a way of loving myself.”
It's okay if you don't have anything now.
Let's love ourselves with an attitude of 'wretchedness' like the author.
If you do that, one day you will be able to meet the moment when everything you have been longing for comes true.
The author's life proves this fact on every page of this book.
Testimonials from real customers
The author is not simply a dealer who sells Mercedes-Benzes, but a special salesperson who reads people's minds, builds trust, and stays by their side.
-Kim Hye-yeon, CEO of Juham Real Estate Co., Ltd.
The fierce life of a single, desperate person, a unique salesmanship that everyone can do but no one can achieve.
I recommend it to anyone who wants to take action.
-Kim Hyun-woo, CEO of The Bio Lab
There are things that cannot be measured by market principles.
This is an attitude that conveys sincerity.
The author, whom I have observed from the side, is a person with an attitude that cannot be measured in price.
-Park Eun-hee, CEO of Korea Pharma
Before I knew it, the author had become my friend.
His outstanding sales skills and boundless sense of responsibility prove that he has always done his best for his customers.
Bae Sang-gyun, CEO of Withers Asset Investment
Just like the author, who conveys positive resonance and powerful energy with his own strong philosophy, I am confident that his book will also bring much happiness.
-Seo Cheol-su, former professor at Shingu University
I could never get the thought out of my mind, 'This person has lived a really, really hard life.'
We support the author who has overcome all difficulties and reached great heights through innate sincerity and hard work.
- Professor Joo Kyung-im of Sangmyung University
I am always impressed by the author's deep consideration and the life he shares in his values.
If Director Yoon Mi-ae goes to BMW, my next car will be a BMW.
Because business is about trust.
-Choi Sang-moon, plastic surgery specialist at Ryan Plastic Surgery
This book, filled with the author's sincerity, will provide clear inspiration for your life.
I highly recommend you read it.
-Kim Jae-wook, CEO of Shilla Estate
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of issue: February 19, 2025
- Page count, weight, size: 272 pages | 428g | 135*210*17mm
- ISBN13: 9791171713615
- ISBN10: 1171713614
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