Prologue To my son who silently finds his way even in the vast darkness

1 To my son who is awkward in interpersonal relationships

Let's become real men | I am a very precious person | Look at strengths instead of weaknesses | You can win people's favor just by saying hello | Walk with a straight posture | Approach first and start a conversation | Look the other person in the eye when talking | Speak slowly when persuading | Be respectful | Listen with empathy | Private conversations increase intimacy | Support and encourage your friends' dreams | Develop the habit of praising three times a day | Eat together | The more you have in common, the more comfortable you become | Focus on solving problems when helping | Be a cheerful person | Smile brightly every time you see your face in the mirror | Avoid encounters that make you feel like a waste of time | Stay away from such friends | Make friends with seniors who are worth emulating | Don't give advice | Avoid harsh words | Don't try to be nice to everyone | Act confidently wherever you are | Don't seem pushy | Help without expecting anything in return | Don't make big promises | Resolve interpersonal stress that day | Seal up any unresolved wounds | In difficult situations, don't cling to conclusions.

2 For my son who needs time management

Set goals and make plans | Finish what you start | Keep a time journal | Prioritize | Become a morning person | Set deadlines | Push yourself to the edge | Develop the habit of organizing and summarizing key points | Monotask rather than multitask | Don't forget the purpose of doing something | Don't try to finish it perfectly | Create a control system | Find the best routine | Don't self-destruct if the start goes off plan | Find the root cause of stress | Separate what you need to do from what you don't | Get adequate rest | Develop regular sleep habits | Say "NO!" when you don't feel like it | Do simple tasks right away | Don't let your smartphone take the lead | Regular exercise improves brain function | Start what you need to do without delay | Don't be swayed by impulsive emotions | Eliminate unnecessary time | Don't lose the rhythm of life

3 To my son preparing for the future

What kind of life do you want to live? | Find meaningful work | If you don't have a dream, go on the path in front of you | Make your bed first when you wake up in the morning | Develop the habit of writing a diary | A good personality is an asset | Get used to self-directed learning | Take time every day to study a foreign language | If you read, be sure to reflect | Study economics consistently | The world belongs to those who commit | Take the road less traveled | Find happiness in everyday life | Learn life from your father | Learn love from your mother | Enjoy every moment | Develop an eye for distinguishing between the real and the fake | Choose the truth at the crossroads of truth and lies | Learn to play at least one musical instrument | Build a strong body through exercise | You have to think you're cool to be cool

4 To my son who is starting his social life

Start your morning with the best words | Say hello loudly | Find a way to never be late | Work becomes easier just by taking good notes | Ask questions when you don't know | Love the work you're given | Obtain certifications that prove your expertise | Develop the habit of speaking in a formal tone | Don't be an easy subordinate | Ask for favors from difficult people | Don't hurt their pride | Appeal to your boss sometimes | Open your heart to good people | Don't settle for your job, develop your abilities | Move to places where you can grow | Beware of greed | Spend money happily, but only where it's absolutely necessary | Invest steadily in stable places | Let go of things that aren't meant to be | Don't be sad, things don't always go as planned, that's life

5 To my son who dreams of a happy marriage

Experience various relationships | Enjoy the moment when talking to a woman | Choose in your heart first and then ask for her opinion | Don't stay single, get married | Don't marry this kind of woman | Marry this kind of woman | Confirm each other's values ​​| Accept differences | If you lack funds for marriage, bring in future funds | Be this kind of husband | Set rules, but upgrade them frequently | Lack of information causes fights between couples | Use polite language to each other | Always remember the life your wife has lived | Respect and support each other's roles | Support your wife's dreams | Enjoy hobbies together as a couple | Don't make promises you can't keep | Don't lose interest in your wife | Serve both sets of parents with utmost care | Tell them how things are going, especially when times are tough | Share the joys and pains of raising children | Children grow up watching their father's back | Make family a priority | Step on the scale every morning | Develop moderate eating habits | Prepare for retirement early

6 To my son who wishes for success

Dream big, but make specific plans | Have a sense of mission | Let money chase you | Create a role model | Visualize success in detail | Short-term goals enhance my abilities | Enter the early stages of your dream | Be prepared and wait for an opportunity | Don't go alone, go together | Beware of bluffing | Hang out with people you can learn from | Organize and analyze your success experiences | Increase efficiency | Trust and delegate important tasks | Don't shirk responsibility | Trust your choices and decisions | Don't be stingy with praise | Learn from the best | Don't lose trust even when things go wrong | Be humble if you achieved early success | Be suspicious of shortcuts | Live as the master of money | Smile if you want what you want | Be careful when things are going well | Respect your subordinates as you would your boss | Time alone becomes a weapon for success | Don't forget the essence of success

7 To the son who stands up after overcoming hardship

Deficiency is the stepping stone to growth | If you are lost, go back to the starting point | Humbly accept the result | If you have failed, understand the whole picture | If the process was good, it is half the success | The end is another beginning | Do not blame anyone | You must maintain self-esteem to seize opportunities | Do not take your eyes off the goal | Trials are God's messages | Do not lose your sense of humor | Solve difficult problems with exercise | If you have been helped, forget it | Engrave grace into your bones | End difficult days early | When you are anxious and nervous, walk | Find solutions through writing | Confirm the reality of fear | You have to hit rock bottom to go up | Get used to rejection | Change your perspective when it is difficult | Misfortune is light on the butt | You have to let go to catch it | Do not remain a reclusive loner

8 To my son who is opening his eyes to a wise life

Life is enough once | Live as the master of your own life | Pay attention to the direction in which your life flows | Develop your thinking power | Take on the challenge of what you like | Stay with your own scent | Don't miss the joy of being 'together' | Don't stay in one place for too long | Think positively, but don't ignore reality | Discover small happiness | Live simply | You must know how to be considerate to be an adult | Travel a lot | Think positively | Open your ears to the voice of your heart | Make friends with good people | Don't take life too seriously | Write your life story | Be grateful for everything | Get close to art | Love life | Speak and act with dignity | Enjoy the joy of learning | Enjoy the change itself in the midst of life

My son, who is still clumsy in life,
Still, make your way proudly!

In today's increasingly competitive world, parents are always anxious.
A child who was once so lovable has become a teenager, and then a mature adult.
Parents always hope that only good things will happen to their children, but that can never happen throughout their lives.


This book is a life advice for sons living in today's difficult times, on behalf of the fathers of this land who are excellent, kind, and somewhat blunt, and it is filled with deep insight and even the father's desperate love.


The father in the book speaks clearly to his son.
My son with infinite potential, live your life confidently and according to your will.
When you laugh, the universe laughs and God laughs too!'
Let us now engrave in our hearts, one by one, the messages of life that a father sends to his son, who is still unfamiliar with life.
And based on this, let's confidently create our own path.

My dear son, live your life like this.
Life Adviser, One-Point Life Lessons from Your Father

Life is a roller coaster of twists and turns, entangled with all sorts of situations.
Sometimes it hits rock bottom, and sometimes it hits rock bottom and rises to the top.
Life is sometimes unhappy, and sometimes happy.
This inconsistent, jumbled, and mixed pattern of life makes us constantly ask ourselves, "How should I live my life?"
In times like these, my father's realistic advice, based on his experience and insight as a senior in life, becomes a very practical guide.

This book comprehensively covers the various problems we encounter in life, and tells us intuitively and concisely, in the voice of a father, how to solve them, how to live well, and thus how to live a good life.
Let's create the most shining moment in your life with each one-point life lesson unfolded over a total of 8 chapters.