
Accidents don't happen by accident.
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Book Introduction
“Use the rules of the game to your advantage.”
The "mechanism of chance" that moves the world, revealed through reporting and analysis.
When a difficult problem is solved easily, we just say we were lucky.
But there is no such thing as a perfect coincidence in this world.
What you thought was a coincidence was likely actually the result of a small action you were not aware of.
This is why the joke that 'luck is also a skill' cannot be taken lightly.
"Why do some people get opportunities more easily than others?" "Success Doesn't Happen by Chance" investigated and analyzed numerous cases to find the answer to this question.
If someone is always 'lucky' to meet a turning point in life, it is an inevitable consequence of that person's habits.
They say the world is not fair.
An ordinary person spits out these words and complains, “So life is against me.”
If there is a disadvantage in a game, there is bound to be an advantage as well.
In other words, if I realize the 'power of chance' that rules the world and make it my own, I too can become the protagonist who achieves success easily and quickly.
This book will guide you through the process.
The "mechanism of chance" that moves the world, revealed through reporting and analysis.
When a difficult problem is solved easily, we just say we were lucky.
But there is no such thing as a perfect coincidence in this world.
What you thought was a coincidence was likely actually the result of a small action you were not aware of.
This is why the joke that 'luck is also a skill' cannot be taken lightly.
"Why do some people get opportunities more easily than others?" "Success Doesn't Happen by Chance" investigated and analyzed numerous cases to find the answer to this question.
If someone is always 'lucky' to meet a turning point in life, it is an inevitable consequence of that person's habits.
They say the world is not fair.
An ordinary person spits out these words and complains, “So life is against me.”
If there is a disadvantage in a game, there is bound to be an advantage as well.
In other words, if I realize the 'power of chance' that rules the world and make it my own, I too can become the protagonist who achieves success easily and quickly.
This book will guide you through the process.
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Acknowledgements
Introduction · If you could get what you want whenever you wanted it
Part 1 | People Who Get Opportunities Easier Than Others
Why so many opportunities pass you by
The illusion that if you just work hard, you will be rewarded someday
I should have calculated wisely and acted naively.
Even if they are not on my side, there should be no enemies.
Should I make a huge investment in my network?
Part 2 | The Rules of the Game Hidden in the Name of "Coincidence"
Rule 1 of the Game: Hide Your Blood and Sweat
Rule 2 of the Game: Reputation Makes All the Difference
Rule 3 of the Game: Don't Hide the Fact You Don't Know
Rule 4 of the Game: Be More, More, More Generous
Rule 5 of the Game: Don't Obsess Over the Spotlight
Rule 6 of the Game: Don't Let Momentary Emotions Ruin Your Relationship
Rule 7 of the Game: Small wins add up to great achievements.
Part 3 | Remove the Stumps in Your Life
Why does failure chase us?
Anger should always be expressed coldly and rationally.
People who stab you in the back
Every cliff has a secret passage.
Introduction · If you could get what you want whenever you wanted it
Part 1 | People Who Get Opportunities Easier Than Others
Why so many opportunities pass you by
The illusion that if you just work hard, you will be rewarded someday
I should have calculated wisely and acted naively.
Even if they are not on my side, there should be no enemies.
Should I make a huge investment in my network?
Part 2 | The Rules of the Game Hidden in the Name of "Coincidence"
Rule 1 of the Game: Hide Your Blood and Sweat
Rule 2 of the Game: Reputation Makes All the Difference
Rule 3 of the Game: Don't Hide the Fact You Don't Know
Rule 4 of the Game: Be More, More, More Generous
Rule 5 of the Game: Don't Obsess Over the Spotlight
Rule 6 of the Game: Don't Let Momentary Emotions Ruin Your Relationship
Rule 7 of the Game: Small wins add up to great achievements.
Part 3 | Remove the Stumps in Your Life
Why does failure chase us?
Anger should always be expressed coldly and rationally.
People who stab you in the back
Every cliff has a secret passage.
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Into the book
There is an old expression, “We believe what we have always believed.”
This means that we become prisoners of our preconceived notions about ourselves and others.
This mindset either denies the existence of luck or limits our own luck by believing it is too powerful for us to influence.
If you change your mindset about luck, you can seize many more opportunities than you have now.
---From "The illusion that if you just work hard, you will be rewarded someday"
Sometimes you find that these people have seized opportunities by getting what they want from friends, strangers, colleagues, and even enemies.
This is an important point.
While many people work harder than necessary to succeed or simply hope opportunities come their way, lucky people make sure others give them the opportunities they want.
---From "I should have calculated wisely and acted naively"
One of the most destructive emotions humans can feel is jealousy.
Jealousy makes us bitter, saps our positive energy, and causes us to make mistakes that ruin our luck and opportunities.
Once you start to look like a jealous person, you can no longer be considered lucky.
Only unlucky people feel bitter and petty about the good fortune of others.
---From "Even if they are not on my side, there should be no enemies"
We can't help but admire a manager who can manage 50 employees so skillfully and yet seem completely unstressed.
I also have a lot of respect for my friend who always seems to find good jobs easily.
We respect them because we know that what they have achieved was actually difficult, and we idolize them even more because they do not outwardly show that they have shed their blood, sweat, and tears.
---From "Rule 1 of the Game: Hide Your Blood and Sweat"
Another reason charisma creates so many opportunities is because it creates expectations.
When you act boldly, you say, 'I expect to be loved.
I hope you succeed and get hired for this job.
There is a signal there that says, 'I expect to succeed.'
When you signal that you're looking forward to an opportunity, most people will say, "Of course."
I start to think, 'What can't be done?'
---From "Rule 2 of the Game: Reputation Makes All the Difference"
As we get older, things change.
As we gain experience, it becomes harder to admit that we don't know something, and instead we pretend to know.
As we get older, the urge to show off our knowledge becomes stronger.
But the reflexive desire to show off one's knowledge to others has a major drawback.
The point is that showing off our knowledge limits the amount of information and help we can receive.
---From "Rule 3 of the Game: Don't Hide the Fact You Don't Know"
The biggest mistake people make when extending generosity is expecting a quick return.
They also expect that the favor they receive in return will be of equal or greater value than what they gave.
Realistically, most gifts or favors are not returned immediately.
Sometimes it may take years for someone you helped to help you again.
---From "Rule 4 of the Game: Be More, More, More, More Generous"
People often expect that someone will provide them with everything they want whenever they need it.
The problem is that people place too high expectations on a few people.
Whenever they seek help from those with influence who can give them opportunities, they mistakenly believe that they will make their lives easier.
---From "Rule 5 of the Game: Don't Obsess Over the Spotlight"
A woman working for an energy company in Houston was working hard to build a business when she was suddenly laid off.
She was a victim of the corporate downsizing that occurred in the early 1990s.
Although she was tempted to sue or make a fuss, she decided to leave quietly.
Instead, she did something interesting.
He kept in touch with the boss who had no choice but to fire him.
---From "Rule 6 of the Game: Don't Ruin Relationships with Momentary Emotions"
The best way to increase your chances is to ask for something from outside.
Most people are hesitant to ask for more from someone when they first get to know them or when someone has already given them a chance.
But lucky people aren't bound by these rules.
They are only interested in creating as many opportunities as possible in the shortest amount of time.
This means that we become prisoners of our preconceived notions about ourselves and others.
This mindset either denies the existence of luck or limits our own luck by believing it is too powerful for us to influence.
If you change your mindset about luck, you can seize many more opportunities than you have now.
---From "The illusion that if you just work hard, you will be rewarded someday"
Sometimes you find that these people have seized opportunities by getting what they want from friends, strangers, colleagues, and even enemies.
This is an important point.
While many people work harder than necessary to succeed or simply hope opportunities come their way, lucky people make sure others give them the opportunities they want.
---From "I should have calculated wisely and acted naively"
One of the most destructive emotions humans can feel is jealousy.
Jealousy makes us bitter, saps our positive energy, and causes us to make mistakes that ruin our luck and opportunities.
Once you start to look like a jealous person, you can no longer be considered lucky.
Only unlucky people feel bitter and petty about the good fortune of others.
---From "Even if they are not on my side, there should be no enemies"
We can't help but admire a manager who can manage 50 employees so skillfully and yet seem completely unstressed.
I also have a lot of respect for my friend who always seems to find good jobs easily.
We respect them because we know that what they have achieved was actually difficult, and we idolize them even more because they do not outwardly show that they have shed their blood, sweat, and tears.
---From "Rule 1 of the Game: Hide Your Blood and Sweat"
Another reason charisma creates so many opportunities is because it creates expectations.
When you act boldly, you say, 'I expect to be loved.
I hope you succeed and get hired for this job.
There is a signal there that says, 'I expect to succeed.'
When you signal that you're looking forward to an opportunity, most people will say, "Of course."
I start to think, 'What can't be done?'
---From "Rule 2 of the Game: Reputation Makes All the Difference"
As we get older, things change.
As we gain experience, it becomes harder to admit that we don't know something, and instead we pretend to know.
As we get older, the urge to show off our knowledge becomes stronger.
But the reflexive desire to show off one's knowledge to others has a major drawback.
The point is that showing off our knowledge limits the amount of information and help we can receive.
---From "Rule 3 of the Game: Don't Hide the Fact You Don't Know"
The biggest mistake people make when extending generosity is expecting a quick return.
They also expect that the favor they receive in return will be of equal or greater value than what they gave.
Realistically, most gifts or favors are not returned immediately.
Sometimes it may take years for someone you helped to help you again.
---From "Rule 4 of the Game: Be More, More, More, More Generous"
People often expect that someone will provide them with everything they want whenever they need it.
The problem is that people place too high expectations on a few people.
Whenever they seek help from those with influence who can give them opportunities, they mistakenly believe that they will make their lives easier.
---From "Rule 5 of the Game: Don't Obsess Over the Spotlight"
A woman working for an energy company in Houston was working hard to build a business when she was suddenly laid off.
She was a victim of the corporate downsizing that occurred in the early 1990s.
Although she was tempted to sue or make a fuss, she decided to leave quietly.
Instead, she did something interesting.
He kept in touch with the boss who had no choice but to fire him.
---From "Rule 6 of the Game: Don't Ruin Relationships with Momentary Emotions"
The best way to increase your chances is to ask for something from outside.
Most people are hesitant to ask for more from someone when they first get to know them or when someone has already given them a chance.
But lucky people aren't bound by these rules.
They are only interested in creating as many opportunities as possible in the shortest amount of time.
---From "Rule 7 of the Game: Small Achievements Add Up to Great Achievements"
Publisher's Review
As soon as the house is put on the market, a buyer appears.
What if you get a scouting offer right after you get fired?
#1.
There is a family that is about to move to a new house.
The problem was that they had to sell the house they were currently living in, and the sale conditions were strict.
Yet, they were able to sell the house to a buyer who showed up at the right time and at a reasonable price.
#2.
One day, a woman working for an energy company found out that she was part of a large-scale layoff.
However, I soon received an offer for a better position and was able to move on without much difficulty, and am now living a more peaceful life than before.
Have you heard the saying, "Life is all about timing?" Those who find the right opportunity at the right time and those who don't face vastly different challenges in life.
Some people call it luck.
The world is not a fair place.
But if you think about it the other way around, it means that you can use the rules to your advantage.
The choices and actions you make in a moment, and even the smallest habits you develop, can determine your future.
If we could control 'coincidence'
The difficulty of life changes
"Successful People Don't Happen by Chance" is the result of research by Marc Myers, a journalist from the New York Times, who covered and analyzed the common behaviors of successful people.
The book is divided into three parts.
Part 1 explains how lucky people think.
Part 2 introduces the seven strategies they practice.
The final three parts teach us about psychological resilience and coping strategies that will help us not crumble in times of crisis but rather create opportunities.
The strength of this book lies in its thorough elimination of "random possibilities" and its search for specific conditions that bring about luck in behaviors that can be controlled, such as interpersonal relationships, speech patterns, and attitudes.
Coincidence is no longer an uncontrollable event, but rather an outcome you design.
This book will show you how one opportunity, a small favor toward you, and my choice to accept it can all come together to create a snowball that changes our lives.
What if you get a scouting offer right after you get fired?
#1.
There is a family that is about to move to a new house.
The problem was that they had to sell the house they were currently living in, and the sale conditions were strict.
Yet, they were able to sell the house to a buyer who showed up at the right time and at a reasonable price.
#2.
One day, a woman working for an energy company found out that she was part of a large-scale layoff.
However, I soon received an offer for a better position and was able to move on without much difficulty, and am now living a more peaceful life than before.
Have you heard the saying, "Life is all about timing?" Those who find the right opportunity at the right time and those who don't face vastly different challenges in life.
Some people call it luck.
The world is not a fair place.
But if you think about it the other way around, it means that you can use the rules to your advantage.
The choices and actions you make in a moment, and even the smallest habits you develop, can determine your future.
If we could control 'coincidence'
The difficulty of life changes
"Successful People Don't Happen by Chance" is the result of research by Marc Myers, a journalist from the New York Times, who covered and analyzed the common behaviors of successful people.
The book is divided into three parts.
Part 1 explains how lucky people think.
Part 2 introduces the seven strategies they practice.
The final three parts teach us about psychological resilience and coping strategies that will help us not crumble in times of crisis but rather create opportunities.
The strength of this book lies in its thorough elimination of "random possibilities" and its search for specific conditions that bring about luck in behaviors that can be controlled, such as interpersonal relationships, speech patterns, and attitudes.
Coincidence is no longer an uncontrollable event, but rather an outcome you design.
This book will show you how one opportunity, a small favor toward you, and my choice to accept it can all come together to create a snowball that changes our lives.
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of issue: June 17, 2025
- Page count, weight, size: 316 pages | 438g | 148*210*21mm
- ISBN13: 9791164162505
- ISBN10: 1164162500
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