Chapter 1.
You can't be a good person to everyone

Loneliness comes more often when we are together
You have to cut your losses well to be able to look forward to the next time.
You just have to be good to good people.
Don't try to give too much
Relationship traffic lights
Why Honeymoon is Necessary
The person I want to have by my side
When we share our sorrows, our relationships become deeper.
Effort is something we do together
How to Hold the Key to a Relationship
The real thing remains
It's not that it doesn't fit, it's that I don't know
Don't talk carelessly
The moment a relationship falls apart
Do we have to be in pain together?
You have to keep moving so you don't fall
There's no such thing as a predetermined answer
It shines because of the effort we put in together.
That guy is not stupid
You have to know how to say no
The person next to me right now
Consideration remains in the heart
It's not that it's not true
Let's get this straight
The lie that this is only this once
My feelings are more important
Just listening gives me strength
Frequency of contact is not a measure of relationship quality.
Be free from wounds
What matters is the consistency within it.
A person who reads the mood
It's not enough to just do it well
Life is full with just my people
Time is limited
Silence is not golden
There's nothing I can do about it not fitting
Don't pretend
I like people who listen to me
Tolerating is to ignore
It's not a problem of A and B
I can be a bad person too
What matters is that we have the same mind.
The cause may lie with me
Words do not disappear, they remain
The paradox of wounds
You get what you pay for
Memories are written differently

Chapter 2.
To me, whom I love

Even winning the lottery requires effort.
To me, whom I love
I'll love you roughly
The essence is more important than the packaging
I'm not lazy, I'm just tired
The mind also needs a sanctuary
The tunnel is just a part of the road
Understanding is more difficult than breaking up
Sometimes let's be sharp
Strengths can sometimes become weaknesses
Why the mood suddenly becomes cold
Emotions are consumer goods
Let's just let the insignificant supporting actors pass.
How to deal with a breakup
Don't be fooled by the shadows
It's not that the flowers are smiling at me
A person like a deep-rooted tree
Things to read when you want to be happy
Before you doubt, say thank you for your hard work.
There is no such thing as an ordinary person
You have to show it to know
Overestimation is better than underestimation
To me who doesn't love me
How to maintain a beautiful appearance
If you don't have time, it's because you don't have the heart.
No one can make me happier than myself
Not wrong, just less
Just because I am here
A person who is precious just as he is
If I do that, then so be it
How to prevent mental breakdown
Time is not a medicine

Chapter 3.
Love is learning about that person

The love I want to have
Even if I become the one who loves more
I like any look
You're asking me to speak first
The road that takes you there
Thank you for loving me like this
What we call love
The season called you
Sometimes you say something out of the blue
Small but true
Why Love Is Difficult
I'm not asking for something hot
Let's talk about the present rather than the distant future.
Why you should speak nicely
Let's decide not to make a decision
Just try hard enough not to be hated
Once a dish is broken, it is difficult to mend it.
Love only as much as you express
Love is a discovery
Who can measure that amount?
Nature does not change
If you give it your all, you won't have any regrets.
It's not hard because I love you
boredom
There is no other reason
I didn't beg you
That time must pass by
Things like love, things that aren't love
When I stand alone in a field with no one around
I don't like you that much
magnet
The real reason we broke up
Don't be sad and do your best on your own
It was a long separation for me
Did I love you?
Just let me go now
Even if it's a tangled thread
Both become halves
Not well
Spring has come
It's just a difference in position
Aren't you having trouble sleeping either?
Sometimes I draw you
Memories last till the end
I closed the door so you couldn't come in.
Why I haven't heard anything from him
Winter has come again

Chapter 4.
Now is the time to take care of myself

Ask me how I am doing
Looking back, I realized it was me who ruined myself.
It's just something you can't see yet
When you want to empty your mind of thoughts
A few things my mom told me while I was living
Please take me back to those happy times
The story the wind tells
Not full, but in a state of zero
Anxiety is also a habit
When I look back, it will be a time I miss
How to be 200% happy right now
You'll find out if you take one step at a time
At that time, it was the best that could be done
Give yourself time
Sometimes avoidance is the best policy
Be happy in my own way
People to get close to and people to distance themselves from
Even if you have less, you will be free
When things don't go my way
You can't go forward looking back
If you feel unhappy right now
Do only what you can
Everything is just a process for another beginning
You can do it
Do well when you have the chance
It's more important to keep what you have than to get it.
The Gift of Oblivion
Becoming an adult
The subjunctive mood is meaningless
Fallen leaves and autumn wind
It's more important to have the will to try
How to filter out the real
Once a day
let it be
I'd rather have fun than work hard
That person isn't perfect either
Now is the time to take care of myself

Author of the best-selling book, "Things to Know When You're in Love," which resonated with 2 million followers.
A one-of-a-kind relationship prescription from author Kim Jae-sik

As the operator of Korea's largest love community, "Things to Know When You're in Love," author Jaesik Kim has shared his thoughts on love and relationships for 16 years through Facebook, Kakao Story, Instagram, and other platforms, gaining the warm sympathy of 2 million followers. His new book has been published by Wisdom House.

Author Kim Jae-sik has received enthusiastic responses from readers through his previous works, including “Things to Know When You Love,” “Three-Line Love Letter,” “There Has Not Been a Single Day That I Haven’t Loved You,” and “Thank You for Making Me Love,” by awakening us to the various forms of love and the preciousness of everyday life that we take for granted.

This is his fifth book, which has been with readers for a long time, and the first book to focus on human relationships.
Through this book, readers will be able to experience the author's more mature perspective on not only love between men and women, but also how to take care of oneself, relationships between people, and happiness in the present moment.


You can't be a good person to everyone.

If you focused on the important moments in your life and did your best,
That's enough.
Because the opportunity will come again.

Even the players that people call the best
It's not 100% perfect.
There's nothing more important than hitting a home run in a game.
Hit at the right time and create opportunities
It's to enable you to continue on.

So don't try too hard to be perfect.
Don't be upset about the results.
If you focused on the important moments in your life and did your best,
That's enough.
Because the opportunity will come again.

-From 'To Me, Who I Love'

There needs to be a certain distance between people, I too can be a bad person to someone, and it takes effort to keep love.
In four chapters, the author talks about the importance of taking care of yourself rather than trying to be a good person to others.
Chapter 1 talks about relationships between people.
Because relationships are always relative, I emphasize that rather than trying to appear to others as they want you to be, focus on being a good person to those who like you.

Chapter 2 defines what true self-esteem is.
Self-esteem is nothing special.
We often get lost in the conscious awareness of what others think, so we are advised to never lose sight of ourselves in any situation.
Chapter 3 talks about mature love.
Love isn't something that only those who are good at it do, but something that only those who work hard at it for a long time do.
From the exciting beginning, love, and even breakups, it contains everything you need to know about the process.
Chapter 4 defines what true happiness is.
Happiness is not in some past time or some future point, but right now, and it encourages us to be enough just as we are.


Don't forget, you are already a good person.
Let's just let the insignificant supporting actors pass.

Even if you hold hands with difficulty, the relationship between people can easily end if one side lets go.
As difficult as it is, it becomes light, and as precious as it is, it becomes nothing.
So don't hold on to someone and be good to them, just be good to those who are good to you.
First and foremost, let's not forget that we must be good to ourselves.

-From p13 'Author's Note'

We don't put as much effort into ourselves as we do into giving time and effort to others.
It is overlooking the obvious fact that we must be good to ourselves before anyone else.
It's more important to take care of yourself than to try to get approval from others.
In any case, the object will continue to change, and when I know my own value, I can be respected by others.
Since you can't be perfectly good to everyone, you should first realize that you are a good person rather than trying to be a good person to others.
People who are satisfied and happy with themselves have a positive influence on others.
How about giving this book as a gift to myself, who has neglected self-care amidst my busy daily life, and to the good people who have been by my side?