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Density of conversation
Density of conversation
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Book Introduction
“Everyone has a different level of conversational intensity.”

The density of each conversation is different.
The conversations I have with my partner, with whom I share deep emotional connection in a lasting relationship, have different densities even when we spend the same amount of time together.
I always miss and thirst for those conversations.
How are our conversations these days, with this book open?

As a lawyer in Seocho-dong, a negotiation expert, and a husband and father of three, the author has encountered life-changing conversations.
This book is a collection of conversational essays, compiled with lyrical prose and rich, expressive language, of the author's encounters with people and conversations he has had throughout life's journey.

How did the author, who said, "I always wanted to be a whale-like person," protect himself and maintain a conversation of his own in Seocho-dong, a neighborhood filled with people who use predatory, shark-like language?
And how do gentle and wise people converse?
The moment we open this book, we will be able to reflect on our everyday conversations and have a deep conversation with ourselves.

As the author says, “A good conversation is unforgettable, and a bad conversation is unbearable,” I hope you create everyday moments filled with meaningful conversations with good people.



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Opening remarks: The density of each conversation is different.

1.
A good conversation is unforgettable, a bad conversation is unbearable.


A life of sharing sincerity
Shark-style conversation and whale-style conversation
In this house, people are the most precious.
After-school interviews
Law of conservation of total energy
Some words may be the last conversation you ever have.
5 percent margin
position
Conversational attitude
Replay of the conversation
The meaning of greetings
Words of comfort from seventy-eight friends
A good conversation is unforgettable, a bad conversation is unbearable.

2.
Let's have a warm and dignified conversation


The power of saying 'it's okay'
French pastry shop
I get it
People who can tolerate haste
Sometimes I need to reserve my feelings
The lie that 'we're almost there'
It's bland
Iced Americano
It's cold
Comforting words
The mindset of a person who consistently does things
Constitutional Reading Session
There are clothes that go with your hand

3.
Conversational phobia trigger


conversation bulimia
Diagnosis by a specialist at a university hospital
Hangover from conversation
Absolute taboos in conversation
A word that appears more than three times in that person's language
Are you 'you' or 'it' to that person?
An almost surefire way to make my life miserable
conversation phobia
messenger effect
There is no such thing as a good conversation that is just given.
An apple worthy of being called an apple
A person wearing gloves on both hands

4.
I'm so glad I could talk to you.


Conversational chemistry
That kind of person
night fishing
It's not your fault
Sincere words
Time for maturation
My brother's wedding congratulatory speech
Adult conversation skills
A moment that requires real courage
Even surviving a day is no easy feat.
First sentence
Dad's Legacy
Ten essays gifted to dear friends

5.
Time to hug me tightly


Always Protect Yourself
My own oyster
When my heart is hell
You will do well
A little distance
The right to spend the day doing nothing
About complete rest
Memories of the blanket kick
You can live well without being obsessed with that kind of relationship.
Conversation with oneself
Witness examination
There is a treasure beneath the ground where I stand.

6.
Memories make us dream of being better people.


Our Montreal
Anchovy noodles
welfare
Twenty years old, Taebaeksan Mountain in the winter of that year
Don't you have days like that sometimes?
Haklim Tea House
How to imprint moments on the clock of life

Concluding remarks
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Into the book
“I think a successful life is one in which you share your true feelings.”
---From "A Life of Sharing Sincerity"

Whales are not aggressive, but no one takes them lightly.
---From "Shark-style Conversation and Whale-style Conversation"

Words are the fingerprints of a person's life, containing his thoughts, attitudes, and the breath of life.
We judge and define a person by his words.
So the words I spit out have a decisive influence on my fate.
---From "Memories of the Blanket Kick"

“The universe is shaking and the Earth is spinning, so how could you not be shaking?
“Because we shake, we are human, and if we are human, you and I will also shake constantly.”
---From "Words of Comfort from Seventy-Eight Friends"

Some words may be the last conversation you ever have in your life.
---From "Some words may be the last conversation in your life"

Good conversation requires time to mature.
Only after going through that period of maturation can we truly have a deep connection without feeling immature.
---From "Time of Maturation"

In that sense, happiness is a realm of intellect, not emotion.
---From "An Almost Sure Way to Make Your Life Miserable"

It's okay.
It's not as bad as I thought.
Things are going well and will be fine.

---From "The Power of the Word 'It's Okay'"

There are things that you only realize after a long time has passed.
The word 'stance' means 'a place to stand', and although it may not be well understood at the time, there are times when its meaning comes to mind only when you happen to stand in the place that person was standing.
---From "Position"

Don't you have days like that sometimes?
It's a day with nothing special going on, but it's a day that makes me feel very satisfied.
That day was that kind of day for us.
---From "Aren't there days like that sometimes?"

There is no one who gets 100 points.
My wife and I, and you, we are all 70-point people.
I think the question is, 'Will you live seeing 70 percent of the other person's strengths, or will you live seeing 30 percent of the other person's weaknesses?' This determines the quality of the relationship.
---From "My Little Brother's Wedding Congratulatory Speech"

After dozens of weeks of repeated experiences, I realized that the total amount of rest in my daily life must be maintained absolutely, and that I need to have a rest routine that suits me, and that to do that, I need my own den where I can exhale without anyone interfering.

---From "My Own Oyster"

Simple things last a long time.
In food, in relationships, in conversation.
---From "Soo-soo-ha-da"

No one can have a pleasant conversation with my current self, who denies my past, looks bleakly at my future, and refuses to talk to myself.
---From "A Conversation with Myself"

There are times in life when I have to reach out first.
---From "Moments That Require True Courage"

When I encounter a scene I want to remember, a moment I will definitely miss, I record that moment.
---From "How to Mark Moments on the Clock of Life"
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Publisher's Review
"Everyone's conversation has a different density."

The density of each conversation is different.
The conversations I have with my partner, with whom I share deep emotional connection in a lasting relationship, have different densities even when we spend the same amount of time together.
I always miss and thirst for those conversations.
How are our conversations these days, with this book open?

As a lawyer in Seocho-dong, a negotiation expert, and a husband and father of three, the author has encountered life-changing conversations.
This book is a collection of conversational essays, compiled with lyrical prose and rich, expressive language, of the author's encounters with people and conversations he has had throughout life's journey.


How did the author, who said, "I always wanted to be a whale-like person," protect himself and maintain a conversation of his own in Seocho-dong, a neighborhood filled with people who use predatory, shark-like language?
And how do gentle and wise people converse?
The moment we open this book, we will be able to reflect on our everyday conversations and have a deep conversation with ourselves.


As the author says, “A good conversation is unforgettable, and a bad conversation is unbearable,” I hope you create everyday moments filled with meaningful conversations with good people.
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GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of issue: January 20, 2023
- Format: Hardcover book binding method guide
- Page count, weight, size: 307 pages | 384g | 127*188*30mm
- ISBN13: 9791198112293
- ISBN10: 1198112298

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