
Home in Home
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Book Introduction
A realistic healing essay, returning three years after "1cm Diving." “After reading this book, I finally feel like I am the master of my own mind.” - I'm still tired no matter how much I sleep. - I don't want to do anything. - I can't sleep every day because I'm anxious. - Even when I meet my friends, I want to go home. If any of these apply to you, you absolutely must read this book! It is often said that home is a place to rest. But sometimes, even when I'm at home, I don't feel like I'm really resting, and even when I'm lying down all day, I feel like I haven't rested. If home is a place to rest our tired bodies, I thought we might need another home. To be more precise, it is a ‘house where the mind can rest.’ This book is a book that helps create such a space. This book is the second essay by the author of "1cm Diving," which has been a sensation, selling over 200,000 copies in Korea alone since its publication in 2020. If the previous work was about how to escape reality to find happiness, this work contains “how to build a ‘house in my heart’ where my mind can truly rest.” I hope this can be a guide for those of you who are living in an uncertain present without knowing what it is. Would you like to join us in creating a one-of-a-kind 'home of the heart'? |
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index
Prologue _ Does the mind also need reconstruction?
unfinished guidebook
Rebuilding _ Half the battle is breaking down
# Start: Subtraction × Subtraction = Addition
# Initiative: I know what I did with my smartphone yesterday.
# Rest: The saddest new word in the world
# Give up: You can answer multiple choice questions even if you don't know the answer.
# Regret: How to Erase Old Pencil Marks
# Inferiority complex: What alcohol and inferiority complex have in common
# Pride: Regret is bitter, giving up is sweet
# Advice: Where should I go if there are no signs?
# Relationship: A disaster movie that everyone should experience at least once
# Future: Life Spoilers Ahead
# Happiness: You want me to find my happiness in you?
# Subjective: Even when choosing a menu, you need your own criteria
Pillar _ The heart also needs a pillar
# Work: Called by office workers, the meaning of work
# Up: Ding! But this time, I'll give you the correct answer.
# Money: About that beautiful and bitter name
# Existence: There are wounds in the world that cannot be healed alone.
# Mindfulness: When I'm feeling down, I go for a workout.
# Responsibility: The punishment you receive if you don't leave something behind
# Dream: Even in reality, there are dreams that you don't want to wake up from.
# Listening: Koreans are weak at listening assessments
# Luxury: I'm done with the feelings, now give me money.
# Dignity: What kind of adult do you want to be?
# Individuality: The only way to eliminate mutations
# Hobbies: If there is something you absolutely need to continue doing what you love,
# Values: Beautiful colored glasses
Brick _ Life is ultimately about laying bricks
# Me: What do you know about me?
# Body Care: There comes a time when everyone has to climb the escalator that goes down.
# Challenge: Infinite Challenge every Saturday at 6:30
# Priority: The story of office worker A, who was once a hero.
# Recovery: Sometimes I just want to turn around and go home.
# Pain: Brave New World Isn't Wonderful
# Managing You: What You Dislike More Than What You Like
# Thought Eraser: Wait a minute, I'll stop thinking and come back.
# Horse: Habits learned at age three last until age eighty.
# Memories: Memories are made
# Time: What Corona has taken away
# Last: Life is a test, but it's a test that I grade.
Epilogue _ Today was uneventful
unfinished guidebook
Rebuilding _ Half the battle is breaking down
# Start: Subtraction × Subtraction = Addition
# Initiative: I know what I did with my smartphone yesterday.
# Rest: The saddest new word in the world
# Give up: You can answer multiple choice questions even if you don't know the answer.
# Regret: How to Erase Old Pencil Marks
# Inferiority complex: What alcohol and inferiority complex have in common
# Pride: Regret is bitter, giving up is sweet
# Advice: Where should I go if there are no signs?
# Relationship: A disaster movie that everyone should experience at least once
# Future: Life Spoilers Ahead
# Happiness: You want me to find my happiness in you?
# Subjective: Even when choosing a menu, you need your own criteria
Pillar _ The heart also needs a pillar
# Work: Called by office workers, the meaning of work
# Up: Ding! But this time, I'll give you the correct answer.
# Money: About that beautiful and bitter name
# Existence: There are wounds in the world that cannot be healed alone.
# Mindfulness: When I'm feeling down, I go for a workout.
# Responsibility: The punishment you receive if you don't leave something behind
# Dream: Even in reality, there are dreams that you don't want to wake up from.
# Listening: Koreans are weak at listening assessments
# Luxury: I'm done with the feelings, now give me money.
# Dignity: What kind of adult do you want to be?
# Individuality: The only way to eliminate mutations
# Hobbies: If there is something you absolutely need to continue doing what you love,
# Values: Beautiful colored glasses
Brick _ Life is ultimately about laying bricks
# Me: What do you know about me?
# Body Care: There comes a time when everyone has to climb the escalator that goes down.
# Challenge: Infinite Challenge every Saturday at 6:30
# Priority: The story of office worker A, who was once a hero.
# Recovery: Sometimes I just want to turn around and go home.
# Pain: Brave New World Isn't Wonderful
# Managing You: What You Dislike More Than What You Like
# Thought Eraser: Wait a minute, I'll stop thinking and come back.
# Horse: Habits learned at age three last until age eighty.
# Memories: Memories are made
# Time: What Corona has taken away
# Last: Life is a test, but it's a test that I grade.
Epilogue _ Today was uneventful
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Into the book
We see too much and hear too much.
And I suffer from so much anger and worry.
What are the recent violent incidents, what's the entertainment gossip, what's the YouTube issue?
I get so caught up in things that don't really matter in my life that I lose sight of what really matters.
It's about taking control of my emotions.
--- p.27
In the journey of life, sometimes we have to give up to find a better path.
Because life is a test where you can guess the answer even if you don't know the answer.
Because we get closer to the correct answer by erasing the wrong answers.
--- p.38
Inferiority complex has a lot in common with alcohol.
It's energizing in moderation, but the moment it crosses the line, it becomes vicious, making even basic tasks impossible.
If so, what I have to do from now on will be similar.
“I envy you.” With just one word, all the sticky feelings of inferiority are poured out.
Don't hide it, hold it in, or throw it away. Just let it out naturally and go to bed.
--- p.50
It's embarrassing to say it myself, but I want to make my people happy so that I can be happier.
I want to earn money so I can give gifts without worrying about money, and I want to make my people laugh so that I can smile when I'm expressionless.
Yes, that's right.
I want to be an altruistic person with a very selfish heart.
--- pp.78~79
If I could go back 25 years, what I should have said to myself would probably be something like this:
You have to become a person who knows how to be sick.
You have to be someone who knows how to lean on others when your body hurts and ask for a hug when your heart is aching.
You have to be willing to speak up so you don't grow up to be a machine that only shows you good things every day.
“Grandma, I feel pain here.” Expressing my pain signals to the other person that it’s okay to express pain too.
Because we give and receive love like that to each other.
--- p.208
Probably everyone has had such moments.
The more I try to erase them from my mind, the more they remain in my mind in scarlet letters, embarrassing moments that torment me.
But just as the history we love more is unofficial history than official history, sometimes embarrassing memories can become the most enjoyable memories.
It remains our own secret that no one else knows, and it brings us closer together and makes us laugh.
--- p.231
I've wasted a lot of time trying to differentiate between real and fake happiness.
I often ignored the moments of happiness that came to me like luck, thinking that happiness that I had never learned was fake.
It is truly shameful that I have tried to arbitrarily judge not only my own happiness but also that of others in my mere thirties.
Is there a right answer to happiness? Perhaps there is.
However, it won't be a multiple-choice test like the previous tests.
It would be a strange test where I would be the only one writing the answers and grading them.
And I suffer from so much anger and worry.
What are the recent violent incidents, what's the entertainment gossip, what's the YouTube issue?
I get so caught up in things that don't really matter in my life that I lose sight of what really matters.
It's about taking control of my emotions.
--- p.27
In the journey of life, sometimes we have to give up to find a better path.
Because life is a test where you can guess the answer even if you don't know the answer.
Because we get closer to the correct answer by erasing the wrong answers.
--- p.38
Inferiority complex has a lot in common with alcohol.
It's energizing in moderation, but the moment it crosses the line, it becomes vicious, making even basic tasks impossible.
If so, what I have to do from now on will be similar.
“I envy you.” With just one word, all the sticky feelings of inferiority are poured out.
Don't hide it, hold it in, or throw it away. Just let it out naturally and go to bed.
--- p.50
It's embarrassing to say it myself, but I want to make my people happy so that I can be happier.
I want to earn money so I can give gifts without worrying about money, and I want to make my people laugh so that I can smile when I'm expressionless.
Yes, that's right.
I want to be an altruistic person with a very selfish heart.
--- pp.78~79
If I could go back 25 years, what I should have said to myself would probably be something like this:
You have to become a person who knows how to be sick.
You have to be someone who knows how to lean on others when your body hurts and ask for a hug when your heart is aching.
You have to be willing to speak up so you don't grow up to be a machine that only shows you good things every day.
“Grandma, I feel pain here.” Expressing my pain signals to the other person that it’s okay to express pain too.
Because we give and receive love like that to each other.
--- p.208
Probably everyone has had such moments.
The more I try to erase them from my mind, the more they remain in my mind in scarlet letters, embarrassing moments that torment me.
But just as the history we love more is unofficial history than official history, sometimes embarrassing memories can become the most enjoyable memories.
It remains our own secret that no one else knows, and it brings us closer together and makes us laugh.
--- p.231
I've wasted a lot of time trying to differentiate between real and fake happiness.
I often ignored the moments of happiness that came to me like luck, thinking that happiness that I had never learned was fake.
It is truly shameful that I have tried to arbitrarily judge not only my own happiness but also that of others in my mere thirties.
Is there a right answer to happiness? Perhaps there is.
However, it won't be a multiple-choice test like the previous tests.
It would be a strange test where I would be the only one writing the answers and grading them.
--- p.243
Publisher's Review
“If you don’t feel better even after getting enough rest, it might be a mental problem!”
A realistic healing essay, returning three years after "1cm Diving."
Sometimes, when I'm particularly tired and exhausted from a day like this, I want to go home and sleep as soon as possible, but when I actually get home and lie down on the bed, I can't fall asleep until 3 or 4 in the morning because of all sorts of worries and distracting thoughts.
Everyone has had this experience at least once.
If we're so tired that we go to bed early but can't sleep, how should we rest? This book began with that thought in mind.
When I was young and got scolded by my parents, I would go into the closet alone and sort out my thoughts.
When I lay alone on the cold blanket, my fevered heart would calm down as if it were a lie.
Whenever I became an adult and felt mentally exhausted, I remembered that time.
And then I suddenly thought that maybe that's exactly what we need right now.
A space where my mind can rest when it gets too heated, not a physical space, a small attic-like space where I can go in alone and lay my weary mind to rest.
This book is the second essay by the author of "1cm Diving."
If the previous work was about escaping from reality to find happiness, this work is about building a 'house in my heart' where my mind can rest.
This book doesn't give you the answers.
I'm just going to teach you step by step how to create a home in your heart.
So that no negative emotions can control me without my permission, and only those emotions that I have opened the door to can enter.
This book helps you build a small house in your heart and create a strong door.
“The mind needs rest too!”
Creating a 'home in my heart' where anxiety and worry cannot enter
Creating a home in your heart is not difficult.
It only takes 5 minutes a day.
"Home in Home" contains short articles that can be read in just 5 minutes, and actions that can be followed with just 5 minutes of investment.
There are three steps required to build a house of the mind.
The first is to break down and empty the existing one.
Sometimes, to improve something, you have to break it down completely.
So the first thing we have to do is the same.
It helps you empty out all of your existing thoughts and actions, including the relationships, daily life, subjectivity, and self-esteem you have built up so far.
The second is to build a pillar as a person called ‘I’ in the empty space of the heart.
The most important thing when building a house is to build the pillars firmly.
If a pillar is strong, it will shake but not collapse when disaster strikes.
The same goes for the house of the mind.
Life sometimes gets us down and we get tired quite often.
It presents values that will support me like a pillar so that I won't collapse even when that time comes, and how to create them.
Now that you have the pillars up, all that's left to do is lay the bricks.
Here, bricks are our daily lives.
Life is ultimately completed by the accumulation of daily life events.
Third, it helps you build a strong home in your heart by suggesting habits that will change your daily life.
Unlike a regular home, a house of the mind is DIY (Do It Yourself).
You can seek help from a counselor or psychiatrist, or from books, but ultimately, you are the one who creates the home of your mind.
So, this book also does not aim to build a house for your heart.
Instead, we will do our best to help you create your own home in your heart.
how is it.
Would you like to join us in creating a one-of-a-kind 'home in my heart'?
A realistic healing essay, returning three years after "1cm Diving."
Sometimes, when I'm particularly tired and exhausted from a day like this, I want to go home and sleep as soon as possible, but when I actually get home and lie down on the bed, I can't fall asleep until 3 or 4 in the morning because of all sorts of worries and distracting thoughts.
Everyone has had this experience at least once.
If we're so tired that we go to bed early but can't sleep, how should we rest? This book began with that thought in mind.
When I was young and got scolded by my parents, I would go into the closet alone and sort out my thoughts.
When I lay alone on the cold blanket, my fevered heart would calm down as if it were a lie.
Whenever I became an adult and felt mentally exhausted, I remembered that time.
And then I suddenly thought that maybe that's exactly what we need right now.
A space where my mind can rest when it gets too heated, not a physical space, a small attic-like space where I can go in alone and lay my weary mind to rest.
This book is the second essay by the author of "1cm Diving."
If the previous work was about escaping from reality to find happiness, this work is about building a 'house in my heart' where my mind can rest.
This book doesn't give you the answers.
I'm just going to teach you step by step how to create a home in your heart.
So that no negative emotions can control me without my permission, and only those emotions that I have opened the door to can enter.
This book helps you build a small house in your heart and create a strong door.
“The mind needs rest too!”
Creating a 'home in my heart' where anxiety and worry cannot enter
Creating a home in your heart is not difficult.
It only takes 5 minutes a day.
"Home in Home" contains short articles that can be read in just 5 minutes, and actions that can be followed with just 5 minutes of investment.
There are three steps required to build a house of the mind.
The first is to break down and empty the existing one.
Sometimes, to improve something, you have to break it down completely.
So the first thing we have to do is the same.
It helps you empty out all of your existing thoughts and actions, including the relationships, daily life, subjectivity, and self-esteem you have built up so far.
The second is to build a pillar as a person called ‘I’ in the empty space of the heart.
The most important thing when building a house is to build the pillars firmly.
If a pillar is strong, it will shake but not collapse when disaster strikes.
The same goes for the house of the mind.
Life sometimes gets us down and we get tired quite often.
It presents values that will support me like a pillar so that I won't collapse even when that time comes, and how to create them.
Now that you have the pillars up, all that's left to do is lay the bricks.
Here, bricks are our daily lives.
Life is ultimately completed by the accumulation of daily life events.
Third, it helps you build a strong home in your heart by suggesting habits that will change your daily life.
Unlike a regular home, a house of the mind is DIY (Do It Yourself).
You can seek help from a counselor or psychiatrist, or from books, but ultimately, you are the one who creates the home of your mind.
So, this book also does not aim to build a house for your heart.
Instead, we will do our best to help you create your own home in your heart.
how is it.
Would you like to join us in creating a one-of-a-kind 'home in my heart'?
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Publication date: November 1, 2022
- Page count, weight, size: 252 pages | 334g | 128*188*20mm
- ISBN13: 9791190299701
- ISBN10: 1190299704
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