
That's what I'm saying
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Book Introduction
A sympathetic essay eight years after the publication of "Are There Times Like That?" Kim Je-dong's stories of food and people that will fill your day. Eight years after the publication of his previous work, "Are There Times Like That?", which resonated with 300,000 readers, Kim Je-dong's second essay, "That's What I'm Saying," is a diary-like book filled with the small, joyful moments of everyday life that Kim Je-dong discovered as he spent more time at home, traveling the country, and talking with children, rather than on TV or performing. This book is also like a letter that Kim Je-dong sends to share with readers the story of his life, feeding and caring for others, the touching moments of meeting children, laughing together, and being healed, and the heartwarming moments he felt while living with his dog, Tani, whom he had been fostering for five years. The author says he wrote this book with the hope that readers will smile after reading it, as if they were chatting with friends at a tteokbokki restaurant, as if someone were there with them in times of hardship or joy, as if they were sharing a conversation no matter which page they opened. Rather than focusing on grand meaning or context, he hoped readers would find themselves smiling happily after reading it. In this book, Kim Je-dong, who plays the role of a lecturer (a person called a storyteller in the Joseon Dynasty) who tells stories about Gyeongbokgung Palace to his acquaintances whenever he has time, gives readers a detailed account of his daily life and asks, “How are you all doing?” and “What small, joyful moments fill your hearts these days?” as he offers his warm regards. This book, published after eight years, will be a delightful and pleasant gift to readers who have missed the wit of broadcaster and host Kim Je-dong. |
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Preface /
When very small smiles come together
We'll all be okay!
1.
Spring and rice
Just take a bite
My base camp, me
Spring and rice
split personality
You can rest assured
“It’s okay to live as you!”
When the revenge grass blooms
To the flowers, to you
2.
This is how we live
Elementary school diary
Three things you should never put off in life
The cat family left and the new one arrived, Yeontan.
“He’s a typical shit dog.”
People I met on my walk
Words that save lives
Life on the road and dog life
Morning in India
The persimmon tree in my yard
3.
To you who have had a hard time becoming an adult
My summer is
Becoming an adult
Brother Gukjin
The place and the person come together
Parents' hearts
'Gooksuge', games are also included in the CSAT subjects
“Who are you, sir?”
Children's Great Questions That Awaken Adults
4.
Let's go together, let's go together
Not a contract between the two parties, but a contract for accompanying
I can't live as a king!
Jeju Camellia Story
Always like a welcome guest
Please wait 3 days
“Why are you asking me?”
"reflection!"
5.
“Thank you for being so country!”
On country bumpkinism and academic background
Reckless
Other people's gaze
Fake news, how do we detect it?
knitting
6.
“Thanks to you!”
No-spending consumption that I know of
Bread and Laptop
20,000 won that my grandmother gave me
Dad Chance
jester
self-esteem
To Autumn
Kimje-dong Elementary School vs. Kimje Dong Elementary School
7.
“Lonely people, gather together!”
Minister of Loneliness
On a normal day
Comment code name 'Peter'
Love call
The Morning Cloud Appreciation Association is recruiting members.
Not sticky, but crispy
8.
I want to be part of 'that generation'.
Things these days
To my depressed comrades
On the day of the CSAT
First snow
What is true success?
Today too, shoulder to shoulder
When very small smiles come together
We'll all be okay!
1.
Spring and rice
Just take a bite
My base camp, me
Spring and rice
split personality
You can rest assured
“It’s okay to live as you!”
When the revenge grass blooms
To the flowers, to you
2.
This is how we live
Elementary school diary
Three things you should never put off in life
The cat family left and the new one arrived, Yeontan.
“He’s a typical shit dog.”
People I met on my walk
Words that save lives
Life on the road and dog life
Morning in India
The persimmon tree in my yard
3.
To you who have had a hard time becoming an adult
My summer is
Becoming an adult
Brother Gukjin
The place and the person come together
Parents' hearts
'Gooksuge', games are also included in the CSAT subjects
“Who are you, sir?”
Children's Great Questions That Awaken Adults
4.
Let's go together, let's go together
Not a contract between the two parties, but a contract for accompanying
I can't live as a king!
Jeju Camellia Story
Always like a welcome guest
Please wait 3 days
“Why are you asking me?”
"reflection!"
5.
“Thank you for being so country!”
On country bumpkinism and academic background
Reckless
Other people's gaze
Fake news, how do we detect it?
knitting
6.
“Thanks to you!”
No-spending consumption that I know of
Bread and Laptop
20,000 won that my grandmother gave me
Dad Chance
jester
self-esteem
To Autumn
Kimje-dong Elementary School vs. Kimje Dong Elementary School
7.
“Lonely people, gather together!”
Minister of Loneliness
On a normal day
Comment code name 'Peter'
Love call
The Morning Cloud Appreciation Association is recruiting members.
Not sticky, but crispy
8.
I want to be part of 'that generation'.
Things these days
To my depressed comrades
On the day of the CSAT
First snow
What is true success?
Today too, shoulder to shoulder
Detailed image

Into the book
♣ When you are having a hard time, when you are happy, please open any page.
And let's talk.
Let's talk.
That's how we survive.
--- 「Preface.
From "If we gather even the smallest smiles, we'll be okay!"
♣ When I get home today, our 'Tani' will be so excited that he will run around me five times again.
Sometimes, I feel depressed and anxious for some reason, but I feel comforted and recovered thanks to these people who are so cheerful without any solution.
--- 「Preface.
From "If we gather even the smallest smiles, we'll be okay!"
♣ “Just take a bite.” This is my ‘word of the year.’
Now that I've had dinner, I should go for a walk with Tani, who lives with me.
I wish there were many stars in the sky in my heart, and that my heart would be like a flower garden on a night like this.
And make sure to eat well!
--- 「1.
From "Spring and Rice"
♣ Praise the uniqueness of every flower.
I wholeheartedly support your brilliant individuality.
It's spring.
It's a flower.
It's you.
--- 「1.
From "Spring and Rice"
♣ I am so grateful that I can repay the kindness of those who have been kind to me in my life, even if it is just as much as a pepper planted in a corner.
It's still hot outside.
I hope you have a warm and fluffy night, just like the feeling of the sleeping socks you suddenly received as a gift.
--- 「2.
From "This is how we live"
♣ I cannot turn a blind eye to someone's misfortune and sorrow because it could one day become my own.
Even if I can't fully understand their feelings, I promise to at least try to open my heart and listen.
--- 「2.
From "This is how we live"
♣ Everyone needs at least one person to listen to their story.
Anyone, including me.
Oh, by the way, if there's no such person, I think that's okay too.
Because you just have to listen to yourself.
When I am the first person to listen to my story while crying and laughing, and when I can clearly touch myself, people can feel a little more secure.
I did.
--- 「2.
From "This is how we live"
♣ What does it mean to truly become an adult? Now that I'm this old, I think I understand that the path you've taken as an adult hasn't been smooth sailing.
Everyone, you've all worked hard to become adults.
--- 「3.
From "To You Who Has Had a Hard Time Becoming an Adult"
♣ I think there is at least one person in your heart who is like the cool shade under a maple tree.
If, while reading this, you suddenly think of such a person or such a place, and all of you can smile for a moment, I believe that place is heaven.
I hope that the place where you are now becomes heaven because of you.
--- 「3.
From "To You Who Has Had a Hard Time Becoming an Adult"
♣ When life gets tough and I want to give up, when I'm having a really hard time, someone appears.
It seems like he won't show up, but someone does.
Come here and help.
You don't believe it, do you? I did.
--- 「3.
From "To You Who Has Had a Hard Time Becoming an Adult"
♣ Sometimes I get hurt by what people say, but I also feel like I get healed by people.
I love and am so happy that my job is to make other people smile and be happy.
--- 「4.
Let's go together, let's go together!
♣ When I broke up with someone I loved, the words that gave me the greatest strength and comfort were the words of recognition: “You really liked that person.”
It was the greatest comfort to me when someone truly understood my feelings, and I realized that the pain and hardship I was going through was because my love for that person was real, not fake.
--- 「4.
Let's go together, let's go together!
♣ Now, I would like to add a new and shining meaning to the word ‘countryside’.
I hope that the word "country bumpkin," which refers to people living in rural, fishing, and mountain villages overflowing with warm love, can be registered in the dictionary with a new meaning of "comfortable" and "friendly."
--- 「5.
From “Thank you for being so rustic!”
♣ “Hey! Who gets paid today?” It sounds like a line from a movie, but this is what my friends and I said most often while sitting on the steps of Keimyung College (now Keimyung Culture University) in Daemyeong-dong, Daegu.
There were so many kids living alone, and since they were all students, there was no money.
For us, the anniversary of our death was the day when our parents sent us money from our hometown.
We all had different times when we were well off, but we all knew who was working and when the money would come in.
--- 「6.
From “Thanks to you!”
♣ 'Helping others is helping myself.
'Those who know this and put it into practice are the ones who live truly wisely.' This is what I think these days.
--- 「6.
From “Thanks to you!”
♣ When I said I built a school, someone asked me this.
“Is the name of the school you built ‘Kim Je-dong Elementary School’?” No.
There really is a 'Gimje Dong Elementary School', but sometimes people mistake it for a school I built.
(Laughs) You have to be careful with spacing.
--- 「6.
From “Thanks to you!”
♣ Did you know that in Britain there is actually a 'Minister for Loneliness'?
The name of the department in English is 'The Minister of Loneliness'.
Look it up.
It actually exists.
It's the loneliness you're thinking of.
It's a minister for lonely people.
In Korean, it's called 'Minister of Loneliness.' Seeing this, I thought it would be nice if we had something like that in our country too.
I wanted to be a minister for the first time.
(Laughs) Shouldn't I be the first minister? I'm confident I can secure that position with unanimous support from both the ruling and opposition parties.
(laugh)
--- 「7.
From “Lonely People, Gather!”
♣ My fan club name is 'Peter'.
Just like Peter who denied Jesus three times before dawn, he was given the name because if someone asked him if he was a fan of Kim Je-dong, he would deny it three times.
Other fan club members say, “Don’t mess with my oppa/unnie” when someone badmouths their favorite celebrity, but our fan club members each live their own lives.
Just like when Tani ran away and abandoned me when she met a wild boar in the mountains a while ago.
I think that's a healthy relationship.
(laugh)
--- 「7.
From “Lonely People, Gather!”
♣ “I acknowledge your feelings, but I cannot accept them.” This is a natural right to say when the other person rejects my confession.
So, confess crisply.
Not sticky, but crispy.
--- 「7.
From “Lonely People, Gather!”
♣ If someone were to ask me what generation I want to be remembered for, if I had to answer, I would say this.
'The older generation supporting the younger generation!' I want to be part of that generation.
--- 「8.
“I want to be part of that generation.”
♣ Our depression, our sadness, our moss are all green, and we are also a brilliant purple.
Without the moisture that comes from sadness and tears, all the joy in the world is meaningless.
If my depressed comrades read this, I hope they will embrace, protect, and praise each other's depression.
I hope we can be grateful to them for showing us that sadness and blue are not two different things, that joy and sadness are not opposites but a good match, and that thanks to sadness and sadness, we can become more affectionate toward each other.
I dedicate this writing entirely to the melancholy within me.
--- 「8.
“I want to be part of that generation.”
♣ There may be times when the wind blows and your mind is in turmoil, but I hope that everyone can start spring comfortably.
And let's talk.
Let's talk.
That's how we survive.
--- 「Preface.
From "If we gather even the smallest smiles, we'll be okay!"
♣ When I get home today, our 'Tani' will be so excited that he will run around me five times again.
Sometimes, I feel depressed and anxious for some reason, but I feel comforted and recovered thanks to these people who are so cheerful without any solution.
--- 「Preface.
From "If we gather even the smallest smiles, we'll be okay!"
♣ “Just take a bite.” This is my ‘word of the year.’
Now that I've had dinner, I should go for a walk with Tani, who lives with me.
I wish there were many stars in the sky in my heart, and that my heart would be like a flower garden on a night like this.
And make sure to eat well!
--- 「1.
From "Spring and Rice"
♣ Praise the uniqueness of every flower.
I wholeheartedly support your brilliant individuality.
It's spring.
It's a flower.
It's you.
--- 「1.
From "Spring and Rice"
♣ I am so grateful that I can repay the kindness of those who have been kind to me in my life, even if it is just as much as a pepper planted in a corner.
It's still hot outside.
I hope you have a warm and fluffy night, just like the feeling of the sleeping socks you suddenly received as a gift.
--- 「2.
From "This is how we live"
♣ I cannot turn a blind eye to someone's misfortune and sorrow because it could one day become my own.
Even if I can't fully understand their feelings, I promise to at least try to open my heart and listen.
--- 「2.
From "This is how we live"
♣ Everyone needs at least one person to listen to their story.
Anyone, including me.
Oh, by the way, if there's no such person, I think that's okay too.
Because you just have to listen to yourself.
When I am the first person to listen to my story while crying and laughing, and when I can clearly touch myself, people can feel a little more secure.
I did.
--- 「2.
From "This is how we live"
♣ What does it mean to truly become an adult? Now that I'm this old, I think I understand that the path you've taken as an adult hasn't been smooth sailing.
Everyone, you've all worked hard to become adults.
--- 「3.
From "To You Who Has Had a Hard Time Becoming an Adult"
♣ I think there is at least one person in your heart who is like the cool shade under a maple tree.
If, while reading this, you suddenly think of such a person or such a place, and all of you can smile for a moment, I believe that place is heaven.
I hope that the place where you are now becomes heaven because of you.
--- 「3.
From "To You Who Has Had a Hard Time Becoming an Adult"
♣ When life gets tough and I want to give up, when I'm having a really hard time, someone appears.
It seems like he won't show up, but someone does.
Come here and help.
You don't believe it, do you? I did.
--- 「3.
From "To You Who Has Had a Hard Time Becoming an Adult"
♣ Sometimes I get hurt by what people say, but I also feel like I get healed by people.
I love and am so happy that my job is to make other people smile and be happy.
--- 「4.
Let's go together, let's go together!
♣ When I broke up with someone I loved, the words that gave me the greatest strength and comfort were the words of recognition: “You really liked that person.”
It was the greatest comfort to me when someone truly understood my feelings, and I realized that the pain and hardship I was going through was because my love for that person was real, not fake.
--- 「4.
Let's go together, let's go together!
♣ Now, I would like to add a new and shining meaning to the word ‘countryside’.
I hope that the word "country bumpkin," which refers to people living in rural, fishing, and mountain villages overflowing with warm love, can be registered in the dictionary with a new meaning of "comfortable" and "friendly."
--- 「5.
From “Thank you for being so rustic!”
♣ “Hey! Who gets paid today?” It sounds like a line from a movie, but this is what my friends and I said most often while sitting on the steps of Keimyung College (now Keimyung Culture University) in Daemyeong-dong, Daegu.
There were so many kids living alone, and since they were all students, there was no money.
For us, the anniversary of our death was the day when our parents sent us money from our hometown.
We all had different times when we were well off, but we all knew who was working and when the money would come in.
--- 「6.
From “Thanks to you!”
♣ 'Helping others is helping myself.
'Those who know this and put it into practice are the ones who live truly wisely.' This is what I think these days.
--- 「6.
From “Thanks to you!”
♣ When I said I built a school, someone asked me this.
“Is the name of the school you built ‘Kim Je-dong Elementary School’?” No.
There really is a 'Gimje Dong Elementary School', but sometimes people mistake it for a school I built.
(Laughs) You have to be careful with spacing.
--- 「6.
From “Thanks to you!”
♣ Did you know that in Britain there is actually a 'Minister for Loneliness'?
The name of the department in English is 'The Minister of Loneliness'.
Look it up.
It actually exists.
It's the loneliness you're thinking of.
It's a minister for lonely people.
In Korean, it's called 'Minister of Loneliness.' Seeing this, I thought it would be nice if we had something like that in our country too.
I wanted to be a minister for the first time.
(Laughs) Shouldn't I be the first minister? I'm confident I can secure that position with unanimous support from both the ruling and opposition parties.
(laugh)
--- 「7.
From “Lonely People, Gather!”
♣ My fan club name is 'Peter'.
Just like Peter who denied Jesus three times before dawn, he was given the name because if someone asked him if he was a fan of Kim Je-dong, he would deny it three times.
Other fan club members say, “Don’t mess with my oppa/unnie” when someone badmouths their favorite celebrity, but our fan club members each live their own lives.
Just like when Tani ran away and abandoned me when she met a wild boar in the mountains a while ago.
I think that's a healthy relationship.
(laugh)
--- 「7.
From “Lonely People, Gather!”
♣ “I acknowledge your feelings, but I cannot accept them.” This is a natural right to say when the other person rejects my confession.
So, confess crisply.
Not sticky, but crispy.
--- 「7.
From “Lonely People, Gather!”
♣ If someone were to ask me what generation I want to be remembered for, if I had to answer, I would say this.
'The older generation supporting the younger generation!' I want to be part of that generation.
--- 「8.
“I want to be part of that generation.”
♣ Our depression, our sadness, our moss are all green, and we are also a brilliant purple.
Without the moisture that comes from sadness and tears, all the joy in the world is meaningless.
If my depressed comrades read this, I hope they will embrace, protect, and praise each other's depression.
I hope we can be grateful to them for showing us that sadness and blue are not two different things, that joy and sadness are not opposites but a good match, and that thanks to sadness and sadness, we can become more affectionate toward each other.
I dedicate this writing entirely to the melancholy within me.
--- 「8.
“I want to be part of that generation.”
♣ There may be times when the wind blows and your mind is in turmoil, but I hope that everyone can start spring comfortably.
--- 「8.
“I want to be part of that generation.”
“I want to be part of that generation.”
Publisher's Review
I take it out and read it when I'm happy or sad, depressed or happy.
Sweet stories like old picture diaries in a drawer
This book contains Kim Je-dong's unique empathy and comfort, which disarms the hearts of people from children to adults without any countermeasures.
In particular, the stories shared between Kim Je-dong and the children are quite relatable and full of unpredictable laughter.
“How is your life these days, Mincheol?”
Mincheol answers in a low voice.
“It’s okay.”
The children who were listening laughed so loudly that the auditorium seemed to burst out laughing.
I don't know which part of what Mincheol and I said was so funny, but thanks to the kids, I laughed along with them.
If the kids ask me anything, I tell them the truth.
“How did you overcome such hardships, sir?”
“I couldn’t overcome it….”
Kids love it when I say it like this.
The kids were like, “Wow, they couldn’t resist.”
He laughs as he says this.
On days like this, I find myself humming a tune on my way home for some reason.
And I hope our kids will feel the same way when they go home.
-From the introduction, “If we all gather together, even the smallest smiles, we will all be okay.”
Children who only know that Kim Je-dong's occupation is a writer ask, "Who are you, sir?" and say, "Of all the people who have come so far, you were the most fun."
Kim Je-dong says that sometimes, when he gets so tired from waking up at dawn to go a long way to see his children, he thinks, 'I should stop now.'
But when I actually meet the kids, I get so excited that I shout, “Meeting people in person and talking to them is really my thing,” and I get on the train, bus, and car every time.
Stories of Food and People by Kim Je-dong, a "Pilgrim of Everyday Life"
A magical book that will fill your day with strength.
Kim Je-dong says he started cooking for himself to regain some sense of normalcy.
As I live as a busy celebrity, I've started to reflect on how I've neglected to take care of myself, and as if to apologize to myself for the many times I've hated and looked down on myself, I've started to focus on feeding and taking care of myself.
As I regained that sense of normalcy, I realized the importance of meeting myself, feeding myself well, and encouraging myself.
“Feed yourself
Taking the utmost care of yourself,
Taking good care of yourself,
I think this is the thing that I want to do in my life
I think that is the most important thing.”
It is said that things have changed as the gaze, which used to be always directed outward, has now turned inward.
It means that you have become a little closer to yourself and have started to take care of your daily life a little more warmly.
Perhaps it's thanks to the countless people I've met at my local restaurant, on my walks, and on the path of life, as well as my dog, Tani.
Meanwhile, Kim Je-dong said that although it is okay to prepare and feed food for himself, he likes it better when someone else feeds him food.
There is nothing better than watching children eat, and the slurp-slurp sound of Tan eating always makes me feel salty, full, and happy.
In the hope that the world will always be one where the sight of children eating and the sound of Tani eating are intertwined, we are all trying to convey the importance of daily life, which is how we live, by eating.
I used to go for walks with Tani twice a day, morning and evening. One day, the village head saw us and said this.
“Mr. Jedong, you must have a hard time hanging out with that son of a bitch all the time.”
So I said.
“No, sir, please look straight ahead and tell me who you are talking to.
“Please tell me which one is the son of a bitch.”
The manager smiled faintly and said this to me.
“Oh my, Tan’s dad too.”
“No, Dad.
He's my brother.
“I think other kids will hear Dad’s voice.”
“Oh my, I guess you haven’t given up hope.
“Did you get neutered?”
Our bank manager is really funny.
I said, “Yes.
When I said, “I came back,” do you know what the manager said?
“We should have done it together.”
The bank manager also tried to sue me, but held back.
(Laughs) One day, the manager said this to me.
“Instead of just wandering around like this morning and evening, why don’t you do some neighborhood patrols?”
I said in passing, “Okay, I understand,” and the very next day, the manager gave me a light stick and a fluorescent vest.
A vest with the words 'Voluntary Crime Prevention' written in large letters on the back.
(Laughs) I happen to be wearing a vest and holding a light stick in the evening, doing neighborhood security activities.
-2.
From "This is how we live"
As I read, I felt touched for some reason
You'll find yourself humming a tune before you know it
Our very small and precious story
As we live, there are times when we are overcome by inexplicable depression and anxiety.
At times like these, Kim Je-dong says he feels comforted and recovered thanks to people like his children and his dog, Tani, who are always there for him.
This book was written by Kim Je-dong because he wanted to share such heartbreaking moments.
And then he asks, “Aren’t there times like that for us too?”
I want to connect with someone emotionally, and I want to communicate and talk.
When I suddenly feel tired and worn out, I console myself by saying that, fortunately, no matter how miserable life may feel, there doesn't have to be an equal amount of joy to balance out the total amount of misery.
Because we restore life even with the smallest joy.
And he asks us:
“What small, joyful moments fill your heart?”
When I'm having a hard time, when I'm happy, I suddenly tell myself to turn to any page.
And then he says let's talk.
He said he wanted to talk.
That's how we survive.
In this book, we follow the daily lives of Kim Je-dong, the housekeeper, Kim Je-dong, the Gyeongbokgung Palace lecturer, Tan-i's father? Brother! Kim Je-dong, and the writer Kim Je-dong, who communicates with children across generations. As we do so, we come to realize that we are all living together in this shared life.
Kim Je-dong also says that if there is one person who agrees with what he says and gives him a shoulder to lean on, saying, “That’s exactly what I mean!” just because it’s ‘me,’ then what is there to be afraid of in the world and what is there to be jealous of?
As he said, my mom, my dad, my friend, my lover, my person's other names might be synonymous with empathy.
A person who says he is happiest when people laugh.
So, he wants to make people who can't smile because the wind is blowing and their hearts are anxious smile, and to be happy together. That's why he sets out on the road to meet people today as well.
Sweet stories like old picture diaries in a drawer
This book contains Kim Je-dong's unique empathy and comfort, which disarms the hearts of people from children to adults without any countermeasures.
In particular, the stories shared between Kim Je-dong and the children are quite relatable and full of unpredictable laughter.
“How is your life these days, Mincheol?”
Mincheol answers in a low voice.
“It’s okay.”
The children who were listening laughed so loudly that the auditorium seemed to burst out laughing.
I don't know which part of what Mincheol and I said was so funny, but thanks to the kids, I laughed along with them.
If the kids ask me anything, I tell them the truth.
“How did you overcome such hardships, sir?”
“I couldn’t overcome it….”
Kids love it when I say it like this.
The kids were like, “Wow, they couldn’t resist.”
He laughs as he says this.
On days like this, I find myself humming a tune on my way home for some reason.
And I hope our kids will feel the same way when they go home.
-From the introduction, “If we all gather together, even the smallest smiles, we will all be okay.”
Children who only know that Kim Je-dong's occupation is a writer ask, "Who are you, sir?" and say, "Of all the people who have come so far, you were the most fun."
Kim Je-dong says that sometimes, when he gets so tired from waking up at dawn to go a long way to see his children, he thinks, 'I should stop now.'
But when I actually meet the kids, I get so excited that I shout, “Meeting people in person and talking to them is really my thing,” and I get on the train, bus, and car every time.
Stories of Food and People by Kim Je-dong, a "Pilgrim of Everyday Life"
A magical book that will fill your day with strength.
Kim Je-dong says he started cooking for himself to regain some sense of normalcy.
As I live as a busy celebrity, I've started to reflect on how I've neglected to take care of myself, and as if to apologize to myself for the many times I've hated and looked down on myself, I've started to focus on feeding and taking care of myself.
As I regained that sense of normalcy, I realized the importance of meeting myself, feeding myself well, and encouraging myself.
“Feed yourself
Taking the utmost care of yourself,
Taking good care of yourself,
I think this is the thing that I want to do in my life
I think that is the most important thing.”
It is said that things have changed as the gaze, which used to be always directed outward, has now turned inward.
It means that you have become a little closer to yourself and have started to take care of your daily life a little more warmly.
Perhaps it's thanks to the countless people I've met at my local restaurant, on my walks, and on the path of life, as well as my dog, Tani.
Meanwhile, Kim Je-dong said that although it is okay to prepare and feed food for himself, he likes it better when someone else feeds him food.
There is nothing better than watching children eat, and the slurp-slurp sound of Tan eating always makes me feel salty, full, and happy.
In the hope that the world will always be one where the sight of children eating and the sound of Tani eating are intertwined, we are all trying to convey the importance of daily life, which is how we live, by eating.
I used to go for walks with Tani twice a day, morning and evening. One day, the village head saw us and said this.
“Mr. Jedong, you must have a hard time hanging out with that son of a bitch all the time.”
So I said.
“No, sir, please look straight ahead and tell me who you are talking to.
“Please tell me which one is the son of a bitch.”
The manager smiled faintly and said this to me.
“Oh my, Tan’s dad too.”
“No, Dad.
He's my brother.
“I think other kids will hear Dad’s voice.”
“Oh my, I guess you haven’t given up hope.
“Did you get neutered?”
Our bank manager is really funny.
I said, “Yes.
When I said, “I came back,” do you know what the manager said?
“We should have done it together.”
The bank manager also tried to sue me, but held back.
(Laughs) One day, the manager said this to me.
“Instead of just wandering around like this morning and evening, why don’t you do some neighborhood patrols?”
I said in passing, “Okay, I understand,” and the very next day, the manager gave me a light stick and a fluorescent vest.
A vest with the words 'Voluntary Crime Prevention' written in large letters on the back.
(Laughs) I happen to be wearing a vest and holding a light stick in the evening, doing neighborhood security activities.
-2.
From "This is how we live"
As I read, I felt touched for some reason
You'll find yourself humming a tune before you know it
Our very small and precious story
As we live, there are times when we are overcome by inexplicable depression and anxiety.
At times like these, Kim Je-dong says he feels comforted and recovered thanks to people like his children and his dog, Tani, who are always there for him.
This book was written by Kim Je-dong because he wanted to share such heartbreaking moments.
And then he asks, “Aren’t there times like that for us too?”
I want to connect with someone emotionally, and I want to communicate and talk.
When I suddenly feel tired and worn out, I console myself by saying that, fortunately, no matter how miserable life may feel, there doesn't have to be an equal amount of joy to balance out the total amount of misery.
Because we restore life even with the smallest joy.
And he asks us:
“What small, joyful moments fill your heart?”
When I'm having a hard time, when I'm happy, I suddenly tell myself to turn to any page.
And then he says let's talk.
He said he wanted to talk.
That's how we survive.
In this book, we follow the daily lives of Kim Je-dong, the housekeeper, Kim Je-dong, the Gyeongbokgung Palace lecturer, Tan-i's father? Brother! Kim Je-dong, and the writer Kim Je-dong, who communicates with children across generations. As we do so, we come to realize that we are all living together in this shared life.
Kim Je-dong also says that if there is one person who agrees with what he says and gives him a shoulder to lean on, saying, “That’s exactly what I mean!” just because it’s ‘me,’ then what is there to be afraid of in the world and what is there to be jealous of?
As he said, my mom, my dad, my friend, my lover, my person's other names might be synonymous with empathy.
A person who says he is happiest when people laugh.
So, he wants to make people who can't smile because the wind is blowing and their hearts are anxious smile, and to be happy together. That's why he sets out on the road to meet people today as well.
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of issue: March 20, 2024
- Page count, weight, size: 304 pages | 620g | 150*215*30mm
- ISBN13: 9791190457323
- ISBN10: 1190457326
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