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I don't like being lonely, but I want to be alone.
I don't like being lonely, but I want to be alone.
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To us who thought we were the only strange ones in this world
The book version of 'InfP Heaven' continues the MBTI craze!


The popular Instatoon 'Infp Heaven', which received 1.6 million likes, has been published as a book.
The author of Milk Carton candidly portrayed the inner side of the 'INFP' type, which has been the source of misunderstandings and prejudices among the MBTI types, and received sympathy from many INFPs.
“This episode hits the nail on the head,” “Do you always come and go from my heart?” It became a mecca for INFPs to share their feelings, and thanks to its popularity, it was published.
《I Hate Being Lonely, But I Want to Be Alone》 is a must-have collection, featuring previously unreleased episodes, the author's life advice for INFPs, and a Q&A on mindset.
This book is for INFPs who thought they were strange but weren't strange at all, and gives them courage to live like INFPs.
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index
prolog.
Open Book for INFPs

Part 1.
I'm good at it, but I'm just lazy so I don't do it.


1.
Why do INFPs pay attention to others?
2.
Not a lazy person, but a perfectionist
3.
If I do it, it's romance, if someone else does it, it's an affair
4.
INFPs want to be friends
5.
Reasons for over-immersion
6.
The Five Big Mistakes of INFPs
7.
Asking for something is harder than refusing
8.
A bundle of secret ambitions
9.
What would an INFP read?!
10.
The moment to choose
11.
Wake up and reset
12.
Okay, reading method
13.
Sorry, reading method
14.
Wasting Time vs. Daily Routine
15.
free spirit
16.
Don't give me a choice
17.
Why I Don't Like Making Phone Calls
18.
Giving a gift

Part 2.
Maybe your attention will make me stronger


1.
Why INFPs Rise So Fast
2.
Why is INFP so negative?
3.
INFP and lack of affection
4.
Why we don't talk about difficult things
5.
The hard work of INFPs
6.
One day without any worries
7.
Rain in my heart
8.
That kind of day for INFPs
9.
INFP who saw the criticism
10.
A day in the life of an INFP
11.
Intent of INFP's question
12.
INFP's sacrifice
13.
People who like INFPs
14.
I'm an infp but I want to be cold
15.
When you speak your truth
16.
Sensing subtle air currents
17.
Infp's revenge
18.
When you meet an unfriendly person

Part 3.
I don't like being lonely, but I want to be alone.


1.
Secret Room
2.
Should I only contact you when I really need to?
3.
indifference to others
4.
Why Human Relationships Are Difficult
5.
How to make an appointment with an INFP
6.
Why are INFPs like that?
7.
The type that is fun to tease
8.
The End of Love Part 1
9.
The End of Love
10.
The End of Love Part 2
11.
Speed ​​control of infp
12.
The moment when aegyo increases
13.
INFP is in love with you
14.
INFP's characteristics that are easily cut off
15.
Humanity vs. Misanthropy
16.
Consideration to avoid disappointment
17.
The inner thoughts of an INFP who suddenly becomes silent

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Into the book
I came to understand myself and realized that there are many people like me.
All of this is thanks to MBTI.
I used to interpret other people's words and actions based solely on my own subjective judgment, but now I can look at them objectively.
Among them, the biggest gain was being able to understand the T type of speech.
I used to try to guess the hidden intentions behind their words, and I was hurt by every word... but after I learned the reason, the stress I felt from people has eased. The MBTI is a truly useful tool for understanding and referencing others.
As long as you don't get too immersed.
Ah! So you understand.
It still makes me angry.
---「Part 1.
“I’m good at it, but I’m just lazy so I don’t do it.”

At the moment of choice, it is difficult to distinguish between good and bad.
But I think I'll regret it if I do it my way. In the end, I just end up kicking my feet and missing out, which I end up regretting.
So what INFPs always want is a clear subjectivity and a strong center.
If I had that kind of subjectivity and focus in my life, which is filled with regrets, I would have fewer regrets.
These things change so quickly in seconds, when will they ever settle down?
---「Part 1.
“I’m good at it, but I’m just lazy so I don’t do it.”

One day I realized I was holding my breath.
I'm afraid that if I breathe, something will pour into my lungs.
Rather than letting this reality I was enduring collapse, I chose to just let myself drift in the comfortable waters.
But the comfort doesn't last long.
If you don't swim, you'll sink.
Before the surface of the water gets any further away, before I sink into deeper water, I have to trust my arms and legs and keep swimming through life.
---「Part 2.
From "Maybe attention will give me more strength"

Sometimes I forget how easy something as simple as breathing has become.
It wasn't something to bother me about, saying, 'You're more timid than other people.'
The only thing I lack is 'experience'.
So don't be afraid of experience.
Saying what needs to be said, making new connections, and getting things done.
All of those things eventually become familiar and proficient.
---「Part 2.
From "Maybe attention will give me more strength"

'Why are you so uninterested in me?' To be honest, it's true that I'm not really interested in other people.
Especially when it comes to other people's business, I tend to just say, 'There must be a reason...' and move on.
It's better to find out things on your own while spending time together than to ask questions and find out things directly.
In the end, it is my heart that decides what kind of person you are.
Of course, there are times when imagination is added to experience and misjudgments occur.
---「Part 3.
From "I don't like being lonely, but I want to be alone"

Publisher's Review
1.6 million cumulative likes! Unreleased episodes revealed for the first time!

With people who thought, ‘This damn INFP’…
The one and only book for all the INFPs in the world who want to be completely understood!


"Do we have CCTV in our house? It's me!" An essay that will have you automatically exclaiming, "I agree with you, INFP!"
It is full of the 'real' experiences of the author of Milk Carton that any INFP can relate to.
The author has heard countless times in his life, “Do you think that much?” and “How can you live when you’re so tired?”
And after hearing similar questions, I took courage on behalf of the INFPs who were struggling.
Regardless of age or gender, the author, who communicates only through MBTI, provides refreshing advice to INFPs who are concerned about interpersonal relationships, emotional management, career paths, and academics.

"I Hate Being Lonely, But I Want to Be Alone" contains everything from the sincerity of the comforting author, Milk Carton, to their somewhat unhealthy inner stories that they have never told before, to secrets for communicating more easily with INFPs.
If you misunderstood that INFPs read your message, it's because they're cautious and that's why they're late to respond. If you felt they were sensitive, it's because they're somewhat emotional. They're not lazy, they're perfectionists. Just because they don't tell you everything they're thinking doesn't mean the other person isn't comfortable.
This book will help you dispel misconceptions about INFPs and look at them with a more open mind.

“Surprisingly, we tend to survive well wherever we go.”

One thing is certain: INFPs are strong when they come together.
INFPs, who are very sensitive, are very weak when alone, but when they unite and build a common ground, they are stronger than anyone else.
For such an INFP, the author captured the traces of the nights he spent worrying and the wounds he suffered without filtering.
Although the advice may sound harsh at times, it is approached in a friendly manner by featuring the cute rabbit character 'Puppy'.
INFPs will empathize with Pupi and discover a stronger version of themselves than before.

This book is an open book on life that suggests ways for INFPs to encourage themselves, and it is also a comfort that the author can offer as an INFP himself.
It is also the one book that other MBTI types who want to know the mind of an INFP must read.
You don't understand why the INFP next to you is acting this way? Does the MBTI want to help other friends understand you? Don't hesitate, get your hands on this book now!
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of issue: June 21, 2023
- Page count, weight, size: 248 pages | 130*210*15mm
- ISBN13: 9791165347574
- ISBN10: 1165347571

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