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Book Introduction
Those who are confident in good intentions are in trouble.
If you can't say "No," you'll be unhappy.
Ayako Sono, the Japanese novelist who debuted in the literary world by being nominated for the Akutagawa Prize and author of the best-selling book "Keeping a Little Distance," shares her advice on "How to Become Comfortable in Relationships."
This book also stands out for Sono Ayako's writing style, which expresses the essence of life in short but concise language, reminding us that we are different from others and can never be the same.
This provides a foundation for being comfortable not only with pressure from others, but also with stress from those who do not accept my thoughts.
The way 『Others Don't Know Me』 addresses the difficulties of human relationships is quite different.
Sono Ayako's experience is not expressed through good stories or lessons.
It only touches on the complex and subtle contradictions within human nature, such as, "It is impossible to gossip about others without turning a blind eye to your own weaknesses," "Even well-intentioned actions are not always right," "Speak without resentment," and "People tell the truth and lie when it benefits them."
The author only provides clues, and the pleasure of solving the puzzle is left to the reader.
The reason why depth can be added in such a seemingly indifferent way is because ‘human relationships’ were a topic that Sono Ayako constantly sought to address in her life and literature.
If you can't say "No," you'll be unhappy.
Ayako Sono, the Japanese novelist who debuted in the literary world by being nominated for the Akutagawa Prize and author of the best-selling book "Keeping a Little Distance," shares her advice on "How to Become Comfortable in Relationships."
This book also stands out for Sono Ayako's writing style, which expresses the essence of life in short but concise language, reminding us that we are different from others and can never be the same.
This provides a foundation for being comfortable not only with pressure from others, but also with stress from those who do not accept my thoughts.
The way 『Others Don't Know Me』 addresses the difficulties of human relationships is quite different.
Sono Ayako's experience is not expressed through good stories or lessons.
It only touches on the complex and subtle contradictions within human nature, such as, "It is impossible to gossip about others without turning a blind eye to your own weaknesses," "Even well-intentioned actions are not always right," "Speak without resentment," and "People tell the truth and lie when it benefits them."
The author only provides clues, and the pleasure of solving the puzzle is left to the reader.
The reason why depth can be added in such a seemingly indifferent way is because ‘human relationships’ were a topic that Sono Ayako constantly sought to address in her life and literature.
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Part 1 is different
A person with strong convictions
childish person
Goodwill is for one's own good
Reasons for gossiping about others
When you mock someone, you resemble that person.
The Uselessness of Hatred
A mind that ignores others
Someone who knows me
When you are hated by someone
Human relationships are bound to be shaky.
Doesn't actually act
Not everyone is like me
As you age, you become more childish.
Malice and destructive passions are also part of being human.
Human relationships are based on misunderstanding rather than understanding.
Things happen because we are different
To help
See the virtue of others
A style that leads to feelings of inferiority
If you think you are doing a good thing,
Human relationships and loneliness
Part 2: Live at Your Own Pace
When you don't feel like it, refuse
Don't complain, just say it
Don't get angry first
timid
Drop the pretense
Plants live entirely at their own pace.
Do what needs to be done calmly
Waiting
Living diligently as you are is education.
I get depressed even when my physical condition gets a little worse
Everyone suffers from loneliness
Live my own way
We need all kinds of people
There's a reason we don't know
The weight of life is different for each person.
People grow in old age
You have to experience it yourself to understand.
He lives a life worthy of that person and dies.
The power of healing ultimately comes from within me.
Don't try hard
You can't fool others by pretending it's not like that
Living in the gap between conflicts
There is a third side
Everyone has a shadow
It's hard to get to know people
Lie when you don't feel understood
A person who is confident that he or she has good intentions
Most people are neither good nor bad.
Complex intelligence and transparent purity
I want to live in a place where no one knows me
There are many contradictions in the human mind.
We learn from unpleasant experiences
Tell the truth and lie when it benefits you.
Adult sensibilities are developed
People do stupid things to survive
Like a kite floating in the sky
Take it out carefully and savor it
Anything has to have stress
It is more comfortable to deal with a wicked person than with a gentleman.
I want others to know
Everything that exists is good
The other side of the hard work
It's perfect because there's nothing there
When times are tough, you become stronger
Children learn from their parents in many ways.
Only by being imperfect can we truly know.
I hope for the unpredictable
The desire to reduce unhappiness
A person with strong convictions
childish person
Goodwill is for one's own good
Reasons for gossiping about others
When you mock someone, you resemble that person.
The Uselessness of Hatred
A mind that ignores others
Someone who knows me
When you are hated by someone
Human relationships are bound to be shaky.
Doesn't actually act
Not everyone is like me
As you age, you become more childish.
Malice and destructive passions are also part of being human.
Human relationships are based on misunderstanding rather than understanding.
Things happen because we are different
To help
See the virtue of others
A style that leads to feelings of inferiority
If you think you are doing a good thing,
Human relationships and loneliness
Part 2: Live at Your Own Pace
When you don't feel like it, refuse
Don't complain, just say it
Don't get angry first
timid
Drop the pretense
Plants live entirely at their own pace.
Do what needs to be done calmly
Waiting
Living diligently as you are is education.
I get depressed even when my physical condition gets a little worse
Everyone suffers from loneliness
Live my own way
We need all kinds of people
There's a reason we don't know
The weight of life is different for each person.
People grow in old age
You have to experience it yourself to understand.
He lives a life worthy of that person and dies.
The power of healing ultimately comes from within me.
Don't try hard
You can't fool others by pretending it's not like that
Living in the gap between conflicts
There is a third side
Everyone has a shadow
It's hard to get to know people
Lie when you don't feel understood
A person who is confident that he or she has good intentions
Most people are neither good nor bad.
Complex intelligence and transparent purity
I want to live in a place where no one knows me
There are many contradictions in the human mind.
We learn from unpleasant experiences
Tell the truth and lie when it benefits you.
Adult sensibilities are developed
People do stupid things to survive
Like a kite floating in the sky
Take it out carefully and savor it
Anything has to have stress
It is more comfortable to deal with a wicked person than with a gentleman.
I want others to know
Everything that exists is good
The other side of the hard work
It's perfect because there's nothing there
When times are tough, you become stronger
Children learn from their parents in many ways.
Only by being imperfect can we truly know.
I hope for the unpredictable
The desire to reduce unhappiness
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of publication: September 25, 2017
- Page count, weight, size: 144 pages | 158g | 113*184*20mm
- ISBN13: 9791186274279
- ISBN10: 1186274271
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