
Who do I love now
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Book Introduction
Byron Katie, praised by Time magazine as a “spiritual leader for a new age.”
They say that people cannot enjoy true love or a full life because they deny 'reality as it is'.
Eckhart Tolle once expressed his amazement at her simple yet powerful message, calling it "a great blessing for the people of Earth," while Wayne Dyer praised her, saying, "Byron Katie is truly a great spiritual teacher."
The book introduces Byron Katie's unique healing method of encouraging people to "question their own thoughts," and compiles key messages gained through counseling with countless people around the world.
① Problems of love and sex, ② Problems of health, illness and death, ③ Problems of parents, children and family, ④ Problems of work, money and success, ⑤ Problems of self-realization, etc. It contains solutions to all the problems that we inevitably face in our lives.
If you've ever thought, "I wish my partner would fix this," if you've ever thought, "Why won't my parents give me what I want?" if you've ever thought, "Why is my reality like this?"... Byron Katie's anthology, "Who Do I Love Now," will be helpful.
They say that people cannot enjoy true love or a full life because they deny 'reality as it is'.
Eckhart Tolle once expressed his amazement at her simple yet powerful message, calling it "a great blessing for the people of Earth," while Wayne Dyer praised her, saying, "Byron Katie is truly a great spiritual teacher."
The book introduces Byron Katie's unique healing method of encouraging people to "question their own thoughts," and compiles key messages gained through counseling with countless people around the world.
① Problems of love and sex, ② Problems of health, illness and death, ③ Problems of parents, children and family, ④ Problems of work, money and success, ⑤ Problems of self-realization, etc. It contains solutions to all the problems that we inevitably face in our lives.
If you've ever thought, "I wish my partner would fix this," if you've ever thought, "Why won't my parents give me what I want?" if you've ever thought, "Why is my reality like this?"... Byron Katie's anthology, "Who Do I Love Now," will be helpful.
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Entering ┃ You are wiser than anyone else
1.
Do I love him or do I love the story I made up?
Freedom from love, sex, and relationships
The difference between love and desire
What I want is within me
Closer to the truth, closer
Who is the person reflected in the mirror?
Love without separation, love without barriers
The stories we made up
Something only I can do
Look at it as it is
I married myself
Need 'myself'
The most beautiful moment
2.
The body is pure like trees, flowers, and breath.
Be free from life and death
To me, 'I' am normal
Don't abuse my body
If you change your thoughts, the pain will stop.
A being without limits
Death and life are equal
Who wants to teach God?
Break free from the impulses of life
3.
We never truly met our family.
Be free from parents and children
Does a mother have to love her daughter?
The best love a parent can give
True communication
How to Give Your Child Back His Life
If I am happy, everything will be happy.
Family is my history
People disguised as gods
4.
The saint who cleans the floor, the saint who sells things
Freedom from work, money, and success
Happiness is a clean, empty heart
I was a slave and a slave's master.
What is real work?
If it exists, it exists; if it doesn't exist, it doesn't exist.
Living in the moment
5.
Love without reservation, just as you are
Freeing myself from myself
I am your heart, your home
How to teach a cat to bark like a dog?
Meet 'thoughts' as friends
There are no mistakes in the universe.
A home for the heart
Are you breathing or are you breathing?
Anything is better than nothing
1.
Do I love him or do I love the story I made up?
Freedom from love, sex, and relationships
The difference between love and desire
What I want is within me
Closer to the truth, closer
Who is the person reflected in the mirror?
Love without separation, love without barriers
The stories we made up
Something only I can do
Look at it as it is
I married myself
Need 'myself'
The most beautiful moment
2.
The body is pure like trees, flowers, and breath.
Be free from life and death
To me, 'I' am normal
Don't abuse my body
If you change your thoughts, the pain will stop.
A being without limits
Death and life are equal
Who wants to teach God?
Break free from the impulses of life
3.
We never truly met our family.
Be free from parents and children
Does a mother have to love her daughter?
The best love a parent can give
True communication
How to Give Your Child Back His Life
If I am happy, everything will be happy.
Family is my history
People disguised as gods
4.
The saint who cleans the floor, the saint who sells things
Freedom from work, money, and success
Happiness is a clean, empty heart
I was a slave and a slave's master.
What is real work?
If it exists, it exists; if it doesn't exist, it doesn't exist.
Living in the moment
5.
Love without reservation, just as you are
Freeing myself from myself
I am your heart, your home
How to teach a cat to bark like a dog?
Meet 'thoughts' as friends
There are no mistakes in the universe.
A home for the heart
Are you breathing or are you breathing?
Anything is better than nothing
Into the book
Who have we met and loved during this time?
The person as he is
Can I say that I felt and loved completely?
If only this changes, if only that changes
Didn't you think you could love that person more?
If only this changes, if only that changes
Don't you think your life would be happier?
I make various judgments based on stories I make up in my head.
I loved, I hated, I was happy, I was unhappy
Maybe you were confused?
We have been striving to live a life where we are recognized and loved by others.
I have been changing myself to fit that mold.
I've been struggling to live without getting hurt.
So, was our life filled with love and peace?
In the end, haven't you always been hurt? --- p.6, from 'Invitation to a Full Life'
Love is not something we can choose.
Love is an immovable truth.
When your mind is finally cleansed by questioning the thoughts that cause pain, suffering, and stress, love will pour into your life.
Nothing can stop that love.
---p.44, from 'Love without Separation, Love without Barriers'
Romantic love stories whisper that we, as halves, find our other half and finally become whole.
This is a completely crazy story.
I don't need anyone to make me complete.
The moment I realize that fact, all beings complete me. --- p.52, from 'Things Only I Can Do'
Why can't we see our lovers as they are?
Why do we force him to be like this?
Why do we put a sense of obligation on him to do this for me?
How free would our lovers be if we didn't make up stories about them, if we didn't shackle them with obligations?
And how happy and how great can we become? --- p.55, from 'Look at it as it is'
I feel good when my husband asks, “Can I have a cup of tea?”
I feel good because I know how my husband feels when he says that.
Knowing his heart, I know what I must do.
Conversely, I also know how it feels when my husband gives me a ride in his car.
The joy and gratitude that simple actions bring us!
But if I start thinking things like, "My husband should be the one to make the tea," or "My husband should know my tastes," or "It's his turn to make the tea," then I'm going to get hurt.
If you have such a thought, you can immediately add a question mark.
There is no faith that can overcome question marks.
A true question mark makes everything but love disappear from your side.
---p.71, from 'Need Myself'
Trying to fix reality is like teaching a cat to bark like a dog.
No matter how hard you try, eventually the cat will look at you and meow.
It is hopeless to hope that reality will be different from what it is now.
You could waste your whole life trying to teach your cat to bark like a dog.
The person as he is
Can I say that I felt and loved completely?
If only this changes, if only that changes
Didn't you think you could love that person more?
If only this changes, if only that changes
Don't you think your life would be happier?
I make various judgments based on stories I make up in my head.
I loved, I hated, I was happy, I was unhappy
Maybe you were confused?
We have been striving to live a life where we are recognized and loved by others.
I have been changing myself to fit that mold.
I've been struggling to live without getting hurt.
So, was our life filled with love and peace?
In the end, haven't you always been hurt? --- p.6, from 'Invitation to a Full Life'
Love is not something we can choose.
Love is an immovable truth.
When your mind is finally cleansed by questioning the thoughts that cause pain, suffering, and stress, love will pour into your life.
Nothing can stop that love.
---p.44, from 'Love without Separation, Love without Barriers'
Romantic love stories whisper that we, as halves, find our other half and finally become whole.
This is a completely crazy story.
I don't need anyone to make me complete.
The moment I realize that fact, all beings complete me. --- p.52, from 'Things Only I Can Do'
Why can't we see our lovers as they are?
Why do we force him to be like this?
Why do we put a sense of obligation on him to do this for me?
How free would our lovers be if we didn't make up stories about them, if we didn't shackle them with obligations?
And how happy and how great can we become? --- p.55, from 'Look at it as it is'
I feel good when my husband asks, “Can I have a cup of tea?”
I feel good because I know how my husband feels when he says that.
Knowing his heart, I know what I must do.
Conversely, I also know how it feels when my husband gives me a ride in his car.
The joy and gratitude that simple actions bring us!
But if I start thinking things like, "My husband should be the one to make the tea," or "My husband should know my tastes," or "It's his turn to make the tea," then I'm going to get hurt.
If you have such a thought, you can immediately add a question mark.
There is no faith that can overcome question marks.
A true question mark makes everything but love disappear from your side.
---p.71, from 'Need Myself'
Trying to fix reality is like teaching a cat to bark like a dog.
No matter how hard you try, eventually the cat will look at you and meow.
It is hopeless to hope that reality will be different from what it is now.
You could waste your whole life trying to teach your cat to bark like a dog.
---p.208, from 'How to Teach a Cat to Bark Like a Dog?'
Publisher's Review
“Do I love you, or do I love you, the person I created in my mind?” Our lives, which begin and end in relationships, yet we have never properly met or loved anyone.
Can we truly say we loved someone "just as they are"? Could it be that we've been confused, either loving or hating them, judging them based on stories we've created in our heads? Byron Katie, currently the most prominent spiritual leader in the West, has offered the ultimate answer to this question.
Her simple yet powerful message, "Who Do I Love Now," offers a wonder of existence to those who dream of true love and a full life!
Byron Katie's teachings, which have been featured prominently on the Oprah Winfrey Show's SOUL series and have been highly praised as "a spiritual leader for the new age" (Time), "a great blessing for the people of Earth" (Eckhart Tolle), and "a truly great spiritual teacher" (Wayne Dyer), have changed the lives of countless people around the world.
It contains solutions to all the problems we inevitably face in life: problems of love and sex, problems of relationships, problems of health, disease, and death, problems of parents and children, problems of work, money, and success, problems of self-realization, etc.!
“Do I love you, or do I love the you I created in my mind?”
Praised by Time magazine and featured in the Oprah Winfrey Show's SOUL series
Byron Katie's Amazing Life Healing Method!
Have you ever thought, "I wish my 'beloved' lover would fix this"?
Have you ever thought that there are parts of your 'loving' family that don't fit with you?
Have you ever thought, "I love myself" but wish I had better looks and specs?
So then, who have we truly loved all this time? Can we truly say we loved ourselves, our lovers, just as they were? Could it be that we've been confused, judging each other based on our own fabricated stories, whether we loved or hated, were happy or unhappy?
Byron Katie, whom Tim magazine praised as a “spiritual leader for the new age,” says that people cannot experience true love or a full life because they deny “reality as it is.”
Eckhart Tolle once expressed his amazement at her simple yet powerful message, calling it "a great blessing for the people of Earth," while Wayne Dyer praised her, saying, "Byron Katie is truly a great spiritual teacher."
Byron Katie, currently the most notable spiritual teacher in the West.
Her book, Question Your Thinking, Change The World, which contains her blessing-like words, introduces Byron Katie's unique healing method of encouraging people to 'question their own thoughts' and compiles the core messages she has gained through counseling countless people around the world.
① Problems of love and sex, ② Problems of health, illness and death, ③ Problems of parents, children and family, ④ Problems of work, money and success, ⑤ Problems of self-realization, etc. It contains solutions to all the problems that we inevitably face in our lives.
If you've ever thought, "I wish my partner would fix this," if you've ever thought, "Why won't my parents listen to what I want?" if you've ever thought, "Why is my reality like this?"... you should read Byron Katie's anthology, "Who Do I Love Now," and find the abundant happiness that is yours before it's too late.
“You have no problems! You just have thoughts that create problems!”
The most powerful prescription for those hurting in relationships!
Life is a series of relationships from beginning to end.
People live in a tangled web of relationships.
And that relationship is where the suffering begins.
People suffer because they are not loved, because they are not respected, because they have less than others, because they disappoint and upset them.
So I think.
‘If only I hadn’t met that person, if only I had a little more free time, if only I had succeeded in that task, if only I hadn’t made that choice back then… I could be free from the things that are tormenting me now…’ However, Byron Katie criticizes this ‘thought trap’ of people.
"Have you ever had a moment of perfection, a moment of happiness in completeness, just as you intended? As one problem is solved, another arises, and as one thing is satisfied, another lacking something else becomes apparent? So then, when can we truly be happy, when can we truly be fulfilled in love? You have no problems! You only have thoughts that create problems!"
The central premise of Byron Katie's message is that it's not the things that happen to us that make us suffer, but our thoughts about them.
The moment people who have been trapped in a trap realize this truth, the moment they let go of their attachment to the 'ideas' they have believed in, their lives change completely.
“As long as I am trapped in my thoughts, I cannot love others, let alone myself!”
A spiritual guide for those who are not completely happy in this moment!
Byron Katie's life wasn't special from the beginning.
As a mother of three children, she lived an ordinary life, but divorce and failure brought her life to a dead end.
It was a life filled with paranoia, depression, self-hatred and frustration.
Something miraculous happened in her life.
The perception of life that I had held for so long was shattered, and a completely different view took hold.
It was a joyous experience that came to me during the days when I was so worn out that I had to endure each day in a nursing home.
She doesn't say she realized it.
However, he says that he has developed the ability to discern what hurts and what does not.
Word about her spread, people began to come to see her, and invitations poured in.
After that, she traveled to many countries to heal people suffering from pain and suffering, and many people testified that they found new life through her.
Byron Katie, a guide of wisdom who questions our obsessed thoughts and beliefs and completely transforms our perspective on life! Her remarkable message has led countless people around the world to true happiness and peace! Her teachings are simple and clear, but the transformational processes hidden between the lines become more poignant the more you ponder them.
If we are not living fully in this moment, we must surrender our existence to Byron Katie's "Thought Pruning."
In that moment, her powerful and profound healing method guides us into the wonder of existence.
"A spiritual revolutionary for a new era! Sometimes he guides us like a mystical spiritualist, sometimes like a wise healer, and sometimes like a parent who knows everything about their child!" ---Time
Can we truly say we loved someone "just as they are"? Could it be that we've been confused, either loving or hating them, judging them based on stories we've created in our heads? Byron Katie, currently the most prominent spiritual leader in the West, has offered the ultimate answer to this question.
Her simple yet powerful message, "Who Do I Love Now," offers a wonder of existence to those who dream of true love and a full life!
Byron Katie's teachings, which have been featured prominently on the Oprah Winfrey Show's SOUL series and have been highly praised as "a spiritual leader for the new age" (Time), "a great blessing for the people of Earth" (Eckhart Tolle), and "a truly great spiritual teacher" (Wayne Dyer), have changed the lives of countless people around the world.
It contains solutions to all the problems we inevitably face in life: problems of love and sex, problems of relationships, problems of health, disease, and death, problems of parents and children, problems of work, money, and success, problems of self-realization, etc.!
“Do I love you, or do I love the you I created in my mind?”
Praised by Time magazine and featured in the Oprah Winfrey Show's SOUL series
Byron Katie's Amazing Life Healing Method!
Have you ever thought, "I wish my 'beloved' lover would fix this"?
Have you ever thought that there are parts of your 'loving' family that don't fit with you?
Have you ever thought, "I love myself" but wish I had better looks and specs?
So then, who have we truly loved all this time? Can we truly say we loved ourselves, our lovers, just as they were? Could it be that we've been confused, judging each other based on our own fabricated stories, whether we loved or hated, were happy or unhappy?
Byron Katie, whom Tim magazine praised as a “spiritual leader for the new age,” says that people cannot experience true love or a full life because they deny “reality as it is.”
Eckhart Tolle once expressed his amazement at her simple yet powerful message, calling it "a great blessing for the people of Earth," while Wayne Dyer praised her, saying, "Byron Katie is truly a great spiritual teacher."
Byron Katie, currently the most notable spiritual teacher in the West.
Her book, Question Your Thinking, Change The World, which contains her blessing-like words, introduces Byron Katie's unique healing method of encouraging people to 'question their own thoughts' and compiles the core messages she has gained through counseling countless people around the world.
① Problems of love and sex, ② Problems of health, illness and death, ③ Problems of parents, children and family, ④ Problems of work, money and success, ⑤ Problems of self-realization, etc. It contains solutions to all the problems that we inevitably face in our lives.
If you've ever thought, "I wish my partner would fix this," if you've ever thought, "Why won't my parents listen to what I want?" if you've ever thought, "Why is my reality like this?"... you should read Byron Katie's anthology, "Who Do I Love Now," and find the abundant happiness that is yours before it's too late.
“You have no problems! You just have thoughts that create problems!”
The most powerful prescription for those hurting in relationships!
Life is a series of relationships from beginning to end.
People live in a tangled web of relationships.
And that relationship is where the suffering begins.
People suffer because they are not loved, because they are not respected, because they have less than others, because they disappoint and upset them.
So I think.
‘If only I hadn’t met that person, if only I had a little more free time, if only I had succeeded in that task, if only I hadn’t made that choice back then… I could be free from the things that are tormenting me now…’ However, Byron Katie criticizes this ‘thought trap’ of people.
"Have you ever had a moment of perfection, a moment of happiness in completeness, just as you intended? As one problem is solved, another arises, and as one thing is satisfied, another lacking something else becomes apparent? So then, when can we truly be happy, when can we truly be fulfilled in love? You have no problems! You only have thoughts that create problems!"
The central premise of Byron Katie's message is that it's not the things that happen to us that make us suffer, but our thoughts about them.
The moment people who have been trapped in a trap realize this truth, the moment they let go of their attachment to the 'ideas' they have believed in, their lives change completely.
“As long as I am trapped in my thoughts, I cannot love others, let alone myself!”
A spiritual guide for those who are not completely happy in this moment!
Byron Katie's life wasn't special from the beginning.
As a mother of three children, she lived an ordinary life, but divorce and failure brought her life to a dead end.
It was a life filled with paranoia, depression, self-hatred and frustration.
Something miraculous happened in her life.
The perception of life that I had held for so long was shattered, and a completely different view took hold.
It was a joyous experience that came to me during the days when I was so worn out that I had to endure each day in a nursing home.
She doesn't say she realized it.
However, he says that he has developed the ability to discern what hurts and what does not.
Word about her spread, people began to come to see her, and invitations poured in.
After that, she traveled to many countries to heal people suffering from pain and suffering, and many people testified that they found new life through her.
Byron Katie, a guide of wisdom who questions our obsessed thoughts and beliefs and completely transforms our perspective on life! Her remarkable message has led countless people around the world to true happiness and peace! Her teachings are simple and clear, but the transformational processes hidden between the lines become more poignant the more you ponder them.
If we are not living fully in this moment, we must surrender our existence to Byron Katie's "Thought Pruning."
In that moment, her powerful and profound healing method guides us into the wonder of existence.
"A spiritual revolutionary for a new era! Sometimes he guides us like a mystical spiritualist, sometimes like a wise healer, and sometimes like a parent who knows everything about their child!" ---Time
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of publication: September 20, 2011
- Page count, weight, size: 248 pages | 484g | 140*205*20mm
- ISBN13: 9788965700357
- ISBN10: 8965700353
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