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I live my life as I please
Come on, I live my life my way
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★★ Cumulative sales in Japan exceed 440,000 copies, long-term bestseller on Amazon Japan!

It is called 'The Cheerful Grandmother's Big Reversal Life'
The Korean version of the hit that took Japan by storm has been released!

How would you answer the question, "How do you want to age?" "I'd rather age naturally."
Here is a grandmother who strongly opposes the common answer, “As you get older, what’s inside is more important than what’s outside.”
Oshi Hanada is a fashionista grandmother living in Azabu, Tokyo.


She, who is 78 this year, answers that she will be “a person who takes care of her appearance until she dies,” and laughs at those who often forget their age, saying, “You shouldn’t make others forget your age, but rather, you should make them forget it.”
However, as he was preparing to spend his final years in peace, proudly enjoying the envious and jealous gazes of others, an unexpected bomb was thrown into his life.
It's because of the secret my husband has been hiding for 42 years.


The unprecedented and unimaginable character Oshi Hana took Japan by storm as soon as she appeared.
The novel became a bestseller on Amazon Japan, selling over 440,000 copies, and was adapted into an NHK drama and even published as a manga of the same name.
Thanks to local popularity and reader requests, the Korean edition is finally being published, with a refreshing translation by translator Lee Ji-su.

If you're tired of the cliche lesson that you should naturally maintain the so-called "dignity of old age" appropriate to your age, I recommend meeting the honest and sassy grandmother, Oshi Hana.
Even in the face of a ticking time bomb at the end of life, Oshi Hana, who never loses her convictions, will give you the answer to your fear of how to embrace aging.
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Part 3
Part 4
Part 5
Part 6
Part 7
Part 8
Author's Note

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Into the book
As we age, everyone deteriorates.
It becomes dull.
It becomes sloppy.
It gets dull.
It's becoming stupid.
Loneliness
Burn.
I want to be pitied.
Become a miser.
Anyway, I end up thinking, 'I'm going to die soon.'
On such topics, I would like to say, “I am always young because I am curious.”
They don't care about their clothes, but they still want to hear people say, "You're young."
Brag about your grandchildren, brag about your illness, brag about your health.
This is the reality of grandparents in this world.
--- p.9

“You know how people sometimes proudly say, ‘I live my life forgetting my age?’ It’s so funny.
“Age is not something you forget, but something you make others forget.”
In fact, the more women say, “A person is what’s inside,” the more they want to say such trite things.
“Mr. Yamamoto, among those who age gracefully, isn’t there anyone who looks shabby?”
“Yes, that’s definitely true.”
“Isn’t that the essence of aging gracefully?”
--- p.15

The thing that the elderly should avoid the most is ‘naturalness.’
It's 'natural'.
If you leave it to nature, you will become a shabby, withered old man or woman covered in wrinkles and freckles, appropriate for your age.
All I can talk about is my grandchildren and my illness.
Living against it must be the spirit of an old man.
--- p.44

I read somewhere that once you reach the age of seventy-five, your physical and mental health begins to decline.
There was also a doctor's comment that even modern medicine cannot treat the gradual decline that comes with age.
Even though there's nothing I can do about it, I try not to look my age.
Isn't this pointless? What's the point of resisting aging, something that medicine can't solve?
I am living with all my might, trying to avoid aging.
Yet, aging approaches silently.
--- p.95

“Thank you, Yumi.
Just being invited gives me energy.
Ichigo and Izumi, you don't have to worry about Grandma.
My grandfather didn't suffer from a long illness, and he didn't have tubes all over his body, he just died.
There is no such thing as a good death.
“If you think about it that way, Grandma will be happy and be able to live as usual.”
The three of them returned, seemingly relieved.

It's all a lie.
There's no way it'll be any different from usual.
My belief is that 'appearances are important', so I just don't show my true feelings.
--- p.138

We can't back down like this.
I didn't even know that Lee Eun had a concubine, but I continued the relationship with her even though I knew everything about her family.
I heard from Iwazo that he runs a daily necessities store and that he has a son and a daughter.
A concubine who maintained a relationship with her husband despite knowing it, and a wife who lived completely trusting her husband without knowing anything about it.
It's not fair that the world calls it 'affair'.
--- p.231

The employee spoke while looking only at Masahiko.
Even though I'm right next to him, he doesn't look at me even once out of ten times.
I guess you wouldn't understand even if I explained it to you.
Should I give you a room?
--- p.263

Women who say, “I like it natural,” say that doing nothing is “natural,” and that it is “just as it is.”
They are just lazy people who don't care about pretending to be anything special.
If a person continues to disguise himself and dies, his true appearance will be that of a disguised person.

--- p.268

“You, it’s okay for you to secretly meet another man’s husband for over forty years, but you can’t tolerate it happening to you.”
The color drained from the concubine's face.
Ah, I've had enough of this.
I've fed it about three rooms so far.
Let's stop.
There is a time for anger to stop.
There is a time to stop, even in resentment and hatred.
This woman has also lived and is living desperately.
--- p.341

When I think about it now, tears, joy, anger, jealousy, everything seems like a distant dream or illusion.
Everyone I met, everyone I parted ways with, everything I passed by seemed like a pleasant journey.
Grandpa and Grandma's life begins here.
From the moment I realized that, I felt energized.
--- p.371

Publisher's Review
My husband died.
A will was discovered.
And then an uninvited guest appears!

The moment the hidden secret was revealed, seventy-eight-year-old Hana's entire life was turned upside down.
“You liar! I will never forgive you!”

This book tells the story of a family's growth, centered around Hana, a stylish grandmother living in Azabu, Tokyo, Japan, and her family running a daily necessities store, from summer until the cherry blossom season of the following year.
Hana, who is seventy-eight years old, is a stylish person who has strong vitality and is meticulous about taking care of herself.
Don't forget to exercise for your health as well as skin care.
Even if you have white hair, it is absolutely unacceptable to go out in a messy bun and shabby clothes.
Wear a wig that suits you, pretty nail art, and even makeup that suits you.
She believes that true beauty comes from the outside, and her appearance, which is different from that of an 'ordinary grandmother', is the envy of many.

Then one day, Geum-sil loses her will to live due to the sudden death of her good husband.
But an unexpected guest arrives, and she discovers a shocking secret from her husband's will.
This incident also turns Hana and her family's lives upside down.
My husband, who was a kind and warm father, had a mistress and a secret son who was thirty-six years old.
Hana, whose faith and love that had sustained her life have collapsed, ponders how she should spend the rest of her life with a can of beer.


To be old is to be alive.
To survive is to be strong.
The strength of an older person is revealed not in his inner beauty, but in his outer beauty!


Now, our lives do not end at the legally mandated retirement age of 65.
Thanks to the advancement of various technologies, we are living in the so-called 'century-old era'.
This means living through an age where you can easily lift heavy objects with both hands and run up a few flights of stairs, to an age where you are out of breath just walking a five-minute walk.
Are you at this crossroads? If so, you must open this book.

Makiko Uchidate, a drama writer and novelist, is an elderly woman in her mid-to-late 70s, similar to the main character, Hana Oshi.
In the book, the author talks about his philosophy on 'aging'.
The phrase "I'm going to die soon" is nothing more than an indulgence for the elderly, and a life lived without adorning oneself under this indulgence is called 'self-neglect.'


One poem represents the writer's beliefs.
Even at the end of her life, unpredictable events still occur, but she is undeterred and always wears a wig that suits her, makeup that is pretty, and stylish clothes.
Walk with your back straight and your chest out, confidently.
It is your life, so no matter how much time is left, you should live it based on your own beliefs, not others.

Why should I age naturally, like a grandmother?
I'm going to live as a stylish woman until I die!


Actress Yunjin Kim, who is 78 years old and looks like Oshi Hana, still carries a Chanel bag and works as a Tiffany ambassador, and she also doesn't forget to exercise for her health.
Grandma Park Mak-rye, who is the same age as me, has also appeared like a comet as a YouTuber, telling people of all ages, "How to live today in my own way."

Their lives are a great wake-up call to us.
This may be because these stories do not exist only in novels.
Or, as each year passes, I realize that I am wasting my days and wandering around, crushed by the weight of age.

So, now that you're on the brink of "aging," how will you grow older? Let's answer the sharp question posed by author Makiko Uchidate through the mouth of Hana Oshi.
Should I wait for death 'like a grandmother' and 'naturally', or should I live today 'like myself'?
I hope you find the answer in this book.
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of issue: August 20, 2025
- Page count, weight, size: 384 pages | 524g | 135*200*24mm
- ISBN13: 9791199206557
- ISBN10: 1199206555

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