Elementary School Child Behavior Change Conversation Method 68
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Book Introduction
Friendships, schoolwork, games, smartphone use…
Instead of fighting with your child anymore, try changing the way you talk to him.
『68 Conversation Methods for Changing Elementary School Children's Behavior』 is a book written by elementary education expert and teacher Cider, who has 17 years of experience as a teacher, to help parents whose conversations with their children always end in hurt feelings and fights. It carefully selects 68 representative concerns and problematic situations that elementary school children experience and teaches conversation methods for each situation.
Based on counseling with over 3,000 people in the Department of Developmental Psychology, it teaches children how to use words to change their behavior, along with specific examples.
“Okay, do it until I count to three.”
“Stop playing and study.”
“If you do well on this test, I’ll do anything you ask.”
What do these words have in common? To commemorate its 100th anniversary, Save the Children selected "100 Words That Hurt Children," creating a buzz.
The words introduced above are just a few of them, and we can see that even words that parents say inadvertently in daily life or for the sake of their children can leave wounds.
If your relationship with your child seems to be deteriorating as they grow up, or if they seem to be taking even the smallest things as nagging, it's time to examine what you say.
Elementary school is a time of new challenges and relationship formation that is different from infancy.
The difficulties or problems experienced during this period are not due to the child's personality or lack of ability, and can be alleviated or aggravated depending on how parents approach the problem and communicate with their child.
This doesn't mean you should only say nice and pretty things to your child.
We must be able to use precise language that understands the child's feelings and guides them in the right direction.
To do this, we need to understand the developmental characteristics, thinking patterns, learning, and relationship-building characteristics of children in elementary school.
For example, for elementary school children, horror stories serve as a safe way to release psychological waste that has accumulated in their minds.
So, if you force them not to read, they may indulge in games or other harmful activities to relieve the accumulated stress.
Once you know this, instead of just saying, “There are so many good books out there, why do you always read these scary ones!”, you can join in and find other solutions, like saying, “I heard your favorite animation has been made into a movie. Want to watch it together?”
What stands out is that Teacher Cider, based on her extensive field experience, has compiled a list of concerns that all parents and children face during elementary school, including academics, friendships, smartphone use, and school bullying.
Above all, the greatest advantage is that it teaches correct speech by comparing it to examples of incorrect speech by parents, so that children can break the wrong conversation patterns and easily put it into practice.
Instead of fighting with your child anymore, try changing the way you talk to him.
『68 Conversation Methods for Changing Elementary School Children's Behavior』 is a book written by elementary education expert and teacher Cider, who has 17 years of experience as a teacher, to help parents whose conversations with their children always end in hurt feelings and fights. It carefully selects 68 representative concerns and problematic situations that elementary school children experience and teaches conversation methods for each situation.
Based on counseling with over 3,000 people in the Department of Developmental Psychology, it teaches children how to use words to change their behavior, along with specific examples.
“Okay, do it until I count to three.”
“Stop playing and study.”
“If you do well on this test, I’ll do anything you ask.”
What do these words have in common? To commemorate its 100th anniversary, Save the Children selected "100 Words That Hurt Children," creating a buzz.
The words introduced above are just a few of them, and we can see that even words that parents say inadvertently in daily life or for the sake of their children can leave wounds.
If your relationship with your child seems to be deteriorating as they grow up, or if they seem to be taking even the smallest things as nagging, it's time to examine what you say.
Elementary school is a time of new challenges and relationship formation that is different from infancy.
The difficulties or problems experienced during this period are not due to the child's personality or lack of ability, and can be alleviated or aggravated depending on how parents approach the problem and communicate with their child.
This doesn't mean you should only say nice and pretty things to your child.
We must be able to use precise language that understands the child's feelings and guides them in the right direction.
To do this, we need to understand the developmental characteristics, thinking patterns, learning, and relationship-building characteristics of children in elementary school.
For example, for elementary school children, horror stories serve as a safe way to release psychological waste that has accumulated in their minds.
So, if you force them not to read, they may indulge in games or other harmful activities to relieve the accumulated stress.
Once you know this, instead of just saying, “There are so many good books out there, why do you always read these scary ones!”, you can join in and find other solutions, like saying, “I heard your favorite animation has been made into a movie. Want to watch it together?”
What stands out is that Teacher Cider, based on her extensive field experience, has compiled a list of concerns that all parents and children face during elementary school, including academics, friendships, smartphone use, and school bullying.
Above all, the greatest advantage is that it teaches correct speech by comparing it to examples of incorrect speech by parents, so that children can break the wrong conversation patterns and easily put it into practice.
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Preview
index
preface
Do you get angrier the more you talk to your children?
Chapter 1: Growing Up as a Child Who Enjoys Learning
01 Behavior Change Conversation Method For a child who wants to give up on math
02 Behavior Change Conversation Method For a child who refuses to go to school
03 Behavior Change Conversation Method To a child who says he won't do his homework because it's difficult
04 Behavior Change Conversation Technique: Words to Instill a "Study Motivation" in a Child Who Doesn't Like to Study
05 Behavior Change Conversation Method: Words to help children who don't read develop reading habits
06 Behavior Change Conversation Method For a Child Who Only Reads Horror Stories
07 Behavioral Change Conversation Method for a Child with Borderline Intelligence
08 Behavior Change Conversation Method For Children Who Have Difficulty Writing
09 Behavior Change Conversation Method To increase your child's metacognition
10 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques to Have a Great Summer Vacation
11 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques to Have a Rich Winter Vacation
12 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques: What to Say to a Child Encountering Artificial Intelligence
Chapter 2: Growing Up a Child with Happy Relationships
13 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques to Create Smooth Friendships
14 Behavior Change Conversation Methods If strong jealousy is at work in your child's heart
15 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques For Children Who Are Having a Hard Time Without Close Friends
16 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques for a Child Who Wants to Become Class President
17 Behavior Change Conversation Methods for Children Who Are Anxious About Transferring Schools
18 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques When Your Child Says He Doesn't Want to Go to School
19 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques To Boost Your Child's Self-Esteem in Everyday Life
20 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques for Children with Low Confidence
21 Behavior Change Conversation Methods For Children Who Cannot Express Their Emotions Well
22 Behavior Change Conversation Methods For Children Who Are Too Concerned About What Others Think
23 Behavior Change Conversation Methods For Children Who Cannot Say What They Want To Say
24 Behavior Change Conversation Methods When you feel that your attachment relationship with your child is unstable
Chapter 3: Growing Up a Child with Healthy Values
25 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques: Talking to a Child Who Locks Himself Out
26 Behavior Change Conversation Methods For a Child Who Doesn't Want or Like to Do Anything
27 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques When Mom Gets Apathetic
28 Behavior Change Conversation Methods for Children Obsessed with Celebrities
29 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques When You Need to Mourn a Breakup
30 Behavior Change Conversation Methods for Children Who Want to Become Popular
31 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques When You Suspect an Eating Disorder
32 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques When You Discover That Someone Has Attempted Self-Harm
33 Behavior Change Conversation Conversations that Help You Decide on Your Career Path
34 Behavior Change Conversation Methods Parental Habits That Have a Greater Impact on Children Than Discipline
35 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques Only Grandparents Can Give You
36 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques When You Know You Have a Friend of the Opposite Sex
37 Behavior Change Conversation Tips: Helpful Phrases for Elementary School Graduation
Chapter 4: Growing into a Child with Stable Psychology and Emotions
38 Behavior Change Conversation Methods If you raise your child without knowing the child development process,
39 Behavior Change Conversation Methods for Children Who Cannot Control Anger
40 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques For a Child Who Gets Annoyed at Mom at Every Moment
41 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques for Children Who Are Too Distracted
42 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques for Depressed Children
43 Behavior Change Conversation Methods for Children with Tics
44 Behavior Change Conversation Methods for Children Who Are Indifferent and Apathetic About Everything
45 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques Words that help children develop a strong mind
46 How to Prevent Regression in Behavioral Change Conversation Development
47 Behavior Change Conversation Methods For Children Who Are Usually Highly Anxious and Sensitive
48 Behavior Change Conversation Methods for Children Who Are Vulnerable to Stress
49 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques If you see someone obsessed with food:
50 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques When You Can't Attend School Open Houses
51 Things to Ask Your Child Before a Behavior Change Dialogue Parent-Child Counseling
52 Behavior Change Conversation Methods For Children Who Have Difficulty Regulating Their Needs
53 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques: Good Things to Say to Your Child on a Regular Basis
Chapter 5: Growing Up as a Well-Behaved Child
54 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques When Your Child Is Rude to Your Mom
55 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques When Saying It Again and Again Doesn't Work
56 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques To Help People Make Moral Choices
57 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques To make people follow the rules of life
58 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques When Your Child Handles Money Carelessly
59 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques When Your Child Is Asking You to Buy Expensive Items
60 Behavior Change Conversation Methods for Children Who Don't Clean Up
61 Behavior Change Conversation Methods for Children Who Don't Plan
62 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques for a Child Who Asks to Buy a Smartphone
63 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques When Smartphone Use Needs Management
64 Behavior Change Conversation Methods for Children Who Frequently Use Violence
65 Behavior Change Conversation Methods For Children Who Have a Habit of Swearing
66 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques for Children Who Play Sexually Shaming Pranks
67 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques When Your Child Says He or She Is Being Bullied
68 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques Words to Prevent School Violence
Do you get angrier the more you talk to your children?
Chapter 1: Growing Up as a Child Who Enjoys Learning
01 Behavior Change Conversation Method For a child who wants to give up on math
02 Behavior Change Conversation Method For a child who refuses to go to school
03 Behavior Change Conversation Method To a child who says he won't do his homework because it's difficult
04 Behavior Change Conversation Technique: Words to Instill a "Study Motivation" in a Child Who Doesn't Like to Study
05 Behavior Change Conversation Method: Words to help children who don't read develop reading habits
06 Behavior Change Conversation Method For a Child Who Only Reads Horror Stories
07 Behavioral Change Conversation Method for a Child with Borderline Intelligence
08 Behavior Change Conversation Method For Children Who Have Difficulty Writing
09 Behavior Change Conversation Method To increase your child's metacognition
10 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques to Have a Great Summer Vacation
11 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques to Have a Rich Winter Vacation
12 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques: What to Say to a Child Encountering Artificial Intelligence
Chapter 2: Growing Up a Child with Happy Relationships
13 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques to Create Smooth Friendships
14 Behavior Change Conversation Methods If strong jealousy is at work in your child's heart
15 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques For Children Who Are Having a Hard Time Without Close Friends
16 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques for a Child Who Wants to Become Class President
17 Behavior Change Conversation Methods for Children Who Are Anxious About Transferring Schools
18 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques When Your Child Says He Doesn't Want to Go to School
19 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques To Boost Your Child's Self-Esteem in Everyday Life
20 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques for Children with Low Confidence
21 Behavior Change Conversation Methods For Children Who Cannot Express Their Emotions Well
22 Behavior Change Conversation Methods For Children Who Are Too Concerned About What Others Think
23 Behavior Change Conversation Methods For Children Who Cannot Say What They Want To Say
24 Behavior Change Conversation Methods When you feel that your attachment relationship with your child is unstable
Chapter 3: Growing Up a Child with Healthy Values
25 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques: Talking to a Child Who Locks Himself Out
26 Behavior Change Conversation Methods For a Child Who Doesn't Want or Like to Do Anything
27 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques When Mom Gets Apathetic
28 Behavior Change Conversation Methods for Children Obsessed with Celebrities
29 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques When You Need to Mourn a Breakup
30 Behavior Change Conversation Methods for Children Who Want to Become Popular
31 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques When You Suspect an Eating Disorder
32 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques When You Discover That Someone Has Attempted Self-Harm
33 Behavior Change Conversation Conversations that Help You Decide on Your Career Path
34 Behavior Change Conversation Methods Parental Habits That Have a Greater Impact on Children Than Discipline
35 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques Only Grandparents Can Give You
36 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques When You Know You Have a Friend of the Opposite Sex
37 Behavior Change Conversation Tips: Helpful Phrases for Elementary School Graduation
Chapter 4: Growing into a Child with Stable Psychology and Emotions
38 Behavior Change Conversation Methods If you raise your child without knowing the child development process,
39 Behavior Change Conversation Methods for Children Who Cannot Control Anger
40 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques For a Child Who Gets Annoyed at Mom at Every Moment
41 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques for Children Who Are Too Distracted
42 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques for Depressed Children
43 Behavior Change Conversation Methods for Children with Tics
44 Behavior Change Conversation Methods for Children Who Are Indifferent and Apathetic About Everything
45 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques Words that help children develop a strong mind
46 How to Prevent Regression in Behavioral Change Conversation Development
47 Behavior Change Conversation Methods For Children Who Are Usually Highly Anxious and Sensitive
48 Behavior Change Conversation Methods for Children Who Are Vulnerable to Stress
49 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques If you see someone obsessed with food:
50 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques When You Can't Attend School Open Houses
51 Things to Ask Your Child Before a Behavior Change Dialogue Parent-Child Counseling
52 Behavior Change Conversation Methods For Children Who Have Difficulty Regulating Their Needs
53 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques: Good Things to Say to Your Child on a Regular Basis
Chapter 5: Growing Up as a Well-Behaved Child
54 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques When Your Child Is Rude to Your Mom
55 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques When Saying It Again and Again Doesn't Work
56 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques To Help People Make Moral Choices
57 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques To make people follow the rules of life
58 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques When Your Child Handles Money Carelessly
59 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques When Your Child Is Asking You to Buy Expensive Items
60 Behavior Change Conversation Methods for Children Who Don't Clean Up
61 Behavior Change Conversation Methods for Children Who Don't Plan
62 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques for a Child Who Asks to Buy a Smartphone
63 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques When Smartphone Use Needs Management
64 Behavior Change Conversation Methods for Children Who Frequently Use Violence
65 Behavior Change Conversation Methods For Children Who Have a Habit of Swearing
66 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques for Children Who Play Sexually Shaming Pranks
67 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques When Your Child Says He or She Is Being Bullied
68 Behavior Change Conversation Techniques Words to Prevent School Violence
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Publisher's Review
The elementary school period, when the language of parents and the language of children collide,
The essence of conversational skills is revealed when you understand the characteristics of a child's development and elementary school years.
When a mother speaks to her child with affectionate language, the child becomes psychologically stable and his or her behavior changes.
The affection we are talking about here does not simply mean affirming or praising every single action of the child.
Sometimes, you need to use precise language that is gentle but firm, understanding the child's feelings while guiding them in the right direction.
To do this, it is necessary to know the developmental characteristics of children in elementary school, their way of thinking, and the characteristics of learning and relationships.
In order to elicit behavior from elementary school children, instead of vague encouragement like, “Cheer up! You can do it!”, you need to provide specific methods, places, times, etc., and since over-empathizing with a child can lead to emotional immersion, you should only acknowledge their emotions as they are. This article specifically introduces how to inform and speak to them based on the characteristics of elementary school children.
Elementary school life tips from a current teacher
How to Talk to Your Child Without Hurt Him
So, how should you tell your child? For mothers struggling with this, Kim Seon-ho, an education expert and current teacher who has counseled over 3,000 children over the past 17 years, offers conversational techniques that can lead to positive behavioral changes in children.
In particular, it carefully selects 68 representative problem behaviors and concerns that children experience in elementary school, such as a child who struggles because he or she cannot say what he or she wants to say to a friend, a child who is always concerned about what others think and lacks confidence, and a child who asks why he or she has to do homework, and provides specific speaking methods for each situation.
To help children learn how to use correct language without hurting them, we compare examples of parents' incorrect speech to provide practical help.
The essence of conversational skills is revealed when you understand the characteristics of a child's development and elementary school years.
When a mother speaks to her child with affectionate language, the child becomes psychologically stable and his or her behavior changes.
The affection we are talking about here does not simply mean affirming or praising every single action of the child.
Sometimes, you need to use precise language that is gentle but firm, understanding the child's feelings while guiding them in the right direction.
To do this, it is necessary to know the developmental characteristics of children in elementary school, their way of thinking, and the characteristics of learning and relationships.
In order to elicit behavior from elementary school children, instead of vague encouragement like, “Cheer up! You can do it!”, you need to provide specific methods, places, times, etc., and since over-empathizing with a child can lead to emotional immersion, you should only acknowledge their emotions as they are. This article specifically introduces how to inform and speak to them based on the characteristics of elementary school children.
Elementary school life tips from a current teacher
How to Talk to Your Child Without Hurt Him
So, how should you tell your child? For mothers struggling with this, Kim Seon-ho, an education expert and current teacher who has counseled over 3,000 children over the past 17 years, offers conversational techniques that can lead to positive behavioral changes in children.
In particular, it carefully selects 68 representative problem behaviors and concerns that children experience in elementary school, such as a child who struggles because he or she cannot say what he or she wants to say to a friend, a child who is always concerned about what others think and lacks confidence, and a child who asks why he or she has to do homework, and provides specific speaking methods for each situation.
To help children learn how to use correct language without hurting them, we compare examples of parents' incorrect speech to provide practical help.
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of issue: April 1, 2025
- Page count, weight, size: 328 pages | 446g | 145*210*30mm
- ISBN13: 9791191309799
- ISBN10: 1191309797
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