“Experience the hand of God using the wounds of relationships.”
-John Bevere-

Special edition commemorating 100,000 copies.
It tells us how God refines and grows us through the wounds of relationships.
It teaches Christians how to accept and resolve the wounds and trials they experience in various relationships, and how to be free from Satan's strategies of setting up stumbling blocks in relationships and grow spiritually.

As you read this book, you will come face to face with a truth more precious than anything you experience in everyday life.
The topics covered in this book are very important.
The central theme of this book is 'offense' (in the Bible, in addition to 'offending', it is translated with various terms such as test of the heart, mistake, crime, etc.
The problem of sin (here, it refers specifically to the state of committing a sin by being hurt or wounded by others) is a very difficult obstacle that most people experience and must overcome.


This book is not about any new doctrine.
It is simply a reflection of what happens in our daily lives in light of God's word.
I've heard many examples from personal experience.
I believe this book will empower you, the readers.
As you read, pray to God to increase your faith! God will be glorified, and you will be filled with joy.
I pray that God's abundant blessings be with you.

Jesus said, “It is impossible that things will not cause people to stumble, but woe to the one through whom they do so!” Luke 17:1
Since stumbling is something that can happen to anyone, the problem isn't the stumbling itself, but how we deal with it.
The truly unfortunate thing is that not just a few people, but a great many people have stumbled and are weighed down by it.
Even Christians.

---From "To those who read this book"

Many people are unable to fulfill their calling because of the hurt and pain they experience in life.
Hurt and pain can lead to psychological disorders that prevent people from reaching their full potential.
The problem is that the majority of the perpetrators who cause harm are people who are also practicing their faith in the church.
This situation makes me feel even more betrayed.
(Omitted) … Is this solely their fault? Jesus clearly stated that it is impossible to live in this world without making any mistakes.
However, most believers are shocked and confused when something like this happens.
They only think of themselves as hurt and victims.
But this attitude leaves us very vulnerable and reaches deep into the roots of our broken hearts.
Therefore, we must arm ourselves to wisely prepare for these trials.
Because your future is determined by how you deal with it.
---From "Chapter 1: Me? I was hurt?"

Those who have broken away from sin are God's children who completely obey Him.
He is a mature Christian.
He chooses God's way, not his own.
Just as Jesus learned obedience through the things he suffered, we too learn obedience through the difficulties we face.
If we fully obey the word of the Holy Spirit, we will grow and mature even through times of hardship and conflict.
It is not our knowledge of the Bible that makes us grow.
The secret is obedience.

---From “Chapter 6: Spiritual Growth Begins When Wounds Heal”