Entering_I hope this will be a source of comfort and wisdom for the mother of a son.

Chapter 1: What Three Mothers with Sons Say When They Get Together
I feel like my life is shortened because of my son.
I'm being noticed among the daughters and mothers.
I want to create an environment that is just right for my child.
How is the bond between father and son formed?
I'm curious about what's going on in a child's head.
I hope my son grows up to be a good man.

Chapter 2: Why is my son like this?
I want to tell you sharply that you shouldn't do that
I feel ignored by my child.
My child won't put down his smartphone.
I don't think my son is listening to me.
My son was the one who did something wrong, but when I scold him, he cries so sadly.
I want to develop my language skills
My child only draws in neutral colors.
I'm upset because my child is so introverted.
I'm worried because he has violent tendencies.
My child only enjoys aggressive play.
You're overly obsessed with being number one
I hate playing and studying for the first time.
My son avoids conversation
My son keeps asking me if I love him.
I'm upset because my child keeps getting hit.

Chapter 3: How can I communicate with my son?
How can I understand my son?
I want to teach you how to express yourself
Parenting trends don't fit with my child.
I need the perfect parenting recipe
I'm motivating myself with praise
I'm so obsessed with one thing that I can't get out of it.
What stimulates your son's competitive spirit?
Does giving compliments require skill?
I wish my son was good at English.
I want to give my son the confidence that he can do it.
How to develop a reading habit
Is it normal for a child to swear and play with friends?
I want to improve my son's addiction to swearing.
My child doesn't keep promises and throws tantrums.
My child is stubborn sometimes.

Chapter 4: A New Mom: Growing Up with My Son Today
I want to be confident in my parenting methods.
My husband takes care of raising our son as if it were someone else's business.
How to deal with a child's failure
I feel like it's my job to design my child's life.
I want to help my son find his dream.
Is it a bad habit to have high expectations of your child?
My son has a tic disorder.
I've been diagnosed with ADHD, what do I do?
I'm intimidated and anxious by the information power of the mother next door.
I feel guilty when I meet a veteran teacher.
I'm afraid I'm raising my child wrong.
No matter how hard I try, my child doesn't change.
There's so much parenting information.

To all the mothers of sons reading this book:

A parenting expert shares 50 tips for raising cheerful, courageous, and resilient children, learned from daily encounters with parents of young boys! Moms often yell at their sons several times a day for their uncontrollable behavior.
I feel like I'm going crazy because I can't understand it and I can't control it.
When a situation is resolved in an instant with a whisper from a father rather than a ten-word sentence from a mother, a strange sense of resentment can be felt. Choi Min-jun, author of "To Mothers Who Are Going Crazy Because of Their Sons" and director of the Jaradanam Art Research Institute, says it's natural for a mother, a woman, to not understand her son, a man.
There is something he always says to new mothers.
“There is no perfect parenting recipe.
But I can find a method that is just right for my son!” The author, who provides answers to all the concerns of mothers raising sons, was able to identify 50 common concerns faced by mothers with sons in Korea through numerous nationwide lectures and counseling sessions for mothers with sons.
『For Mothers Who Feel Like They're Going Crazy Because of Their Sons』 contains specific advice tailored to their concerns.
The author's educational philosophy for his son is that if there are 1,000 children, they will have 1,000 different personalities.
Therefore, he argues, “While there may not be a universal parenting method, a mother can find the parenting method that is right for her son.”
It is largely composed of four chapters.
Chapter 1 contains episodes and guidelines for action that will help you empathize with the frustration of a mother who has to lead her son.
Chapter 2 provides scientific and social knowledge along with counseling content to help understand boys' tendencies.
Chapter 3 is based on conversations with children while playing with art at the lab, and helps mothers develop insight to read their children's inner thoughts that they cannot easily express to anyone else.
Chapter 4 contains practical advice to help mothers and children grow together, including finding their dreams, overcoming tic disorders, and ADHD.
The author's knowledge and expertise on the unique empathy, curiosity, immersion, language development, self-directedness, competitive spirit, storytelling skills, and how to find topics of interest in a son, which mothers born as daughters cannot understand, stand out.
This is also a living story that only author Minjun Choi can tell.
For mothers of sons who are desperate to solve immediate problems with perfect parenting recipes, the author's solution serves as a parenting guide that helps them understand their sons and, furthermore, create a parenting recipe that is just right for their sons.
“If you want your son to grow up to be a good man, do this.” The author, who hopes that mothers and sons will grow together and represents the sons of the Republic of Korea, gives advice to mothers. She diagnoses that the situation in which one whips oneself and one’s child while trying to be a good mother makes one want the perfect parenting recipe.
And he urges, “As the first condition for your son to grow up to be a good man, let go of the obsession with raising your child well and the responsibility to be a good parent.”
It points out that a son in his childhood judges and recognizes himself through the gaze of his mother looking at him, and advises that the mother's self-reproach and worry make the son anxious, which in turn destroys his self-esteem and gives rise to an inferiority complex.
The obsession a mother has while raising her son hinders the child from growing up to be a good man.
The author calms the anxiety of mothers of sons by saying that when mothers accept their children's tendencies, their sons can grow into courageous and witty men.
It also helps mothers and sons grow together by encouraging them to do as much as they can.
He tells the story of a son who suddenly tries to prove his mother's love too much, a son who is obsessed with games, a son who is overly obsessed with being number one, and his practical advice that guides mothers' behavior is even practical.
In this context, he conveys three major messages.
First, the mother should not reject or judge the child's personality so that the child can accept his or her personality.
Second, when your son shows bad behavior, don't try to correct his behavior by nagging him or taming him with praise, but rather consider his feelings.
Third, I will observe my husband, who appears indifferent to childcare but instinctively forms a bond with his son, and learn to accept the characteristics of men as creatures.
Through the author's writings, which understand and support the boy, readers come to understand the inner feelings of their son that they had previously been unable to understand.
Not only that, you will also gain the wisdom to find peace and happiness in gloomy and frustrating situations.
It helps boys, who lack the skills to express their inner feelings as much as girls, to communicate with their mothers and grow into cheerful, courageous, and strong adults.
The author's letter to a new mother at the end of the book is a heartfelt message of positivity, comforting a new mother who has lost confidence in raising her son and is wandering.
"To Mothers Who Are Going Crazy Because of Their Sons" provides wisdom and knowledge to all adults who must guide their boys.