Chapter 1: If you know, there are no bad children.

01 Please look at me
02 My child is no exception
03 Prejudice against students who commit school violence
04 School Police Officers Face School Violence
05 There is no such thing as a bad child from birth.
06 Is my child really safe?
07 Every child in this world is precious.

Chapter 2: Children Exposed to School Violence

01 Children who don't want to go to school
02 Small signals sent by children
03 Swearing fuels fights
04 Children who are overly introverted are bullied.
05 Children who have difficulty defending themselves are suffering.
06 Children who are awkward at expressing themselves become targets.
07 If you like being alone, take a closer look.
08 A child who is afraid of hanging out with friends

Chapter 3: School Violence Stories, Case by Case

01 Even a prank can turn into violence if it goes too far.
02 Cyberbullying Beyond School
03 The most severe sexual violence
04 Violence that started as a joke
05 Sexual violence that violates sexual self-determination
06 You defamed me on social media? Cyber ​​defamation.
07 I'm scared of group chats and cyberbullying.
08 Children in Mob Psychology, Mob Assault

Chapter 4: How to Respond to Victimized and Offending Parents

01 If your child is a victim of school violence, do this.
02 What if my child is a perpetrator of school violence?
03 School Violence Countermeasures Committee Procedures and Response Methods
04 Calmly ascertain the facts and resolve the situation.
05 Emotional responses are prohibited.
06 Listen to the stories of the victim and the offender.
07 Let's secure evidence of damage that is favorable to the child.
08 Let's understand and empathize rather than scold.

Chapter 5: School Violence: Prevention is the Best Solution

01 Letting go of parental authority over children
02 Let's focus on character education rather than test-taking skills.
03 Let's teach people to recognize and understand each other's differences.
04 I'll be on your side
05 Look for signs of school violence
06 Parents also need preventive education.
07 Raising a child's self-esteem is more important than studying.

“The unquenchable flame, school violence!
“Is my child really okay?”

School police officer,
Encountering school violence on the ground!

What is school violence? Why does it occur?
And how can we prevent and deal with it?

As a school police officer, the author has seen the reality of school violence more closely than anyone else.
School violence is also evolving to keep pace with changing times.
These days, school violence occurs even in virtual spaces such as smartphones and the Internet.
As cases of school violence continue to arise, the author has learned something from interviewing many children, including perpetrators, victims, and juvenile delinquents.
Most of the causes of children's difficulties start at home and at school.
Adults must listen to the cries of children who are groaning in unseen places.

This book contains numerous cases of school violence that the author has observed while working as a school police officer, as well as the attitudes that parents of adolescent children should have and what they can do to prevent it.
Depending on parental education, both perpetrators and victims of school violence can stop it before it reaches extreme consequences.
It can be prevented sufficiently.
Let's start with character education rather than teaching test-taking skills.
Let's be on the child's side and help build self-esteem.


Kids who don't want to go to school!
The signals those kids send!

“Adults, our children
In a safe society
“I have a responsibility to help you live happily!”

There is no such thing as a 'bad child from the beginning'.
At least that's what the children the author has seen were like.
I'm not saying we should give leniency to perpetrators just because they are young and have their own stories.
But if there is a reason for this, such as adults' indifference or poor education, then it is clearly the adults' responsibility.

Prevention is the best way to deal with school violence.
The cases that the author has personally seen and experienced will be the best stimulus for us.
We must hold the victims' hands and help them confidently reveal the facts of their suffering.
Working together is the only way to create a world where our children can live safely.


“What if my child becomes a victim, perpetrator, or witness of school violence?”
How to respond that parents must know

1.
What if my child is a victim of school violence?
- Before arguing about right or wrong, you must first empathize with the other person and offer emotional support by saying, “It’s not your fault.”
If there is trauma, it is recommended to take pictures to secure evidence, receive treatment at a hospital, and visit a professional counseling center for consultation even if there is no apparent problem.
- To receive appropriate compensation, students must inquire with the Office of Education or the school to confirm and utilize psychological counseling, advice, and temporary protection for the victim.
In this way, you should carefully check the school's administrative procedures and find out about organizations that can provide assistance.

2.
What if my child is a perpetrator of school violence?
- First, listen to the facts from your child.
And if there are friends who witnessed it, it is a good idea to ask them about the specifics of the situation at the time with their guardian's consent.
You should look into any evidence, such as messenger conversations or social media, to determine whether your child was the ringleader, actively participated, or simply was present.

- If your child's misbehavior is confirmed, you must acknowledge it clearly and make the victim realize how much pain he or she must have suffered, and discipline him or her to ensure that it never happens again.
For this method to be possible, it is very important to build a rapport with your child on a regular basis.

3.
What if my child becomes involved in school violence?
- We must calmly determine the facts and resolve the situation.
Emotional responses are prohibited.
Communication cannot be overemphasized.
When emotions take over, it is difficult to communicate smoothly.
Parents must maintain an objective stance.
- We need to listen to the story of the victim and the offending child.
Retribution and punishment are not the only solutions to correct children's distorted relationships.
It is the role of adults to help children grow healthily by understanding each other through conversation and restoring relationships.