
Biblical Parenting Guide
Description
Book Introduction
Many believing parents want to raise their children biblically, but in reality, in a climate dominated by humanistic educational philosophies, it has become very difficult to obtain clear and specific biblical guidance.
This book clearly states that the goal of biblical parenting is to train the children entrusted to us by God to become disciples who deny themselves, take up their cross, and follow Jesus Christ.
It is the exact opposite of the world's values.
Biblical parenting, which raises children who love God with all their heart, soul, mind, and strength, not for their own benefit, and who love their neighbors as themselves, is the best parenting before God.
The younger your child is, the easier it will be to train them, but don't be discouraged if they aren't.
Rather than applying it as a formula, I encourage you to seek the help of the Holy Spirit in this book's biblical principles.
It would be difficult to find a book that provides such specific, practical guidance on biblical parenting.
Additionally, after reading this book, I recommend reading Pastor Reb Bradley's "Overcoming the Parenting Crisis."
Reading these two books over and over again once a year is a great way to prevent many mistakes parents often make.
This book clearly states that the goal of biblical parenting is to train the children entrusted to us by God to become disciples who deny themselves, take up their cross, and follow Jesus Christ.
It is the exact opposite of the world's values.
Biblical parenting, which raises children who love God with all their heart, soul, mind, and strength, not for their own benefit, and who love their neighbors as themselves, is the best parenting before God.
The younger your child is, the easier it will be to train them, but don't be discouraged if they aren't.
Rather than applying it as a formula, I encourage you to seek the help of the Holy Spirit in this book's biblical principles.
It would be difficult to find a book that provides such specific, practical guidance on biblical parenting.
Additionally, after reading this book, I recommend reading Pastor Reb Bradley's "Overcoming the Parenting Crisis."
Reading these two books over and over again once a year is a great way to prevent many mistakes parents often make.
index
Acknowledgements
Recommendation
introduction
Introduction
Chapter 1: Seven Obstacles to Becoming a Good Parent
1.
defensive attitude
2.
Confusion between parenting and training
3.
Misconceptions about human depravity
4.
An attitude of trusting the world's experts
5.
Negative childhood experiences and fear of their inheritance
6.
Survival-oriented parenting attitude
7.
Parenting attitude that follows the formula
Chapter 2: Goals of Child Rearing
What is maturity?
How does maturity come about?
What is immaturity?
What are the signs of immaturity?
Aim for maturity
What does life teach us?
Chapter 3: A Family with Control
Controllable children
Establishing parental control
Why Control Is Important in Training
A family that is dragged around by its children
Some Reasons to Share Authority with Your Children
Characteristics of emotionally unstable parents
The need to earn respect from children
How to Regain Authority and Earn Your Child's Respect
The key to establishing control
Why Children Should Obey Without Asking Why
It's time to tell them the reason for obedience
Explain the reason without arguing
What if the child has never learned to break his stubbornness and obey humbly?
Polite Ways to Change Your Parents' Minds
How to Respond to Children Who Ask Why
Chapter 4: The Four Stages of Parenting
1.
Controller: 0-4 years old
2.
Training and education period: 4 to 12 years old
3.
Ages: 12-19
4.
Relationship Formation Period: ~20 years old (or maybe 16 years old or older)
Chapter 5: Wrong Discipline
An Example of Bad Discipline: A Method Doomed to Fail
Chapter 6: Parenting Through Discipline 108
God's law of discipline
The Difference Between Inadvertent Disobedience and True Rebellion
How does the Bible say to discipline a rebellious child?
To parents who say, “I love my child too much to hit him/her”
The Difference Between Corporal Punishment and Abuse
Actions or attitudes that invite corporal punishment
What is rebellious behavior?
Are there no alternatives to corporal punishment?
Rebellious Children, Threatening Parents: The Dangers of Simply Threatening Corporal Punishment
How to Determine Unintentional Disobedience
Discipline for unintentional disobedience
Some typical disciplines and principles to consider
Is it stubbornness or incompetence?
Different methods are needed for different situations
Chapter 7: Wrong Parenting Methods
Chapter 8: Raising Responsible Children 153
Raising children to be responsible
Don't be overprotective
Check if you have a sense of responsibility
Developing responsibility and good habits
Instilling the ethic of working hard at what needs to be done
The result of working hard on what needed to be done
Raising children to be responsible individuals
What is victim mentality?
Help them take responsibility for their lives
Chapter 9: How Children Avoid Responsibility
How Children Avoid Responsibility
Chapter 10: Raising Respectful Children
Why is it important to teach respect for authority?
What is respect?
What does it mean to respect authority?
Examples of disrespect
Respond politely to parental instructions
Teach others to respect others by asking permission.
Chapter 11: Different Expectations Depending on Age and Situation
Expectations by age
How do you know if your child understands?
“My child is different!”
Should all children be held to the same standards?
The Dangers of Saying "Our Child is Different"
What about children in special circumstances?
Parents, have hope!
Personal Advice for Parents in Special Situations
Another way is to check your diet!
Chapter 12: Practicing Proper Behavior 215
Learning obedience through appropriate behavior
Seize the battlefield
Chapter 13: Children and Food 221
Should I be grateful for foods I don't like?
Why You Should Let Your Children Eat Food Prepared by Their Parents
Chapter 14: Blessings Before Sleep 225
Getting ready for bed
If you were lying in bed
When you start sleeping alone in bed
Train yourself to lie down in bed.
Chapter 15: Don't Provoke Your Children to Anger 231
Parents who provoke their children
Chapter 16: The Role of the Home as a Shelter and Protection 239
There is only one absolute thing, everything else is relative.
Not just a shelter, but a place of nurturing
Chapter 17: Raising Children to Love God and Their Neighbors (244)
Obedience and respect
If there is no love
The most precious thing
The biggest one
Does God really like me?
The second largest
Practical Tips for Raising Loving Children
Restoration of lost love
Chapter 18: A New Beginning 298
Recommendation
introduction
Introduction
Chapter 1: Seven Obstacles to Becoming a Good Parent
1.
defensive attitude
2.
Confusion between parenting and training
3.
Misconceptions about human depravity
4.
An attitude of trusting the world's experts
5.
Negative childhood experiences and fear of their inheritance
6.
Survival-oriented parenting attitude
7.
Parenting attitude that follows the formula
Chapter 2: Goals of Child Rearing
What is maturity?
How does maturity come about?
What is immaturity?
What are the signs of immaturity?
Aim for maturity
What does life teach us?
Chapter 3: A Family with Control
Controllable children
Establishing parental control
Why Control Is Important in Training
A family that is dragged around by its children
Some Reasons to Share Authority with Your Children
Characteristics of emotionally unstable parents
The need to earn respect from children
How to Regain Authority and Earn Your Child's Respect
The key to establishing control
Why Children Should Obey Without Asking Why
It's time to tell them the reason for obedience
Explain the reason without arguing
What if the child has never learned to break his stubbornness and obey humbly?
Polite Ways to Change Your Parents' Minds
How to Respond to Children Who Ask Why
Chapter 4: The Four Stages of Parenting
1.
Controller: 0-4 years old
2.
Training and education period: 4 to 12 years old
3.
Ages: 12-19
4.
Relationship Formation Period: ~20 years old (or maybe 16 years old or older)
Chapter 5: Wrong Discipline
An Example of Bad Discipline: A Method Doomed to Fail
Chapter 6: Parenting Through Discipline 108
God's law of discipline
The Difference Between Inadvertent Disobedience and True Rebellion
How does the Bible say to discipline a rebellious child?
To parents who say, “I love my child too much to hit him/her”
The Difference Between Corporal Punishment and Abuse
Actions or attitudes that invite corporal punishment
What is rebellious behavior?
Are there no alternatives to corporal punishment?
Rebellious Children, Threatening Parents: The Dangers of Simply Threatening Corporal Punishment
How to Determine Unintentional Disobedience
Discipline for unintentional disobedience
Some typical disciplines and principles to consider
Is it stubbornness or incompetence?
Different methods are needed for different situations
Chapter 7: Wrong Parenting Methods
Chapter 8: Raising Responsible Children 153
Raising children to be responsible
Don't be overprotective
Check if you have a sense of responsibility
Developing responsibility and good habits
Instilling the ethic of working hard at what needs to be done
The result of working hard on what needed to be done
Raising children to be responsible individuals
What is victim mentality?
Help them take responsibility for their lives
Chapter 9: How Children Avoid Responsibility
How Children Avoid Responsibility
Chapter 10: Raising Respectful Children
Why is it important to teach respect for authority?
What is respect?
What does it mean to respect authority?
Examples of disrespect
Respond politely to parental instructions
Teach others to respect others by asking permission.
Chapter 11: Different Expectations Depending on Age and Situation
Expectations by age
How do you know if your child understands?
“My child is different!”
Should all children be held to the same standards?
The Dangers of Saying "Our Child is Different"
What about children in special circumstances?
Parents, have hope!
Personal Advice for Parents in Special Situations
Another way is to check your diet!
Chapter 12: Practicing Proper Behavior 215
Learning obedience through appropriate behavior
Seize the battlefield
Chapter 13: Children and Food 221
Should I be grateful for foods I don't like?
Why You Should Let Your Children Eat Food Prepared by Their Parents
Chapter 14: Blessings Before Sleep 225
Getting ready for bed
If you were lying in bed
When you start sleeping alone in bed
Train yourself to lie down in bed.
Chapter 15: Don't Provoke Your Children to Anger 231
Parents who provoke their children
Chapter 16: The Role of the Home as a Shelter and Protection 239
There is only one absolute thing, everything else is relative.
Not just a shelter, but a place of nurturing
Chapter 17: Raising Children to Love God and Their Neighbors (244)
Obedience and respect
If there is no love
The most precious thing
The biggest one
Does God really like me?
The second largest
Practical Tips for Raising Loving Children
Restoration of lost love
Chapter 18: A New Beginning 298
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GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of issue: January 30, 2023
- Page count, weight, size: 304 pages | 552g | 152*225*20mm
- ISBN13: 9791197800726
- ISBN10: 1197800727
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