There must be God's will in our marriage.
However, God does not force His will upon us, but allows us to judge and follow it with free will.
--- p.21

Therefore, I must put aside my expectations and desires and find the spouse that God has chosen for me with a clear view of marriage, which is 'for the glory of God.'

--- p.21

To meet a helping spouse, you must be asleep to the world.
We must all be deeply immersed in the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life.

--- p.24

The purpose of marriage is to soften the business.
We must not forget that marriage is for salvation, to give birth to spiritual heirs and to continue the lineage of faith.

--- p.40

For believers, there must be a clear principle: 'Never marry outside of faith.'
The most important thing in marriage is whether or not you are a believer.

--- p.59

Marriage must be based on faith.
However, it is the attitude of a believer to also prepare for realistic wedding costs and conditions.
So when deciding to get married, you have to look at each other's views on money.
If marriage is spiritual, then “if you have faith, what else do you need?”
We must not destroy the happiness of others by saying, “God will provide for my needs.”

--- p.94

Isaac learned to commune intimately with God while being alone.
That is why, even though I prayed alone, He granted me a good spouse.
People who are good at spending time alone like this make others feel comfortable and not tired.
Only those who have the ability to live well on their own can truly get married.

--- p.106

A family without problems is a family with problems, and a family with problems is a family without problems.
When we can't have children, we're busy criticizing and resenting each other, but Isaac didn't do that.
Eventually, his prayers were answered.
The prayer of faith never falls to the ground.

--- p.144

We must acknowledge that our lives and marriages naturally have their flaws and wrinkles, and we must first look at our own flaws and wrinkles.
A harmonious marital relationship is possible when my relationship with the Lord is established properly.
If we see our stains and wrinkles in the Lord and repent, reconciliation and forgiveness will be achieved between couples.

--- p.169

I always say that the best legacy you can leave your children is an unspoiled copy of your family register.
It also tells us that there are no good or bad parents, but that the best parents are the parents who helped their children believe in Jesus.

--- p.200