Psychology Letters to My Daughter (Special Edition Commemorating 100,000 Copies)
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A psychoanalyst who has treated 200,000 people over 40 years
The Psychology of Self-Care for My Daughter Who Dreams of a Free and Confident Life
“Just walk your own path, don’t be too swayed by the events and people passing by.”
A book filled with 37 pieces of psychological wisdom from a psychoanalyst who has healed people with heartache for 40 years, sent to his beloved daughter.
The author suddenly realized something when his daughter left for the United States to study, found a job, met a boyfriend, and said she wanted to get married.
I have said many things to the countless people who have visited my clinic over the years, but there are many things I have not been able to say to my beloved daughter.
He has carefully selected and included in this book the insights he gained while working as a psychoanalyst, the lessons he learned from living as a working woman for 40 years, and the stories he would like to tell his daughter as a mother.
So, the advice in this book is not just half-baked advice based on knowledge without experience, or half-baked consolation lacking analysis and solutions.
It presents a new alternative to the problems women face in life, love, and relationships, while maintaining sincerity and reality.
It is full of attitudes toward life that must be maintained in order to live as a person with healthy self-love that is not easily swayed by the world, such as ‘Be a bad daughter’, ‘No one asked you to be a superwoman’, ‘What happens when I don’t take care of myself’, ‘Nietzsche’s questions to remember when meeting a man’, ‘If you are anxious now, it is proof that you are living a good life’, ‘Many of life’s problems are solved when you have time alone’, and ‘Live as a strong individualist, not a petty egoist’.
A revised and expanded edition of "Psychology Letters to My Daughter," published in 2013 and loved by 100,000 readers, topping the humanities bestseller lists at major bookstores.
The Psychology of Self-Care for My Daughter Who Dreams of a Free and Confident Life
“Just walk your own path, don’t be too swayed by the events and people passing by.”
A book filled with 37 pieces of psychological wisdom from a psychoanalyst who has healed people with heartache for 40 years, sent to his beloved daughter.
The author suddenly realized something when his daughter left for the United States to study, found a job, met a boyfriend, and said she wanted to get married.
I have said many things to the countless people who have visited my clinic over the years, but there are many things I have not been able to say to my beloved daughter.
He has carefully selected and included in this book the insights he gained while working as a psychoanalyst, the lessons he learned from living as a working woman for 40 years, and the stories he would like to tell his daughter as a mother.
So, the advice in this book is not just half-baked advice based on knowledge without experience, or half-baked consolation lacking analysis and solutions.
It presents a new alternative to the problems women face in life, love, and relationships, while maintaining sincerity and reality.
It is full of attitudes toward life that must be maintained in order to live as a person with healthy self-love that is not easily swayed by the world, such as ‘Be a bad daughter’, ‘No one asked you to be a superwoman’, ‘What happens when I don’t take care of myself’, ‘Nietzsche’s questions to remember when meeting a man’, ‘If you are anxious now, it is proof that you are living a good life’, ‘Many of life’s problems are solved when you have time alone’, and ‘Live as a strong individualist, not a petty egoist’.
A revised and expanded edition of "Psychology Letters to My Daughter," published in 2013 and loved by 100,000 readers, topping the humanities bestseller lists at major bookstores.
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Prologue: Stories I haven't been able to tell for 30 years, but definitely want to tell.
Chapter 1.
The person you should cherish most in the world is yourself - On the World and the Self
-Be a bad daughter
-If you want to cry, cry until your tear ducts dry up.
-There is no choice that satisfies everyone.
-On the saying that unconditional love is true love
-What happens when I don't take care of myself
How to Protect Yourself in a Hurtful World: Asking Well, Saying No Well
-Don't be too shaken by the things that pass by.
-I will live as a strong individualist, not a petty egoist.
Chapter 2.
Don't try to be good at everything - On work and relationships
A good job doesn't solve everything.
The safest path can also be the most dangerous.
-Nobody asked you to be Superwoman.
-What I've learned from working for 40 years
-Don't try too hard not to look timid.
Why you should be an empiricist rather than a perfectionist
-Women succeed in the corporate world.
- Many of life's problems can be solved by spending time alone.
Chapter 3.
No matter what life you live, never put off love - About Love
-No matter what kind of life you live, never put off love.
Even parting requires courtesy.
-Nietzsche's question to remember when meeting a man
-There are other, more important issues than whether or not to have sex.
-Even if you get married, you'll still be lonely.
-SNS doesn't cure loneliness.
-I will only love those who treat me with respect and courtesy.
Chapter 4.
Let your mind rest when it's not working as you want it to - About Emotions
[Self-esteem] If you feel like you need qualifications to be loved
Depression is a signal to restore the balance of a broken mind.
[Anxiety] If you're anxious right now, it's proof that you're living a good life.
[Jealousy] If someone is jealous of you, it means you are successful.
[Fatigue] With the 'if it works, great, if not, then don't' mentality
[Anger] Don't lose your temper, express it more gracefully and firmly.
[Independence] To you who will leave your mother and live as an adult
Chapter 5.
Don't rush too much, and live slowly and passionately - About Life
-Stop blaming your parents.
-If you want to have fewer regrets at the end of your life
-Becoming a friend you've wanted to see for a long time
If you don't have a philosophy about money, there will come a day when you will cry because of money.
Beauty after 40 is determined by lifestyle.
-Real study that strengthens the roots of life
-Life is nothing special, just have fun.
Prologue: Stories I haven't been able to tell for 30 years, but definitely want to tell.
Chapter 1.
The person you should cherish most in the world is yourself - On the World and the Self
-Be a bad daughter
-If you want to cry, cry until your tear ducts dry up.
-There is no choice that satisfies everyone.
-On the saying that unconditional love is true love
-What happens when I don't take care of myself
How to Protect Yourself in a Hurtful World: Asking Well, Saying No Well
-Don't be too shaken by the things that pass by.
-I will live as a strong individualist, not a petty egoist.
Chapter 2.
Don't try to be good at everything - On work and relationships
A good job doesn't solve everything.
The safest path can also be the most dangerous.
-Nobody asked you to be Superwoman.
-What I've learned from working for 40 years
-Don't try too hard not to look timid.
Why you should be an empiricist rather than a perfectionist
-Women succeed in the corporate world.
- Many of life's problems can be solved by spending time alone.
Chapter 3.
No matter what life you live, never put off love - About Love
-No matter what kind of life you live, never put off love.
Even parting requires courtesy.
-Nietzsche's question to remember when meeting a man
-There are other, more important issues than whether or not to have sex.
-Even if you get married, you'll still be lonely.
-SNS doesn't cure loneliness.
-I will only love those who treat me with respect and courtesy.
Chapter 4.
Let your mind rest when it's not working as you want it to - About Emotions
[Self-esteem] If you feel like you need qualifications to be loved
Depression is a signal to restore the balance of a broken mind.
[Anxiety] If you're anxious right now, it's proof that you're living a good life.
[Jealousy] If someone is jealous of you, it means you are successful.
[Fatigue] With the 'if it works, great, if not, then don't' mentality
[Anger] Don't lose your temper, express it more gracefully and firmly.
[Independence] To you who will leave your mother and live as an adult
Chapter 5.
Don't rush too much, and live slowly and passionately - About Life
-Stop blaming your parents.
-If you want to have fewer regrets at the end of your life
-Becoming a friend you've wanted to see for a long time
If you don't have a philosophy about money, there will come a day when you will cry because of money.
Beauty after 40 is determined by lifestyle.
-Real study that strengthens the roots of life
-Life is nothing special, just have fun.
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I love you, daughter.
No matter what anyone says, you are the most precious person to me.
What that means is that no matter what choice you make or what the outcome is, I support you.
So, don't be afraid and move forward as you have done so far.
So what if it doesn't work?
It's okay if you just take a break.
At least I'm not an idiot who doesn't try anything, so that's it.
So, no matter what difficulties arise, I hope you just live happily.
I will always support you like that.
---From the "Prologue"
If someone talks to you about the virtues of women and motherhood, turn a deaf ear.
And tell them straight up that you can't do everything well.
If the other person says, “That was really bad,” take it as a compliment.
This way, you can play many roles without losing your center and protect yourself.
---From "Be a Bad Daughter"
Taking care of your mind means allowing yourself to experience the various emotions you feel.
Even if shame, guilt, anxiety, jealousy, etc. arise, say, “I feel this way.
of course.
Because people want to be recognized and loved.
I'm just trying to do better.
You have to reassure them by saying, “I understand.”
This is emotional freedom, this is the elasticity of the mind.
---From "What Happens When I Don't Take Care of Myself"
Don't let the world treat you poorly.
A true egoist is someone who follows his own path without harming others.
So, if you are treated unfairly by people, stand up to them.
I hope you never forget that if you don't respect yourself, no one will respect you.
---From "How to Protect Myself in a Wounded World: Asking Well, Rejecting Well"
Do you know what's truly frightening about cynicism? Those who somehow manage to overcome setbacks, even in difficult situations, will eventually find themselves taking even a single step forward. But those who arm themselves with cynicism will simply remain stagnant.
Later on, you become a person who can't do anything because you have never tried anything.
Because cynicism is the main culprit that drives people to the edge of a cliff in despair and ultimately destroys themselves.
---From "Don't be too shaken by the things that pass by"
What matters is not whether you have a job or not, or whether you are a housewife or a working mom.
The question is whether I chose that life proactively.
No matter what you choose, there will be difficulties, but there is a huge difference between the attitude of considering it as your own choice and feeling wronged by someone else's mistake and saying that you are in that situation.
Only those who actively choose the direction they want can overcome difficulties and, in the process, develop their own unique inner strength that no one can ignore.
---From "Nobody Asked You to Be Superwoman"
A breakup is called 'Good bye'.
Goodbye! Easy to say, but harder to put into practice?
But the more painful the love, the more you have to let it go.
Letting go means breaking up and letting go of feelings of loss and anger.
It is knowing that if there is happiness, there is unhappiness, and if there is pain, there is growth.
However, it is about becoming a person who knows how to embrace love more generously, rather than neglecting or avoiding it.
---From "Even parting requires courtesy"
There are bound to be bosses and colleagues who don't get along with you.
It's the same even if you leave your current job and go somewhere else.
So, if you are worried because of a boss or coworker who doesn't fit in, I would like to tell you to endure it for now.
If you endure it until you die, you will know.
Is it really just that I don't get along with that person, or do I need to change my attitude?
---From "What I've Learned Over 40 Years of Work"
Analytical philosopher Thomas Nagel says, “There are many ways in which your life can have great meaning.
The problem is that there is no interpretation that explains what you mean by 'whole'.
“Success and failure, struggle and disappointment are just ‘parts’ of life as a whole.”
The reason we are so caught up in the happiness of others, temporary attention, and unfulfilled desires is because life as a whole lacks meaning.
Even if I am shaken by parts, I must have a whole ‘me’.
That way, the boat won't capsize even when a storm comes.
---From "If you're anxious now, it's proof that you're living a good life"
Don't try to soothe your loneliness with social media.
If you want to have a truly intimate relationship, you have to be able to show your true self, even your flaws.
So, before you pull out your phone and scroll through your feed, why not give them a call?
“How’s the food?” “How’s your health?” “Is everything okay?” Perhaps the things we most crave to hear are the greetings we’ve never heard in person, always exchanged online.
---From "SNS Doesn't Cure Loneliness"
You don't become wise until you become wise, and you don't become wise when you know how to earn money.
Paying the price of food means feeling the desperation of money with your whole body and experiencing the tedium of earning a living.
So, no matter how little money you earn yourself, it is different from money you receive from someone else.
---From "If you don't have a philosophy about money, there will come a day when you will cry because of money"
A moment in life that has passed once will never come again.
So there is nothing more foolish than wasting that precious time complaining or lamenting.
And since I was not born to win or lose to others, I just need to live happily as much as I can.
So, daughter, don't miss out on the fun in life.
When unexpected hardships come and test you, when you can't shake off loneliness even with someone by your side, when living seems harder than dying, remembering those words will surely give you great strength.
No matter what anyone says, you are the most precious person to me.
What that means is that no matter what choice you make or what the outcome is, I support you.
So, don't be afraid and move forward as you have done so far.
So what if it doesn't work?
It's okay if you just take a break.
At least I'm not an idiot who doesn't try anything, so that's it.
So, no matter what difficulties arise, I hope you just live happily.
I will always support you like that.
---From the "Prologue"
If someone talks to you about the virtues of women and motherhood, turn a deaf ear.
And tell them straight up that you can't do everything well.
If the other person says, “That was really bad,” take it as a compliment.
This way, you can play many roles without losing your center and protect yourself.
---From "Be a Bad Daughter"
Taking care of your mind means allowing yourself to experience the various emotions you feel.
Even if shame, guilt, anxiety, jealousy, etc. arise, say, “I feel this way.
of course.
Because people want to be recognized and loved.
I'm just trying to do better.
You have to reassure them by saying, “I understand.”
This is emotional freedom, this is the elasticity of the mind.
---From "What Happens When I Don't Take Care of Myself"
Don't let the world treat you poorly.
A true egoist is someone who follows his own path without harming others.
So, if you are treated unfairly by people, stand up to them.
I hope you never forget that if you don't respect yourself, no one will respect you.
---From "How to Protect Myself in a Wounded World: Asking Well, Rejecting Well"
Do you know what's truly frightening about cynicism? Those who somehow manage to overcome setbacks, even in difficult situations, will eventually find themselves taking even a single step forward. But those who arm themselves with cynicism will simply remain stagnant.
Later on, you become a person who can't do anything because you have never tried anything.
Because cynicism is the main culprit that drives people to the edge of a cliff in despair and ultimately destroys themselves.
---From "Don't be too shaken by the things that pass by"
What matters is not whether you have a job or not, or whether you are a housewife or a working mom.
The question is whether I chose that life proactively.
No matter what you choose, there will be difficulties, but there is a huge difference between the attitude of considering it as your own choice and feeling wronged by someone else's mistake and saying that you are in that situation.
Only those who actively choose the direction they want can overcome difficulties and, in the process, develop their own unique inner strength that no one can ignore.
---From "Nobody Asked You to Be Superwoman"
A breakup is called 'Good bye'.
Goodbye! Easy to say, but harder to put into practice?
But the more painful the love, the more you have to let it go.
Letting go means breaking up and letting go of feelings of loss and anger.
It is knowing that if there is happiness, there is unhappiness, and if there is pain, there is growth.
However, it is about becoming a person who knows how to embrace love more generously, rather than neglecting or avoiding it.
---From "Even parting requires courtesy"
There are bound to be bosses and colleagues who don't get along with you.
It's the same even if you leave your current job and go somewhere else.
So, if you are worried because of a boss or coworker who doesn't fit in, I would like to tell you to endure it for now.
If you endure it until you die, you will know.
Is it really just that I don't get along with that person, or do I need to change my attitude?
---From "What I've Learned Over 40 Years of Work"
Analytical philosopher Thomas Nagel says, “There are many ways in which your life can have great meaning.
The problem is that there is no interpretation that explains what you mean by 'whole'.
“Success and failure, struggle and disappointment are just ‘parts’ of life as a whole.”
The reason we are so caught up in the happiness of others, temporary attention, and unfulfilled desires is because life as a whole lacks meaning.
Even if I am shaken by parts, I must have a whole ‘me’.
That way, the boat won't capsize even when a storm comes.
---From "If you're anxious now, it's proof that you're living a good life"
Don't try to soothe your loneliness with social media.
If you want to have a truly intimate relationship, you have to be able to show your true self, even your flaws.
So, before you pull out your phone and scroll through your feed, why not give them a call?
“How’s the food?” “How’s your health?” “Is everything okay?” Perhaps the things we most crave to hear are the greetings we’ve never heard in person, always exchanged online.
---From "SNS Doesn't Cure Loneliness"
You don't become wise until you become wise, and you don't become wise when you know how to earn money.
Paying the price of food means feeling the desperation of money with your whole body and experiencing the tedium of earning a living.
So, no matter how little money you earn yourself, it is different from money you receive from someone else.
---From "If you don't have a philosophy about money, there will come a day when you will cry because of money"
A moment in life that has passed once will never come again.
So there is nothing more foolish than wasting that precious time complaining or lamenting.
And since I was not born to win or lose to others, I just need to live happily as much as I can.
So, daughter, don't miss out on the fun in life.
When unexpected hardships come and test you, when you can't shake off loneliness even with someone by your side, when living seems harder than dying, remembering those words will surely give you great strength.
---From "Life is nothing special, just live it and have fun"
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Special edition commemorating the 100,000-copy milestone, revised and expanded in 2020!
“Don’t rush too much, live slowly and passionately. I will always support you like that.”
Stories I haven't been able to tell for 30 years, but really want to tell.
The clinic of psychoanalyst Han Seong-hee, who has treated 200,000 people over 40 years, is constantly visited by people who are frustrated and struggling in the face of unexpected trials.
He held their hands, let them cry freely, and embraced their wounds with warmth.
At the same time, it helped me face my inner problems with cool-headed language, helping me overcome despair and move forward one step at a time.
But she was also an ordinary and clumsy mother to her daughter.
Like any mother, I saw my daughter as the most special child in the world and believed she would grow up to be a wonderful person.
So, when my daughter tried to go down a different path than I expected, I would nag her and even try to stop her from doing so, and there were many days when I would get upset.
Then one day, I realized something when my daughter, who had gone to the United States to study, found a job, met a boyfriend, and said she wanted to get married.
I have told countless people who have visited my clinic over the years, but there are many things I have not been able to tell my daughter, whom I have raised for 30 years.
So I started writing a book.
I have selected and chosen the stories I have realized while working as a psychiatrist and the stories I want to tell as a mother, and included insights and solutions on women's work, love, and relationships.
He speaks for his daughter, and for all daughters in the world, on behalf of their mothers.
“I love you, daughter.
No matter what anyone says, you are the most precious person to me.
What that means is that no matter what choice you make or what the outcome is, I support you.
So, don't be afraid and move forward as you have done so far.
So what if it doesn't work?
It's okay if you just take a break.
So, no matter what difficulties you face, I hope you don't give up on the fun in life.
I will always support you like that.”
“The person you should cherish and love the most in the world is yourself.”
Insight as a psychoanalyst, outspokenness as a woman, support as a mother,
37 warm and honest life counseling tips you've never heard from anyone before.
The 37 life counseling tips in this book don't stop at mere, half-baked advice based solely on knowledge and no experience, or half-baked comfort lacking analysis and solutions.
Her keen insight as a psychoanalyst, her experience as a working woman for 40 years, and her warm support as a mother to her beloved daughter all come together to create a living psychological advice you won't hear anywhere else.
It presents a new alternative while maintaining both sincerity and reality in dealing with the life problems and emotional issues that women face while living.
He boldly orders his daughter, who is about to become an adult and become independent, to become a 'bad daughter.'
As the days go by, the roles that we have to play—someone's daughter, someone's friend, someone's wife, someone's employee—increase, and I've seen too many cases where people sacrifice themselves in an attempt to do all of these roles well.
He says that only when you give up trying to be nice to everyone and give up the desire to be good at everything can you become a person with healthy self-love.
“If anyone talks to you about the virtues of women, about motherhood, and about how we should live like our mothers, turn a deaf ear.
And tell them straight up that you can't do everything well.
If the other person says, “That was really bad,” take it as a compliment.
“That way, you can play many roles without losing your center and protect yourself.”
In addition, in a situation where the recession is prolonged, he says this to his daughter who is hesitant to try anything other than the already proven safe options.
“An expert is someone who has already made every mistake possible on his subject.
If you're not sure what you want to do or what you're good at, wouldn't you just try something and see if you can come to a conclusion? "I think I'm better at this than others," "I'm not good at this, but it's still fun," and so on.
As you gain experience like that, at some point it will become easier for you to make choices.”
The life philosophy he advises his daughters to follow throughout this book is to love themselves no matter what and to not be afraid to experience anything.
The child falls countless times before he can walk on two feet, and babbles incessantly until he can speak properly.
In this way, countless failures accumulate to create experiences of success.
Success at this time is not a uniform success measured by worldly standards, such as economic stability or high social status.
It is a unique success achieved through discovering and developing one's own uniqueness through trying various things.
Such a person has an inner strength in life that no one can easily manipulate.
So, don't just worry and procrastinate, and don't give up in advance because it seems like it won't work. Just try anything.
Whether it's good or bad is a secondary issue.
How to Become a Strong Person, Unwavering in Work, Love, and Relationships
Published in 2013, "Psychology Letters to My Daughter," which reached 100,000 readers and reached number one on the humanities bestseller lists at major bookstores, has been reborn as a revised and expanded edition in 2020.
In response to readers' feedback about specific methods for living as a strong person who is not easily shaken in work, love, and relationships, we have newly organized Chapter 1 by adding manuscripts such as "What Happens When I Don't Take Care of Myself," "How to Protect Myself in a World Full of Hurts," and "Living as a Strong Individualist, Not a Clumsy Egoist."
Additionally, in response to readers' requests for a deeper understanding of psychoanalytic topics such as self-esteem, depression, and anger, we have added an "Emotions" section in Chapter 4.
It is filled with a mother's heart, cheering on all the daughters in this world who have decided to live their lives freely and confidently.
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Aladdin, Yes24, and Interpark Humanities Ranked #1
Special edition commemorating the 100,000-copy milestone, revised and expanded in 2020!
“Don’t rush too much, live slowly and passionately. I will always support you like that.”
Stories I haven't been able to tell for 30 years, but really want to tell.
The clinic of psychoanalyst Han Seong-hee, who has treated 200,000 people over 40 years, is constantly visited by people who are frustrated and struggling in the face of unexpected trials.
He held their hands, let them cry freely, and embraced their wounds with warmth.
At the same time, it helped me face my inner problems with cool-headed language, helping me overcome despair and move forward one step at a time.
But she was also an ordinary and clumsy mother to her daughter.
Like any mother, I saw my daughter as the most special child in the world and believed she would grow up to be a wonderful person.
So, when my daughter tried to go down a different path than I expected, I would nag her and even try to stop her from doing so, and there were many days when I would get upset.
Then one day, I realized something when my daughter, who had gone to the United States to study, found a job, met a boyfriend, and said she wanted to get married.
I have told countless people who have visited my clinic over the years, but there are many things I have not been able to tell my daughter, whom I have raised for 30 years.
So I started writing a book.
I have selected and chosen the stories I have realized while working as a psychiatrist and the stories I want to tell as a mother, and included insights and solutions on women's work, love, and relationships.
He speaks for his daughter, and for all daughters in the world, on behalf of their mothers.
“I love you, daughter.
No matter what anyone says, you are the most precious person to me.
What that means is that no matter what choice you make or what the outcome is, I support you.
So, don't be afraid and move forward as you have done so far.
So what if it doesn't work?
It's okay if you just take a break.
So, no matter what difficulties you face, I hope you don't give up on the fun in life.
I will always support you like that.”
“The person you should cherish and love the most in the world is yourself.”
Insight as a psychoanalyst, outspokenness as a woman, support as a mother,
37 warm and honest life counseling tips you've never heard from anyone before.
The 37 life counseling tips in this book don't stop at mere, half-baked advice based solely on knowledge and no experience, or half-baked comfort lacking analysis and solutions.
Her keen insight as a psychoanalyst, her experience as a working woman for 40 years, and her warm support as a mother to her beloved daughter all come together to create a living psychological advice you won't hear anywhere else.
It presents a new alternative while maintaining both sincerity and reality in dealing with the life problems and emotional issues that women face while living.
He boldly orders his daughter, who is about to become an adult and become independent, to become a 'bad daughter.'
As the days go by, the roles that we have to play—someone's daughter, someone's friend, someone's wife, someone's employee—increase, and I've seen too many cases where people sacrifice themselves in an attempt to do all of these roles well.
He says that only when you give up trying to be nice to everyone and give up the desire to be good at everything can you become a person with healthy self-love.
“If anyone talks to you about the virtues of women, about motherhood, and about how we should live like our mothers, turn a deaf ear.
And tell them straight up that you can't do everything well.
If the other person says, “That was really bad,” take it as a compliment.
“That way, you can play many roles without losing your center and protect yourself.”
In addition, in a situation where the recession is prolonged, he says this to his daughter who is hesitant to try anything other than the already proven safe options.
“An expert is someone who has already made every mistake possible on his subject.
If you're not sure what you want to do or what you're good at, wouldn't you just try something and see if you can come to a conclusion? "I think I'm better at this than others," "I'm not good at this, but it's still fun," and so on.
As you gain experience like that, at some point it will become easier for you to make choices.”
The life philosophy he advises his daughters to follow throughout this book is to love themselves no matter what and to not be afraid to experience anything.
The child falls countless times before he can walk on two feet, and babbles incessantly until he can speak properly.
In this way, countless failures accumulate to create experiences of success.
Success at this time is not a uniform success measured by worldly standards, such as economic stability or high social status.
It is a unique success achieved through discovering and developing one's own uniqueness through trying various things.
Such a person has an inner strength in life that no one can easily manipulate.
So, don't just worry and procrastinate, and don't give up in advance because it seems like it won't work. Just try anything.
Whether it's good or bad is a secondary issue.
How to Become a Strong Person, Unwavering in Work, Love, and Relationships
Published in 2013, "Psychology Letters to My Daughter," which reached 100,000 readers and reached number one on the humanities bestseller lists at major bookstores, has been reborn as a revised and expanded edition in 2020.
In response to readers' feedback about specific methods for living as a strong person who is not easily shaken in work, love, and relationships, we have newly organized Chapter 1 by adding manuscripts such as "What Happens When I Don't Take Care of Myself," "How to Protect Myself in a World Full of Hurts," and "Living as a Strong Individualist, Not a Clumsy Egoist."
Additionally, in response to readers' requests for a deeper understanding of psychoanalytic topics such as self-esteem, depression, and anger, we have added an "Emotions" section in Chapter 4.
It is filled with a mother's heart, cheering on all the daughters in this world who have decided to live their lives freely and confidently.
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GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of issue: January 28, 2020
- Page count, weight, size: 336 pages | 427g | 140*203*22mm
- ISBN13: 9791190538015
- ISBN10: 1190538016
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