Is being a mother that hard?
If you raise it easily, it grows easily.
Grow with the power of faith rather than worry.
As I write, the letters enter my body
Easy, light, and fun mom study

1 Love and enjoy yourself to the fullest, for this time will pass like the wind.
Having and raising children is a tremendous joy and happiness.
The moment when a child confirms his or her absolute trust and love for his or her mother is incomparable to anything else.
Children are a gift from God to teach me love and to complete me.

2 Children are not raised by their mothers, but are mysterious beings that grow on their own as much as they believe.
Children do not change depending on how their parents raise them, but rather on how their parents live.
So don't try too hard.
The most important thing for children to grow up with is the presence of stable and happy parents.

3 Don't worry about your child's future, make your child happy today.
There are times when you become overwhelmed with anxiety while raising a child.
Am I doing well now? Will I be able to keep doing well? But worrying about these things doesn't help.
As time passes, parents grow along with their children.
Just believe that tomorrow will be better than today, and that next year will definitely be better than this year.

4 Don't try to raise a child, raise yourself.
A good mother doesn't have to completely give up her life and completely exhaust herself.
Let's not over-interpret that sacrificing oneself and pouring everything out to one's family in the name of motherhood is true motherhood.
Without me, nothing and no one can embrace anything.

5. It's okay if you're not a supermom, just hold hands with your husband.
There is no one who is good at everything inside and out.
Let's not try too hard to be a super mom or take care of our children too well.
When times are tough, you should reach out to your husband and join forces.
Because there is no one who knows, trusts, and cares for me and my child as much as that person.

■ A comforting message about child education to support struggling mothers.

Every mother wants to raise her child well, but she is anxious because she is not sure how to raise her child well.
What if what I thought was a good way to raise my children turns out badly later? What if I think I'm raising them well now, but something happens 20 years from now that I'll regret it? What if I raise my children differently from others and my children fall behind? Mothers are shaken by all kinds of worries every day.
I don't know about anything else, but a mother's heart is that she can't stand seeing her child do something wrong.
Feminist scholar Park Hye-ran says that it does not mean that a child is at fault for not being able to study well now.
He argues that a child with strong mental muscles who is not discouraged by poor academic performance can blossom into his own flower no matter how harsh the world may be.
And he advises raising children to be 'strong people' and 'people who love themselves'.

Furthermore, he pats them on the shoulder and tells them to put aside useless worries and guilt and raise their children easily, lightly, happily, and with the power of faith.
The saying goes that children grow up easily if their mothers raise them with ease, and they grow up with difficulty if their mothers raise them with difficulty.
Because children are mysterious beings who grow up according to their mother's beliefs.

This book provides great comfort and encouragement to mothers who are tired of the arduous dual-income life and fiercely competitive society.
She takes the mothers' side, gently telling them that raising a child with all one's might doesn't necessarily mean that the child will do well, and raising a child with all one's might doesn't necessarily mean that the child will do wrong.

■ Mom's Study is the subject where you can truly enjoy the true pleasure of studying.

These days, there aren't many opportunities to write by hand.
Even very short notes are becoming increasingly unfamiliar as computers and smartphones do everything for us.
But such writings just pass by and are not imprinted on the heart.
When I write with my own hands, the content becomes entirely mine, at least while I am writing.
I feel like the letters are entering my body.
And when I read that writing again later, the feeling I had when I wrote it comes back to me.
Mother's studies are a good subject to internalize by engraving each character by hand.
If you read it over and over again, the feeling will be different each time you read it.
If you read it over and over again, it will sound like you are making a promise to yourself rather than someone else saying it.
Furthermore, if I write by hand, savoring each letter slowly, I feel like the letters are entering my body.
When I write with my own hands, the content becomes entirely mine, at least while I am writing.
When I read that writing again later, the feeling I had when I wrote it comes back to me, and it stays in my heart and mind for a long time.

■ From the author's preface ■■■■

I don't think a 'good mother' is someone who goes 'all in' on their child and raises them to be the envy of the world.
Because I didn't see that as a success.
Because in my opinion, success is simply 'someone who makes a living doing what they love to do.'
I believed that you don't have to be successful to be happy, but you have to be happy to be successful.
I thought that if I lived happily today, I would be happy tomorrow too.
So I decided not to nag my children or pressure them to study as much as possible.

Do you think your child will necessarily be in trouble if he or she doesn't study well now? No.
A child with strong mental muscles who is not discouraged by poor academic performance can blossom into his own flower no matter how harsh the world may be.
Don't you want to raise your child to be a strong person, someone who loves himself?


■ 'Thinking with Your Hands' series, following good writing ■■■■
Writing is the process of rediscovering the 'self' that was forgotten.
In the process of thinking with my hands and writing with my heart, I meet a more mature version of myself.
Just as a master of taste has a unique touch that cannot be captured through recipes alone, we can experience the depth of writing and the mature beauty of long-standing thoughts through the texture of handwriting, which is written in a square manner using all five senses.

PUR Binding This book is made with a special binding suitable for handwriting.
Any page can be opened easily and the pages will not tear even when opened wide.