I'm on your side unconditionally
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Book Introduction
2022 Overall #1 Essay
Total cumulative sales exceed 300,000 copies
A new work by author Kim Da-seul!
When you want to meet a precious person for a long time,
To that precious person
A book to convey your heart
Kim Da-seul's new work, "I'm on Your Side Unconditionally," which won first place overall in 2022 and has sold over 300,000 copies, has been published, delivering a message that resonates with many readers.
In his previous works, 『Manage Your Mood, Manage Your Life』 and 『A Relationship Is a Thing That Can Be Broken by One Mistake Even if You Do It Right Ten Times』, he provided realistic advice on how to manage your moods and emotions and on human relationships. In his new work, written with sentences of even deeper emotion, he contains his sincere feelings that he wants to convey to his loved ones.
Part 1, "Words You Need These Days," contains phrases you'd like to say when you're tired of relationships and need comfort, and Part 2, "Things You Shouldn't Do When You're Difficult and Painful," talks about things you'll end up regretting and blaming yourself for once they're over.
Part 3, “People Who Become Stars Through Effort,” contains the author’s hope that, rather than blaming yourself for not getting the results you want, you will love and support yourself for working hard, as it does not mean that things were worthless. Finally, Part 4, “Proof that you are happy now,” contains the author’s sincere hope that you will be able to enjoy the present moment that will never return, knowing that every single moment that exists is precious and beautiful.
Even in the most difficult of times, if you have someone on your side who completely believes in you and supports you, your fears will be halved, your legs will feel stronger, and your courage will blossom.
To those precious people who need comfort in the midst of tiring days, and to myself, who never gives up and keeps moving forward, step by step, this book will be a source of warm comfort and strong support.
Total cumulative sales exceed 300,000 copies
A new work by author Kim Da-seul!
When you want to meet a precious person for a long time,
To that precious person
A book to convey your heart
Kim Da-seul's new work, "I'm on Your Side Unconditionally," which won first place overall in 2022 and has sold over 300,000 copies, has been published, delivering a message that resonates with many readers.
In his previous works, 『Manage Your Mood, Manage Your Life』 and 『A Relationship Is a Thing That Can Be Broken by One Mistake Even if You Do It Right Ten Times』, he provided realistic advice on how to manage your moods and emotions and on human relationships. In his new work, written with sentences of even deeper emotion, he contains his sincere feelings that he wants to convey to his loved ones.
Part 1, "Words You Need These Days," contains phrases you'd like to say when you're tired of relationships and need comfort, and Part 2, "Things You Shouldn't Do When You're Difficult and Painful," talks about things you'll end up regretting and blaming yourself for once they're over.
Part 3, “People Who Become Stars Through Effort,” contains the author’s hope that, rather than blaming yourself for not getting the results you want, you will love and support yourself for working hard, as it does not mean that things were worthless. Finally, Part 4, “Proof that you are happy now,” contains the author’s sincere hope that you will be able to enjoy the present moment that will never return, knowing that every single moment that exists is precious and beautiful.
Even in the most difficult of times, if you have someone on your side who completely believes in you and supports you, your fears will be halved, your legs will feel stronger, and your courage will blossom.
To those precious people who need comfort in the midst of tiring days, and to myself, who never gives up and keeps moving forward, step by step, this book will be a source of warm comfort and strong support.
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index
Prologue - My comrade, whom I must cherish for the rest of my life
Part 1 - Words You Need These Days
The line that determines whether to stop meeting or continue meeting
Why people with good personalities and gentleness are scary
The more precious something is, the more etiquette you must observe.
8 Criteria to Know What Kind of Person You Are
The psychology of a person who turns away without saying a word
3 Ways to Become a Leader in Relationships
Why You Shouldn't Live With Someone You Don't Like
Differences between people with high and low intelligence
A person who is in every moment
To you who pretends to be okay even though it's hard
What is happiness?
The Earth has changed
Why do many problems arise in life?
Characteristics of people suffering from anxiety
Why I feel anxious even when I try
Words you need these days
The benefits of a day that repeats itself like a hamster wheel
Infinite Master
A habit that you have to stop when things get tough
Immature person vs. mature person
The more precious it is, the easier it is to treat it.
Beware of those who move words
The little quiet moments of everyday life
The roots are not visible from the outside.
Part 2 - Things You Shouldn't Do When You're Feeling Distressed and Tired
12 Things Sophisticated People Have in Common
The secret to high self-esteem for well-educated people
A being who shares the trivial daily life
Self-abuse is an act of ignorance
Worry is tireless
Trying to do well can lead to missing important things
A person who wants to cry but is laughing
a room with the lights off
A sense of emptiness makes life boring.
A phrase often used by rude people
How to Deal with Rude People
6 Things People in Their 20s and 30s Surprisingly Don't Know
Why Holding On to Stress Is Dangerous
Perfect day
Self-deprecation, self-loathing singularity
7 Types of People Who Will Make You Feel Better When You Have Them Near You
Characteristics of a person who is innocent even without luxury goods
The more you love, the more basic things you must keep
Things you shouldn't do when you're feeling down and tired
Narrowing interpersonal relationships is proof that you are living well.
Fate is not proportional to time.
The thing I endure the most in life
first love
The peculiarity of a lovely person
How to leave without getting hurt
Part 3 - People Who Become Stars Through Hard Work
Time is not fair
A time of anxiety and pressure
6 Signs You're a Beautiful Adult
8 Ways to Improve Your Life
How to hold on when your mental state is shaken
Like a human being
Magical speech that relieves stress
4 Secrets of People with Affordable Money
9 Signs Your Body Is Sending You to Rest
How to get a good rest when you're tired in the morning
A nail driven into the heart
Warmth that melts away worries
The reason it hurt so much
People don't know people
Those who acknowledge are at peace
The Pitfalls of Self-Improvement
When you want to run away
5 Signs You Should Quit Your Job ASAP
Pain is pain because it hurts
The distance between people is all about the heart.
deadhead
There is no such thing as a simple goodbye
The opposite of love is not hate
A truth that is difficult to realize in life
The singularity of a person who makes you happy when you have them by your side
A person who becomes a star through effort
Part 4 - Proofs of Being Happy Now
Opening article for Monday
A Morning Routine That Will Change Your Life in One Day
7 Attitudes That Maintain Dignity
4 Ways to Know Someone's Character
People who grow up loved show their love
All decisions should be made free from emotions.
sky
How to get ahead in life
An attitude that requires a considerate person
Consistency is the most important thing
Good is good
Some things are the same as all
Letting go makes me feel better and more at ease
The deeper our relationship becomes
A person who is a treasure
I didn't know then
A good person you can't miss
3 Ways to Keep Your Life Safe
Knowing your limits is not a source of frustration, it's a source of joy.
If you think too much, you miss the present.
If you put your heart into it, there will be no regrets.
The essence of a successful life
Proofs that you are happy now
Guide to Destiny
Conversation with God
Grandmother from the riverside village
Epilogue - You are now in your second life.
Part 1 - Words You Need These Days
The line that determines whether to stop meeting or continue meeting
Why people with good personalities and gentleness are scary
The more precious something is, the more etiquette you must observe.
8 Criteria to Know What Kind of Person You Are
The psychology of a person who turns away without saying a word
3 Ways to Become a Leader in Relationships
Why You Shouldn't Live With Someone You Don't Like
Differences between people with high and low intelligence
A person who is in every moment
To you who pretends to be okay even though it's hard
What is happiness?
The Earth has changed
Why do many problems arise in life?
Characteristics of people suffering from anxiety
Why I feel anxious even when I try
Words you need these days
The benefits of a day that repeats itself like a hamster wheel
Infinite Master
A habit that you have to stop when things get tough
Immature person vs. mature person
The more precious it is, the easier it is to treat it.
Beware of those who move words
The little quiet moments of everyday life
The roots are not visible from the outside.
Part 2 - Things You Shouldn't Do When You're Feeling Distressed and Tired
12 Things Sophisticated People Have in Common
The secret to high self-esteem for well-educated people
A being who shares the trivial daily life
Self-abuse is an act of ignorance
Worry is tireless
Trying to do well can lead to missing important things
A person who wants to cry but is laughing
a room with the lights off
A sense of emptiness makes life boring.
A phrase often used by rude people
How to Deal with Rude People
6 Things People in Their 20s and 30s Surprisingly Don't Know
Why Holding On to Stress Is Dangerous
Perfect day
Self-deprecation, self-loathing singularity
7 Types of People Who Will Make You Feel Better When You Have Them Near You
Characteristics of a person who is innocent even without luxury goods
The more you love, the more basic things you must keep
Things you shouldn't do when you're feeling down and tired
Narrowing interpersonal relationships is proof that you are living well.
Fate is not proportional to time.
The thing I endure the most in life
first love
The peculiarity of a lovely person
How to leave without getting hurt
Part 3 - People Who Become Stars Through Hard Work
Time is not fair
A time of anxiety and pressure
6 Signs You're a Beautiful Adult
8 Ways to Improve Your Life
How to hold on when your mental state is shaken
Like a human being
Magical speech that relieves stress
4 Secrets of People with Affordable Money
9 Signs Your Body Is Sending You to Rest
How to get a good rest when you're tired in the morning
A nail driven into the heart
Warmth that melts away worries
The reason it hurt so much
People don't know people
Those who acknowledge are at peace
The Pitfalls of Self-Improvement
When you want to run away
5 Signs You Should Quit Your Job ASAP
Pain is pain because it hurts
The distance between people is all about the heart.
deadhead
There is no such thing as a simple goodbye
The opposite of love is not hate
A truth that is difficult to realize in life
The singularity of a person who makes you happy when you have them by your side
A person who becomes a star through effort
Part 4 - Proofs of Being Happy Now
Opening article for Monday
A Morning Routine That Will Change Your Life in One Day
7 Attitudes That Maintain Dignity
4 Ways to Know Someone's Character
People who grow up loved show their love
All decisions should be made free from emotions.
sky
How to get ahead in life
An attitude that requires a considerate person
Consistency is the most important thing
Good is good
Some things are the same as all
Letting go makes me feel better and more at ease
The deeper our relationship becomes
A person who is a treasure
I didn't know then
A good person you can't miss
3 Ways to Keep Your Life Safe
Knowing your limits is not a source of frustration, it's a source of joy.
If you think too much, you miss the present.
If you put your heart into it, there will be no regrets.
The essence of a successful life
Proofs that you are happy now
Guide to Destiny
Conversation with God
Grandmother from the riverside village
Epilogue - You are now in your second life.
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Into the book
Human relationships are like this.
Even if you are excited before meeting someone, and the meeting is exciting and enjoyable, if you feel negative emotions such as discomfort, disappointment, emptiness, emptiness, or discomfort after the meeting, it means that the relationship is not good for you.
A truly good relationship leaves a lasting impression after meeting.
I feel good, my mind is at ease, it's sad to part ways, and I want to see you again next time.
--- From "The Criteria for Distinguishing Between Stopping and Keeping Meeting"
The more important the relationship, the more things are omitted.
Because we are close and familiar with each other, we assume that the other person will understand most things.
At work, report your work progress in detail and be polite to both your colleagues and superiors.
That way, you won't end up being a person without any sense.
Meanwhile, we tend to overlook or skip over the people who are truly important to us - our family, lovers, and close friends.
This is not polite.
We should not treat things complacently just because they are familiar and comfortable.
If someone is truly precious to you, you should treat them with even more respect, rather than just seeking their comfort.
--- From "The More Precious It Is, the More Etiquette You Should Observe"
The process is long and arduous.
It is not easy to walk alone for a long time in a deep tunnel with no exit in sight.
What are you doing now?
Is this the right path?
Is it right to do well?
Is it worth the effort?
I am surrounded by many doubts.
So it's easy to give up halfway.
In times like these, you must have strong faith in yourself.
This is because effort has the characteristic of always being rewarded in some form.
Let's not doubt ourselves and our worth in our efforts.
The efforts you make now will make you shine like a star in the future.
--- From "People Who Become Stars Through Effort"
Was there ever a good day?
When I choose good feelings and good actions, it soon becomes a good day.
A good person is not someone who is particularly kind or has a lot of formality, but someone who just has a lot of good thoughts.
A good influence is not about being particularly kind or being fair and just, but simply about doing good deeds with good intentions to those around you.
You are a good person who has a positive influence because you do not forget this.
--- From "The Opening Monday"
We are the vessel, and the product we create is the contents that will be contained in the vessel.
Is it true that a vessel must contain something to be beautiful?
Even an empty vessel can be beautiful in itself.
That's what happens when someone challenges themselves and works hard to the limit.
A person who created a vessel with blood, sweat, and tears.
A person who has created his own valuable vessel, regardless of its contents.
A person for whom the value of the vessel is incomparably greater than the value of its contents.
That's why people who do their best are cool.
Although the shape is crude and the contents are empty, the value of the vessel is like a treasure that should be passed down from generation to generation.
--- From "Knowing your limits is not a frustration, it's a joy"
Even if you go to the same travel destination, going when you are in your teens and going when you are in your 30s feels different.
The same goes for works such as books, movies, and performances.
The message that is conveyed is different, and the depth of thought that is absorbed is also different.
It means that there are emotions and perspectives that can only be felt at that time.
The same goes for people.
It may seem like the person you have by your side now will stay with you forever, but that's not the case.
Most of them are fleeting relationships that only occur once in a while.
We need to reduce our thoughts and cherish the present.
Now there is no coming back again.
Even if you are excited before meeting someone, and the meeting is exciting and enjoyable, if you feel negative emotions such as discomfort, disappointment, emptiness, emptiness, or discomfort after the meeting, it means that the relationship is not good for you.
A truly good relationship leaves a lasting impression after meeting.
I feel good, my mind is at ease, it's sad to part ways, and I want to see you again next time.
--- From "The Criteria for Distinguishing Between Stopping and Keeping Meeting"
The more important the relationship, the more things are omitted.
Because we are close and familiar with each other, we assume that the other person will understand most things.
At work, report your work progress in detail and be polite to both your colleagues and superiors.
That way, you won't end up being a person without any sense.
Meanwhile, we tend to overlook or skip over the people who are truly important to us - our family, lovers, and close friends.
This is not polite.
We should not treat things complacently just because they are familiar and comfortable.
If someone is truly precious to you, you should treat them with even more respect, rather than just seeking their comfort.
--- From "The More Precious It Is, the More Etiquette You Should Observe"
The process is long and arduous.
It is not easy to walk alone for a long time in a deep tunnel with no exit in sight.
What are you doing now?
Is this the right path?
Is it right to do well?
Is it worth the effort?
I am surrounded by many doubts.
So it's easy to give up halfway.
In times like these, you must have strong faith in yourself.
This is because effort has the characteristic of always being rewarded in some form.
Let's not doubt ourselves and our worth in our efforts.
The efforts you make now will make you shine like a star in the future.
--- From "People Who Become Stars Through Effort"
Was there ever a good day?
When I choose good feelings and good actions, it soon becomes a good day.
A good person is not someone who is particularly kind or has a lot of formality, but someone who just has a lot of good thoughts.
A good influence is not about being particularly kind or being fair and just, but simply about doing good deeds with good intentions to those around you.
You are a good person who has a positive influence because you do not forget this.
--- From "The Opening Monday"
We are the vessel, and the product we create is the contents that will be contained in the vessel.
Is it true that a vessel must contain something to be beautiful?
Even an empty vessel can be beautiful in itself.
That's what happens when someone challenges themselves and works hard to the limit.
A person who created a vessel with blood, sweat, and tears.
A person who has created his own valuable vessel, regardless of its contents.
A person for whom the value of the vessel is incomparably greater than the value of its contents.
That's why people who do their best are cool.
Although the shape is crude and the contents are empty, the value of the vessel is like a treasure that should be passed down from generation to generation.
--- From "Knowing your limits is not a frustration, it's a joy"
Even if you go to the same travel destination, going when you are in your teens and going when you are in your 30s feels different.
The same goes for works such as books, movies, and performances.
The message that is conveyed is different, and the depth of thought that is absorbed is also different.
It means that there are emotions and perspectives that can only be felt at that time.
The same goes for people.
It may seem like the person you have by your side now will stay with you forever, but that's not the case.
Most of them are fleeting relationships that only occur once in a while.
We need to reduce our thoughts and cherish the present.
Now there is no coming back again.
--- From "If you think too much, you miss the present"
Publisher's Review
“I cherish you
“I am definitely on _________’s side”
I want to be a strong supporter
A book like a gift to a loved one
Kim Da-seul's new work, "I'm on Your Side Unconditionally," which won first place overall in 2022 and has sold over 300,000 copies, has been published, delivering a message that resonates with many readers.
In his previous works, 『Manage Your Mood, Manage Your Life』 and 『A Relationship Is a Thing That Can Be Broken by One Mistake Even if You Do It Right Ten Times』, he provided realistic advice on how to manage your moods and emotions and on human relationships. In his new work, written with sentences of even deeper emotion, he contains his sincere feelings that he wants to convey to his loved ones.
The closer and more precious we are to them, the more we should treat them with utmost care, yet we easily overlook them and live our lives.
Because it's comfortable, with the illusion that it will always be there.
And only after it passes do we realize its value and repeat the cycle of regret.
This book reminds us of the gratitude we feel for those who have always been by our side, and it contains sentences that are like gifts we want to give to those people we are grateful for.
Sometimes, one word can bring greater comfort and support than a hundred long, drawn-out words.
Even when we are exhausted and fall down because of people, it is people who make us get up and move forward again. Just as people are the ones who make us get up and move forward again, the kind words we give to each other ultimately become the strength that allows us to live tomorrow.
Why not give a warm, sincere gift to someone special who needs it right now?
In moments when you feel tired and want to give up, just knowing that you have someone who believes in you and supports you will give you the courage to start again.
“I am definitely on _________’s side”
I want to be a strong supporter
A book like a gift to a loved one
Kim Da-seul's new work, "I'm on Your Side Unconditionally," which won first place overall in 2022 and has sold over 300,000 copies, has been published, delivering a message that resonates with many readers.
In his previous works, 『Manage Your Mood, Manage Your Life』 and 『A Relationship Is a Thing That Can Be Broken by One Mistake Even if You Do It Right Ten Times』, he provided realistic advice on how to manage your moods and emotions and on human relationships. In his new work, written with sentences of even deeper emotion, he contains his sincere feelings that he wants to convey to his loved ones.
The closer and more precious we are to them, the more we should treat them with utmost care, yet we easily overlook them and live our lives.
Because it's comfortable, with the illusion that it will always be there.
And only after it passes do we realize its value and repeat the cycle of regret.
This book reminds us of the gratitude we feel for those who have always been by our side, and it contains sentences that are like gifts we want to give to those people we are grateful for.
Sometimes, one word can bring greater comfort and support than a hundred long, drawn-out words.
Even when we are exhausted and fall down because of people, it is people who make us get up and move forward again. Just as people are the ones who make us get up and move forward again, the kind words we give to each other ultimately become the strength that allows us to live tomorrow.
Why not give a warm, sincere gift to someone special who needs it right now?
In moments when you feel tired and want to give up, just knowing that you have someone who believes in you and supports you will give you the courage to start again.
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of issue: June 19, 2024
- Page count, weight, size: 224 pages | 128*188*20mm
- ISBN13: 9791193262207
- ISBN10: 1193262208
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