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MOM, I feel relieved
MOM, I feel relieved
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Book Introduction
A word from MD
Too much stuff spoils children! "Paradoxically, too many toys can reduce the amount of time a child has to be bored and develop their creativity." World-renowned parenting expert Kim John Payne reveals simple, comforting parenting tips for raising creative, focused, and resilient children.
A parenting bible proven effective in 30 countries and loved by mothers around the world.
- Kim Hyun-joo, MD of Home Living
A parenting bestseller loved for over 10 years (latest revised edition)
"Simple Parenting," which alleviates the invisible worries of parents around the world (translated and published in 30 languages)
A 36.8% Improvement in Children's Learning and Cognitive Abilities (A Book Featured on the Cover of Time Magazine)

You go out to eat for the first time in a while, and when your child starts to cry, you take out your smartphone and play his favorite video, wanting to eat comfortably.
Then the world became easy and you enjoyed your meal.
But there is a corner of my heart that feels uneasy.
It was a choice that mothers had no choice but to make because they are human, but they knew that it would have a negative impact on their children's attention span and creativity.

Every parent knows that excessive exposure to smartphones and media is bad for a child's development.
However, there were not many books that provided specific methods and standards that parents could put into practice, beyond the standard advice to avoid excessive media exposure because it is bad for children.
"Mom's at Peace" is a rare book that helps parents ease their worries by providing concrete and practical countermeasures to these overflows, as well as a big picture of parenting, helping them re-establish their own philosophy and standards.

Kim John Payne, a world-renowned education/parenting expert, has developed 'simplicity parenting' through 30 years of counseling and coaching children and families in numerous countries. It has been proven to enhance children's learning and cognitive abilities, and has now developed into a social movement that is spreading.
If you are a parent raising a child between the ages of 2 and 3 (the younger the child, the more important it is), after reading this book, you will soon be able to breathe easier and enjoy meals without guilt.
And, with less of a rush and more relaxed when your child is sleeping or eating, you'll want to continue to "simplify" the ideal environment for your child to focus, be creative, resilient, and feel happier.
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Recommendation / Introduction

Chapter 1: Why should everyday life be simple?
Childhood under siege
Again, dreams and hopes
The first step to simplification: the power of organizing your environment.
Why a Simple Routine Needs a Change

Chapter 2: Heat from the Heart
Become aware
Make time to be calm
Get closer together
Wait
The hero of consistency

Chapter 3: Organizing the Environment
Criteria for removing toys
Antidote to overabundance

Chapter 4 Rhythm Plus
Increase predictability and transparency
Adding rhythm to your home routine
A sense of connection that sprouts in a home filled with rhythm
Meal rhythm
sleep rhythm

Chapter 5: Reducing the Schedule
Balance and Control
Play, sports, and schedules

Chapter 6: Filtering Out the Adult World
Guest room
Filtering out adult information
Filtering out adult emotions
Filtering out adults' words
Filtering out adult intervention

Coming Out: The Secret to Building Focus, Creativity, and Resilience...
Childhood protection
Author's Note / Translator's Note / Acknowledgments
Appendix I, II
Notes and References / Selected References

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Into the book
Perhaps your family also lives in a house built on four pillars: overflowing stuff, overflowing choices, overflowing information, and overflowing speed?
---From "Entering"

Moments of relaxation and quiet are a source of nourishment for people of all ages.
Relationships are built in these moments of pause, when nothing special comes up, when you do nothing.
---From "Entering"

Too many things can rob a child of the ability and space to explore his or her world deeply.
---「Chapter 1.
From "Why should everyday life be simple?"

If you don't take care of yourself when caring for a child with a high fever, you are more likely to develop a high fever yourself.
---「Chapter 2.
From "Heat from the Heart"

Ironically, the abundance of toys leaves children with less time to develop their creativity.
Boredom is fundamentally the best catalyst for creativity.
---「Chapter 3.
From "Cleaning Up the Environment"

The act of waiting for something with anticipation shapes a child's personality.
Through this, the child realizes that he or she has a power as strong as his or her desires, and learns of the inner strength of waiting.
Our will is like a weed; if left alone, it can easily consume our mind.
It means that whatever you want turns into an aggressive desire to have it immediately, and what can stop this is expectation.
Anticipation builds the inner world against immediate gratification and promotes the child's development and growth.
---「Chapter 5.
From "Reducing the Schedule"

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· Am I living as the parent I want to be?
· How many academies should I send my child to?
· How much smartphone or media should I allow my child to use?
· How many toys and books should I buy to boost my child's creativity?
· What kind of play is good for children's concentration and resilience?
· How should parents establish standards and values ​​for child-rearing?

In "Mom's Feeling at Peace," you can find hope, comfort, and insight to help you find your own answers to these questions.

Raising children is the most important task for parents, so there is probably no parent who has not read various parenting books.
But if you think about it, among all those parenting books, if there is one you have taken out and read again, you will have a question mark.
Teaching Korean, increasing vocabulary, dealing with tantrum-prone children, and managing parental emotions.
Even many parenting books, such as those on preparing for college early, are useful because they contain the necessary skills for each situation, but they soon become outdated.
Parenting books that fail to show the big picture like this won't help parents eliminate their anxiety about parenting, even if they follow the book.

In "Mom is at ease," we ask ourselves what our dreams and hopes were when we first started our family.
When faced with this unusual question, I find myself asking myself, "Am I being the parent I want to be?"
For parents who have been running around with a worried heart, regardless of the kind of family they had hoped for, this is a shocking revelation: everything they have done to their children, to the point of exhaustion, is actually ruining their childhood, which is so crucial to their development.

"Mom's at ease" provides a much-needed antidote for exhausted parents and children in these times when everything seems excessive.
This antidote called "simplification" goes beyond simply reducing possessions. It helps children develop their identity, creativity, focus, and resilience, and it helps you, as a parent, build a comfortable and happy home and reset your standards for parenting and life.

So, author Kim John Payne sincerely hopes that even as her children become teenagers, they will reread "Mom's Gotta Have It" and find hope, comfort, and insight.
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of issue: June 15, 2020
- Page count, weight, size: 392 pages | 650g | 152*225*20mm
- ISBN13: 9791188225637
- ISBN10: 1188225634

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