
Invincible Twins: A Vivid Parenting Experience
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Book Introduction
Information on raising twins aged 0-3, written and experienced by a mother of two!
As the rate of twin births increases due to advanced maternal age and infertility, the demand for parenting books to help raise twins is increasing.
Despite the saying, "It takes four adults to care for newborn twins," there are no books on raising twins in Korea.
Accordingly, a mother of two who has gained know-how through the twists and turns of giving birth to twins has published a parenting book for 'twin mothers' based on her own experiences.
It contains all the essential information for mothers of twins, including how to overcome the confusion and fear that comes with first finding out you are pregnant with twins, the parenting mindset that mothers of twins should have, and advice on caring for twins by month of age.
The content before the age of one is written based on the parenting diary, and the content after that, up to the age of three, is written based on the problems encountered while raising children, and this shows the sincerity of the author.
We teach super-simple techniques for moms who are busy caring for twins, including how to prepare quick baby food, simple tips for preparing baby food, and tips for getting ready to go out with twins.
In addition, based on the concerns shared by peer twin moms who regularly meet at a gathering called '08 Twin Moms', the most frequently asked questions by period and topic are organized in a Q&A format to provide more vivid and lively information.
Additionally, only trustworthy information has been included, having undergone thorough review by pediatrician Dr. Goh Si-hwan.
As the rate of twin births increases due to advanced maternal age and infertility, the demand for parenting books to help raise twins is increasing.
Despite the saying, "It takes four adults to care for newborn twins," there are no books on raising twins in Korea.
Accordingly, a mother of two who has gained know-how through the twists and turns of giving birth to twins has published a parenting book for 'twin mothers' based on her own experiences.
It contains all the essential information for mothers of twins, including how to overcome the confusion and fear that comes with first finding out you are pregnant with twins, the parenting mindset that mothers of twins should have, and advice on caring for twins by month of age.
The content before the age of one is written based on the parenting diary, and the content after that, up to the age of three, is written based on the problems encountered while raising children, and this shows the sincerity of the author.
We teach super-simple techniques for moms who are busy caring for twins, including how to prepare quick baby food, simple tips for preparing baby food, and tips for getting ready to go out with twins.
In addition, based on the concerns shared by peer twin moms who regularly meet at a gathering called '08 Twin Moms', the most frequently asked questions by period and topic are organized in a Q&A format to provide more vivid and lively information.
Additionally, only trustworthy information has been included, having undergone thorough review by pediatrician Dr. Goh Si-hwan.
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index
Part 1.
Twin pregnancy and birth
Overcoming the Shock of a Twin Pregnancy
Things to prepare for twin birth
twin birth
How to give birth
Signs of childbirth
The birth process
Q&A Twin Pregnancy and Birth
Part 2.
Postpartum care and newborn care
Postpartum care
postpartum care center
Postpartum helper
childcare helper
Caring for Newborn Twins
How to hold twins
Take a bath
Dressing
Put to sleep
Deciding on a feeding method
Q&A Caring for Newborn Twins
A Twin Mom's Ten Commandments for Parenting
Overcoming the Challenges of Raising Twins
Part 3.
Childcare by Month
Caring for Twins 1-2 Months Old
Breastfeeding
breastfeeding
feeding formula milk
Q&A on Breastfeeding
vaccination
Timing of vaccination
Vaccination Precautions
Essential vaccinations
Elective vaccinations
Q&A Vaccination
Caring for Twins at 3-4 Months Old
Put to sleep
Putting Twins to Sleep
Sleep training is essential for twins
Q&A Replay
Caring for Twins at 5-6 Months Old
baby food
Before starting solid food
Stages of weaning
When you have an allergic reaction
Tips for making baby food
Q&A Baby Food
Weaning from night feedings
Night feedings: Why you should wean your baby
Tips for weaning your baby from night feedings
Q&A Weaning Your Baby from Night Feeding
Caring for Twins at 7-8 Months Old
Putting them to a nap
Putting twins to sleep
Nap, when and how long should I sleep?
Caring for Twins at 9-10 Months Old
health care
Twin Health Care
Common diseases in children
When your child is sick at night or on a holiday
giving medicine
Caring for Twins 11-12 Months Old
Going out with twins
Getting ready to go out and packing your bags
Outings before and after the stone
Eating outside with kids
Precautions for each mode of transportation when traveling long distances
Q&A Going Out with Twins
Caring for Twins 13-15 Months Old
Feeding twins
The beginning of baby food
A hearty one-bowl meal
Develop good eating habits
Q&A Feeding Twins
Weaning from bottles and pacifiers
Bottle weaning
Weaning off the pacifier
Q&A Bottle Weaning
Caring for Twins 16-18 Months Old
Dental care
When should I start taking care of my teeth?
Childcare Management Act
When you hurt your teeth in an accident
Apply fluoride
Q&A Dental Care
Caring for Twins 19-24 Months Old
Safety accidents and response methods
When you get burned
When cut or torn by a sharp object
When you fall or stumble from a high place
When your hand is caught in a door, window, or drawer
When a child locks the room or front door from the inside
separation anxiety
Symptoms of separation anxiety
How to Deal with Separation Anxiety
Adapting to unfamiliar environments
Caring for Twins 25-30 Months Old
Picky eating and snacking problems
Why do children become picky eaters?
Tips for dealing with picky eating
Feeding snacks
Q&A on Picky Eating and Snacking
potty training
When should I start potty training?
Before starting potty training
How to potty train
When going out
Night diaper problem
Q&A on Potty Training
Caring for Twins 31 to 36 Months Old
Sending the child to a daycare center
Choosing a Childcare Facility
Adapting to childcare
Send Q&A to Childcare Facilities
Language development
Language development in twins
Stages of language development
Parenting Principles that Support Language Development
Q&A Language Development
Part 4.
Attachment formation and emotional coaching
Forming an equal attachment
Children trying to take over their mother
If the primary caregiver is the mother alone
If the primary caregivers are the mother and grandmother
If the primary caregiver is the mother and a helper
If the primary caregiver is not the mother
Increasing Twin Dads' Participation in Parenting
Developing a consistent parenting style
Understanding Children with Different Dispositions and Temperaments
Parents' neutral attitude
Emotional Coaching Principles for Raising Twins
Praise
Discipline
mediate
Q&A: Developing a Consistent Parenting Style
Part 5.
Play and Education
How to play twins
How to play by month
How to play by type
Easy games to play with mom in everyday life
Q&A How to Play Twins
Early childhood education for children aged 0-3
Homeschool Visiting Classes
Mom's Homeschool
Cultural Center Classes
Other early childhood education institutions
Q&A Early Childhood Education for Children 0-3 Years Old
Reading education
Book play method by month
Q&A Book Reading Education
Twin pregnancy and birth
Overcoming the Shock of a Twin Pregnancy
Things to prepare for twin birth
twin birth
How to give birth
Signs of childbirth
The birth process
Q&A Twin Pregnancy and Birth
Part 2.
Postpartum care and newborn care
Postpartum care
postpartum care center
Postpartum helper
childcare helper
Caring for Newborn Twins
How to hold twins
Take a bath
Dressing
Put to sleep
Deciding on a feeding method
Q&A Caring for Newborn Twins
A Twin Mom's Ten Commandments for Parenting
Overcoming the Challenges of Raising Twins
Part 3.
Childcare by Month
Caring for Twins 1-2 Months Old
Breastfeeding
breastfeeding
feeding formula milk
Q&A on Breastfeeding
vaccination
Timing of vaccination
Vaccination Precautions
Essential vaccinations
Elective vaccinations
Q&A Vaccination
Caring for Twins at 3-4 Months Old
Put to sleep
Putting Twins to Sleep
Sleep training is essential for twins
Q&A Replay
Caring for Twins at 5-6 Months Old
baby food
Before starting solid food
Stages of weaning
When you have an allergic reaction
Tips for making baby food
Q&A Baby Food
Weaning from night feedings
Night feedings: Why you should wean your baby
Tips for weaning your baby from night feedings
Q&A Weaning Your Baby from Night Feeding
Caring for Twins at 7-8 Months Old
Putting them to a nap
Putting twins to sleep
Nap, when and how long should I sleep?
Caring for Twins at 9-10 Months Old
health care
Twin Health Care
Common diseases in children
When your child is sick at night or on a holiday
giving medicine
Caring for Twins 11-12 Months Old
Going out with twins
Getting ready to go out and packing your bags
Outings before and after the stone
Eating outside with kids
Precautions for each mode of transportation when traveling long distances
Q&A Going Out with Twins
Caring for Twins 13-15 Months Old
Feeding twins
The beginning of baby food
A hearty one-bowl meal
Develop good eating habits
Q&A Feeding Twins
Weaning from bottles and pacifiers
Bottle weaning
Weaning off the pacifier
Q&A Bottle Weaning
Caring for Twins 16-18 Months Old
Dental care
When should I start taking care of my teeth?
Childcare Management Act
When you hurt your teeth in an accident
Apply fluoride
Q&A Dental Care
Caring for Twins 19-24 Months Old
Safety accidents and response methods
When you get burned
When cut or torn by a sharp object
When you fall or stumble from a high place
When your hand is caught in a door, window, or drawer
When a child locks the room or front door from the inside
separation anxiety
Symptoms of separation anxiety
How to Deal with Separation Anxiety
Adapting to unfamiliar environments
Caring for Twins 25-30 Months Old
Picky eating and snacking problems
Why do children become picky eaters?
Tips for dealing with picky eating
Feeding snacks
Q&A on Picky Eating and Snacking
potty training
When should I start potty training?
Before starting potty training
How to potty train
When going out
Night diaper problem
Q&A on Potty Training
Caring for Twins 31 to 36 Months Old
Sending the child to a daycare center
Choosing a Childcare Facility
Adapting to childcare
Send Q&A to Childcare Facilities
Language development
Language development in twins
Stages of language development
Parenting Principles that Support Language Development
Q&A Language Development
Part 4.
Attachment formation and emotional coaching
Forming an equal attachment
Children trying to take over their mother
If the primary caregiver is the mother alone
If the primary caregivers are the mother and grandmother
If the primary caregiver is the mother and a helper
If the primary caregiver is not the mother
Increasing Twin Dads' Participation in Parenting
Developing a consistent parenting style
Understanding Children with Different Dispositions and Temperaments
Parents' neutral attitude
Emotional Coaching Principles for Raising Twins
Praise
Discipline
mediate
Q&A: Developing a Consistent Parenting Style
Part 5.
Play and Education
How to play twins
How to play by month
How to play by type
Easy games to play with mom in everyday life
Q&A How to Play Twins
Early childhood education for children aged 0-3
Homeschool Visiting Classes
Mom's Homeschool
Cultural Center Classes
Other early childhood education institutions
Q&A Early Childhood Education for Children 0-3 Years Old
Reading education
Book play method by month
Q&A Book Reading Education
Into the book
We've heard many things like "the miracle of 100 days," "it gets easier after one year," and "you'll be all grown up by the time your baby turns two," but I think the phrase that really resonates with twin mothers is "the three-year dream."
Unlike when you have one child, things get easier after they turn one and two, when you have twins, their problems become more prominent even after they turn one or two, and the hardships just don't get any better, so there was even a joke that "there are no miracles."
But at some point, I started to feel that raising my child had become much easier, and that was after he turned three.
---From "Prologue"
There is a common saying among twin mothers that 'twins come to those who are good at raising them.'
Raising children is a lot of work, but the joy they bring is more than doubled, so prepare to welcome them with a grateful heart.
First, if you research a lot of specific information about twin pregnancy and childbirth and make a parenting plan, you will be able to meet your twins with more peace of mind.
---From "Overcoming the Shock of Twin Pregnancy"
Although twins all have different sleep patterns, it's easiest for moms to put them to bed in the same room at the same time.
Co-sleeping is a very important principle in raising twins, as it allows mom to rest or do other things.
However, when putting twins to sleep in the same room, most mothers worry that if one baby cries, the other baby will wake up.
Of course, babies will initially respond to each other's cries, but as time goes on, it is common for them to wake up to each other's cries less and less often.
---From "Restoring"
Twins are children who are born competitive from the beginning.
They try to maintain a close relationship with their mother and often fight over who they want to be.
As babies, they cry to be held first and to be held more, and as they grow older, they try to compare and confirm their mother's love for each other, and even try to look better to their mother.
If you raise your child with someone else, such as a grandmother or helper, you may lose your mother's attention and become more attached to the other person, making it difficult to restore your relationship with your mother later on.
In such cases, the mother should take the child out alone or consciously focus on caring for the child on weekends to strengthen the relationship with the child.
---From "Forming Equal Attachment"
This book, which honestly shares the trials and errors experienced while raising twins, will be of great help to the blessed parents who have had two precious babies at the same time.
I hope that this book will help you navigate the unfamiliar path of raising twins without getting lost, and that you will be able to fully enjoy the happiness of raising your children.
Unlike when you have one child, things get easier after they turn one and two, when you have twins, their problems become more prominent even after they turn one or two, and the hardships just don't get any better, so there was even a joke that "there are no miracles."
But at some point, I started to feel that raising my child had become much easier, and that was after he turned three.
---From "Prologue"
There is a common saying among twin mothers that 'twins come to those who are good at raising them.'
Raising children is a lot of work, but the joy they bring is more than doubled, so prepare to welcome them with a grateful heart.
First, if you research a lot of specific information about twin pregnancy and childbirth and make a parenting plan, you will be able to meet your twins with more peace of mind.
---From "Overcoming the Shock of Twin Pregnancy"
Although twins all have different sleep patterns, it's easiest for moms to put them to bed in the same room at the same time.
Co-sleeping is a very important principle in raising twins, as it allows mom to rest or do other things.
However, when putting twins to sleep in the same room, most mothers worry that if one baby cries, the other baby will wake up.
Of course, babies will initially respond to each other's cries, but as time goes on, it is common for them to wake up to each other's cries less and less often.
---From "Restoring"
Twins are children who are born competitive from the beginning.
They try to maintain a close relationship with their mother and often fight over who they want to be.
As babies, they cry to be held first and to be held more, and as they grow older, they try to compare and confirm their mother's love for each other, and even try to look better to their mother.
If you raise your child with someone else, such as a grandmother or helper, you may lose your mother's attention and become more attached to the other person, making it difficult to restore your relationship with your mother later on.
In such cases, the mother should take the child out alone or consciously focus on caring for the child on weekends to strengthen the relationship with the child.
---From "Forming Equal Attachment"
This book, which honestly shares the trials and errors experienced while raising twins, will be of great help to the blessed parents who have had two precious babies at the same time.
I hope that this book will help you navigate the unfamiliar path of raising twins without getting lost, and that you will be able to fully enjoy the happiness of raising your children.
---From "The Editor's Note"
Publisher's Review
Based on the twins' parenting diary written by Dongi Mom for three years,
A real encyclopedia of twin parenting that you can trust, thoroughly verified by a pediatrician!
The twin birth rate is increasing every year due to advanced maternal age and infertility.
According to Statistics Korea, there were 13,583 twins born in 2011, and the ratio of twins to the total number of births was 2.88%, meaning that 3 out of 100 people were born as twins.
Although the number of parents of twins is increasing every year, the market for parenting books that can help raise twins is still sparse, just like it was 10 years ago.
For parents of twins who were disappointed that there was no book on raising twins with specific information, a book titled "Invincible Twins: Vivid Parenting" was published, which contains a wealth of information on raising twins aged 0-3 based on the experiences of a mother of two.
It contains all the essential information for mothers of twins, including how to overcome the confusion and fear that comes with first finding out you are pregnant with twins, the parenting mindset that mothers of twins should have, and advice on caring for twins by month of age.
This is Korea's first twin parenting book that covers all aspects of raising twins aged 0-3, from pre- and post-natal preparations to daily care, play and education, and emotional coaching.
“Raising twins is different from raising one child!”
Presenting solutions to the unique challenges of raising twins that standard parenting books can't address.
Raising twins is so difficult that there is a saying, “It takes four adults to look after newborn twins.”
Raising two children at the same time presents a completely different set of challenges than raising a single child, such as whether to breastfeed two babies at the same time, how to comfort two crying babies, and how to form an attachment with twins. However, general parenting books that focus on raising one child are not very helpful in addressing these issues.
The author, Munhwara Choi, is the mother of two identical twin sons, one born in 2008 and the other born in 2010.
We met at a group called “Twin Moms of 2008” and shared the need for a book on raising twins. We began writing in earnest around the time our children turned one, and completed it in three years.
The content before the age of one is organized based on the parenting diary, and the content after that, up to the age of three, is written by recording the problems I encountered while raising the children.
Additionally, while running the “08 Twin Moms” group, I regularly met with twin moms of the same age and based on the concerns I shared, I collected the most frequently asked questions by twin moms by period and topic and included them in the Q&A.
This book, based on my own experience raising twins, offers various solutions to problems and concerns I encountered in my daily life.
It also provides specific guidance on how to mediate between twins fighting over toys, the pros and cons of using a childcare assistant when raising twins, and how to deal with problematic situations.
Additionally, it is more reliable and trustworthy as it has undergone thorough review by pediatrician Dr. Goh Si-hwan.
From super-simple techniques to personalized advice for exhausted twin moms.
100% real parenting know-how delivered with meticulous care!
This book provides the authors' own practical parenting know-how, making it a practical help to new twin mothers.
It teaches super-simple techniques for twin moms who are busy all day taking care of two babies, such as how to prepare quick baby food, simple tips for preparing baby food, and tips for getting ready to go out with twins. It also includes customized advice for twin moms who have a hard time focusing on their children's play and education, such as how to play with twins by month of age, and detailed guidance on homeschooling and educational institutions for twins.
In particular, parenting methods recommended in general parenting books, such as weaning babies from night feedings after 100 days or weaning babies from pacifiers or weaning them before their first birthday, are somewhat difficult recommendations for mothers of twins who have to take care of more than one baby.
The authors point out that twin mothers who try to follow parenting methods recommended by experts or general parenting books can only end up stressed, and that it is okay to take a little more time in real life.
If you are a mother of twins, you may often get angry at your children due to the exhaustion of parenting, and you may feel guilty for not being able to meet the needs of one child that you would have met if you had only one child.
The authors also offer warm advice to any mother raising twins, saying that this is something that can happen to any mother, and that they should not blame themselves for being a bad mother, but rather remember that no one can do better for their children than their mother.
The period from 0 to 3 years old is the most difficult for parenting, but it is also when children are at their most beautiful.
The author's words, "When I worry too much and think too hastily, parenting becomes twice as difficult," and "It is a mother's role to have a relaxed mind and support her child's growth, and this is the mindset that twin mothers must keep in mind," are probably the most necessary advice for twin mothers who are exhausted from parenting.
"Invincible Twins: A Vivid Parenting Guide" is not only a practical parenting guide, but also a truly healing parenting book that heals the wounded hearts of twin mothers.
A real encyclopedia of twin parenting that you can trust, thoroughly verified by a pediatrician!
The twin birth rate is increasing every year due to advanced maternal age and infertility.
According to Statistics Korea, there were 13,583 twins born in 2011, and the ratio of twins to the total number of births was 2.88%, meaning that 3 out of 100 people were born as twins.
Although the number of parents of twins is increasing every year, the market for parenting books that can help raise twins is still sparse, just like it was 10 years ago.
For parents of twins who were disappointed that there was no book on raising twins with specific information, a book titled "Invincible Twins: Vivid Parenting" was published, which contains a wealth of information on raising twins aged 0-3 based on the experiences of a mother of two.
It contains all the essential information for mothers of twins, including how to overcome the confusion and fear that comes with first finding out you are pregnant with twins, the parenting mindset that mothers of twins should have, and advice on caring for twins by month of age.
This is Korea's first twin parenting book that covers all aspects of raising twins aged 0-3, from pre- and post-natal preparations to daily care, play and education, and emotional coaching.
“Raising twins is different from raising one child!”
Presenting solutions to the unique challenges of raising twins that standard parenting books can't address.
Raising twins is so difficult that there is a saying, “It takes four adults to look after newborn twins.”
Raising two children at the same time presents a completely different set of challenges than raising a single child, such as whether to breastfeed two babies at the same time, how to comfort two crying babies, and how to form an attachment with twins. However, general parenting books that focus on raising one child are not very helpful in addressing these issues.
The author, Munhwara Choi, is the mother of two identical twin sons, one born in 2008 and the other born in 2010.
We met at a group called “Twin Moms of 2008” and shared the need for a book on raising twins. We began writing in earnest around the time our children turned one, and completed it in three years.
The content before the age of one is organized based on the parenting diary, and the content after that, up to the age of three, is written by recording the problems I encountered while raising the children.
Additionally, while running the “08 Twin Moms” group, I regularly met with twin moms of the same age and based on the concerns I shared, I collected the most frequently asked questions by twin moms by period and topic and included them in the Q&A.
This book, based on my own experience raising twins, offers various solutions to problems and concerns I encountered in my daily life.
It also provides specific guidance on how to mediate between twins fighting over toys, the pros and cons of using a childcare assistant when raising twins, and how to deal with problematic situations.
Additionally, it is more reliable and trustworthy as it has undergone thorough review by pediatrician Dr. Goh Si-hwan.
From super-simple techniques to personalized advice for exhausted twin moms.
100% real parenting know-how delivered with meticulous care!
This book provides the authors' own practical parenting know-how, making it a practical help to new twin mothers.
It teaches super-simple techniques for twin moms who are busy all day taking care of two babies, such as how to prepare quick baby food, simple tips for preparing baby food, and tips for getting ready to go out with twins. It also includes customized advice for twin moms who have a hard time focusing on their children's play and education, such as how to play with twins by month of age, and detailed guidance on homeschooling and educational institutions for twins.
In particular, parenting methods recommended in general parenting books, such as weaning babies from night feedings after 100 days or weaning babies from pacifiers or weaning them before their first birthday, are somewhat difficult recommendations for mothers of twins who have to take care of more than one baby.
The authors point out that twin mothers who try to follow parenting methods recommended by experts or general parenting books can only end up stressed, and that it is okay to take a little more time in real life.
If you are a mother of twins, you may often get angry at your children due to the exhaustion of parenting, and you may feel guilty for not being able to meet the needs of one child that you would have met if you had only one child.
The authors also offer warm advice to any mother raising twins, saying that this is something that can happen to any mother, and that they should not blame themselves for being a bad mother, but rather remember that no one can do better for their children than their mother.
The period from 0 to 3 years old is the most difficult for parenting, but it is also when children are at their most beautiful.
The author's words, "When I worry too much and think too hastily, parenting becomes twice as difficult," and "It is a mother's role to have a relaxed mind and support her child's growth, and this is the mindset that twin mothers must keep in mind," are probably the most necessary advice for twin mothers who are exhausted from parenting.
"Invincible Twins: A Vivid Parenting Guide" is not only a practical parenting guide, but also a truly healing parenting book that heals the wounded hearts of twin mothers.
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of publication: October 25, 2012
- Page count, weight, size: 304 pages | 762g | 170*230mm
- ISBN13: 9788956056098
- ISBN10: 8956056099
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