
A man who doesn't listen and a woman who can't read a map
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Book Introduction
To study the differences in thinking between men and women, the author traveled extensively around the world and collected data.
We synthesize new research findings on how the brain works, assess the current state of evolutionary biology, analyze the opinions of psychologists, study social change, and interview relevant figures from around the world.
The result is a book that is shocking, fascinating, and sometimes humorous.
This book details where the battle lines between men and women lie, why they were formed, and how to break through them.
We synthesize new research findings on how the brain works, assess the current state of evolutionary biology, analyze the opinions of psychologists, study social change, and interview relevant figures from around the world.
The result is a book that is shocking, fascinating, and sometimes humorous.
This book details where the battle lines between men and women lie, why they were formed, and how to break through them.
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index
1_ Can men and women be this different?
No matter how you look at it, it's clear that men and women have different roles | The male brain, the female brain | Is it all a man's conspiracy? | Where to begin? | Innate or acquired? | A guide to the nature of men and women | How did we get here? | We didn't want to be this way | Parents can't help us | Don't forget that we are animals
2 _ Aha, I see
Women have radar detectors | The difference is in their eyes | Women have eyes in the back of their heads | Why do women's eyes see so much? | Why can't men find butter in the fridge? | A man who wag his tail | Men believe what they see | Men are good at driving at night | Why do women have a sixth sense? | Why can't men lie to women? | Our ears are... | Women are also good at listening | Women read between the lines | Men can hear 'directions' | Why don't boys listen? | Men don't know the meaning of words | The magic of touch | Women are touch and feeling | Why do men have thick skin? | The taste of life | There's something in the air... | There's something special about women | Why are men called 'insensitive'?
3 _ Everything is in the head
Why are we smarter than other primates? | The brain defends territory | Behind success is the brain | What's inside every corner of the brain? | The origins of brain research | Brain analysis | Why are women better connected? | Why can men only do one thing at a time? | Try the toothbrush test | Why are we who we are? | Programming the fetus | Male and female brain circuit tests | Scoring tests | Interpreting test results | Overlapping groups | What's the conclusion?
4_ A woman who wants to talk, a man who doesn't listen
The 'Blue or Gold Shoes' Strategy | Why are men so speechless? | Boys and schoolwork | Why do women like to chat? | Why do women need to say everything they want to say to feel satisfied? | Chatter and hormones | Women's lovers chatter | Men ask and answer questions alone | The dangers of self-questioning | Women say whatever comes to mind | The dangers of saying whatever comes to mind | Women's nagging, men in pain | Why do couples fail? | How do men speak? | Women's speech is multi-track | What brain scanning reveals | The right strategy for talking to men | Why do men prefer concise statements? | Women talk to be loved | Women like indirect speech | Men like direct speech | So what can you do? | How to influence a man | Women appeal to his emotions, men focus on his words | How women listen to others | Men listen like rocks | How to agree | How to grab a man's ear | A voice like a schoolgirl
5_ Spatial intelligence, maps and parallel parking
A story about a map that almost led to divorce | Is that sexism? | Men are action hunters | Why do men have a good sense of direction? | Why do boys often go to game rooms? | Boys' brains develop differently | Diana and kitchen furniture | Spatial intelligence test | How do women find their way? | When you can't tell north | Flying map | Upside-down map | Final test | How to avoid arguments | How to avoid a fight between a couple while driving | How to open a woman's purse | The pain of parallel parking | Women are misled! | Spatial intelligence in education | Careers that require spatial intelligence | Billiards and nuclear science | Computer industry | Mathematics and accounting | All things being equal... | Boys and toys | How do women think? | Can spatial intelligence be improved? | Some useful strategies | Conclusion
6_ Thoughts, Attitudes, Emotions and Another Area of Disaster
Different perceptions of men and women | Boys like objects, girls like people | Boys compete, girls cooperate | Men and women talk about different topics | What modern men and women want | The emotional location of the brain | Women value relationships, men value work | Why do men have to work? | Why do men and women break up? | Why do men hate being told they are wrong so much? | Why do men hide their emotions? | Why do men like to hang out with other men? | Why do men hate advice? | Why do men suggest solutions? | Why do stressed women want to talk? | Why do stressed men keep quiet? | Using spatial intelligence to solve problems | Why do men change TV channels frequently? | Tips for getting your son to talk | When both men and women are stressed | Men who want to hide, women who want to find | How men alienate women? | Why can't men handle angry women? | Men cry sometimes, too | Dining out | Shopping, her joy and his fear | How to truly compliment a woman
7 _ Unknown chemical changes
The power of hormones | The mechanism of 'falling in love' | The function of various hormones | Why do blondes have a higher birth rate? | PMT and sex drive | The hormone that drives women crazy | Testosterone, a blessing or a curse? | When dishes fly | Why are men aggressive? | Why do men work so hard? | Testosterone and spatial intelligence | Why do women hate parallel parking? | The relationship between math and hormones | Modern men also hunt | Why do men have bellies and women have butts?
8 _ Not all men are men
Gay, lesbian, bisexual | Is homosexuality a part of history? | Is it genetic or a choice? | Why are fathers blamed? | Sydney's gay festival | Can 'choice' be changed? | Identical gay twins | It's all about genes | Gay genes | Gay fingerprints | The gay family | How to make gay mice | How are gays made? | Why do lesbians come into being? | Bisexual | Are we slaves to biology? | Why are gays and lesbians obsessed with sex? | Why are some gays hard to recognize? | Why are lesbians harder to recognize?
9 _ Men, Women and Sex
How did sex begin? | Curious about the location of the sex center? | Why can't men control their sexual impulses? | Why do women remain chaste? | Men are like gas stoves, women are like microwave ovens | Differences in sexual impulses, a headache for all men and women | Sexual impulses and stress | How often do we have sex? | The higher the intelligence, the less we want sex? | The functional relationship between sex and health | Monogamy and polygamy | Why are men sexually promiscuous? | The rooster effect | What is the psychology of men who like sexy clothes? | Why do men have a 'three-minute climax'? | Ball games | Testicles are also intelligent | Men and their flirting | What men and women really want in partners? | Why are men obsessed with 'one thing'? | Sex also requires practice | What do men want from sex? | What do women want from sex? | Why don't men talk during sex? | The orgasm we're all wrong about | What turns men and women on | Why has male desire been neglected? | What is the best aphrodisiac of our time? | Men and porn | Are there really female nymphomaniacs? | Lights on or off?
10_ Marriage, Love and Romance
Why do women need monogamy? | Why do men avoid marriage commitments? | Where is love located in the brain? | Love, why do men fall in love and women try to run away? | Why can't men say "I love you" at the right time? | How can men distinguish between love and sex? | Women "make love," men "have sex" | How are love pods formed? | What do men and women find attractive about each other? | Physical polarities are mutually attractive | The ratio of hips to waists is important | Men and romance | Six secrets to securing romance | Why do men change after marriage? | Why men grope and women don't? | There is no love in spring | How to arouse a sexy feeling | How to keep the feeling of love | How to find a compatible partner
11 _ Towards a new future
What do men and women truly desire? | Freedom of career choice | The winds of change for women in the business world | The question of political balance | Our biological makeup hasn't changed much | Now, to conclude.
Translator's Note
References
No matter how you look at it, it's clear that men and women have different roles | The male brain, the female brain | Is it all a man's conspiracy? | Where to begin? | Innate or acquired? | A guide to the nature of men and women | How did we get here? | We didn't want to be this way | Parents can't help us | Don't forget that we are animals
2 _ Aha, I see
Women have radar detectors | The difference is in their eyes | Women have eyes in the back of their heads | Why do women's eyes see so much? | Why can't men find butter in the fridge? | A man who wag his tail | Men believe what they see | Men are good at driving at night | Why do women have a sixth sense? | Why can't men lie to women? | Our ears are... | Women are also good at listening | Women read between the lines | Men can hear 'directions' | Why don't boys listen? | Men don't know the meaning of words | The magic of touch | Women are touch and feeling | Why do men have thick skin? | The taste of life | There's something in the air... | There's something special about women | Why are men called 'insensitive'?
3 _ Everything is in the head
Why are we smarter than other primates? | The brain defends territory | Behind success is the brain | What's inside every corner of the brain? | The origins of brain research | Brain analysis | Why are women better connected? | Why can men only do one thing at a time? | Try the toothbrush test | Why are we who we are? | Programming the fetus | Male and female brain circuit tests | Scoring tests | Interpreting test results | Overlapping groups | What's the conclusion?
4_ A woman who wants to talk, a man who doesn't listen
The 'Blue or Gold Shoes' Strategy | Why are men so speechless? | Boys and schoolwork | Why do women like to chat? | Why do women need to say everything they want to say to feel satisfied? | Chatter and hormones | Women's lovers chatter | Men ask and answer questions alone | The dangers of self-questioning | Women say whatever comes to mind | The dangers of saying whatever comes to mind | Women's nagging, men in pain | Why do couples fail? | How do men speak? | Women's speech is multi-track | What brain scanning reveals | The right strategy for talking to men | Why do men prefer concise statements? | Women talk to be loved | Women like indirect speech | Men like direct speech | So what can you do? | How to influence a man | Women appeal to his emotions, men focus on his words | How women listen to others | Men listen like rocks | How to agree | How to grab a man's ear | A voice like a schoolgirl
5_ Spatial intelligence, maps and parallel parking
A story about a map that almost led to divorce | Is that sexism? | Men are action hunters | Why do men have a good sense of direction? | Why do boys often go to game rooms? | Boys' brains develop differently | Diana and kitchen furniture | Spatial intelligence test | How do women find their way? | When you can't tell north | Flying map | Upside-down map | Final test | How to avoid arguments | How to avoid a fight between a couple while driving | How to open a woman's purse | The pain of parallel parking | Women are misled! | Spatial intelligence in education | Careers that require spatial intelligence | Billiards and nuclear science | Computer industry | Mathematics and accounting | All things being equal... | Boys and toys | How do women think? | Can spatial intelligence be improved? | Some useful strategies | Conclusion
6_ Thoughts, Attitudes, Emotions and Another Area of Disaster
Different perceptions of men and women | Boys like objects, girls like people | Boys compete, girls cooperate | Men and women talk about different topics | What modern men and women want | The emotional location of the brain | Women value relationships, men value work | Why do men have to work? | Why do men and women break up? | Why do men hate being told they are wrong so much? | Why do men hide their emotions? | Why do men like to hang out with other men? | Why do men hate advice? | Why do men suggest solutions? | Why do stressed women want to talk? | Why do stressed men keep quiet? | Using spatial intelligence to solve problems | Why do men change TV channels frequently? | Tips for getting your son to talk | When both men and women are stressed | Men who want to hide, women who want to find | How men alienate women? | Why can't men handle angry women? | Men cry sometimes, too | Dining out | Shopping, her joy and his fear | How to truly compliment a woman
7 _ Unknown chemical changes
The power of hormones | The mechanism of 'falling in love' | The function of various hormones | Why do blondes have a higher birth rate? | PMT and sex drive | The hormone that drives women crazy | Testosterone, a blessing or a curse? | When dishes fly | Why are men aggressive? | Why do men work so hard? | Testosterone and spatial intelligence | Why do women hate parallel parking? | The relationship between math and hormones | Modern men also hunt | Why do men have bellies and women have butts?
8 _ Not all men are men
Gay, lesbian, bisexual | Is homosexuality a part of history? | Is it genetic or a choice? | Why are fathers blamed? | Sydney's gay festival | Can 'choice' be changed? | Identical gay twins | It's all about genes | Gay genes | Gay fingerprints | The gay family | How to make gay mice | How are gays made? | Why do lesbians come into being? | Bisexual | Are we slaves to biology? | Why are gays and lesbians obsessed with sex? | Why are some gays hard to recognize? | Why are lesbians harder to recognize?
9 _ Men, Women and Sex
How did sex begin? | Curious about the location of the sex center? | Why can't men control their sexual impulses? | Why do women remain chaste? | Men are like gas stoves, women are like microwave ovens | Differences in sexual impulses, a headache for all men and women | Sexual impulses and stress | How often do we have sex? | The higher the intelligence, the less we want sex? | The functional relationship between sex and health | Monogamy and polygamy | Why are men sexually promiscuous? | The rooster effect | What is the psychology of men who like sexy clothes? | Why do men have a 'three-minute climax'? | Ball games | Testicles are also intelligent | Men and their flirting | What men and women really want in partners? | Why are men obsessed with 'one thing'? | Sex also requires practice | What do men want from sex? | What do women want from sex? | Why don't men talk during sex? | The orgasm we're all wrong about | What turns men and women on | Why has male desire been neglected? | What is the best aphrodisiac of our time? | Men and porn | Are there really female nymphomaniacs? | Lights on or off?
10_ Marriage, Love and Romance
Why do women need monogamy? | Why do men avoid marriage commitments? | Where is love located in the brain? | Love, why do men fall in love and women try to run away? | Why can't men say "I love you" at the right time? | How can men distinguish between love and sex? | Women "make love," men "have sex" | How are love pods formed? | What do men and women find attractive about each other? | Physical polarities are mutually attractive | The ratio of hips to waists is important | Men and romance | Six secrets to securing romance | Why do men change after marriage? | Why men grope and women don't? | There is no love in spring | How to arouse a sexy feeling | How to keep the feeling of love | How to find a compatible partner
11 _ Towards a new future
What do men and women truly desire? | Freedom of career choice | The winds of change for women in the business world | The question of political balance | Our biological makeup hasn't changed much | Now, to conclude.
Translator's Note
References
Into the book
When John and Sue arrived at the party venue, the party was already in full swing.
Sue stares intently at John's face, her lips barely moving as she speaks.
“Look at the couple over there by the window.”
John turns his head and looks at her for a moment.
“Don’t look at me anymore!” Sue warns.
“You shouldn’t look at me so blatantly!”
Sue doesn't understand her husband turning his head and looking at her so blatantly.
On the other hand, John thinks it is amazing that his wife can see everyone in the room without even turning her head. --- p.39, from Chapter 2, 'Aha, I see'
Women all over the world have probably experienced the following conversation in front of an open refrigerator:
David: Where's the butter?
Jan: It's in the fridge.
David: I looked inside, but it wasn't there.
Jan: Yes, there is.
I put it in 10 minutes ago.
David: No, I must have put it somewhere else.
There really isn't anything in the fridge!
Upon hearing that, Jan gets angry and runs into the kitchen, sticks her arm into the refrigerator, and miraculously finds butter.
Inexperienced men think it's a trick.
I think my wife has a tendency to hide things in drawers or closets.
Socks, shoes, underwear, jam, butter, car keys, wallet, all these things are in there, but the man can't find them.
Because women have a wide peripheral vision, they can easily find items in the refrigerator or closet without turning their heads.
Men also 'disappeared'
He moves his head up, down, left, and right to find the object, but he cannot find it. ---pp.45-46ㆍFrom Chapter 2, 'Aha, I see'
“Honey, what kind of shoes do you think would go with this dress?”
A cold sweat runs down Alan's back.
He feels he has stumbled upon a difficult problem.
“Ah… uh… I’ll tell you what you like.”
He speaks stammeringly.
“Honey, don’t do that.
“Which one is prettier? Blue or gold?”
She asks in an anxious voice.
"golden yellow!"
Alan finally shouts with all his might.
“Why, you don’t like blue? You used to hate blue.
But I spent a lot of money on these shoes.
But he said he didn’t like these shoes….”
Alan's shoulders slump.
“Barbara, if you’re not going to do what I say, why did you ask?”
Sue stares intently at John's face, her lips barely moving as she speaks.
“Look at the couple over there by the window.”
John turns his head and looks at her for a moment.
“Don’t look at me anymore!” Sue warns.
“You shouldn’t look at me so blatantly!”
Sue doesn't understand her husband turning his head and looking at her so blatantly.
On the other hand, John thinks it is amazing that his wife can see everyone in the room without even turning her head. --- p.39, from Chapter 2, 'Aha, I see'
Women all over the world have probably experienced the following conversation in front of an open refrigerator:
David: Where's the butter?
Jan: It's in the fridge.
David: I looked inside, but it wasn't there.
Jan: Yes, there is.
I put it in 10 minutes ago.
David: No, I must have put it somewhere else.
There really isn't anything in the fridge!
Upon hearing that, Jan gets angry and runs into the kitchen, sticks her arm into the refrigerator, and miraculously finds butter.
Inexperienced men think it's a trick.
I think my wife has a tendency to hide things in drawers or closets.
Socks, shoes, underwear, jam, butter, car keys, wallet, all these things are in there, but the man can't find them.
Because women have a wide peripheral vision, they can easily find items in the refrigerator or closet without turning their heads.
Men also 'disappeared'
He moves his head up, down, left, and right to find the object, but he cannot find it. ---pp.45-46ㆍFrom Chapter 2, 'Aha, I see'
“Honey, what kind of shoes do you think would go with this dress?”
A cold sweat runs down Alan's back.
He feels he has stumbled upon a difficult problem.
“Ah… uh… I’ll tell you what you like.”
He speaks stammeringly.
“Honey, don’t do that.
“Which one is prettier? Blue or gold?”
She asks in an anxious voice.
"golden yellow!"
Alan finally shouts with all his might.
“Why, you don’t like blue? You used to hate blue.
But I spent a lot of money on these shoes.
But he said he didn’t like these shoes….”
Alan's shoulders slump.
“Barbara, if you’re not going to do what I say, why did you ask?”
---p.112ㆍChapter 4 'A woman who wants to talk, a man who doesn't listen'
Publisher's Review
Clearly demonstrating the differences between men and women across science, biology, psychology, and sociology.
A refreshingly unraveling mystery about love, conflict, and misunderstanding between men and women that has persisted for thousands of years!
A must-read for all couples and lovers! Accept your differences and love each other for who they are! This book scientifically and lucidly unravels the conflicts and problems between men and women, shared by countless couples around the world.
A book filled with hilarious, practical, insightful, deeply human, and accessible advice that will sometimes elicit exclamations and sometimes laughs!
Clearly demonstrating the differences between men and women across science, biology, psychology, and sociology.
A refreshingly unraveling mystery about love, conflict, and misunderstanding between men and women that has persisted for thousands of years!
Why do men tell such lame lies that they're easily caught? Why do men assume everything they do is right? Why do men avoid responsibilities and promises? Why do women shed tears to get their way? Why do women talk about certain topics until their mouths swell? Why are women afraid to initiate sex?
This is the first new work the authors have put their heart and soul into publishing following the success of the international bestseller, “The Man Who Doesn’t Listen, the Woman Who Can’t Read Maps.”
It contains the latest information on relationships between men and women, along with specific answers to conflicts with lovers, problems and difficulties between couples, etc. sent in by countless readers from around the world.
Relationships are a complex and personal subject, making it difficult to offer definitive solutions. Yet, the authors draw on their extensive experience and research to offer a wealth of practical, insightful, deeply human, humorous, and accessible advice.
It fundamentally eliminates misunderstandings that arise in relationships between men and women, and helps them gain a deeper understanding of each other, thereby bringing about groundbreaking changes and enrichment in both their personal and professional lives.
Also, you can find solutions to all aspects of relationships between men and women from youth to middle age or old age through interesting stories such as untangling the twisted relationship between mothers-in-law and mothers-in-law that you couldn't see in "The Man Who Doesn't Listen, the Woman Who Can't Read a Map", and understanding the lives of men who have become like hunters who put down their bows after retirement due to early retirement.
Why do men and women have so many problems?
Because women evolved as nurturers and nest guardians, their brain circuits are wired for activities like nurturing, caring, loving, and caring.
Men, on the other hand, have brain circuits that focus on entirely different tasks.
Men evolved as hunters, pursuers, protectors, breadwinners, and problem solvers.
In this way, women and men have different brain circuits.
Scientific studies, especially recent high-tech brain scanning work, confirm this fact.
Most authors of books on human relationships are women, and 80 percent of the readers of such books are also women.
Most of these books are focused on men and how to correct the things they do wrong.
From a third-party observer's perspective, this phenomenon appears to occur because women care more about interpersonal relationships than men.
In many ways, that impression may be justified.
However, the issue of focusing on human relationships is not a top priority in masculine research and male superiority consciousness.
So, men either don't try such relationships at all, or if they do, they give up soon.
Men think that women's way of thinking and acting is too complicated.
Sometimes I think it's better to give up early than to try too hard and end up being called a failure.
Men vaguely hope that they will one day have the perfect relationship without any prior research or preparation.
Women, on the other hand, regularly fall into the following delusion:
"If a man loves me, doesn't that mean he understands me? So he has to be nice to me."
But in general, men do not understand women very well.
There is a reason why men and women call each other the opposite sex.
Men and women are actually polar opposites.
We humans are the only species that has persistent problems with mating rituals, courtship, and male-female relationships.
Other species solve the problem well and live without any problems. Even black spiders and praying mantises, which eat their mates after mating, know the rules of the mating game well and act according to those rules.
However, human relationships between men and women are much more complex.
Women say they want men to be sensitive, but they don't like men to be too sensitive.
Men often fail to notice these subtle distinctions.
Men often don't realize that they need to be sensitive to women's emotions, and they think they need to be tough and masculine in other ways.
Finding a way through this maze of male-female relationships… .
Men will learn it from this book.
Women will also learn what men want and how to give it to them.
If you type the words 'relationships' and 'sex' into your internet browser and search, 36,714 results come up in English alone.
For most animals, the relationship between males and females is a very simple and straightforward process linked to the survival of the species.
They jump right into the relationship without thinking too deeply.
But we humans have reached a point where we don't really know how to get along well with the opposite sex.
We absolutely must find out.
Only then can we all live happily, enjoy life's pleasures, and revel in the excitement and richness that good relationships bring.
A fun world tour for men and women everywhere
The authors traveled to approximately 30 countries to write this book, collecting information and data on relationships between men and women.
And then he set up a universal theme and a common problem and then presented his own practical solution.
While the behaviors and scenarios presented in this book may not apply to everyone in every era, they are certainly true and represent universal principles that can be easily applied in romantic relationships.
If we could awaken to these principles and live, work, and love with the opposite sex without feeling so difficult, our lives would be much happier than they are now.
Recommended reviews
A book you'll want to give your lover!_MBC's "Exclamation Point"
The book that best captures the psychology of men and women!_KBS's 'Imagination Plus'
The analysis was based on thorough field interviews and written in an easy-to-understand manner.
A story about understanding the unique characteristics of men and women and promoting equality!_Maeil Business Newspaper
If you've ever been left scratching your head over the incomprehensible behavior of the opposite sex or have felt your heart simmering, I highly recommend this book. _Book Daily
The conflict between men and women remains unresolved, no matter how much you ask! This book clearly reveals why and how men and women differ, what they desire, and explains in detail how we should behave toward each other for true love, respect, and peace. _Union Press
A book that couples read with laughter and excitement during their first year of marriage! Highly recommended for couples and lovers in their first or second year of marriage!_lovely21
A book that puts an end to the endless conflict between men and women! Its meticulous analysis and detailed storyline stand out, leading them to understand each other without hurting each other!_chlase79
What is clear is that it is not discrimination, but difference.
An excellent book that clearly explains gender differences through scientific and empirical examples, including brain analysis, hormonal function, and behavioral patterns!_sonsungug
A refreshingly unraveling mystery about love, conflict, and misunderstanding between men and women that has persisted for thousands of years!
A must-read for all couples and lovers! Accept your differences and love each other for who they are! This book scientifically and lucidly unravels the conflicts and problems between men and women, shared by countless couples around the world.
A book filled with hilarious, practical, insightful, deeply human, and accessible advice that will sometimes elicit exclamations and sometimes laughs!
Clearly demonstrating the differences between men and women across science, biology, psychology, and sociology.
A refreshingly unraveling mystery about love, conflict, and misunderstanding between men and women that has persisted for thousands of years!
Why do men tell such lame lies that they're easily caught? Why do men assume everything they do is right? Why do men avoid responsibilities and promises? Why do women shed tears to get their way? Why do women talk about certain topics until their mouths swell? Why are women afraid to initiate sex?
This is the first new work the authors have put their heart and soul into publishing following the success of the international bestseller, “The Man Who Doesn’t Listen, the Woman Who Can’t Read Maps.”
It contains the latest information on relationships between men and women, along with specific answers to conflicts with lovers, problems and difficulties between couples, etc. sent in by countless readers from around the world.
Relationships are a complex and personal subject, making it difficult to offer definitive solutions. Yet, the authors draw on their extensive experience and research to offer a wealth of practical, insightful, deeply human, humorous, and accessible advice.
It fundamentally eliminates misunderstandings that arise in relationships between men and women, and helps them gain a deeper understanding of each other, thereby bringing about groundbreaking changes and enrichment in both their personal and professional lives.
Also, you can find solutions to all aspects of relationships between men and women from youth to middle age or old age through interesting stories such as untangling the twisted relationship between mothers-in-law and mothers-in-law that you couldn't see in "The Man Who Doesn't Listen, the Woman Who Can't Read a Map", and understanding the lives of men who have become like hunters who put down their bows after retirement due to early retirement.
Why do men and women have so many problems?
Because women evolved as nurturers and nest guardians, their brain circuits are wired for activities like nurturing, caring, loving, and caring.
Men, on the other hand, have brain circuits that focus on entirely different tasks.
Men evolved as hunters, pursuers, protectors, breadwinners, and problem solvers.
In this way, women and men have different brain circuits.
Scientific studies, especially recent high-tech brain scanning work, confirm this fact.
Most authors of books on human relationships are women, and 80 percent of the readers of such books are also women.
Most of these books are focused on men and how to correct the things they do wrong.
From a third-party observer's perspective, this phenomenon appears to occur because women care more about interpersonal relationships than men.
In many ways, that impression may be justified.
However, the issue of focusing on human relationships is not a top priority in masculine research and male superiority consciousness.
So, men either don't try such relationships at all, or if they do, they give up soon.
Men think that women's way of thinking and acting is too complicated.
Sometimes I think it's better to give up early than to try too hard and end up being called a failure.
Men vaguely hope that they will one day have the perfect relationship without any prior research or preparation.
Women, on the other hand, regularly fall into the following delusion:
"If a man loves me, doesn't that mean he understands me? So he has to be nice to me."
But in general, men do not understand women very well.
There is a reason why men and women call each other the opposite sex.
Men and women are actually polar opposites.
We humans are the only species that has persistent problems with mating rituals, courtship, and male-female relationships.
Other species solve the problem well and live without any problems. Even black spiders and praying mantises, which eat their mates after mating, know the rules of the mating game well and act according to those rules.
However, human relationships between men and women are much more complex.
Women say they want men to be sensitive, but they don't like men to be too sensitive.
Men often fail to notice these subtle distinctions.
Men often don't realize that they need to be sensitive to women's emotions, and they think they need to be tough and masculine in other ways.
Finding a way through this maze of male-female relationships… .
Men will learn it from this book.
Women will also learn what men want and how to give it to them.
If you type the words 'relationships' and 'sex' into your internet browser and search, 36,714 results come up in English alone.
For most animals, the relationship between males and females is a very simple and straightforward process linked to the survival of the species.
They jump right into the relationship without thinking too deeply.
But we humans have reached a point where we don't really know how to get along well with the opposite sex.
We absolutely must find out.
Only then can we all live happily, enjoy life's pleasures, and revel in the excitement and richness that good relationships bring.
A fun world tour for men and women everywhere
The authors traveled to approximately 30 countries to write this book, collecting information and data on relationships between men and women.
And then he set up a universal theme and a common problem and then presented his own practical solution.
While the behaviors and scenarios presented in this book may not apply to everyone in every era, they are certainly true and represent universal principles that can be easily applied in romantic relationships.
If we could awaken to these principles and live, work, and love with the opposite sex without feeling so difficult, our lives would be much happier than they are now.
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A book you'll want to give your lover!_MBC's "Exclamation Point"
The book that best captures the psychology of men and women!_KBS's 'Imagination Plus'
The analysis was based on thorough field interviews and written in an easy-to-understand manner.
A story about understanding the unique characteristics of men and women and promoting equality!_Maeil Business Newspaper
If you've ever been left scratching your head over the incomprehensible behavior of the opposite sex or have felt your heart simmering, I highly recommend this book. _Book Daily
The conflict between men and women remains unresolved, no matter how much you ask! This book clearly reveals why and how men and women differ, what they desire, and explains in detail how we should behave toward each other for true love, respect, and peace. _Union Press
A book that couples read with laughter and excitement during their first year of marriage! Highly recommended for couples and lovers in their first or second year of marriage!_lovely21
A book that puts an end to the endless conflict between men and women! Its meticulous analysis and detailed storyline stand out, leading them to understand each other without hurting each other!_chlase79
What is clear is that it is not discrimination, but difference.
An excellent book that clearly explains gender differences through scientific and empirical examples, including brain analysis, hormonal function, and behavioral patterns!_sonsungug
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of issue: March 30, 2011
- Page count, weight, size: 406 pages | 582g | 153*224*30mm
- ISBN13: 9788934948087
- ISBN10: 8893494809
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