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A society that consumes loneliness
A society that consumes loneliness
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Book Introduction
We live in an age overflowing with news about loneliness and isolation.
We live in an age where some people live lonely lives, some face lonely deaths, and even ordinary people going about their daily lives easily express their loneliness.
We live in an era where the word 'loneliness', which is often thought of as an emotion referring to social phenomena or problems such as reclusive loners, social isolation, elderly people living alone, and lonely deaths, is now close to us.
This book explores how we, living in a modern world surrounded by loneliness, can maintain our daily lives and live without destroying ourselves.
And, in the following areas, we discuss how 'consumption behavior', the most powerful problem-solving tool in modern society, works to alleviate loneliness and what psychology is hidden within it.


- Perspectives on reading loneliness: situational loneliness vs.
cognitive loneliness
-Becoming a Fan: Increasing the Density of Social Relationships
- Savior of the lonely everyday life: Unusual consumption
- Solving loneliness through meaning: We are all psychologists
- Total Loneliness Care: Consumption that relieves relationship anxiety
- The Birth of a New Desire: The Pursuit of Voluntary Loneliness
- The direction of the loneliness business

This book provides guidance on how our society is changing to overcome loneliness, how businesses should respond, and how individuals can care for their loneliness.
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Introduction - The Magic of Consumption: Breaking the Spell of Loneliness 006

Part 1: Consumer Society, Talking About Loneliness 016

01 How to Read Loneliness
Situation 020: Having your own space and time
I want to be alone, but I hate being lonely 024
Different Perceptions of Loneliness and the Forms of Loneliness 028
Everyone is different, so it's lonely 032
The Loneliness of Difference Diluted by the Discovery of Sameness 036
Alienation from Within Me 041
The Advent of the Golden Age of Loneliness 044

02 The Mechanism of Loneliness Unleashed by Consumption
Depression and Consumption: Companions of Loneliness 049
Consume and it will be solved 053
Everyday loneliness is caused by everyday consumption 056

Part 2.
Becoming a Fan and Looking at Loneliness 060


01 The Age of Loneliness: Talking About Fans and Fandom
IM HERO 064
Fan, Immersion Against Loneliness 069
I don't know about others, but you are precious 072
Your Joy is My Joy, Emotional Bond 075
Sharing and empathy, symbolic values ​​of consumption 079

02 I'll cheer you on, so cheer me on too, a culture of mutual support
We Need a Religion of Support 084
Mutual Support 089
An Era of Mutual Support 094
The Mind of Unity, the Psychology of Support 098

03 I need you to talk to me, social identity
What defines me is my group 102
Social Identity vs. Personal Identity 105
Social Identity 109 of the Fandom with the Highest Relationship Density
Become a fan of a community of minds 112

Part 3.
Jump from the everyday to the extraordinary 118


01 Everyday loneliness, awareness of loneliness
The Lonely Residents the Little Prince Encounters 122
125 Strategies for Coping with Loneliness from a Star Citizen
130 Ways to Tame Loneliness, According to a Fox
Everyday Rituals to Tame Loneliness 134
Consumption is a safe tool for alleviating loneliness 138

02 Consumer society that opens the automatic door of the unusual
Holy Savior of Lonely Daily Life 142
Consumption, Consumer Society, and Unusual Consumption 147
If loneliness is your problem, I'll solve it for you. 152

03 A shopping space that satisfies all your needs
158 When I go shopping, I become a different person
Shopping, on the scene at the festival 162
I go to Costco to find treasures 168
Not a shopping center, but a shopping theme park 173
Department Store 183 Transforms into a Multi-Cultural Space

Part 4.
Super Psychology: Soothing Loneliness 190


01 Psychology, Take Out the Loneliness Within Me
Bookstore 196: Giving Meaning to My Loneliness
All Roads to Loneliness Lead to MBTI 201
Doctor, please explain this with psychology. 209

02 When Loneliness Meets Psychology
The Four Self-Areas Within Me 217
If you're lonely, reveal and accept it 221
The empathy of the story soothes loneliness 226
We're all capable common-sense psychologists! 229

Part 5.
Consumer Society: Dreaming of an Era of Total Loneliness Care 236


01 Self-care for diet and health is the trend.
Beyond the simple meal of eating alone 242
I hate cooking for myself, but I want to eat deli food. 248
From My Own Rewards to Social Dining 254
Healthy Self-Care for Slow Aging 260

02 Supporting care for relationship anxiety
I want to trade with someone 267
We need to talk, we're short on conversation partners 272
Even if the Mengel coefficient is high, you need someone to talk to. 278
Isn't it fun to be together? 283
Prescribing the Loneliness of Being Alone Through Books 289

Part 6.
Evolving into Voluntary Loneliness 296


01 A New Perspective on Loneliness, Not Deficiency
The Conflict Between Loneliness and Freedom 302
The explosion of relationships leads to relationship fatigue. 308
The desire for my own time and space 314

02 Consumption in pursuit of voluntary loneliness
Planning for the right balance between 'alone' and 'together' 322
The Absolute Desire for Time and Space to Face Oneself 327
Service 334: Providing your own time and space

Short Last Part.
The Long-Term Loneliness Business 340

Going Out - Magic Has Always Been With Me 350
Reference 354

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The idea that you are not lonely just because there are other people around you is naive and childish.
Because there is someone else around, and because that person is different from us, that is why we are lonely.
Because we are not all the same, we are inherently lonely beings.
So, is this unavoidable condition of everyone being different insurmountable? Looking around, behind, and beyond, we see people living among us, so is it possible that we will never escape loneliness until we die?
---「Part 1.
From "Consumer Society, Talking about Loneliness"

We all become fans of something at some point in our lives.
When we are young, we become fans of the main characters of comics, animations, or fairy tales, and we also become fans of celebrities such as singers, actors, or entertainers.
Some people become fans of a particular company that makes cars or smartphones.
People or things that are unknown to everyone can become the object of fandom.
You can be a fan of the employee at your local convenience store, a fan of a small neighborhood bookstore, or a fan of a YouTuber with 100 subscribers.

Being a fan allows us to forget loneliness through immersion in the subject, provides comfort and encouragement through mutual support, adds a layer of social identity, and helps us feel the meaning of living as a member of society. It also helps us overcome loneliness by providing a sense of belonging to a group of people who share the same subject.
In what is often called the golden age of fandom, perhaps we are all overcoming loneliness through the experience of becoming a fan at some point.
---「Part 2.
From "Looking at Loneliness as a Fan"

The planets that The Little Prince meets on his journey are all lonely people.
They each use their own methods to forget loneliness or to avoid loneliness.
To summarize, the strategy would be as follows:
① King's Strategy: There are few people who can get along with me.
It doesn't matter, even if I'm alone.
② The strategy of the vain one: If there is someone who likes me and supports me, that is enough.

③ The drinker's strategy: Let's pass it off as a brief act of escapism to forget the loneliness of everyday life.

④ A merchant's strategy: If you have a clear goal in life, focus on it and dedicate yourself to it.

⑤ The streetlight keeper's strategy: If I am faithful to the task given to me, I will not have time to feel lonely.
⑥ Geographer's Strategy: Let's live in the world focusing on facts rather than emotions or feelings.
How is it?
What strategies are you using?
---「Part 3.
From "Jump from the everyday to the extraordinary"

You never know where the hand that comforts the loneliness of everyday life will come from.
It could be the hand of a writer writing a psychological essay, the hand of Dr. Oh Eun-young, or the advice of Seo Jang-hoon or Lee Soo-geun.
You might find that touch in the warm and touching comments of an FM radio host while driving, in the lines of a character in a movie that passes by, in the songs on your smartphone playlist, or in the canvas of an art exhibition you haven't seen in a long time.
Hints of that touch might be hidden in your MBTI test results, in the eyes of a friend you're having coffee with, in an article in the corner of a newspaper, in a billboard, or in the humor corner of the internet.
These touches and hints apply regardless of whether it is academic psychology, popular psychology, or common-sense psychology.
The important thing is to have the strength to overcome lonely daily life and the heart to accept it.
If you have faith that super psychology, which surpasses all psychology, can comfort you from loneliness, your daily life will begin to change.
---「Part 4.
From "Super Psychology, Soothing Loneliness"

For those of us living in this era, loneliness may not be the biggest social problem, but it is definitely a problem that must be solved.
So, consumer society rolled up its sleeves and started thinking about how to care for the loneliness of consumers.
To deal with situational loneliness, we consider how to avoid being alone and provide products and services that can solve this problem. To deal with cognitive loneliness, we provide products and services such as psychological counseling content, as well as various contents such as movies, music, comics, animation, dramas, and novels to help people forget loneliness, even if only for a moment. We also provide shopping spaces where you can escape to extraordinary moments.
---「Part 5.
From "Consumer Society, Dreaming of an Era of Total Loneliness Care"

The world began to change.
Although relationships are still important, we have entered an era where being alone is no longer a matter of survival.
The days when we had to stay together to survive are long gone, and the meaning, nature, and types of groups that humans belong to and feel safe and happy have become more diverse.
Most people are now able to live stable lives by belonging to large public groups such as the state and local governments, and the groups that gave them happiness expanded beyond their families to include friends, regions, colleagues, and acquaintances, and with the advent of the Internet, this expanded to include relationships with people who share similar hobbies and tastes.
So, many people are starting to think that loneliness isn't the problem, but rather, "I want to reduce the number of relationships I have," and the movement to voluntarily cut off relationships and choose loneliness is gaining attention.
Loneliness is now beginning to be accepted not as a negative emotion that arises from a lack of relationships, but as an emotion that must be actively pursued through the severance of relationships.
---「Part 6.
From "Evolving into Voluntary Loneliness"

Publisher's Review
In the situational loneliness of being alone in space and time
Cognitive loneliness as an emotion that feels lonely


The word 'loneliness' says so much.
Although the 'longing for humanity' that comes with having to spend time alone, having no one to talk to, or having no one to connect with feels like the essence of loneliness, we are not free from loneliness even when there are other people around us.
We feel lonely when others don't acknowledge us, when we think we're really close to a friend and then realize they don't think so, when we think we know someone well and then discover a side of them we don't know at all, when we discover that someone we thought was similar or similar to us is actually completely different from us.
Loneliness is the emotion that comes when you realize that the world around you that you perceived is actually different from what you perceived. This means that cognitive loneliness has a greater impact on today's times and society than situational loneliness.
By accurately understanding what loneliness is, we can create a perspective on approaching loneliness.


The loneliness of everyday life is caused by everyday consumption.

Loneliness has become a social problem important and urgent enough for the government to take action, but at a more personal level, it is a personal problem.
Modern society is a 'consumer society'.
It means a society where people reveal their identity through consumption.
In this era where loneliness is emerging as a personal and social problem, we can live our daily lives without struggling or collapsing from loneliness because we control our loneliness through small, insignificant consumption activities, such as drinking coffee and watching movies.
In this way, the author says, 'consumption behavior' is a simple yet powerful tool that can help us temporarily divert our attention when loneliness torments us.
This book discusses tools for overcoming loneliness, such as becoming someone's fan and sharing the values ​​of supporting each other and empathizing with each other, taming loneliness through shopping, the psychology of comforting one's lonely self through empathizing with stories, and cherishing oneself and communicating with others in various ways through various content.

An era that pursues voluntary loneliness

In modern society, loneliness is a major social problem, but on the other hand, there are people who enjoy loneliness.
As more and more young people choose to live alone, businesses that emphasize the positive aspects of loneliness are booming, the author says.
People who enjoy loneliness are said to pursue the temporal, spatial, and relational freedom that loneliness provides, and have a strong desire to reflect on themselves, so they develop consumption behaviors to find their own happiness.

Modern society is a society that consumes loneliness.

Loneliness is also one of the directions in life that people pursue these days.
The authors say that all ways to overcome or enjoy this duality of loneliness are active consumption behaviors.
Modern society is overflowing with countless products and diverse content that can help us overcome loneliness or enjoy ourselves through consumption.
I hope this book will provide readers with the opportunity to accurately examine their own loneliness and explore appropriate consumption patterns, as well as business hints on how to provide these consumption targets.
GOODS SPECIFICS
- Date of issue: July 20, 2025
- Page count, weight, size: 356 pages | 504g | 150*210*23mm
- ISBN13: 9791161255507
- ISBN10: 1161255508

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