“The person I meet now will change my tomorrow!”
Things to Remember at Every Moment in Your Relationship

Author Kim Dal, who has already made three bestselling books and is active as a creator in various media, has selected the most common concerns from the counseling sessions he has had with hundreds of thousands of people over the past seven years and put them into this book.
That's why it contains the 'basics of the basics' of human relationships, including love, and covers even the 'most important issues' that were not covered in previous works.
You can find realistic answers to the questions you're wondering about right now, from encounters and separations, misunderstandings and understanding, conflicts and resolutions, to trust and growth.
You don't have to worry about difficult relationships anymore.
Because all the solutions are in this book.

“At a critical moment, your life can change drastically depending on who is by your side.
“It is the choices you make now that determine whether it will be a good direction or a bad direction.” A good relationship does not require qualifications, but it does require skills.
And you also need the attitude and mindset to demonstrate your skills.
This book contains all the skills, attitudes, and mindsets you need to develop an eye for people, things to keep in mind as you get to know each other, and how to maintain an unwavering heart in the midst of a flood of emotions.
---From the "Prologue"

Not being able to judge people doesn't just mean you meet bad people.
Not being able to break off a relationship even though you know it's not you is also a lack of insight into people.
To be precise, it is a state where there is no ‘eye to see oneself’, not another person.
A person who knows it is wrong but can't do anything about it.
You may not realize it, but you are in more danger than you think.
Because you can't control yourself.
---From "It's Time to Stop This Wrong Love"

This is a situation where you have to decide what to eat with someone you just met.
So I asked the other person, “What kind of food do you like?” or “Is there anything you’d like to eat?”
At this time, there are people who answer, “I eat everything without being picky.”
This statement leaves the other person in a difficult position because it sounds like you are telling them to make their own decision.
So, a better way is to convey my thoughts while being considerate of the other person.
If you answer with a question like, “Is spaghetti okay?”, the other person will say that it is okay even if they don’t like spaghetti.
It goes without saying that you will feel more comfortable because you have been presented with clear choices.
---From "Characteristics that Likeable People Have in Common"

Positive comes with positive, and negative comes with negative.
Asking negative questions doesn't give the other person a chance to think.
If you want positive results, send positive signals.
Instead of being a little considerate, ask directly, “Are you free this weekend?” or “Shall we meet this weekend?”
Then the baton is passed to the other person.
If time doesn't allow, he'll just decline and there's nothing left for me to do.
“You must be busy with work, but you can contact me when you have time” is considerate, but “Is it okay for me to keep in touch like this when you’re busy?” sounds like a suggestion to not meet up.
Remember to speak in a positive tone.
Even people who weren't really interested in me can change their minds if I continue to lead them in a positive direction.
---From "The Law of a Relationship That Never Fails"

Men have most of their emotions sorted out in the beginning.
It's not common for a man to open his heart slowly over a long period of time like a woman.
So, if you've known him for a while and he's consistently cold towards you, there's a high probability that he's not interested in you.
It's not a coldness that is uninteresting, but rather a coldness that is just indifferent.
---From "The Fact That the One Who Likes More Never Notices"

If I like and love someone, I want to treat them well.
But when you meet your destined partner, the opposite happens.
Rather than that person, I am more interested in myself.
I hope that the person I'm destined to be will see me as a good person.
If I just give what I have and what I want to give to the person I love, then when I meet my destined partner, I want to be a truly good person.
If you don't love that person, but when you look at them rationally, you start to see one or two things that bother you, and if you don't feel that unique feeling from them, then that person is not your destined partner.
This is exactly what the saying 'fate did us part' means.

---From "Signs that Appear When You Meet Your Destiny"